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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Advice on parenting > Child care & upbringing
Compares the parenting advice of five well-known experts. Most
parents lack the time, training, and other resources needed to
consult the extensive research on parenting that has been produced
by scientific study. Instead, many rely on advice from a few
well-known authorities in popular books, newspaper columns, and
other media. This work takes a critical look at the advice of five
experts - Benjamin Spock, T. Berry Brazelton, James Dobson,
Penelope Leach and John Rosemond - then compares that with the
findings of hundreds of empirical studies on children. The focus is
on major parenting problems, including persistent infant crying,
toilet training, early day care, discipline, adolescent sexuality
education, substance abuse, and the influence of television and
other electronic media. A final chapter summarizes the accuracy of
each expert's advice compared with research findings, points out
the common ground between experts, and summarizes their major
strategies and biases. In some cases, a substantial gap exists
between expert advice and scientific research findings. and
students will find this book not only helpful, but also
illuminating. Rankin's meticulous analysis points out areas of
agreement and dispute between some of the most quoted parenting
experts in the field, and, perhaps even more revealing, areas where
their widely quoted pronouncements deviate from research and
clinical evidence. Makes sense of often conflicting parenting
experts and how their advice can clash with scientific research
Offers parents an understanding of 'best practices' as identified
by research. Explains the multitude of elements (other than
research and practice) that shape the advice of experts Focuses on
a critical analysis of the advice of five often conflicting, but
very well known, authors on parenting.
In this ground-breaking book, Dr. Michaeleen Doucleff looks back to
our ancestors for solutions to our failing modern-day parenting
theories. When Dr Michaeleen Doucleff became a mother, she examined
the studies behind modern parenting guidance and found that the
evidence was frustratingly limited, and the conclusions often
ineffective. She began to wonder if an opposite approach was needed
- one founded on traditional wisdom, like the knowledge and
experience passed down over hundreds, even thousands, of years
within ancient cultures. With her young daughter in tow, she
travelled across the world to observe and practice parenting
strategies alongside families in three of the world's most
venerable communities: Maya families in Mexico, Inuit families
above the Arctic Circle, and Hadza families in Tanzania. Dr
Doucleff soon learned that these cultures don't have the same
problems with children that Western parents do. Most strikingly,
parents build a relationship with young children that is vastly
different from the one many Western parents develop, built on
co-operation instead of control; trust instead of fear; and
personalised needs instead of standardised development milestones.
In Hunt, Gather, Parent, Doucleff introduces us to families where
parents help little ones learn to control their emotions and reduce
tantrums by the parents themselves controlling their own
frustrations; foster self-sufficiency by safely giving kids the
autonomy to manage risks and explore their limits; and motivate
children to help with chores without using bribes or threats.
Doucleff also talks to psychologists, neuroscientists,
anthropologists, and sociologists and explains how the tools and
tips can impact children's mental health and development. . Packed
with practical takeaways, Hunt, Gather, Parent helps us rethink the
ways we relate to our children, and reveals a universal parenting
paradigm adapted for modern families.
The Internet has transformed the way people research, shop, conduct
business, and communicate. But the Internet and technologies that
enable online interaction and access to a variety of content can be
a perilous place for minors 8 to 18. The dangers are real, and
parents and teachers today are confronted with many threats they
simply do not understand. This book shares the risks of the
Internet by detailing recent, real-world tragedies and revealing
some of the secrets of online activities. It provides a pragmatic
approach to help parents and teachers protect children against the
threats of going online. Parents and teachers are often
ill-equipped to deal with the variety of devices and applications
such as email, instant messaging, browsing, blogs, cell phones, and
personal digital assistant devices (PDAs) that can facilitate the
dangers lurking online. How to Protect Your Children on the
Internet offers a comprehensive overview of the ways in which youth
use such technologies and exposes the risks they represent. At the
same time, it provides a roadmap that will enable parents and
teachers to become more engaged in children's online activities,
arming them with techniques and tips to help protect their
children. Smith underscores his arguments through chilling,
real-life stories, revealing approaches people are using to deceive
and to conceal their activities online. Filled with practical
advice and recommendations, his book is indispensable to anyone who
uses the Internet and related technologies, and especially to those
charged with keeping children safe.
