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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Advice on parenting > General
Offers 25 practical, action-oriented tips for parents before,
during, and after a move. This work includes tips such as: giving
kids a sense of control and involvement in the move, making the
physical move less stressful, and creating a sense of belonging in
a new home. It is useful for those looking to help children adjust
to a move.
‘I straighten her little tiara every morning – I lift her chin and
remind her that she is meant for greater things than playground
bullies.’
‘Everything shines in its own time. There is no timetable for life.
Timetables are for classrooms, not for people.’
These are just some of the wisdoms shared on The Village, South
Africa’s beloved Facebook group for parents raising tweens, teens and
young adults.
Having kids is a baffling endeavour beset with sulks, meltdowns,
anxiety and disappointment – and that’s just the parents! When you get
that call to the principal’s office? When the school acceptances don’t
come? When the bedroom door slams and you hear your child sobbing
behind it? All awful but the family years are also, to many of us, our
most precious time. The trick? To find a way to enjoy our families,
love our children and believe in them and ourselves despite the daily
challenges. And laugh . . .
In this book, Vanessa Raphaely and Karin Schimke have gathered together
experiences and insights from The Village members. These are the gems
and remedies from the real parenting experts – the parents – to help
you raise your family in your own perfectly imperfect way.
Most parents do a pretty good job of raising kids, says
psychologist Laurence Steinberg, but truly effective parenting
means not just relying on natural instincts but also on knowing
what works and why. In "The Ten Basic Principles of Good Parenting,
" Dr. Steinberg distills decades of research into a parenting book
that explains the fundamentals of raising happy, healthy children,
giving readers an invaluable map to help them navigate parenthood
from infancy to adolescence.
Dr. Steinberg found that the basic principles for effective
parenting are simple and universal, and apply to all parents and
children regardless of background. He explains each principle and
shows how to put it into action, using anecdotes and examples: from
"What You Do Matters" (parents make an enormous difference;
children are not simply the product of their genes) to "Establish
Rules and Limits" (how to provide structure in your child's life,
and how to handle conflicts over rules) and "Help Foster Your
Child's Independence" (help your child think through decisions
instead of making them for him or her). Concise and authoritative,
written with warmth and compassion, "The Ten Basic Principles of
Good Parenting" is an intelligent guide to raising a happy, healthy
child and to becoming a happier, more confident parent in the
process.
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