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Books > Social sciences > Psychology > Sexual behaviour
The wildly funny, occasionally heartbreaking internationally bestselling memoir about growing up, growing older, and learning to navigate friendships, jobs, loss, and love along the ride
When it comes to the trials and triumphs of becoming an adult, journalist and former Sunday Times columnist Dolly Alderton has seen and tried it all. In her memoir, she vividly recounts falling in love, finding a job, getting drunk, getting dumped, realizing that Ivan from the corner shop might just be the only reliable man in her life, and that absolutely no one can ever compare to her best girlfriends. Everything I Know About Love is about bad dates, good friends and—above all else— realizing that you are enough.
Glittering with wit and insight, heart and humor, Dolly Alderton’s unforgettable debut weaves together personal stories, satirical observations, a series of lists, recipes, and other vignettes that will strike a chord of recognition with women of every age—making you want to pick up the phone and tell your best friends all about it. Like Bridget Jones’ Diary but all true, Everything I Know About Love is about the struggles of early adulthood in all its terrifying and hopeful uncertainty.
Surveying the many forms of non-possessive intimate relationships,
this book explains how these alternative lifestyle arrangements
work, psychologically, and describes the benefits and risks for
those involved within contemporary contexts such as swinging,
threesomes, polyamory, and recreational sex clubs. The thought that
one could have sex with outsiders with the consent and support of
your spouse or significant other, and still love and make love with
your primary partner, is a radical notion for most men and women.
And yet, an increasing number of married and unmarried couples are
doing just this, and their relationships are flourishing as a
result. Relax, It's Just Sex: Understanding Non-Possessive Intimate
Relationships examines a relatively new form of intimate
relationship that is increasingly popular among contemporary
couples and singles. The book introduces the term "non-possessive
intimate relationships" and shows from a psychological perspective
how these arrangements work, emotionally and cognitively, for the
individuals involved. Licensed clinical psychologist and
relationship therapist Leslie Spurr, PhD, explores the
psychologically issues involved and then takes a close look at
various examples of the non-possessive intimate relationship style
within several, mostly covert, contexts, in which relationship
partners agree to provide each other with the freedom to engage
intimately with outsiders. Written in a nontechnical, accessible
style, Relax, It's Just Sex uses humor and references to popular
culture, including films, novels, and songs, to engage the reader
in content that is primarily informative but also entertaining.
This important and eye-opening book makes clear the significance
and reasons for the growing popularity of the non-possessive
intimate relationship phenomenon and explains why and how this
"lovestyle" may constitute a sexual revolution. Describes a
relatively new form of intimate relationship that is not well known
to most people yet is intriguing to nearly all Offers potential
erotic options to couples struggling with diminishing passion
Suggests psychological insights as to what makes nontraditional
relationships work Engages readers with appropriate humor to better
illustrate the concepts and theories regarding non-possessive
intimate relationships
This book is not intended to give you any serious advice about sex.
It is not a religious book intended to convert you to my beliefs. I
can promise you, that is not the case because my own theories about
sex and faith in God changes on a daily basis and is influenced by
how much caffeine is in my body. If you want to know how to do sex,
look for another book, but if you want a good laugh, I think you'll
enjoy this. I mention God and the Bible a lot because this book is
explaining what is wrong with how many Christians view sex, dating,
and marriage. It's based on what I have actually heard people say.
The mention of God or religion is something that I have a hard time
avoiding because it's become such a part of me that I can't ignore.
Whether you believe in God or not, he gave you a brain and a
choice. I do not think that he has some eternal punishment in store
for you if you happen to lust after a girl's face or have sex with
the wrong person. I used to fear that God would punish me for even
thinking about sex or looking at a woman's face, but now I think
God is too nice for that. It is you who must decide your future.
You must take responsibility for your own choices instead of
blaming God, the devil, or other people.
"Everything You Didn't Want to Know about Sex" provides a
compelling glimpse into Internet dating and matchmaking sites and
into the human sexual expressions of those who use these dating
tools to find a mate.
For over two years, Reynaldo Olivia toured and joined several
matchmaking sites of various styles and through his research and
interaction with other site visitors; he collected the stories for
this book. Posing as a male in every case, he was as young as
twenty-seven and as old as sixty-five. After acting straight,
bisexual and gay and leading over a thousand conversations, Olivia
shares the results of his unscientific study, revealing surprising
revelations that include fetishes, fantasies, and everything in
between. From the obese woman who was over three hundred pounds and
hungry for sex to the middle-aged woman with a shaved head who
wished for slaves she could punish to satisfy her sadistic desires,
Olivia shares the unique wants of those who frequent these sites to
find others who share the same sexual cravings.
This fascinating look into cyberspace and the world of Internet
dating proves that visitors have a vested interest in expanding
their sex lives, and desire the freedom to express their needs
while protecting their personal identity.
Experts address key issues-from attitudes and behaviors to
harassment and homophobia-related to sexuality among college
students. With essays by a wide range of knowledgeable
contributors, Sex in College: The Things They Don't Write Home
About draws on recent research to examine just about every aspect
of its intriguing subject. The book begins with general chapters
that offer historical, cross-cultural, and theoretical perspectives
on college students' sexual attitudes and behaviors. One chapter
offers a framework for understanding the unique developmental
perspective of young adults. Another chapter explores the research
methods used to study college students' sexual practices.
Subsequent chapters cover: dating and intimacy on campus, the
perspective of young adults about love, sexuality education and
classes, and sexual orientation. The darker side of college
sexuality is also examined in chapters centering on such topics as
infidelity in college dating relationships, homophobia and sexual
harassment on campus, sexual risk-taking and sexually transmitted
infections, sexual problems and dysfunction among young adults, and
sexual assault among college students. Contributions from a
cross-disciplinary list of distinguished scholars and practitioners
An overview of the research methods used to study sexuality among
college students and their limitations
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