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Negotiating Masculinities and Modernity in the Maritime World, 1815-1940 - A Sailor's Progress? (Paperback, 1st ed. 2021):... Negotiating Masculinities and Modernity in the Maritime World, 1815-1940 - A Sailor's Progress? (Paperback, 1st ed. 2021)
Karen Downing, Johnathan Thayer, Joanne Begiato
R3,263 Discovery Miles 32 630 Ships in 10 - 15 working days

This book explores ideas of masculinity in the maritime world in the nineteenth and the first half of the twentieth century. During this time commerce, politics and technology supported male privilege, while simultaneously creating the polite, consumerist and sedentary lifestyles that were perceived as damaging the minds and bodies of men. This volume explores this paradox through the figure of the sailor, a working-class man whose representation fulfilled numerous political and social ends in this period. It begins with the enduring image of romantic, heroic veterans of the Napeolonic wars, takes the reader through the challenges to masculinities created by encounters with other races and ethnicities, and with technological change, shifting geopolitical and cultural contexts, and ends with the fragile portrayal of masculinity in the imagined Nelson. In doing so, this edited collection shows that maritime masculinities (ideals, representations and the seamen themselves) were highly visible and volatile sites for negotiating the tensions of masculinities with civilisation, race, technology, patriotism, citizenship, and respectability during the long nineteenth century.

Better Boys, Better Men - The New Masculinity That Creates Greater Courage and Emotional Resiliency (Hardcover): Andrew Reiner Better Boys, Better Men - The New Masculinity That Creates Greater Courage and Emotional Resiliency (Hardcover)
Andrew Reiner
R506 R433 Discovery Miles 4 330 Save R73 (14%) Ships in 12 - 17 working days

A thought-provoking and much-needed look at how modern masculinity is harming and holding back men-and all of society-and what we can do to promote a new masculinity that allows men of all ages to thrive. In Better Boys, Better Men, cultural critic and New York Times contributor Andrew Reiner argues that men today are working on an outdated model of masculinity, which prevents them in moments of distress and vulnerability from marshalling the courage, strength, and resiliency-the very characteristics we regularly champion in men-they need to thrive in a world vastly different from the ones their fathers and grandfathers grew up in. According to Reiner, this outdated model of manhood can have devastating effects on the entire culture and, especially boys and men, from falling behind in the classroom and rising male unemployment rates to increased levels of depression and disturbing upticks in violence on a mass scale. Reiner interviews boys and men of all ages, educators, counselors, therapists, and physicians throughout the United States to better understand what factors are preventing the country's boys and men from developing the emotional resiliency they need. He also introduces readers to the boys and men at the vanguard of a new masculinity that empowers them to find and express the full range of their humanity. Urgent and necessary, Better Boys, Better Men will change the way we talk about boys and men in America today.

Wired for Intimacy - How Pornography Hijacks the Male Brain (Paperback): William M Struthers Wired for Intimacy - How Pornography Hijacks the Male Brain (Paperback)
William M Struthers
R517 R433 Discovery Miles 4 330 Save R84 (16%) Ships in 10 - 15 working days

Pornography is powerful. Our contemporary culture as been pornified, and it shapes our assumptions about identity, sexuality, the value of women and the nature of relationships. Countless Christian men struggle with the addictive power of porn. But common spiritual approaches of more prayer and accountability groups are often of limited help. In this book neuroscientist and researcher William Struthers explains how pornography affects the male brain and what we can do about it. Because we are embodied beings, viewing pornography changes how the brain works, how we form memories and make attachments. By better understanding the biological realities of our sexual development, we can cultivate healthier sexual perspectives and interpersonal relationships. Struthers exposes false assumptions and casts a vision for a redeemed masculinity, showing how our sexual longings can actually propel us toward sanctification and holiness in our bodies. With insights for both married and single men alike, this book offers hope for freedom from pornography.

