MASTECTOMY was written to husbands, family members, friends, associates, and medical professionals who care deeply about women living through and after the devastation of mastectomy. Seven young mothers openly disclose personal information about their bodies, their sexual behaviors, and their innermost hopes and fears. You will be amazed at how these women struggled to regain a sense of autonomy after realizing that they were no longer in control of their own bodies. A common thread weaves through all of the stories - these courageous women willed to live a full life despite their ordeals. By reading their stories about how they took charge of their lives and journeyed from devastation to resilience, I know you will be better prepared for the mastectomy experience as a patient, a doctor, a caregiver, a friend, or a family member. As you read about life after breast cancer, you will realize the need to listen to their fears, concerns, and discussions of their options. Above all, they need to know that you are there with them. A line from an old movie goes something like this: "Do you know what was worse than going to the dark side of the moon? It was going there alone." When confronted with the devastating discovery of breast cancer, every woman needs information about her options. But even more, she needs to hear: "You are no less a woman. You are not in this alone - I am here with you." The book illuminates the world of mastectomy patients through their innermost thoughts, allowing the reader to feel their devastation and marvel at the ways they created resilience.

In a perfect world, your man would tell you that he wants you to be a lady in public and a FREAK in the bedroom...Well the world may never be perfect, however ladies, all you may have to do is take some of the advice given in this book, and your man will be a happy camper Toye Cook, MSN, RN, a. k. a. Miss Toye takes us on an exploration and examination of relationships through the eyes of a professional woman, single mother, and lover, all integrated elements of her self. A combination of professional observation, personal experiences with the men in her life, and stories of triumph in getting men to be honest while not becoming another basher make for a refreshing, entertaining, yet enlightening essay. Hers is a reality approach, asking the tough questions and providing some useful yet practical answers, that help lead us to finding the power within to create and enjoy the healthy relationships which we all desire. WARNING This book contains sexual content that may be offensive to some readers.

The mission of A Theory and Celebration of Male Sexual Arousal by Females: The Foundation of Male Heterosexuality, is to glean insights into the origin and nature of the male rapture of being sexually alive. Males have a precious innate capacity and automatic disposition to joyously respond to the view and touch of beautiful nude females. Males actually do not have a choice. They must react with increasing levels of sexual excitement to increasing levels of perceived female beauty, as this genetic predisposition evolved from their ancient forefathers in order to facilitate reproductive success. abolished and substituted with an exultation of this wonderful gift from mother nature. Male sexual arousal by young, fertile females was probably the most important single evolutionary cause of reproductive success, and thus the ultimate determination of human survival. With insight into the origin and nature of male sexual arousal by females, males can consider their sexuality to be a self-actualization, a rejoicing, a rapture of being sexually alive.

This title dramatically examines dependency on self-strangulation for sexual arousal.

Would it not be interesting to know if your partner was as sexually energetic as you? Would it not be great if you can tell which day love making would be more enjoyable for you? Would it not be great if you can explain why your sexual session with your partner was a failure the other day? How about if you knew exactly all the best ways to satisfy your partner sexually; then the marriage will be a guaranteed success How about a science that can explain all your sexual problems and cure them without the need for Viagra-like medicines.It is important to note that there are many sexual advisory books in the market starting with the oldest, . "THE KAMA SUTRA" of the ancient Aryans, "THE PERFUME GARD etc. WHAT MAKES THIS BOOK DIFFERENT is that this book not only incorporates the science of those great epics, it also uses the Vedic Code of Science where a person's individual karma is matched against the partner's karma so that the negative effects can be eliminated and the positive effects of the couple can be maxmimized and pleasure can be enjoyed equally in sexual, mental, physical, conversational and vocational stimulation and so on. When there is a lack of sex, severe spiritual and physical illness are generated as a result of building up of sexual energy. Each of us need to understand that the underlying force behind Human Existence is the need for LOVE, SEX and PHYSICAL TOUCH. Lacking of this basic energy creates imbalance in our human body thus producing bad anomalies in our life. Remember LOVE is equal to GOD . Lack of sex in our life create quarrels, disagreements, separation, increased lonliness, lack of good food, back pains, prostate problems, skin problems from unhealthy eating, etc...

