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Books > Social sciences > Psychology > Sexual behaviour
Capitalist ideology wants us to believe that there is an optimal
way to live. 'Making connections' means networking for work. Our
emotional needs are to be fulfilled by a single romantic partner,
and self-care equates to taking personal responsibility for our
suffering. We must be productive and heterosexual, we must have
babies and buy a house. But the kicker is most people cannot and do
not want to achieve these goals. Instead we are left feeling
atomised, exhausted and disempowered. Radical Intimacy shows that
it doesn't need to be this way. Including inspiring ideas for
alternative ways to live, Sophie K Rosa demands we use our radical
imagination to discover a new form of intimacy. Including critiques
of the 'wellness' industry that ignores rising poverty rates, the
mental health crisis and racist and misogynist state violence;
transcending love and sex under capitalism to move towards
feminist, decolonial and queer thinking; asking whether we should
abolish the family; interrogating the framing of ageing and death
and much more, Radical Intimacy is the compassionate antidote to a
callous society. Now as an audiobook, to listen to on the go.
"The best work by anyone on prostitution ever, Rachel Moran's Paid
For fuses the memoirist's lived poignancy with the philosopher's
conceptual sophistication. The result is riveting, compelling,
incontestable. Impossible to put down. This book provides all
anyone needs to know about the reality of prostitution in moving,
insightful prose that engages and disposes of every argument ever
raised in its favor." -Catharine A. MacKinnon, law professor,
University of Michigan and Harvard University Born into a troubled
family, Rachel Moran left home at the age of fourteen. Being
homeless, she was driven into prostitution to survive. With
intelligence and empathy, she describes the exploitation she and
others endured on the streets and in the brothels. Moran also
speaks to the psychological damage inherent to prostitution and the
inevitable estrangement from one's body. At twenty-two, Moran
escaped the sex trade. She has since become a writer and an
abolitionist activist.
Surveying the many forms of non-possessive intimate relationships,
this book explains how these alternative lifestyle arrangements
work, psychologically, and describes the benefits and risks for
those involved within contemporary contexts such as swinging,
threesomes, polyamory, and recreational sex clubs. The thought that
one could have sex with outsiders with the consent and support of
your spouse or significant other, and still love and make love with
your primary partner, is a radical notion for most men and women.
And yet, an increasing number of married and unmarried couples are
doing just this, and their relationships are flourishing as a
result. Relax, It's Just Sex: Understanding Non-Possessive Intimate
Relationships examines a relatively new form of intimate
relationship that is increasingly popular among contemporary
couples and singles. The book introduces the term "non-possessive
intimate relationships" and shows from a psychological perspective
how these arrangements work, emotionally and cognitively, for the
individuals involved. Licensed clinical psychologist and
relationship therapist Leslie Spurr, PhD, explores the
psychologically issues involved and then takes a close look at
various examples of the non-possessive intimate relationship style
within several, mostly covert, contexts, in which relationship
partners agree to provide each other with the freedom to engage
intimately with outsiders. Written in a nontechnical, accessible
style, Relax, It's Just Sex uses humor and references to popular
culture, including films, novels, and songs, to engage the reader
in content that is primarily informative but also entertaining.
This important and eye-opening book makes clear the significance
and reasons for the growing popularity of the non-possessive
intimate relationship phenomenon and explains why and how this
"lovestyle" may constitute a sexual revolution. Describes a
relatively new form of intimate relationship that is not well known
to most people yet is intriguing to nearly all Offers potential
erotic options to couples struggling with diminishing passion
Suggests psychological insights as to what makes nontraditional
relationships work Engages readers with appropriate humor to better
illustrate the concepts and theories regarding non-possessive
intimate relationships
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