Representing the Male - Masculinity, Genre and Social Context in Six South Wales Novels (Paperback): John Perrott Jenkins Representing the Male - Masculinity, Genre and Social Context in Six South Wales Novels (Paperback)
John Perrott Jenkins
R681 Discovery Miles 6 810 Ships in 12 - 17 working days

The book subjects male characters in six south Wales novels written between 1936 and 2014 to detailed, gendered reading. It argues that the novels critique the form of masculine hegemony propagated by structural patriarchy serving the material demands of industrial capitalism. Each depicts characters confined to a limited repertoire of culturally endorsed behaviourial norms - such as displays of power, decisiveness and self-control - which prohibit the expression and cultivation of the subjective self. Within the social organisation of industrial capitalism, the working-class characters are, in practice, reduced to dispensable functionaries at work while, in theory, they are accorded the status of patriarchally-sanctioned principals at home. Ideologically subservient and 'feminised' in one context, they are ideologically dominant and 'masculinised' in another. As they negotiate, resist or strive to reconcile the irreconcilable demands of such gendered practices, recurring patterns of exclusion, inadequacy and mental instability are made evident in their representation.

Aging Masculinities in Contemporary U.S. Fiction (Paperback, 1st ed. 2021): Josep M. Armengol Aging Masculinities in Contemporary U.S. Fiction (Paperback, 1st ed. 2021)
Josep M. Armengol
R2,033 Discovery Miles 20 330 Ships in 10 - 15 working days

This book focuses on representations of aging masculinities in contemporary U.S. fiction, including shifting perceptions of physical and sexual prowess, depression, and loss, but also greater wisdom and confidence, legacy, as well as new affective patterns. The collection also incorporates factors such as race, sexuality and religion. The volume includes studies, amongst others, on Philip Roth, Paul Auster, Toni Morrison, Ernest Gaines, and Edmund White. Ultimately, this study proves that men's aging experiences as described in contemporary U.S. literature and culture are as complex and varied as those of their female counterparts.

Interrogating Homonormativity - Gay Men, Identity and Everyday Life (Paperback, 1st ed. 2021): Sharif Mowlabocus Interrogating Homonormativity - Gay Men, Identity and Everyday Life (Paperback, 1st ed. 2021)
Sharif Mowlabocus
R2,742 Discovery Miles 27 420 Ships in 10 - 15 working days

This book explores the concept of homonormativity and examines how the politics of homonormativity has shaped the lives and practices of gay men living primarily in the UK. The book adopts a case study approach in order to examine how homonormativity is shaping relationships within gay male culture, and between this culture and mainstream society. The book features chapters on same-sex marriage, HIV treatment, dating and hook-up culture, sexualized drug use and the world of work. Throughout these chapters, the book develops a conversation regarding the role that neoliberalism has played in defining gay male identities and practices in the UK and USA. If homonormativity is understood as the sexual politics of neoliberalism, this book considers to what extent those sexual politics pervade gay men's sense of self, their relationships with each other, their experience of the spaces they occupy in everyday life, and the identities they inhabit in the workplace.blematizing the concept of homonormativity.

The Trials of Masculinity - Policing Sexual Boundaries, 1870-1930 (Paperback, New edition): Angus McLaren The Trials of Masculinity - Policing Sexual Boundaries, 1870-1930 (Paperback, New edition)
Angus McLaren
R1,001 Discovery Miles 10 010 Ships in 12 - 17 working days

In this history of manhood and masculinity, the author argues that modern formulations of masculinity, despite any sense of naturalness and constancy, are in fact, idealized cultural products of the late 19th and early 20th centuries. He examines the process of social construction whereby this traditionalized model of the heterosexual male was selected, delineated, and maintained. The author focuses attention on two domains essential to the legitimation of Western cultural constructs - medicine and the law. Through court reports and newspaper accounts, McLaren shows how everyday people, not just the juridical elite, helped to define through their testimony, an ideal of manhood and proper masculine behaviour. He then considers the medical world: psychiatrists and sexologists emerged as arbiters of sexual and gender differences, devising new categories of deficient masculinity - homosexuals, sadists, exhibitionists, and transvestites. Forming such deviant types required the medical community, he argues, to further demarcate a particular form of preferred masculinity.

