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Contention has surrounded the status of minorities throughout
Indonesian history. Two broad polarities are evident: One inclusive
of minorities, regarding them as part of the nation's rich
complexity and a manifestation of its 'Unity in Diversity' motto
The other is exclusive, viewing with suspicion or disdain those
communities or groups that differ from the perceived majority.
State and community attitudes towards minorities have fluctuated
over time. Some periods have been notable for the acceptance of
minorities and protection of their rights, while others have been
marked by anti-minority discrimination, marginalisation and
sometimes violence. This book explores the complex historical and
contemporary dimensions of Indonesia's religious, ethnic, LGBT and
disability minorities from a range of perspectives, including
historical, legal, political, cultural, discursive and social. It
addresses fundamental questions about Indonesia's tolerance and
acceptance of difference, and examines the extent to which
diversity is embraced or suppressed.
Abigail Garner was five years old when her parents divorced and
her dad came out as gay. Like the millions of children growing up
in these families today, she often found herself in the middle of
the political and moral debates surrounding lesbian, gay, bisexual,
and transgender (LGBT) parenting.
Drawing on a decade of community organizing, and interviews with
more than fifty grown sons and daughters of LGBT parents, Garner
addresses such topics as coming out to children, facing homophobia
at school, co-parenting with ex-partners, the impact of AIDS, and
the children's own sexuality.
Both practical and deeply personal, Families Like Mine provides
an invaluable insider's perspective for LGBT parents, their
families, and their allies.
From Jen Sincero, author of the New York Times bestseller You Are a
Badass, comes a deliciously sexy how-to guide for any woman who
sleeps with chicks (or just is curious about it)!"You can't swing a
dead cat at a bridal shower without hitting a straight chick who's
slept with another woman, who's thought about it, or who's ready to
make the move as soon as someone breaks out the booze." Such are
the incisive pearls of wisdom to be heard from straight chick and
girl-on-girl dabbler Jen Sincero, author of You Are a Badass. A
deliciously sexy how-to guide, it gives curious straight women the
complete inside scoop on girl-on-girl action--from pickup lines and
virgin jitters to threesomes, techniques, and toys. Drawing on
personal experience and hundreds of interviews with straight girls
who've slept with lesbians, straight girls who've slept with
straight girls, lesbians who've slept with straight girls, and
straight girls who've done both or neither, Sincero covers the A to
Z of the experience including: -Obtaining a visitor's pass to the
girls-only club -The super-huge importance of sticking your hand
down your pants -The straight girl's starter kit--from nail
clippers to cocktails to get her in the mood -"Gettin' Some
101"--positions, techniques, and instructional photos -"And Boy
Makes Three!"--how to have a threesome that's fun for all
-Suggestions for further viewing and reading and much, much more
Packed with expertly toned advice that is at once laugh-out-loud
hilarious and fundamentally practical, The Straight Girl's Guide to
Sleeping with Chicks is ideal for any woman looking to spice things
up with a boyfriend, break the ice with a best friend, or simply
add a few just-in-case items to her sexual menu.
This unique book presents lessons a straight
principal-turned-professor has learned through personal experience
and research with gay and lesbian high school students. It begins
with a young principal acknowledging that he, nor his
administrative education program, had given any thought to issues
surrounding students' sexual orientation. However, when a senior in
his tiny rural high school came out, the principal started down an
unexpected path that would change his outlook on school leadership
- and transform his practice. Presented in eight unique stories in
students' own words, we experience their challenges, fears, and
triumphs - and see how their schools and the people in them both
helped and hurt. Through their poignant, honest, familiar, and
often surprising stories, we see how these eight students navigate
what Unks (2003, p. 323) calls 'the most homophobic institutions in
American society'. Their stories also reveal an unexpected, yet
vital lesson for educators, policy makers, and all those concerned
with meeting students' needs - that being gay or lesbian in high
school does not automatically lead to bad outcomes. The students'
firsthand accounts, along with lessons learned by the once
apprehensive principal, show that there is a much more positive,
optimistic, and seldom-told story. The book challenges practicing
and aspiring school leaders to: move beyond what we think we know
about gay and lesbian students and see them as unique people with
strengths and struggles, gifts and challenges; examine the unique
context of their schools and see how one size solution doesn't fit
all; understand agency, agendas, and how gay-straight alliances can
benefit all students; and, summon the courage to transform our
mission statements from slogans and live them everyday.
