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Books > Social sciences > Sociology, social studies > Social institutions > Death & dying
A compelling and agonising story.
Durban-based journalist Glynis Horning and her husband Chris woke up one Sunday morning almost two years ago to the devastating discovery of their 25-year-old son Spencer dead in his bed. Horning’s story chronicles a parent’s worst nightmare. Establishing that his death was suicide, Horning embarks on a journey of anguished self-recrimination.
Should she not have seen the signs? Could she somehow have prevented it? As she struggles with Spencer’s decision to end his life, she has to learn to understand what the depths of depression entail. We feel Horning’s pain, and learn to understand and feel Spencer’s pain, at a visceral level.
Surrounded by loving family and friends, Horning pieces together the puzzle of Spencer’s death, writing with a brutal and heart-searing intensity of grief and loss, but also of the joys of celebrating her son’s life. This book will touch anyone who has experienced a mental health journey directly or indirectly, or a searing loss. Her wisdom and insight are extraordinary.
It’s midsummer in Wyoming and Alexandra Fuller is barely hanging on.
Grieving her father and pining for her home country of Zimbabwe,
reeling from a midlife breakup, freshly sober and piecing her way
uncertainly through a volatile new relationship with a younger woman,
Alexandra vows to get herself back on even keel.
And then – suddenly and incomprehensibly – her son Fi, at twenty-one
years old, dies in his sleep.
No stranger to loss – young siblings, a parent, a home country –
Alexandra is nonetheless levelled. At the same time, she is painfully
aware that she cannot succumb and abandon her two surviving daughters
as her mother before her had done. From a sheep wagon deep in the
mountains of Wyoming to a grief sanctuary in New Mexico to a silent
meditation retreat in Alberta, Canada, Alexandra journeys up and down
the spine of the Rocky Mountains in an attempt to find how to grieve
herself whole. There is no answer, and there are countless answers – in
poetry, in rituals and routines, in nature and in the indigenous wisdom
she absorbed as a child in Zimbabwe. By turns disarming, devastating
and unexpectedly, blessedly funny, Alexandra recounts the wild medicine
of painstakingly grieving a child in a culture that has no instructions
for it.
Everyone in the neighborhood was getting ready for the party.
Everyone knew somebody on the guest list. . . .
This was the day the dead returned.
There's a party tonight, but Cala doesn't want to go. While her family
prepares for the celebration, Cala grieves her grandfather and tries to
pretend she's not afraid.
But when she is separated from her family at the cemetery, Cala
encounters four mysterious riders who will show her she is actually
quite brave after all.
Brimming with magic and humor, The Invisible Parade is the first
picture-book collaboration between award-winner John Picacio and New
York Times bestselling Leigh Bardugo. Set on the night of Día de
Muertos, Cala's story is one of love, loss, and the courage that can be
found in unexpected places.
A basic motivation for social and cultural life is the problem of
death. By analysing the experiences of dying and bereaved people,
as well as institutional responses to death, Clive Seale shows its
importance for understanding the place of embodiment in social
life. He draws on a comprehensive review of sociological,
anthropological and historical studies, including his own research,
to demonstrate the great variability that exists in human social
constructions for managing mortality. Far from living in a 'death
denying' society, dying and bereaved people in contemporary culture
are often able to assert membership of an imagined community,
through the narrative reconstruction of personal biography, drawing
on a variety of cultural scripts emanating from medicine,
psychology, the media and other sources. These insights are used to
argue that the maintenance of the human social bond in the face of
death is a continual resurrective practice, permeating everyday
life.
The academic study of death rose to prominence during the 1960s.
Courses on some aspect of death and dying can now be found at most
institutions of higher learning. These courses tend to stress the
psycho-social aspects of grief and bereavement, however, ignoring
the religious elements inherent to the subject. This collection is
the first to address the teaching of courses on death and dying
from a religious-studies perspective.
The book is divided into seven sections. The hope is that this
volume will not only assist teachers in religious studies
departments to prepare to teach unfamiliar and emotionally charged
material, but also help to unify a field that is now widely
scattered across several disciplines.
Establishing a new set of international perspectives from around
the world on and experiences of death, disposition and remembrance
in urban environments, this book brings deathscapes - material,
embodied and emotional places associated with dying and death - to
life. It pushes the boundaries of established empirical and
conceptual understandings of death in urban spaces through
anthropological, geographical and ethnographic insights. Chapters
reveal how urban deathscapes are experienced, used, managed and
described in specific locales in varied settings; how their norms
and values intersect and at times conflict with the norms of
dominant and assumed practices; and how they are influenced by the
dynamic practices, politics and demographics typical of urban
spaces. Case studies from across Africa, Asia, Europe and North and
South America highlight the differences between deathscapes, but
also show their clear commonality in being as much a part of the
world of the living as they are of the dead. With a people- and
space-centred approach, this book will be an interesting read for
human geography, death studies and urban studies scholars, as well
as social and cultural anthropologists and sociologists. Its
international and interdisciplinary nature will also make this a
beneficial book for planning and landscape architecture, religious
studies and courses on death practices.
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