Trading Places Workbook for Men - The Best Move You'll Ever Make in Your Marriage (Paperback): Les And Leslie Parrott Trading Places Workbook for Men - The Best Move You'll Ever Make in Your Marriage (Paperback)
Les And Leslie Parrott
R183 Discovery Miles 1 830 Ships in 12 - 17 working days

Stop stepping on her toes and learn how to dance. Have you been spending a lot of time stepping on your wife's toes? Maybe it's time you put yourself in her shoes. Trading Places: The Best Move You'll Ever Make in Your Marriage is part of the key to winning much, much more from your relationship with your wife--more understanding, more laughter, and yes, more loving. Using this workbook as you read Trading Places will help make sure you get it right. Bestselling authors Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott wrote this workbook to help you make the most of the little-known secrets of putting the time-tested strategy of trading places to work in your marriage. Packed with practical helps and tips you've never thought of, you'll learn the simple, three-step strategy to trading places and, as a result, you're sure to: Increase your levels of passion Bolster your commitment Eliminate nagging Short-circuit conflict Double your laughter Forgive more quickly Talk more intimately Use the workbook to drill down through the three crucial steps to trading places--you'll find self-tests, journals, even exercises to do together with your wife. Specific suggestions for practicing empathy make learning easier--and it's all tied to the book. When you're done you'll be prepared to experience "the intimate dance of trading places." And you'll have learned a skill that will make your marriage more rewarding--and more exciting--than you ever thought possible.

Men and Masculinities - Theoretical Foundations and Promising Practices for Supporting (Hardcover): Daniel Tillapaugh, Brian L.... Men and Masculinities - Theoretical Foundations and Promising Practices for Supporting (Hardcover)
Daniel Tillapaugh, Brian L. McGowan; Foreword by Ryan P. Barone; Afterword by Tracy Davis
R3,880 Discovery Miles 38 800 Ships in 12 - 17 working days

There continues to be much concern about the retention and persistent of men in college, particularly Black, Latinx, and Native American men. In addition, queer and trans* men also have found institutions to be problematic spaces. For those who do persist, we know that men are overrepresented in student conduct cases and engage in risky behaviors around alcohol, drug use, and sexual relationships. Additionally, we know that college men have historically avoided engaging in help-seeking behaviors for their academic and personal success. This book addresses the ways that theory can be put into practice for powerful, transformative learning to support college men and their development. This book synthesizes the research of the past three decades on college men to inform college student educators on the developmental needs of college men and illuminates how young men are socialized prior to their arrival to campus, but perhaps more importantly, how the collegiate environment becomes a training ground for the socialization of masculinities by students, their peers, and their environments. Beyond that it aims to set out how practitioners can help young men understand why and how they have been socialized around their gender identity, but also what their gender identity and sense of masculinity means for their future selves. The book highlights programs and services designed to have college men engage with and dialogue around issues of hegemonic, toxic, or unhealthy aspects of masculinity. These promising practices can offer college men opportunities to understand their power, privilege, and identity in ways that can be affirming and healthier, leading to more life-giving chances. This is all the more important in the context of an ever-evolving society where traditionally held norms and expectations around gender, particularly masculinities, are shifting. This book equips student affairs staff, faculty, and administrators to better support college men's development. It offers readers insights, ideas, and models for adapting and developing programs, services, and initiatives that may meaningfully meet the needs of specific student populations, while recognizing that there is no "one-size-fits-all" approach to this work.

Domestic Violence Against Male Same-Sex Partners in the EU with Special Reference to Refugee and Migrant Gay Men in Germany... Domestic Violence Against Male Same-Sex Partners in the EU with Special Reference to Refugee and Migrant Gay Men in Germany (Paperback, 1st ed. 2022)
Yeshwant Naik
R2,746 Discovery Miles 27 460 Ships in 10 - 15 working days

This book deepens readers' knowledge and understanding of the nature of domestic violence and sexual abuse involving male same-sex partners, and of dating violence against gay men and related issues in the European Union (EU). Drawing on non-probability samples, it addresses the propensities of refugees and migrant gay men in Germany and the prevalence of sexual abuse directed toward these men by illustrating their experiences as victims. In closing, the book explores the challenges of identifying sexual abuse victimization within the gay community, as well as the implications for practice, policy, and future research.

