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Books > Social sciences > Sociology, social studies > Social institutions > Death & dying
A compelling and agonising story.
Durban-based journalist Glynis Horning and her husband Chris woke up one Sunday morning almost two years ago to the devastating discovery of their 25-year-old son Spencer dead in his bed. Horning’s story chronicles a parent’s worst nightmare. Establishing that his death was suicide, Horning embarks on a journey of anguished self-recrimination.
Should she not have seen the signs? Could she somehow have prevented it? As she struggles with Spencer’s decision to end his life, she has to learn to understand what the depths of depression entail. We feel Horning’s pain, and learn to understand and feel Spencer’s pain, at a visceral level.
Surrounded by loving family and friends, Horning pieces together the puzzle of Spencer’s death, writing with a brutal and heart-searing intensity of grief and loss, but also of the joys of celebrating her son’s life. This book will touch anyone who has experienced a mental health journey directly or indirectly, or a searing loss. Her wisdom and insight are extraordinary.
It’s midsummer in Wyoming and Alexandra Fuller is barely hanging on.
Grieving her father and pining for her home country of Zimbabwe,
reeling from a midlife breakup, freshly sober and piecing her way
uncertainly through a volatile new relationship with a younger woman,
Alexandra vows to get herself back on even keel.
And then – suddenly and incomprehensibly – her son Fi, at twenty-one
years old, dies in his sleep.
No stranger to loss – young siblings, a parent, a home country –
Alexandra is nonetheless levelled. At the same time, she is painfully
aware that she cannot succumb and abandon her two surviving daughters
as her mother before her had done. From a sheep wagon deep in the
mountains of Wyoming to a grief sanctuary in New Mexico to a silent
meditation retreat in Alberta, Canada, Alexandra journeys up and down
the spine of the Rocky Mountains in an attempt to find how to grieve
herself whole. There is no answer, and there are countless answers – in
poetry, in rituals and routines, in nature and in the indigenous wisdom
she absorbed as a child in Zimbabwe. By turns disarming, devastating
and unexpectedly, blessedly funny, Alexandra recounts the wild medicine
of painstakingly grieving a child in a culture that has no instructions
for it.
A hair-raising account about the ins and outs of practising
forensic pathology in Africa As a medical detective of the modern
world, forensic pathologist Ryan Blumenthal's chief goal is to
bring perpetrators to justice. He has performed thousands of
autopsies, which have helped bring numerous criminals to book. In
Autopsy he covers the hard lessons learnt as a rookie pathologist,
as well as some of the most unusual cases he's encountered. During
his career, for example, he has dealt with high-profile deaths,
mass disasters, death by lightning and people killed by African
wildlife. Blumenthal takes the reader behind the scenes at the
mortuary, describing a typical autopsy and the instruments of the
trade. He also shares a few trade secrets, like how to establish
when a suicide is more likely to be a homicide. Even though they
cannot speak, the dead have a lot to say - and Blumenthal is there
to listen.
Death, like most experiences that we think of as 'natural', is a
product of the human imagination: all animals die, but only human
beings suffer Death; and what they suffer is shaped by their own
time and culture. Tragedy was one of the principal instruments
through which the culture of early modern England imagined the
encounter with mortality. The essays in this book approach the
theatrical reinvention of Death from three perspectives. Those in
Part 1 explore Death as a trope of apocalypse - a moment of
un-veiling or dis-covery that is figured both in the fearful
nakedness of the Danse Macabre and in the shameful 'openings'
enacted in the new theatres of anatomy. Separate chapters explore
the apocalyptic design of two of the period's most powerful
tragedies - Shakespeare's Othello, and Middleton and Rowley's The
Changeling. In Part 2, Neill explores the psychological and
affective consequences of tragedy's fiercely end-driven narrative
in a number of plays where a longing for narrative closure is
pitched against a particularly intense dread of ending. The
imposition of an end is often figured as an act of writerly
violence, committed by the author or his dramatic surrogate.
