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Books > Social sciences > Sociology, social studies > Social institutions > Death & dying
A compelling and agonising story.
Durban-based journalist Glynis Horning and her husband Chris woke up one Sunday morning almost two years ago to the devastating discovery of their 25-year-old son Spencer dead in his bed. Horning’s story chronicles a parent’s worst nightmare. Establishing that his death was suicide, Horning embarks on a journey of anguished self-recrimination.
Should she not have seen the signs? Could she somehow have prevented it? As she struggles with Spencer’s decision to end his life, she has to learn to understand what the depths of depression entail. We feel Horning’s pain, and learn to understand and feel Spencer’s pain, at a visceral level.
Surrounded by loving family and friends, Horning pieces together the puzzle of Spencer’s death, writing with a brutal and heart-searing intensity of grief and loss, but also of the joys of celebrating her son’s life. This book will touch anyone who has experienced a mental health journey directly or indirectly, or a searing loss. Her wisdom and insight are extraordinary.
It’s midsummer in Wyoming and Alexandra Fuller is barely hanging on.
Grieving her father and pining for her home country of Zimbabwe,
reeling from a midlife breakup, freshly sober and piecing her way
uncertainly through a volatile new relationship with a younger woman,
Alexandra vows to get herself back on even keel.
And then – suddenly and incomprehensibly – her son Fi, at twenty-one
years old, dies in his sleep.
No stranger to loss – young siblings, a parent, a home country –
Alexandra is nonetheless levelled. At the same time, she is painfully
aware that she cannot succumb and abandon her two surviving daughters
as her mother before her had done. From a sheep wagon deep in the
mountains of Wyoming to a grief sanctuary in New Mexico to a silent
meditation retreat in Alberta, Canada, Alexandra journeys up and down
the spine of the Rocky Mountains in an attempt to find how to grieve
herself whole. There is no answer, and there are countless answers – in
poetry, in rituals and routines, in nature and in the indigenous wisdom
she absorbed as a child in Zimbabwe. By turns disarming, devastating
and unexpectedly, blessedly funny, Alexandra recounts the wild medicine
of painstakingly grieving a child in a culture that has no instructions
for it.
A hair-raising account about the ins and outs of practising
forensic pathology in Africa As a medical detective of the modern
world, forensic pathologist Ryan Blumenthal's chief goal is to
bring perpetrators to justice. He has performed thousands of
autopsies, which have helped bring numerous criminals to book. In
Autopsy he covers the hard lessons learnt as a rookie pathologist,
as well as some of the most unusual cases he's encountered. During
his career, for example, he has dealt with high-profile deaths,
mass disasters, death by lightning and people killed by African
wildlife. Blumenthal takes the reader behind the scenes at the
mortuary, describing a typical autopsy and the instruments of the
trade. He also shares a few trade secrets, like how to establish
when a suicide is more likely to be a homicide. Even though they
cannot speak, the dead have a lot to say - and Blumenthal is there
to listen.
Establishing a new set of international perspectives from around
the world on and experiences of death, disposition and remembrance
in urban environments, this book brings deathscapes - material,
embodied and emotional places associated with dying and death - to
life. It pushes the boundaries of established empirical and
conceptual understandings of death in urban spaces through
anthropological, geographical and ethnographic insights. Chapters
reveal how urban deathscapes are experienced, used, managed and
described in specific locales in varied settings; how their norms
and values intersect and at times conflict with the norms of
dominant and assumed practices; and how they are influenced by the
dynamic practices, politics and demographics typical of urban
spaces. Case studies from across Africa, Asia, Europe and North and
South America highlight the differences between deathscapes, but
also show their clear commonality in being as much a part of the
world of the living as they are of the dead. With a people- and
space-centred approach, this book will be an interesting read for
human geography, death studies and urban studies scholars, as well
as social and cultural anthropologists and sociologists. Its
international and interdisciplinary nature will also make this a
beneficial book for planning and landscape architecture, religious
studies and courses on death practices.
* PRE-ORDER YOUR COPY TODAY * The compelling and moving memoir of
forensic psychiatrist Dr Duncan Harding
Benevolent Orders, The Sons of Ham, Prince Hall Freemasonry-these
and other African American lodges created a social safety net for
members across Tennessee. During their heyday between 1865 and
1930, these groups provided members numerous perks, such as sick
benefits and assurance of a proper burial, opportunities for
socialization and leadership, and an opportunity to work with local
churches and schools to create better communities. Many of these
groups gradually faded from existence, but left an enduring legacy
in the form of the cemeteries these lodges left behind. These Black
cemeteries dot the Tennessee landscape, but few know their history
or the societies of care they represent. To Care for the Sick and
Bury the Dead is the first book-length look at these cemeteries and
the lodges that fostered them. This book is a must-have for
genealogists, historians, and family members of the people buried
in these cemeteries.
Karl Marx is buried in London, John Keats in Rome and Leon Trotsky
in Mexico. Pere Lachaise Cemetery in Paris is today known for the
graves of Jim Morrison, Victor Hugo and Oscar Wilde, but when it
opened in the early 19th century the owners felt that they needed
some star names to make it a desired burial site - and so they had
Moliere's body transferred there. Arranged thematically into 75
entries, Graves of the Great and Famous tours the world exploring
the resting places of leading artists, thinkers, scientists,
sportspeople, revolutionaries, politicians and pioneers. Some, such
as communist leaders Ho Chi Minh and Vladimir Lenin, are interred
in great mausoleums, where they are visited by millions each year;
others are buried in little-known country graveyards. From lives
cut short through assassinations - Martin Luther King and Abraham
Lincoln - to those who suffered terrible accidents (Princess
Diana), from mobsters such as Benjamin 'Bugsy' Siegel and John
Gotti to Napoleon and his mistress Marie Walewska, from Nelson
Mandela to Eva Peron, Graceland to Highgate Cemetery, the book
provides a guide to some of the most famous and unusual graves of
the great and the good. Featuring 150 photographs of graves,
cemeteries, graveyards and mausoleums, Graves of the Great and
Famous is a compact guide to the final resting place of the famous
- and infamous.
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