Feminist Perspectives on Teaching Masculinities - Learning Beyond Stereotypes (Hardcover): Sveva Magaraggia, Gerlinde Mauerer,... Feminist Perspectives on Teaching Masculinities - Learning Beyond Stereotypes (Hardcover)
Sveva Magaraggia, Gerlinde Mauerer, Marianne Schmidbaur
R3,877 Discovery Miles 38 770 Ships in 12 - 17 working days

Feminist Perspectives on Teaching Masculinities looks at teaching non-hegemonic forms of masculinities and highlights their diversity. The collection foregrounds and discusses concepts which are described and gathered as positive, caring, and inclusive masculinities, thus offering a timely and much-needed counterpoint to discussions of so-called toxic masculinity. The volume presents a wide range of theoretical reflections, case studies, and teaching resources for lecturers in higher education and practitioners in the fields of gender studies, pedagogy, and education. Its heterogeneity is based on an interdisciplinary approach, methodological variety, cross-cultural spectrum, and empirical richness, reflected in various contributions from Europe, Africa, US, and Asia. The international scope of the book and its transnational perspective is valuable in broadening perspectives on teaching masculinities. The presentation and discussion of national and local programs and campaigns promoting teaching practices on masculinities and gender provide further valuable insights into learning beyond stereotypes and realizing new concepts of masculinities. By presenting alternative performances of masculinities and fostering masculinities studies which are oriented towards gender equality and/or going beyond gender norms, Feminist Perspectives on Teaching Masculinities offers a strong response to the backlashes against feminism and gender studies from rising nationalism coupled with hegemonic masculinities.

Fashion and Masculinities in Popular Culture (Paperback): Adam Geczy, Vicki Karaminas Fashion and Masculinities in Popular Culture (Paperback)
Adam Geczy, Vicki Karaminas
R1,209 Discovery Miles 12 090 Ships in 12 - 17 working days

Popular culture in the latter half of the twentieth century precipitated a decisive change in style and body image. Postwar film, television, radio shows, pulp fiction and comics placed heroic types firmly within public consciousness. This book concentrates on these heroic male types as they have evolved from the postwar era and their relationship to fashion to the present day. As well as demonstrating the role of male icons in contemporary society, this book's originality also lies in showing the many gender slippages that these icons help to effect or expose. It is by exploring the somewhat inviolate types accorded to contemporary masculinity that we see the very fragility of a stable or rounded male identity.

Social Mobility for the 21st Century - Everyone a Winner? (Paperback): Steph Lawler, Geoff Payne Social Mobility for the 21st Century - Everyone a Winner? (Paperback)
Steph Lawler, Geoff Payne
R1,315 Discovery Miles 13 150 Ships in 12 - 17 working days

Social Mobility for the 21st Century addresses experiences of social mobility, and the detailed processes through which entrenched, intergenerationally transmitted privilege is reproduced. Contributions include (but are not limited to) family relationships, students' encounters with higher education, narratives of work careers, and 'mobility identities'. The book intends to challenge both the framework of the more traditional approach, and the politicisation of mobility which casts 'mobility' as a possession, a commodity or a character trait, and threatens to castigate the 'non-mobile' as carrying a personal responsibility for their situation. This book presents critical analyses of routes into social mobility, the experience of social mobility, and the political and social implications of social mobility's 'panacea' status. Drawing on the work of established scholars and more recent entrants, the chapters offer a fresh look at social mobility, opening up the topic to a wider readership among the profession and beyond, and stimulating further debate. This book will appeal to higher level students and scholars of sociology alike, as well as having a broad cross-disciplinary appeal.

