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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Advice on parenting > Child care & upbringing
Presents research-backed methods for parenting children born
between 1982 and 2000. They have strong values - faith, family,
tolerance, intelligence and altruism among them. But, contrary to
what one might guess, these people are not our sage elders. This is
the Millennial Generation. Born between 1982 and 2000, the oldest
among them today are entering their 20s or in their teen years.
They aim to rebel against society by cleaning it up, returning to
old-fashioned values and relationships. Author Verhaagen describes
why, nonetheless, parents are feeling more anxious and frazzled
than ever before, even as they raise what some are predicting to be
the next hero generation. Verhaagen explains how research shows
adults can help keep these young people on a positive path, stoke
their ideals, and help them be resilient when the inevitable
mistakes and obstacles arise. The Baby Boomers and older Gen Xers
are parenting this new crew, aiming to ground them and instil great
hope for the future. But Millennials face challenges greater than
any generation faced before them. Many spend all or part of their
childhood without a father in the home. increasingly young ages.
They are subject to violent images that are more common than ever
before in movies, television, and games. So parents still need to
provide guidance. Verhaagen aims to help parents with research and
advice, including how to teach determination, problem-solving,
emotional strength and resilience. His text includes vignettes and
the personal experience of a psychotherapist and father. Little has
been written previously giving advice for parents raising this
generation. This book offers up-to-date research on parenting, in
practical and accessible terms.
While there are some books and articles about the importance of
understanding in-school learning style and the benefits in
achievement and attitude toward learning that accrue from matching
learning style to learning environment, this is the first book on
homework style. Homework style is the personal preference for doing
the tasks assigned by teachers and learning new material outside of
the formal school setting.
Learning style and homework style have been found to be related
yet empirically distinguishable, indicating the unique situation
the home variable plays in forming individual learning styles. This
guide will help parents, teachers, and counselors understand
homework style and gain an awareness of the relationship between
homework style, homework achievement, and school achievement.
Working with imaginative journeys and the mystery and magic of
metaphor, the author has developed the art of therapeutic
storytelling for children's challenging behaviour.
The mental well-being of children and adults is shockingly poor. Marc Brackett, author of Permission to Feel, knows why. And he knows what we can do.
Marc Brackett is a professor in Yale University’s Child Study Center and founding director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. In his 25 years as an emotion scientist, he has developed a remarkably effective plan to improve the lives of children and adults – a blueprint for understanding our emotions and using them wisely so that they help, rather than hinder, our success and well-being. The core of his approach is a legacy from his childhood, from an astute uncle who gave him permission to feel. He was the first adult who managed to see Marc, listen to him, and recognize the suffering, bullying, and abuse he’d endured. And that was the beginning of Marc’s awareness that what he was going through was temporary. He wasn’t alone, he wasn’t stuck on a timeline, and he wasn’t “wrong” to feel scared, isolated, and angry. Now, best of all, he could do something about it.
In the decades since, Marc has led large research teams and raised tens of millions of dollars to investigate the roots of emotional well-being. His prescription for healthy children (and their parents, teachers, and schools) is a system called RULER, a high-impact and fast-effect approach to understanding and mastering emotions that has already transformed the thousands of schools that have adopted it. RULER has been proven to reduce stress and burnout, improve school climate, and enhance academic achievement. This book is the culmination of Marc’s development of RULER and his way to share the strategies and skills with readers around the world. It is tested, and it works.
This book combines rigor, science, passion and inspiration in equal parts. Too many children and adults are suffering; they are ashamed of their feelings and emotionally unskilled, but they don’t have to be. Marc Brackett’s life mission is to reverse this course, and this book can show you how.
As an older foster child, Andrew longed for the day when he'd be
adopted by a real family because they loved him and wanted him to
be part of their family unit. Until that day dawned, like many
other foster kids, he lived with the stigma that he was kept by his
foster parents to generate income for them.
Of late, bad had gone to worse for 13 year old Andrew. He was
being sexually abused by Blanche, his new single foster mom.
Blanche had been abandoned by her husband and despised men.
Although she used Andrew for her own depraved needs, she treated
him poorly. To add to his pain, news of this sexual relationship
leaked out to his peers at school and he was now enduring verbal
torment at recesses and noon hour. Andrew couldn't bear the pain
any longer when the only friend who'd stuck up for him at school
turned against him. He felt totally alone, so unloved.
"Dear God, I have nothing left to live for," he sobbed one night
when his foster mom left for a party. "Please forgive me for what I
have to do, but I'm hurting so much."
Andrew headed to his foster mother's shed to get the rope. With
the rope coiled up under his coat, he headed to the big black
poplar tree in the Kinsman Park. Twelve feet off the ground was a
large branch at right angles to the trunk. Andrew quickly fashioned
a hangman's noose and shinnied up the tree. Bracing himself with
his legs he slipped the noose over his head and tied the other end
of the rope to the branch. Grasping the branch, he let himself
down. As he hung there by his fingertips, his short life passed
before him.......
Through this opportunity, I wish to reach out to new mums who like
me are going through a whirlpool of emotions and at the same time
playing the role of a perfect mother. And also, I wish to bring up
the fact that we as young parents amidst all the hush-hush of our
versatile lifestyles, do not find time to treasure the childhood of
our little one. This compilation would be a way to learn, to
cherish and to ponder over some basic issues of parenthood.
Go the F**k to Sleep is a bedtime book for parents who live in the
real world, where a few snoozing kitties and cutesy rhymes don't
always send a toddler sailing off to dreamland.
Profane, affectionate and refreshingly honest, it captures the familiar and
unspoken tribulations of putting your child to bed for the night.
Colourfully illustrated and hilariously funny, this is a breath of fresh air for parents new, old and expectant*.
(*You should probably not read this to your children.)
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