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Huge social changes occurring in real time are leading us to rethink traditional roles in our homes, workplaces and in society. So why do women who outearn their male partners still tend to do more housework and childcare? Why are unemployed men generally happier if their female partners are also unemployed? Why is unpaid labour still seen as a less important contribution than paid work within family units? In Breadwinners, award-winning science journalist Melissa Hogenboom
interviews dozens of female breadwinners, stay-at-home dads and samesex couples, comparing their stories to the latest research to demonstrate the consequences of changing dynamics. She reveals how pursuing and maintaining power is a key part of every human interaction, affecting every area of our lives. Breadwinners shows how, the closer we look, the easier it is to see the influence of power structures all around us. Ultimately, it gives readers the tools to address imbalances and improve our relationships at home and at work. If we can share power more equally, we can improve not only our own wellbeing but also recognise how to dismantle social structures that are seemingly set in stone.
Here is an intelligent and comprehensive guide to alternative to
monogamy offering relationship advice that might change your ideas
about sex, love, and relationships. This practical guidebook will
help women break free of the mold of traditional monogamy, without
the constraints of jealousy, possessiveness, insecurity, and
competition. The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory incorporates
interviews and real-world advice from women of all ages in
nontraditional relationships, as well as exercises for building
self-awareness, confidence in communication, and strategies for
managing and eliminating jealousy. Chapters include: Polyamory:
What It Is and What It Isn't The Biggest Question: Jealousy The
Second Biggest Question: Sex Smart Girl Skills Land of Love-Craft:
Crafting Your Relationships from the Ground Up If you're curious
about exploring group sex, opening up your current monogamous
relationship, or ready to "come out" as polyamorous, this book
covers it all! Whether you're a seasoned graduate, a timid
freshman, or somewhere in between, you'll learn how to discover and
craft unique relationships that are healthy, happy, sexy, and
tailor-made for you. Because when it comes to your love life, being
a know-it-all is actually a great thing to be.
Sibling relationships are special in many ways, not least because
often siblings are the family members who go through their whole
lives together But those relationships can be fraught with strife
or tension, bouts of happiness or strain and stress. They can
predict and affect other relationships in our lives, and they can
offer solace or sadness over the years. Here, Suzanne Degges-White
looks at the variety of sibling relationships with an eye to
improving both the good and the bad. Using real stories throughout,
the author illustrates the broad spectrum of problems (and rewards)
that can come from having a sibling. Examining such factors as the
early family constellation, birth order, cultural diversity, and
family communication patterns, Degges-White illustrates how these
relationships can affect so many other areas of our lives, and
considers how adult sibling conflict, rivalry, abuse, and loss
influence our lives. She offers suggestions for effective responses
to adult sibling conflict as well as enhancing family communication
and deepening the sibling connection in adulthood. No matter what
the sibling relationship is or has become, this work will help
readers consider how situations might be improved or addressed,
even if it means letting go of unhealthy sibling relationships.
What prenatal tests and down syndrome reveal about our reproductive
choices When Alison Piepmeier-scholar of feminism and disability
studies, and mother of Maybelle, an eight-year-old girl with Down
syndrome-died of cancer in August 2016, she left behind an
important unfinished manuscript about motherhood, prenatal testing,
and disability. In Unexpected, George Estreich and Rachel Adams
pick up where she left off, honoring the important research of
their friend and colleague, as well as adding new perspectives to
her work. Based on interviews with parents of children with Down
syndrome, as well as women who terminated their pregnancies because
their fetus was identified as having the condition, Unexpected
paints an intimate, nuanced picture of reproductive choice in
today's world. Piepmeier takes us inside her own daughter's life,
showing how Down syndrome is misunderstood, stigmatized, and
condemned, particularly in the context of prenatal testing. At a
time when medical technology is rapidly advancing, Unexpected
provides a much-needed perspective on our complex, and frequently
troubling, understanding of Down syndrome.
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