Winner of the 2009 Ruth Benedict Prize for Outstanding Monograph
from the Society of Lesbian and Gay Anthropologists Winner of the
2010 Distinguished Book Award from the American Sociological
Association, Sociology of Sexualities Section Winner of the 2010
Congress Inaugural Qualitative Inquiry Book Award Honorable Mention
An unprecedented contemporary account of the online and offline
lives of rural LGBT youth From Wal-Mart drag parties to renegade
Homemaker's Clubs, Out in the Country offers an unprecedented
contemporary account of the lives of today's rural queer youth.
Mary L. Gray maps out the experiences of young people living in
small towns across rural Kentucky and along its desolate
Appalachian borders, providing a fascinating and often surprising
look at the contours of gay life beyond the big city. Gray
illustrates that, against a backdrop of an increasingly
impoverished and privatized rural America, LGBT youth and their
allies visibly-and often vibrantly-work the boundaries of the
public spaces available to them, whether in their high schools,
public libraries, town hall meetings, churches, or through
websites. This important book shows that, in addition to the spaces
of Main Street, rural LGBT youth explore and carve out online
spaces to fashion their emerging queer identities. Their triumphs
and travails defy clear distinctions often drawn between online and
offline experiences of identity, fundamentally redefining our
understanding of the term 'queer visibility' and its political
stakes. Gray combines ethnographic insight with incisive cultural
critique, engaging with some of the biggest issues facing both
queer studies and media scholarship. Out in the Country is a timely
and groundbreaking study of sexuality and gender, new media, youth
culture, and the meaning of identity and social movements in a
digital age.
Winner of the 2010 Pacific Sociological Association
Distinguished Contribution to Scholarship Award
A lesbian couple rears a child together and, after the
biological mother dies, the surviving partner loses custody to the
child's estranged biological father. Four days later, in a
different court, judges rule on the side of the partner, because
they feel the child relied on the woman as a "psychological
parent." What accounts for this inconsistency regarding gay and
lesbian adoption and custody cases, and why has family law failed
to address them in a comprehensive manner?
In Courting Change, Kimberly D. Richman zeros in on the nebulous
realm of family law, one of the most indeterminate and
discretionary areas of American law. She focuses on judicial
decisions--both the outcomes and the rationales--and what they say
about family, rights, sexual orientation, and who qualifies as a
parent. Richman challenges prevailing notions that gay and lesbian
parents and families are hurt by laws' indeterminacy, arguing that,
because family law is so loosely defined, it allows for the
flexibility needed to respond to--and even facilitate -- changes in
how we conceive of family, parenting, and the role of sexual
orientation in family law.
Drawing on every recorded judicial decision in gay and lesbian
adoption and custody cases over the last fifty years, and on
interviews with parents, lawyers, and judges, Richman demonstrates
how parental and sexual identities are formed and interpreted in
law, and how gay and lesbian parents can harness indeterminacy to
transform family law.
How do we identify the "queer auteur" and their queer imaginings?
Is it possible to account for such a figure when the very terms
"queer" and "auteur" invoke aesthetic surprises and
disorientations, disconcerting ironies and paradoxes, and
biographical deceits and ambiguities? In eighteen eloquent
chapters, David A. Gerstner traces a history of ideas that
spotlight an ever-shifting terrain associated with auteur theory
and, in particular, queer-auteur theory. Engaging with the likes of
Oscar Wilde, Walter Benjamin, James Baldwin, Jean Louis Baudry,
Linda Nochlin, Jane Gallop, Cael Keegan, Luce Irigaray, and other
prominent critical thinkers, Gerstner contemplates how the queer
auteur in film theory might open us to the work of desire. Queer
Imaginings argues for a queer-auteur in which critical theory is
reenabled to reconceptualize the auteur in relation to race,
gender, sexuality, and desire. Gerstner succinctly defines the
contours of a history and the ongoing discussions that situate
queer and auteur theories in film studies. Ultimately, Queer
Imaginings is a journey in shared pleasures in which writing for
and about cinema makes way for unanticipated cinematic friendships.