Using the tools of performance studies, gender theory, and cultural history, Brenda Foley explores the striking similarities between beauty pageantry and striptease. For example, women in both project a 'normal' femininity and adhere to a strict hierarchy (Miss America contestants look down upon Miss Universe contestants, while theatrical 'burlesque artists' saw themselves as far above mere carnival strippers). Undressed for Success collects extensive primary source research - newspapers, journals, trade publications, photography collections, press releases, memoirs, and interviews with both strippers and pageant contestants - and employs a wide array of gender, feminist, and performance theory to analyze them.

If you have any inhibitions about sex or want to enhance the pleasure you get from sex, this revised and expanded edition of Becoming Orgasmic is for you.

Whether you're married, separated, divorced, or widowed; under 30, over 60, or somewhere in between; the program presented within these pages will help you feel comfortable with yourself and your ideas about sex and enable you to grow as a person.

* Evaluate your sexual history and put it in perspective
* Explore your body through touch
* Understand the effects of pregnancy, menstruation, and menopause on sexual desire and response
* Be comfortable with your body and yourself as a woman
* Share self-discovery with your partner
* What to try if something turns you off
* Overcome the fear of orgasm
* Explore ways to trigger orgasm
* Sex in the modern world -- social expectations, personal values, and choosing a partner in the age of AIDS

A personal and sensitively written book, Becoming Orgasmic is designed to make you feel good about your sexuality and yourself.

"As I read Don't Play with Me, I Am Life, in this practical call to personal holiness, John deals boldly with the strongest attacks on the mind, body, and spirit of the young men of today. We cannot waste time playing hide-and-seek with lust and its consequences. John went back to his childhood and chronicles his subconscious mind as a sexual being. His young life as a boy has earned our trust by sharing his prospective from a biblical point of view. His wisdom on the true nature of lust will not only inform but challenge every Christian male. He shares that the main issue with sex is that it hinders us from seeing and savoring the glory of Christ and that not knowing the purpose of our sexual urges hurts us and dishonors God. So, for your joy and Christ's honor, I commend this book to you. It is realistic, practical, and hope-giving because of uncompromising grace. The pure in heart will see God. If you want that insight, let Don't Play with Me, I Am Life by John Lewis help you on your journey to manhood. It is a beautiful blend of grace and truth. John raises high standards of holiness while carefully avoiding legalism. His honest, biblical, while practical and compelling forthright is refreshing.

"John Lewis has written a book about sexual purity that can be read and applied by both men and women. He shows us in practical and specific ways how we can grow toward God's standard--absolute purity in mind and body. I highly recommend it."

--Ray Morgan, PhD, marriage and family therapist, Insight for the Family, Inc.

'Every man can have multiple orgasms – an can directly improve his lovemaking skills – just by learning some simple physical techniques.'

'The Multi-Orgasmic Man' reveals simple physical and psychological techniques that allow men of all ages to fulfil their dreams and their partners' fantasies by dramatically improving the quality of their lovemaking. There are no complicated theories just clear practical, amazingly effective techniques you can start using today.

THE FACTS:
• Men are as capable of having multiple orgasms as women.
• By learning to separate orgasm and ejaculation, men can transform a momentary release into countless peaks of whole-body orgasms
• Multi-orgasmic men enjoy better health, vitality and longevity

Combining today's science with the power of the ancient Taoist tradition of sexual wisdom, 'The Multi-Orgasmic Man' provides easy detailed exercises and clear illustrations that can help you to enjoy the best sex of your life.

Designed to help couples achieve a more enjoyable relationship and a better sex life, this comprehensive, constructive guide addresses every aspect of lovemaking and human sexuality.