Modernism and Masculinity (Hardcover, New): Natalya Lusty, Julian Murphet Modernism and Masculinity (Hardcover, New)
Natalya Lusty, Julian Murphet
R2,512 Discovery Miles 25 120 Ships in 12 - 17 working days

Modernism and Masculinity investigates the varied dimensions and manifestations of masculinity in the modernist period. Thirteen essays from leading scholars reframe critical trends in modernist studies by examining distinctive features of modernist literary and cultural work through the lens of masculinity and male privilege. The volume attends to masculinity as an unstable horizon of gendered ideologies, subjectivities and representational practices, allowing for fresh interdisciplinary treatments of celebrated and lesser-known authors, artists and theorists such as D. H. Lawrence, Ezra Pound, Henry Roth, Theodor Adorno and Paul Robeson as well as modernist avant-garde movements such as vorticism, surrealism and futurism. As diverse as the masculinities that were played out across the early twentieth century, the approaches and arguments featured in this collection will appeal especially to scholars and students of modernist literature and culture, gender studies and English literature more broadly.

Voices of African-American Teen Fathers - I'm Doing What I Got to Do (Paperback): Angelia M Paschal Voices of African-American Teen Fathers - I'm Doing What I Got to Do (Paperback)
Angelia M Paschal
R1,832 Discovery Miles 18 320 Ships in 12 - 17 working days

Find out what it's like to be young, African-American . . . and a father Voices of African-American Teen Fathers is an insightful look at adolescent pregnancy and parenthood through the eyes of fathers aged 14 to 19. This unique book features candid interviews with thirty teens who talk about doing what I got to dohandling their responsibilities as best they can given their perceptions, limitations, and life experiences. Teens talk about how and why they became fathers, how they handle being a parent, their perceptions of fatherhood, the relationships they have with their parents and the mothers of their children, and how they deal with the everyday struggles, demands, and concerns they face. Nearly one million girls between the ages of 15 and 19 become pregnant each year in the United States and most of the available research on adolescent parenthood focused on them. We know little about African-American adolescent fathers or about their perspectives on the cultural and socioeconomic conditions that define their experience. Voices of African-American Teen Fathers provides an understanding of these young fathers on their own terms and suggests theoretical frameworks, assessment tools, and effective interventions to develop a plan of action to help African-American adolescent fathers fulfill their roles. Helpful appendixes, including an interview guide and biographies of the particpants, are included, as are six tables that make complex information easy to access and understand. Voices of African-American Teen Fathers examines tough issues, including: intimate, amicable, or antagonistic relationships with their children's mothers relationships with their own mothers and fathers racism and discrimination child support loss of independence transportation problems drugs socioeconomic issues and much more Voices of African-American Teen Fathers is an invaluable resource for counselors, family educators, social service organizations, community practitioners, and social scientists.

The Sex of Men in Premodern Europe - A Cultural History (Paperback): Patricia Simons The Sex of Men in Premodern Europe - A Cultural History (Paperback)
Patricia Simons
R927 Discovery Miles 9 270 Ships in 12 - 17 working days

How were male bodies viewed before the Enlightenment? And what does this reveal about attitudes towards sex and gender in premodern Europe? This richly textured cultural history investigates the characterization of the sex of adult male bodies from ancient Greece to the seventeenth century. Before the modern focus on the phallic, penetrative qualities of male anatomy, Patricia Simons finds that men's bodies were considered in terms of their active physiological characteristics, in relation to semen, testicles and what was considered innately masculine heat. Re-orienting attention from an anatomical to a physiological focus, and from fertility to pleasure, Simons argues that women's sexual agency was perceived in terms of active reception of the valuable male seed. This provocative, compelling study draws on visual, material and textual evidence to elucidate a broad range of material, from medical learning, high art and literary metaphors to obscene badges, codpieces and pictorial or oral jokes.