The Wallflower Avant-Garde argues for the importance of a strain of
modernist formalism based in ekphrasis, the literary imitation of
the visual arts. Often associated with a conservative aesthetic of
wholeness, permanence, and autonomy, ekphrastic writing also
involves excess, failure, and mimesis, conjuring an aesthetic sense
of closure and unity out of impossible imitations. This
choreography of imitation and autonomy resonates with many of the
foundational insights of queer theory: the way it situates identity
as an effect of performativity, artifice, and mimesis. Unlike many
queer theorists, however, this book insists that we value both the
imitations and the aspirations that guide them, underlining not
only the illusoriness of identity but also its allure. This more
capacious formalism allows aspects of modernists aesthetic that
have seemed regressive or repressive to be read as generative forms
of stasis, quiet, reserve, shyness, and so on.
Dapharoah69 is more than erotica. Having made a name for himself
with The King of Erotica and Some Men Wear Panties, surprisingly he
hangs up erotica to deliver his first full novel. Many thought his
first novel would be the raunchiness he's known for. Others that
have compared him to the likes of E Lynn Harris and Zane figured
he'd write a book similar to Zane's Addicted. He has surprised his
editor, Kevin McNeir, and his fans with a haunting story of one
mother's scandal and scorn as she uses her handsome son as a pawn
to get back at his father. He successfully tells the story of a
transvestite. Call Her Queen Hatshepsut Excerpt: When I was seven
years old, Mama and I showered together. I have never before viewed
her naked body. I was curious so I asked her, Mama, what are those?
Breasts, she said. You have them too. Why don't they stick out? I
asked, careful not to get the plastic cap covering my perm wet.
Because you're a child. You have to go through puberty. And what is
that? I asked, pointing to the bushy area of her hips. A penis. A
penis, Mama? She smiled. Yes. And what do I have? She pinched the
little thing hanging from my groin. A vagina... Synopsis: Chess is
a competitive game between two players. Each piece has its own
style of moving. But what happens when a deranged woman tricks two
lovers into playing the game of their lives? Hatshepsut is a
confused woman. She treats people the way she wants to be treated
using an eight-by-eight grid of hope and empathy. The only things
missing from her life is love and the sixteen pieces it's comprised
of. It's missing because she was born a man. Avarice James,
Hatshepsut's mother, is an embattled plastic surgeon content on
getting what she wants. Deeply rooted by the 64 squares of
wickedness, two people she loved the most has castled her before
she moved a pawn...the king, Kayak Burke, her son's father and her
biggest rival, the rook, Rosa James, her identical twin sister.
Rosa has always turned Avarice's existence into a horrid checkmate.
She dressed like her, spoke her dialogue, and tarnished Avarice's
reputation to achieve the unconscionable. Desperate, Rosa moves a
pawn, trapping Kayak in a lustful game of sex that leads her and
Avarice into unwanted pregnancies. When Avarice diagonally moves
the queen across white squares, taking a bishop and Rosa castles
across black squares, taking a knight, Avarice does something so
explosive that it inevitably turns Rosa, Kayak, and the death of
his son into the pawns they truly are. Avarice masters the game
with skill and patience...She brainwashes her son, disguises him as
a girl and names him Hatshepsut. Any memory of Rosa and Kayak has
been eradicated...until the time is right! This account extends all
racial barriers. If you have ever loved, been betrayed and lost a
child this harrowing story will open your heart and cause you to
search your soul and question your faith. Call her Queen
Hatshepsut: Check mate!
A volume in Research in Queer Studies Series Editors Paul Chamness
Miller and Hidehiro Endo, Akita International University This
inaugural volume of the new book series, Research in Queer Studies
is a collection of memoirs or short narrative essays in which
lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans, intersex or queer PK-12 teachers
and/or administrators (either "out" or "not out") recount their
personal experiences as a queer teachers. The authors of these
stores write about significant experiences that describe how their
sexual identity has shaped who they are today as
teachers/administrators, by answering the following questions: In
light of your sexual identity, how did you become who you are
today? Why did you decide to become a teacher? What role did your
sexual identity play in that decision? What kinds of significant
moments, including queer issues (e.g., bullying) regarding students
and/or yourself, have you experience in your teaching? In light of
who you are as an individual, what do you hope to achieve and
become as a queer teacher in the future?