Extensive attention is paid to Hamlet as an extreme example of the
structural consequences of such anxiety. The function of revenge
tragedy as a response to the radical displacement of the dead by
the Protestant abolition of purgatory - one of the most painful
aspects of the early modern re-imagining of death - is also
illustrated with particular clarity. Finally, Part 3 focuses on the
way tragedy articulates its challenge to the undifferentiating
power of death through conventions and motifs borrowed from the
funereal arts. It offers detailed analyses of three plays -
Shakespeare's Anthony and Cleopatra, Webster's The Duchess of
Malfi, and Ford's The Broken Heart. Here, funeral is rewritten as
triumph, and death becomes the chosen instrument of an heroic
self-fashioning designed to dress the arbitrary abruption of mortal
ending in a powerful aesthetic of closure.
A basic motivation for social and cultural life is the problem of
death. By analysing the experiences of dying and bereaved people,
as well as institutional responses to death, Clive Seale shows its
importance for understanding the place of embodiment in social
life. He draws on a comprehensive review of sociological,
anthropological and historical studies, including his own research,
to demonstrate the great variability that exists in human social
constructions for managing mortality. Far from living in a 'death
denying' society, dying and bereaved people in contemporary culture
are often able to assert membership of an imagined community,
through the narrative reconstruction of personal biography, drawing
on a variety of cultural scripts emanating from medicine,
psychology, the media and other sources. These insights are used to
argue that the maintenance of the human social bond in the face of
death is a continual resurrective practice, permeating everyday
life.
The academic study of death rose to prominence during the 1960s.
Courses on some aspect of death and dying can now be found at most
institutions of higher learning. These courses tend to stress the
psycho-social aspects of grief and bereavement, however, ignoring
the religious elements inherent to the subject. This collection is
the first to address the teaching of courses on death and dying
from a religious-studies perspective.
The book is divided into seven sections. The hope is that this
volume will not only assist teachers in religious studies
departments to prepare to teach unfamiliar and emotionally charged
material, but also help to unify a field that is now widely
scattered across several disciplines.
Bardwell L. Smith offers a fresh perspective on mizuko kuyo, the
Japanese ceremony performed to bring solace to those who have
experienced miscarriage, stillbirth, or abortion. Showing how old
and new forms of myth, symbol, doctrine, praxis, and organization
combine and overlap in contemporary mizuko kuyo, Smith provides
critical insight from many angles: the sociology of the family, the
power of the medical profession, the economics of temples, the
import of ancestral connections, the need for healing in both
private and communal ways and, perhaps above all, the place of
women in modern Japanese religion. At the heart of Smith's research
is the issue of how human beings experience the death of a life
that has been and remains precious to them. While universal, these
losses are also personal and unique. The role of society in helping
people to heal from these experiences varies widely and has changed
enormously in recent decades. In examples of grieving for these
kinds of losses one finds narratives not only of deep sorrow but of
remarkable dignity.
Establishing a new set of international perspectives from around
the world on and experiences of death, disposition and remembrance
in urban environments, this book brings deathscapes - material,
embodied and emotional places associated with dying and death - to
life. It pushes the boundaries of established empirical and
conceptual understandings of death in urban spaces through
anthropological, geographical and ethnographic insights. Chapters
reveal how urban deathscapes are experienced, used, managed and
described in specific locales in varied settings; how their norms
and values intersect and at times conflict with the norms of
dominant and assumed practices; and how they are influenced by the
dynamic practices, politics and demographics typical of urban
spaces. Case studies from across Africa, Asia, Europe and North and
South America highlight the differences between deathscapes, but
also show their clear commonality in being as much a part of the
world of the living as they are of the dead. With a people- and
space-centred approach, this book will be an interesting read for
human geography, death studies and urban studies scholars, as well
as social and cultural anthropologists and sociologists. Its
international and interdisciplinary nature will also make this a
beneficial book for planning and landscape architecture, religious
studies and courses on death practices.
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