Unlocking Orthodoxies for Inclusive Theologies - Queer Alternatives (Hardcover): Robert E. Shore-Goss, Joseph N. Goh Unlocking Orthodoxies for Inclusive Theologies - Queer Alternatives (Hardcover)
Robert E. Shore-Goss, Joseph N. Goh
R3,877 Discovery Miles 38 770 Ships in 12 - 17 working days

This book enters a new liminal space between the LGBTQ and denominational Christian communities. It simultaneously explores how those who identify as queer can find a home in church and how those leading welcoming, or indeed unwelcoming, congregations can better serve both communities. The primary argument is that queer inclusion must not merely mean an assimilation into existing heteronormative respectability and approval. Chapters are written by a diverse collection of Asian, Latin American, and U.S. theologians, religious studies scholars and activists. Each of them writes from their own social context to address the notion of LGBTQ alternative orthodoxies and praxes pertaining to God, the saints, failure of the church, queer eschatologies, and erotic economies. Engaging with issues that are not only faced by those in the theological academy, but also by clergy and congregants, the book addresses those impacted by a history of Christian hostility and violence who have become suspicious of attempts at "acceptance". It also sets out an encouragement for queer theologians and clergy think deeply about how they form communities where queer perspectives are proactively included. This is a forward-looking and positive vision of a more inclusive theology and ecclesiology. It will, therefore, appeal to scholars of Queer Theology and Religious Studies as well as practitioners seeking a fresh perspective on church and the LGBTQ community.

How God Makes Men - Ten Epic Stories. Ten Proven Principles. One Huge Promise for your Life. (Paperback): Patrick M. Morley How God Makes Men - Ten Epic Stories. Ten Proven Principles. One Huge Promise for your Life. (Paperback)
Patrick M. Morley
R413 R345 Discovery Miles 3 450 Save R68 (16%) Ships in 10 - 15 working days

""All through the Bible, we see stories of bold and brash men who followedGod's call into some incredible adventures. In "How God Makes Men, "Patrick Morley reminds us that God still makes those kinds of guys.""
--Dave Ramsey, "New York Times "best-selling authorand nationally syndicated radio show host
God's Way for You to Become God's Man
Let's face it--men today are under severe attack. The battle line against biblical manhood is clearly drawn and fiercely contested. More than ever, men who want to follow Christ are asking:
"- Why is it so hard to live an authentic Christian life?"
"- Who will show me how to thrive as a father, a husband, and on the job?"
"- What should I do when I'm being tested to the breaking point?"
Fortunately, the Bible preserves crucial details about the powerful lessons learned by men who have already faced and answered these questions. In "How God Makes Men, " renowned expert on men's issues Patrick Morley takes you into Scripture for a first-hand encounter with:
- Ten epic stories of the Bible's most talked-about men
- Ten proven principles--based on their failures and successes--that show how God works in a man's life, and how you can cooperate with Him in yours
- The huge promise that you "can" become the man God created you to be
Don't settle for less. Join Patrick on this epic adventure of becoming God's man. You'll discover how to prevail in tough times and release God's power in every area of your life.

Stars and Masculinities in Spanish Cinema - From Banderas to Bardem (Hardcover): Chris Perriam Stars and Masculinities in Spanish Cinema - From Banderas to Bardem (Hardcover)
Chris Perriam
R4,735 Discovery Miles 47 350 Ships in 12 - 17 working days

Stars and Masculinities in Spanish Cinema focuses on the careers of ten contemporary Spanish film stars, including Antonio Banderas, Javier Bardem, and Eduardo Noriega. Set in the double context of new approaches to Star Studies and current debates around masculinity, this is a key contribution to the growing fields of Spanish Cultural and Film Studies.

