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The untold story of Wilhelm Reich and the dawn of the sexual
revolution. An illuminating, startling, at times bizarre story of
sex and science, ecstasy and repression. In the middle of the 20th
century, the United States became an adoptive home for dozens of
expatriated European thinkers, who saw this rich, young country
ripe for sexual liberation. One of the most left-field of them was
the Viennese psychoanalyst Wilhelm Reich, a disciple of Freud's who
had broken with the master. Reich's own approach was based on his
theories of the orgasm and sexual energy, which he dubbed 'orgone
energy'. Instead of the couch, he made use of a tall, slender
construction of wood, metal, and steel wool, which he called the
orgone box. A highly sexed man himself, Reich thought that a person
who sat in the box could elevate their 'orgastic potential' ridding
the body of repressive forces, improving sexual potency, and
enhancing overall health. After World War Two, Reich's theories
caught on among writers and artists, the early adopters of the
counter-culture. Norman Mailer and Saul Bellow were amongst those
for whom the orgone box represented a yearned-for synthesis of
sexual and political liberation, and of physical science and
psychology. Meanwhile, Reich himself faced one debacle after
another. Albert Einstein heard him out before rebuffing him. The
FBI investigated him as a Communist sympathizer: it turned out that
they were hunting the wrong man. The federal government banned the
orgone box and tagged Reich as a fraud. There were claims of sexual
misdeeds, and bouts of Reich's own mental instability. This is the
story of the blossoming of the 20th century's sexual revolution,
and the unshackling of a repressed society, and sex before science.
The definitive guide to creating the sex life of your wildest dreams—just by talking about it!—from sexpert couple Vanessa and Xander Marin.
Why is it so hard to talk about sex, even with the person who regularly sees you naked?
You know communication is important in a relationship, but you just don’t know how to get started with such a sensitive subject. Maybe you’ve never talked about sex at all, and the thought of it makes your palms sweat. Or you’re feeling so disconnected from your partner that sex is the last thing on your mind. Maybe you’re too scared to be honest about what you really want. Or you have no freaking clue what you want, so you’re not sure how to tell your partner anything helpful!
Sex Talks “helps us overcome the myths that drag us down” (John Gottman, New York Times bestselling author of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work). Together, sex therapist Vanessa Marin and her husband, Xander, show you that the best thing you can do for your sex life doesn’t even involve taking off your clothes.
Sex Talks covers the five essential conversations every couple needs to have:
1. Acknowledgement: a.k.a. “Sex is a thing, and we have it.”
2. Connection: a.k.a. “What do we need to feel connected to each other?”
3. Desire: a.k.a. “What do we each need to get turned on?”
4. Pleasure: a.k.a. “What do we each need to feel good?”
5. Exploration: a.k.a. “What should we try next?”
With gripping storytelling and an intimate peek at what really goes on behind other couples’ closed bedroom doors, Vanessa and Xander share their successful advice that has already helped thousands of clients. Sex Talks “redefines what it means to have great sex” (Logan Ury, author of How to Not Die Alone), providing the sex education you wish you’d had, plus the tried-and-tested tools you need to create the sex life of your wildest dreams.
Of course you have! (Or if you haven't, perhaps you should.)
Now Mitchell Symons, the reigning King of All Pointless Trivia,
carries his inquisitiveness unabashedly into the bedroom and
emerges with a smile, answering not only the above but also a
veritable "pornucopia" of scandalous and sexual conundrums. So for
all of you burning to learn that an octopus has sex for ten
straight hours or intensely curious about "uncircumcision," the
astute Mr. Symons pulls back the covers to expose it all--from
pick-up lines to popular positions to the greatest of all male and
female sexual lies!
In his #1 New York Times bestseller Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, John Gray helped men and women develop better communication skills by recognizing that they have different emotional needs. Now he takes them to communications final frontier--the bedroom. Mars and Venus in the Bedroom provides both men and women with specific instructions on how their new relationship skills can be used to improve their sex lives. Written with the understanding and unique insight that can come only from John Gray, it shows couples how they can become sexually satisfied without frustrating their partners, be better lovers, keep their monogamous relationship passionate, communicate their sexual needs romantically and get more pleasure out of sex. Yes, men are still from Mars and women are from Venus, and vive la difference. With John Gray's guidance, these two celestial bodies can harness their differences to come into closer orbit with each other and enjoy some close encounters of the most heavenly kind.
Hilarious miscellany of sex advice throughout the ages from
seven-week long Balinese foreplay and Victorian Viagra to swinging
tips from the 1970s. It is one of the oldest questions in the
world: How do you do sex? And it has prompted some of the most
stupid answers in human history. Since the dawn of civilization, a
bizarrely eccentric host of self-appointed experts has befuddled,
frightened and confused questioners by selling them bull about the
birds and bees. Ancient Chinese Viagra was made from wasps.
Medieval Indian advice books warned lovers never to have sex in
front of the priest or in the middle of the road. Middle-Ages
Britons claimed drunkenness was the best way to conceive, while
Persians thought they could enlarge themselves with ginger and
honey. And as for the Victorians and Edwardians, hot blankets were
the devil's work, banisters should be banned and tight corsets
could cause nymphomania. The odd playful slap wouldn't do any harm
though. Here, then, is the cream of thousands of years of advice on
where, when and how to put it, how to receive it, what to spread on
it first and how to spend your time after it's all over. It makes
you wonder how humankind ever got this far.
A shocking and sizzling look at life as a sex addict. Shelley
Matthews is married to her job as a journalist at a glossy women's
magazine. Which is just as well as she hasn't had sex for over a
year. But when her editor decides a re-vamp of the magazine is
needed, Shelley is forced to go undercover - as a sex addict...
Attending therapy sessions, Shelley meets a whole host of
extraordinary characters. There's: Cian, lead singer of a hot new
band, enjoying ALL the trappings of fame. Dominatrix Abigail, who
finds that inflicting pain has become a necessary part of sex.
Will, family man and serial adulterer. He knows his marriage is in
jeopardy but he just can't help himself. Former porn star Rose who
is only aroused when the cameras are rolling. Cliff and Cheryl, a
swinger couple who prefer sleeping with strangers rather than with
each other. Can Shelley keep her secret from the others as well as
writing the story of the year? And most importantly can she keep
her cool - and chastity - intact? And does she really want to?
Transform your love-making into erotic ecstasy with this fully
illustrated book that unlocks the secrets of the Kama Sutra - the
most ancient, renowned and explicit guide to sexual pleasure.
`Pleasures are as necessary for the well-being of the body as
food.' Kama Sutra `The Modern Kama Sutra' opens up a new and exotic
world of sexual pleasure that will change your sex life for ever.
Inspired by the ancient text of the Kama Sutra, this fully
illustrated book offers over 40 easy-to-follow explicit positions
(try positions such as 'Splitting the Bamboo', ' The Congress of
the Cow', 'Yab Yum' and the 'Canopy of Stars'), step-by step
instructions and practical tips and 200 stunning colour photographs
that guarantee to enhance your erotic pleasure and improve your
sexual technique. `The Modern Kama Sutra' is for the modern couple,
catering for both experienced lovers and for those wanting to
experiment. You will learn how to heighten your awareness of your
own and your partner's bodies, and achieve an emotional intimacy
and sexual intensity never before experienced. * Why not try fast
sex sequences for instant pleasure - use all kinds of locations,
from the kitchen table and bathroom shower to the living room sofa
and even the office floor! * Learn how massage and intimate
touching can enhance your sexual desire. Discover how to indulge
the body and the senses with separate chapters on seduction,
foreplay and oral sex.
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