"A self-help book as well as a manual for erotic pleasure enhancement". -- Bulletin of the Menninger Clinic

In Chicano/a popular culture, nothing signifies the working class, highly-layered, textured, and metaphoric sensibility known as "rasquache aesthetic" more than black velvet art. The essays in this volume examine that aesthetic by looking at icons, heroes, cultural myths, popular rituals, and border issues as they are expressed in a variety of ways. The contributors dialectically engage methods of popular cultural studies with discourses of gender, sexuality, identity politics, representation, and cultural production. In addition to a hagiography of "locas santas," the book includes studies of the sexual politics of early Chicana activists in the Chicano youth movement, the representation of Latina bodies in popular magazines, the stereotypical renderings of recipe books and calendar art, the ritual performance of Mexican femaleness in the quinceañera, and mediums through which Chicano masculinity is measured.

Based on interviews and participatory research, this book explores Thai women's experiences of the global sex trade. Kaoru Aoyama questions the long-standing feminist debate concerning how these women identify themselves: as sex workers, or sex slaves, while also considering the issues of gender, deviance, and migration.

In reading The Lesbian Polyamory Reader: Open Relationships, Non-Monogamy, and Casual Sex, you'll quickly discover that the steps toward love and happiness are as easy as 1, 2, 3, and maybe even 4 or 5. And you'll find that if your own lesbian relationship lies outside the "traditional monogamous couple" model, you're definitely not alone. You'll explore many multifaceted and multifarious love relationships, each one applicable to your own liking, if you so choose. You'll find successful models of relationship styles--regardless of your own orientation--from cover to cover, and you'll discover the pleasing polyphony in the many, many female voices of authorities on love and love relationships.Whereas other similar studies project the limited view of one or two authors, The Lesbian Polyamory Reader calls upon a broad scope of writers, professional women and academics alike. You'll see that outside the gay rights movement that currently pushes for a traditional, monogamous marriage model of gay couplehood, there lies pleasing multiplicity in the arms and hearts of lesbians worldwide. Specifically, this collection offers: "first person" articles--stories that describe a variety of lesbian experiences relating to multiple lovers in the 1970s, '80s, and '90s "how-to" articles--descriptions of the various polyamorous relationship configurations, including ways of dealing with jealousy "theoretical" pieces--the history of multiple relationships, the social implications of practicing a love style other than monogamous coupling, and safer sex considerations Much, much more than a book on personal satisfaction, The Lesbian Polyamory Reader also focuses on the social implications of this love phenomenon, bringing it into a more inclusive circle of discussion for lesbians, educators, and students of sociology and sexology. You'll find satisfaction in seeing the love so many lesbian women have achieved by not mimicking the "marriage model" of living.

Exploring the implications of the internet and bio-technologies for intimate and sexual life, this book discusses the concept of citizenship in relation to the extension of public health through the internet, and reveals concerns that sexually transmitted infections and HIV are associated with such technologies.

A practical guide to understand both low and high libido, drawing on science, straight talk and useful exercises to stop blame and rekindle pleasure. From the Vatican to Vegas, From Disney to PornHub, we've been tricked into believing love and sex are like a hand in a glove, though few of us experience them that way. In Sex When You Don't Feel Like It: The Truth About Mismatched Libido and Rediscovering Desire, Cyndi Darnell helps demystify our relationship to desire by making it authentic, relatable, and most importantly, attainable. Darnell guides readers step-by-step through a useful framework to discover their authentic longings while recognizing it can feel uncomfortable when they're unaccustomed to deep, soul-nourishing conversations about sex. From reading this book, you will learn what desire needs to thrive and how to understand your unique erotic template. At its core, Sex When You Don't Feel Like It is honest. It understands that exploring sex is complicated in a culture that insists sex is both natural and dangerous. It doesn't promise eternal happiness with tips and tricks in three-easy-steps. It does, however, get to the heart of how everything we've been led to believe about erotic desire is untrue, and demonstrates how these beliefs shape our struggles with cultivating pleasure and understanding the nature of passion. Darnell takes desire from a passive, resigned sense of failure to an inspired quest by offering countless prompts, practices, suggestions and reflections to help the reader understand why they're feeling what they're feeling, why they're feeling stuck, what they really want, and how to get there. This book offers abundant alternatives to sexual struggles and tackles the self-doubt, awkwardness, and embarrassment of exploring erotic desire to support the reader in creating a dynamic erotic identity that is uniquely theirs.