Global Masculinities and Manhood (Paperback): Ronald L Jackson, Murali Balaji Global Masculinities and Manhood (Paperback)
Ronald L Jackson, Murali Balaji; Foreword by Molefi Asante; Contributions by Bryan Keith Alexander, Molefi Asante, …
R618 R574 Discovery Miles 5 740 Save R44 (7%) Ships in 12 - 17 working days

Bringing together an array of interdisciplinary voices, Global Masculinities and Manhood examines the concept of masculinity from the perspectives of cultures around the world. In the era of globalization, masculinity continues to be studied in a Western-centric context. Contributors to this volume, however, deconstruct the history and politics of masculinities within the contexts of the cultures from which they have been developed, examining what makes a man who he is within his own culture. Highlighting manifestations of masculinity in countries including Jamaica, Turkey, Peru, Kenya, Australia, and China, scholars from a variety of disciplines grapple with the complex politics of identity and the question of how gender is interpreted and practiced through discourse. Topics include how masculinity is affected by war and conflict, defined in relation to race, ethnicity, and sexuality, and expressed in cultural activities such as sports or the cinema. Contributors are Bryant Keith Alexander, Molefi K. Asante, Murali Balaji, Maurice Hall, Ronald L. Jackson II, Shino Konishi, Nil Mutluer, Mich Nyawalo, Kathleen Glenister Roberts, Margarita Saona, and Kath Woodward.

Why Did You Stay?: The instant Sunday Times bestseller - A memoir about self-worth (Hardcover): Rebecca Humphries Why Did You Stay?: The instant Sunday Times bestseller - A memoir about self-worth (Hardcover)
Rebecca Humphries
R561 R455 Discovery Miles 4 550 Save R106 (19%) Ships in 9 - 15 working days

'Fierce. Game-changing. Urgently necessary. Brilliant, brilliant and did I say brilliant?' EMMA THOMPSON 'Pacy, vivid, compelling and very, VERY funny ... it will help so many' MARIAN KEYES 'A fucking classic. Required reading for all women and men and I believe it's going to be the book of 2022' BRYONY GORDON 'Fuck, this is good. Every page feels important' LUCY VINE Actor, writer and hopeless romantic Rebecca Humphries had often been called crazy by her boyfriend. But when paparazzi caught him kissing his Strictly Come Dancing partner, she realised the only crazy thing was believing she didn't deserve more. Forced into victimhood by the story, Rebecca chose to reclaim her power, posting her thoughts on social media, including advice for other women who might be experiencing what she realised she'd managed to escape: a toxic, oppressive relationship. A flood of support poured in, but amongst the well-wishes was a simple question with an infinitely complex answer: 'If he was so bad, why did you stay?' Empowering, unflinching and full of humour, this book takes that question and owns it. Using her relationship history, coming of age stories and experiences since the scandal during Strictly, Rebecca explores why good girls are drawn to darkness, whether pop culture glamourises toxicity, when a relationship 'rough patch' becomes the start of a destructive cycle, if women are conditioned for co-dependency, and - ultimately - how to reframe disaster into something magical. 'The best [book] about relationships since Three Women' CAROLINE SANDERSON, THE BOOKSELLER 'So funny and heart-breaking. So stunningly written. For any woman who has been asked 'why did you stay?', Rebecca Humphries' book is a hilarious and brilliant read' SUSAN WOKOMA 'Very, very good' PANDORA SYKES 'A magical, magical book' GLAMOUR 'So thoughtful and moving and funny and sad and great, I love it so, so much. I resented having to put it down' DAISY BUCHANAN 'Her thought-provoking story should be required reading for anyone in a relationship' DAILY MIRROR 'A memoir every woman needs to read' RED MAGAZINE 'This book isn't an ice-cold revenge opus; it's a diary of self-discovery, a celebration of friendship, resilience and finding one's self-worth...is it worth the hype? Absolutely: I had to stop myself from reading it one grateful gulp' LAURA PULLMAN, STYLE

The Graffiti Subculture - Youth, Masculinity and Identity in London and New York (Paperback, Revised): N. Macdonald The Graffiti Subculture - Youth, Masculinity and Identity in London and New York (Paperback, Revised)
N. Macdonald
R1,576 R1,487 Discovery Miles 14 870 Save R89 (6%) Ships in 12 - 17 working days

This book is the most extensive contribution to our understanding of the graffiti subculture to date. Using insights from ethnographic research conducted in London and New York, this book explores the varying ways young men use graffiti to construct masculinity, claim power, and establish independence from the institutions which define, and often limit, them as young people. Forging a link between subcultural practice and identity construction, this book will be essential reading for anyone interested in new understandings of youth and their subcultures.