Originally published in 1933. One of the first serious publications
to deal with this subject. Contents Include: General Psychological
Principles of the Problem of Homosexuality - Primary Infantile
Survivals and Maternal Influence as Cause of Sexual Inversion -
Homosexuality and Sensualism - Erotic Narcissism among Homosexuals
- Homosexuality and Neuroticism - Homosexuality Among Women -
Homosexual Biographies Secondary Infantile Survivals as Cause of
Homosexuality. etc. Many of the earliest books, particularly those
dating back to the 1900s and before, are now extremely scarce and
increasingly expensive. Home Farm Books are republishing these
classic works in affordable, high quality, modern editions, using
the original text and artwork.
"A fascinating biography of a fascinating woman." - Booklist,
starred review "This definitive look at a remarkable figure
delivers the goods." - Publishers Weekly, starred review "A
brilliant analysis." - Jericho Brown, Pulitzer Prize winner
Featured in Ms. Magazine's "Most Anticipated Reads for the Rest of
Us 2022" (books by or about historically excluded groups) Born in
New Orleans in 1875 to a mother who was formerly enslaved and a
father of questionable identity, Alice Dunbar-Nelson was a
pioneering activist, writer, suffragist, and educator. Until now,
Dunbar-Nelson has largely been viewed only in relation to her
abusive ex-husband, the poet Paul Laurence Dunbar. This is the
first book-length look at this major figure in Black women's
history, covering her life from the post-reconstruction era through
the Harlem Renaissance. Tara T. Green builds on Black feminist,
sexuality, historical and cultural studies to create a literary
biography that examines Dunbar-Nelson's life and legacy as a
respectable activist - a woman who navigated complex challenges
associated with resisting racism and sexism, and who defined her
sexual identity and sexual agency within the confines of
respectability politics. It's a book about the past, but it's also
a book about the present that nods to the future.
Conversations with Edmund White brings together twenty-one
interviews with an author known for chronicling gay culture.
Ranging from a 1982 discussion of his early works to a new and
unpublished interview conducted in 2016, these interviews highlight
White's predilections, his major achievements, and the pivotal
moments of his long, varied career. Since the 1973 publication of
his first novel, Forgetting Elena, Edmund White (b. 1940) has
become a major figure in literature and gay culture. White is,
however, more than just a celebrated gay writer. He is an
international man of letters, and his work crosses several genres.
White's fiction includes an autobiographical trilogy-A Boy's Own
Story, The Beautiful Room Is Empty, and The Farewell Symphony-along
with more recent novels such as Jack Holmes and His Friend and Our
Young Man. White's love of French literature and culture is evident
in biographies of Jean Genet, Marcel Proust, and Arthur Rimbaud,
and his antipathy to American Puritanism suffuses his collected
essays and memoirs and is on full display in two early nonfiction
works that helped define the era of gay liberation: The Joy of Gay
Sex, coauthored with Charles Silverstein, and States of Desire:
Travels in Gay America. A professor of creative writing at
Princeton University, White has earned many distinctions, including
the National Book Critics Circle Award and the Lambda Literary
Foundation's Pioneer Award. White has been a generous interviewer,
sharing his time and insights not only with major publications such
as the Paris Review, but also with smaller online publications for
more limited audiences. A lively commentator, White has never been
afraid to speak his mind, even when the result has been public
feuds with literary peers on both sides of the Atlantic.
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In this narrative overview, Embser-Herbert explores the history of
the policy of "Don't Ask, Don't Tell," (DADT) the federal law
restricting the military service of gays, lesbians, and bisexuals.
She traces the policy from its origins in the early 1990s through
its evolution and implementation into law in the United States
military and evaluates the impact of post-9/11 events on the
military, the policy, and the ongoing debate surrounding the
existence of the policy itself as lawmakers consider its repeal.
Her three-part history of DADT begins with a brief look at earlier
policies that preceded it, a discussion of events in 1992-1993 that
resulted in the passage and implementation of the new law, and an
examination of the law's impact on the military. She also compares
the policy to that of other nations, such as Canada, Australia, and
Great Britain, that eliminated similar restrictions as they sought
ways to avoid a potential manpower shortage in their armed forces.
The War on Terror has returned DADT to the public spotlight.
Embser-Herbert examines U.S. experiences in Iraq and Afghanistan
and what they can teach about gays and lesbians in the military.
She concludes Part I with an analysis of whether the law might be
repealed or overturned. Part II of the handbook provides summaries
of key legal decisions, and Part III contains key documents, such
as the language of the law itself and excerpts from current
military regulations and training manuals. The book also includes a
chronology of events, glossary of terms, and an annotated
bibliography.
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