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An award-winning guide to the sometimes erratic and confusing behavior of teenage girls that explains what’s going on, prepares parents for what’s to come, and lets them know when it’s time to worry.
Dr. Lisa Damour worked as an expert collaborator on Pixar’s Inside Out 2! In this sane, highly engaging, and informed guide for parents of daughters, Dr. Damour draws on decades of experience and the latest research to reveal the seven distinct—and absolutely normal—developmental transitions that turn girls into grown-ups, including Parting with Childhood, Contending with Adult Authority, Entering the Romantic World, and Caring for Herself.
Providing realistic scenarios and welcome advice on how to engage daughters in smart, constructive ways, Untangled gives parents a broad framework for understanding their daughters while addressing their most common questions, including
- My thirteen-year-old rolls her eyes when I try to talk to her, and only does it more when I get angry with her about it. How should I respond?
- Do I tell my teen daughter that I’m checking her phone?
- My daughter suffers from test anxiety. What can I do to help her?
- Where’s the line between healthy eating and having an eating disorder?
- My teenage daughter wants to know why I’m against pot when it’s legal in some states. What should I say?
- My daughter’s friend is cutting herself. Do I call the girl’s mother to let her know?
Perhaps most important, Untangled helps mothers and fathers understand, connect, and grow with their daughters. When parents know what makes their daughter tick, they can embrace and enjoy the challenge of raising a healthy, happy young woman.
Whether your teen is a slight problem or a nightmare, you can
learn from my experiences raising a teenage sociopath. There is
always hope, with God's help. God can give you peace, even when
your life is in chaos.
In light of recent events, Americans are looking more at the
complex reasons that cause shootings. A significant number place
the blame with parents not paying enough attention to their
children, and of course, mental illness. It has been shown from
previous shootings that usually these young people feel like
outsiders because they don't have a peer group's respect and
support, and they felt unloved at home. Love is one primary
inhibitor to bad behavior. I show in my book that there are three
primary inhibitors that will make a difference with the behavior of
most children.
With our complicated lives, all the distractions and demands on
each of us, we have to make the most of the time we have with our
children. If the influence of the three primary inhibitors is not
being felt by your children, then they may not have moral
restraints to prevent bad choices.
As adults, we like to think we have a good idea of what the world
may have in store for our teenagers, but the fact of the matter is
there's a vast divide between what we perceive as dangerous and
what our teens are actually up against. Teenagers (ages 13 - 19)
face unique challenges when it comes to situational awareness.
These challenges are only exacerbated by the constant physical and
biological changes teens are subjected to. As young people learn to
deal with these changes, they begin to explore the limits of their
individuality. Unfortunately, this process often involves
rebellious behavior and unnecessary risk-taking. The key to keeping
teens safe during this time is to keep them alert and engaged with
their environment. Teenagers have to understand that real personal
safety isn't about being scared of what lies around the next
corner. It requires confidence that if something bad were about to
happen, that they have these skills: Ability to identify the
problem early Competence to develop a plan of action Power to
control their fear Aptitude to implement that plan Spotting Danger
Before It Spots Your Teens is designed around the principles of
positive communication, trust, and teamwork. It's written
specifically to set parents' minds at ease and allow teens to
confidently explore their independence, secure in the fact that
they can spot dangerous situations before they happen and take the
necessary steps to ensure their own well-being.
Insights, ideas and activities for discussing with students the
toughest questions of Jewish life. A step-by-step guide to creative
use of the award-winning Tough Questions Jews Ask in the classroom.
Each lesson includes: w A clearly stated goal w An opening hook to
grab students' attention w Excerpts from the book followed by a
series of engaging discussion questions w A selection of Jewish
sources addressing these important issues. This comprehensive
teaching tool will help you guide each student toward a more
mature, carefully thought-out set of personal beliefs.
Help your teens grow into the very best versions of themselves!
From rule-breaking and risk-taking to defensive communication and
disrespect, parenting a teenager can feel like modern warfare--but
it doesn't have to be that way. In 1-2-3 Magic Teen,
internationally renowned parenting expert Thomas W. Phelan explains
how to better understand your teenager, which problems are not
worth fighting over, and why your child's behavior likely matches
the definition of a normal adolescent! With helpful,
straightforward advice backed up by research and parent-tested
strategies, 1-2-3 Magic Teen will help you establish a calmer, more
respectful home and family life and show you how to guide your
teenager into healthy, functional young adulthood. * Learn the
Language: Communicate with open and engaging language, and listen
to your teenager the right way. * Establish Expectations: Learn how
to set limits while still encouraging independent decision-making
and helping your child develop their emotional intelligence. * Stay
in Touch: Allow your teen to open up to you in more meaningful and
inclusive ways through four simple connection building strategies.'
* Take Care of Yourself: Take time to maintain your own emotional
well-being to avoid allowing your own anxieties and stresses to
influence your children You'll also find tools and advice tailored
for the challenges of a teen lifestyle, including: * Forgetting to
do chores * Absence in family outings * Drop in grades * Missed
curfews * Parties and drinking * Work responsibilities The author
of the million-copy parenting bestseller 1-2-3 Magic applies his
time-tested, trusted advice in this straightforward, encouraging
guide that walks parents through the ups and downs of teen life,
allowing them to help their kids gain confidence and push toward
independence.
I'm Having Twins is an inspirational children s book about a 3-year
old girl named Paris who comes to terms with her parents adding
twin siblings to their family mix. The story begins as Paris learns
that she will soon have twin siblings and ends as the family leaves
for the hospital to have Her Twins. The book takes Paris through
the trials and tribulations of a twin pregnancy from the big sister
s perspective and shows her how they are really hers, too, easing
her transition to Big Sisterhood. It is based upon the real-life
experiences of a little girl named Paris living in the San
Francisco Bay Area. Be sure and get 'My Twins' are Coming Home" and
"My Twins First Birthday and Christmas" to have the complete set.
This book offers clear, actionable ways for parents and educators
to create and strengthen relationships with teens during a key time
of growth and development. With an emphasis on mindfulness,
non-violent communication, and rooted in what we know about brain
and social development during the adolescent years, this book is a
great resource for anyone who is struggling to understand how to
support and connect with young people. It includes practical
information and activities designed to help spur adults to reflect
on their goals as well as unearth their hidden biases about teens
and how to direct them. Happy, Healthy Teens focuses on small ways
to make a big difference in how teens see themselves and experience
their interactions with us and it will help you be more intentional
in your choices as you navigate the challenges of the adolescent
years. Creating strong, foundational relationships with young
people during these years has an enormous, lasting impact on their
ability to become adults who are confident, compassionate, and part
of a healthy community.
Helps parents manage the stresses of adolescent achievement culture
and to make decisions which align with their values, rather than
their anxiety. WHEN WORRY WORKS responds to one of the primary
sources of the nation's worsening adolescent mental health crisis -
achievement pressure. Burdened by the mounting pressures on today's
youth, parents seek ways to strike the balance between supporting
their teens' current well-being while also setting them up for
future success. Eager to take action and to manage their escalating
fears, parents inadvertently and unknowingly exacerbate the problem
by overlooking their own parental achievement anxiety. Based on
thirty years of clinical practice and her experiences raising her
own teenagers in New York City, the work demonstrates that when
parents become aware of their individual anxieties and learn to
effectively manage them, they are empowered to make values aligned,
rather than worry driven parenting decisions. Dr. Dorfman provides
practical evidence-based parenting strategies, exercises, and
reflective prompts to guide parents through a process to
constructively apply to their day-to-day parenting decisions.
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