Masculinities at the Margins - Beyond the Hegemonic in the Study of Militaries, Masculinities and War (Hardcover): Amanda... Masculinities at the Margins - Beyond the Hegemonic in the Study of Militaries, Masculinities and War (Hardcover)
Amanda Chisholm, Joanna Tidy
R3,873 Discovery Miles 38 730 Ships in 12 - 17 working days

Across a rich terrain of empirical and theoretical trajectories, the concept of military masculinity (now understood in its plural as military masculinities) has been a significant conceptual tool in both feminist international relations (IR) and in critical men and masculinities studies scholarship. The concept has helped us to unpack the relationships between gender, war, and militarism, including how military standards function in the production of wider normative, hegemonic manliness. As such, military masculinities has been a rewarding tool for many scholars who take a critical approach to the study of war and the military. This edited volume advances an emerging curiosity within accounts of military masculinities. This curiosity concerns the silences within, and disruptions to, our well-established and perhaps-too-comfortable understandings of, and empirical focal points for, military masculinities, gender, and war. The contributors to this volume trouble the ease with which we might be tempted to synonymize militaries, war, and a neat, 'hegemonic' masculinity. Taking the disruptions, the asides, and the silences seriously challenges the common wisdoms of military masculinities, gender, and war in productive and necessary ways. Doing so necessitates a reorientation of where, to whom, and for what we look to understand the operation of gendered military power. The chapters were originally published in a special issue of Critical Military Studies.

Love Talk Workbook for Men - Speak Each Other's Language Like You Never Have Before (Paperback): Les Parrott, Leslie... Love Talk Workbook for Men - Speak Each Other's Language Like You Never Have Before (Paperback)
Les Parrott, Leslie Parrott
R209 Discovery Miles 2 090 Ships in 12 - 17 working days

We set off to crack the code for meaningful conversation . . . a plan that would move our communication from good to great. And we found it. A deep and simple plan for everything a loving conversation has to offer. We call it Love Talk. -Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott This men's workbook will help you personalize the concepts you encounter in the Parrotts' book Love Talk and put them to work in your relationships. Inside, you'll find exercises, assessments, self-tests, tips, applications . . . all the tools and guidance you need to Identify your personal communication style Understand how it interacts with that of your partner Talk your way to a healthier, stronger relationship Love Talk is like no other communication book you've ever read. The fruit of years of research by two foremost relationship experts (who also happen to be husband and wife), this book forges a new path to the heart of loving conversation. You'll begin by identifying your security need and determining your personal communication style. Then you'll put together everything you discover to learn how the two of you can speak each other's language like never before. This very day, you can begin an adventure in communication that will draw the two of you closer, and closer, and closer . . . consistently, in a way that creates the depth and connection you long for in your relationship.

Masculinity in British Cinema, 1990-2010 (Hardcover): Sarah Godfrey Masculinity in British Cinema, 1990-2010 (Hardcover)
Sarah Godfrey
R3,212 Discovery Miles 32 120 Ships in 10 - 15 working days

From the new man to the metrosexual, British society from the 1990s to the 2000s was pre-occupied with questions about masculinity, and more specifically with the idea that it was somehow 'in crisis.' The first book-length study of British cinematic representations of masculinity in this period, this fascinating study offers a feminist analysis of key tropes in this era, including the New Lad, fatherhood and masculine violence. Positioning these representations within the specific context of British manifestations of postfeminism and neoliberalism, the book explores the shifting representations of masculinity in popular British cinema and offers a detailed analysis of important recent developments in gender culture. With case studies of films like Brassed Off (1996), The Full Monty (1997), Trainspotting (1996) and About a Boy (2002), this book is a fascinating insight into an understudied period of British cinema and culture.

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