THE INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER 'Chart a child's path with
less stress and more optimization for healthy habits and future
success' Time From age 5 to 12, parenting decisions get more
complicated and have lasting consequences. What's the right kind of
school? Should they play a sport? When's the right time for a
phone? Making these decisions is less about finding the specific
answer and more about taking the right approach. Along with these
bigger questions, Oster investigates how to navigate the complexity
of day-to-day family logistics. The Family Firm is a smart and
winning guide to how to think more clearly - and with less ambient
stress - about the key decisions of these early years.
Presents research-backed methods for parenting children born
between 1982 and 2000. They have strong values - faith, family,
tolerance, intelligence and altruism among them. But, contrary to
what one might guess, these people are not our sage elders. This is
the Millennial Generation. Born between 1982 and 2000, the oldest
among them today are entering their 20s or in their teen years.
They aim to rebel against society by cleaning it up, returning to
old-fashioned values and relationships. Author Verhaagen describes
why, nonetheless, parents are feeling more anxious and frazzled
than ever before, even as they raise what some are predicting to be
the next hero generation. Verhaagen explains how research shows
adults can help keep these young people on a positive path, stoke
their ideals, and help them be resilient when the inevitable
mistakes and obstacles arise. The Baby Boomers and older Gen Xers
are parenting this new crew, aiming to ground them and instil great
hope for the future. But Millennials face challenges greater than
any generation faced before them. Many spend all or part of their
childhood without a father in the home. increasingly young ages.
They are subject to violent images that are more common than ever
before in movies, television, and games. So parents still need to
provide guidance. Verhaagen aims to help parents with research and
advice, including how to teach determination, problem-solving,
emotional strength and resilience. His text includes vignettes and
the personal experience of a psychotherapist and father. Little has
been written previously giving advice for parents raising this
generation. This book offers up-to-date research on parenting, in
practical and accessible terms.
While there are some books and articles about the importance of
understanding in-school learning style and the benefits in
achievement and attitude toward learning that accrue from matching
learning style to learning environment, this is the first book on
homework style. Homework style is the personal preference for doing
the tasks assigned by teachers and learning new material outside of
the formal school setting.
Learning style and homework style have been found to be related
yet empirically distinguishable, indicating the unique situation
the home variable plays in forming individual learning styles. This
guide will help parents, teachers, and counselors understand
homework style and gain an awareness of the relationship between
homework style, homework achievement, and school achievement.
As an older foster child, Andrew longed for the day when he'd be
adopted by a real family because they loved him and wanted him to
be part of their family unit. Until that day dawned, like many
other foster kids, he lived with the stigma that he was kept by his
foster parents to generate income for them.
Of late, bad had gone to worse for 13 year old Andrew. He was
being sexually abused by Blanche, his new single foster mom.
Blanche had been abandoned by her husband and despised men.
Although she used Andrew for her own depraved needs, she treated
him poorly. To add to his pain, news of this sexual relationship
leaked out to his peers at school and he was now enduring verbal
torment at recesses and noon hour. Andrew couldn't bear the pain
any longer when the only friend who'd stuck up for him at school
turned against him. He felt totally alone, so unloved.
"Dear God, I have nothing left to live for," he sobbed one night
when his foster mom left for a party. "Please forgive me for what I
have to do, but I'm hurting so much."
Andrew headed to his foster mother's shed to get the rope. With
the rope coiled up under his coat, he headed to the big black
poplar tree in the Kinsman Park. Twelve feet off the ground was a
large branch at right angles to the trunk. Andrew quickly fashioned
a hangman's noose and shinnied up the tree. Bracing himself with
his legs he slipped the noose over his head and tied the other end
of the rope to the branch. Grasping the branch, he let himself
down. As he hung there by his fingertips, his short life passed
before him.......
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