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Even under the best circumstances, it takes time and intention to
disciple grandchildren and pass on a legacy of faith. So how much
harder is the assignment in a family experiencing fractures such as
divorce, estrangement, or prodigals? How are grandparents to reach
grandchildren for Christ when there are such barriers? In
Overcoming Grandparenting Barriers, Larry Fowler, founder of the
Legacy Coalition, offers a helpful guide to influencing
grandchildren's spiritual lives even in the most discouraging and
hurtful situations, such as when * an adult child is not following
the Lord * grandchildren are not being raised by the adult child
and access to them is limited * grandparents are prohibited from
addressing spiritual matters when they visit their grandchildren
Overcoming Grandparenting Barriers provides guidance and strategies
along with encouragement for grandparents to persevere--to
understand that they are not alone and that their role is too
crucial to give up on reaching the next generation for Christ.
The PERFECT GIFT for that special grandparent you know so well and
love with all your heart but whom you haven't got a clue what to
get her for a present. Not a bloody clue.
_______________________________________ Grandparents are versatile.
They are babysitters, weather forecasters, mother's helpers, sweet
collectors, child-minders, knitwear suppliers, au pairs, curators
of G-plan furniture and providers of day-care for the under
twelves. Retirement is an exhausting job.
_______________________________________ Grandparents spend a lot of
time in the garden making everything tidy and pretty, so they have
something tidy and pretty to look at while they are doing the
gardening _______________________________________ This delightful
book is part of the Ladybird series specially planned to help
grown-ups with the world about them. The large clear script, the
careful choice of words, the frequent repetition and the thoughtful
matching of text with pictures all enable grown-ups to think they
have taught themselves to cope. Featuring original Ladybird artwork
alongside brilliantly funny, brand new text. Other titles in the
Ladybirds for Grown Ups series: How it Works: The Student How it
Works: The Cat How it Works: The Dog The Ladybird Book of the
Meeting The Ladybird Book of Red Tape The Ladybird Book of the
People Next Door The Ladybird Book of the Sickie The Ladybird Book
of the Zombie Apocalypse How it Works: The Husband How it Works:
The Wife How it Works: The Mum How it Works: The Dad The Ladybird
Book of the Mid-Life Crisis The Ladybird Book of the Hangover The
Ladybird Book of Mindfulness The Ladybird Book of the Shed The
Ladybird Book of Dating The Ladybird Book of the Hipster
An exploration of the darker side of maternal behavior drawn
from scientific research, psychology, and the real-life experiences
of adult daughters, Mean Mothers sheds light on one of the last
cultural taboos: what happens when a woman doesn't or can't love
her daughter.
Mean Mothers reveals the multigenerational thread that often
runs through these stories--many unloving mothers are the daughters
of unloving or hypercritical women--and explores what happens to a
daughter's sense of self and to her relationships when her mother
is emotionally absent or even cruel. But Mean Mothers is also a
narrative of hope, recounting how daughters can get past the legacy
of hurt to become whole within and to become loving mothers to the
next generation of daughters. The personal stories of unloved
daughters and sons and those of the author herself, are both
unflinching and moving, and bring this most difficult of subjects
to life.
Mean Mothers isn't just a book for daughters who've had
difficult or impossible relationships with their mothers. By
exposing the myths of motherhood that prevent us from talking about
the women for whom mothering a daughter is fraught with
ambivalence, tension, or even jealousy, Mean Mothers also casts a
different light on the extraordinary influence mothers have over
their female children as well as the psychological complexity and
emotional depth of the mother-daughter relationship.
THE SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER 'What an extraordinary story... very
moving indeed' Vanessa Feltz, Radio 2 The astonishing true story of
a daughter's search for her own past and the desperate mother who
gave her up. Phyllis Whitsell began the search for her birth mother
as a young woman, and although it was many years before she finally
met her, their lives had crossed on the journey without their
knowledge. This is a daughter's personal account of the remarkable
relationship that grew from abandonment into love, understanding
and selfless care. 'I lit the candle and prayed for my birth
mother, asking God to take care of her. Even at such a young age, I
found it difficult to understand, but I always feared that she was
in danger and needed my prayers. 'It was the only thing at the time
that I could do for her. I feared that she might be coming to some
harm and that she was not happy, but I was helpless and had nobody
to talk to about my feelings.' Phyllis' story continues with A Song
for Bridget - also available now.
The best dads are like the best coaches: they motivate, support,
mentor, encourage, and guide. In this perfect-for-gifting book,
parenting expert and author of Dad's Playbook (almost 100,000
copies sold) Tom Limbert gathers inspiration from some of the
biggest names in sports about the lessons they learned from their
dads in order to triumph and thrive. Reflections from the likes of
Stephen Curry, Natalie Coughlin, Tom Brady, and others are gathered
into chapters about values that are powerful on and off the field,
such as discipline, enthusiasm, and commitment. Packaged as a
handsome hardcover, this motivating and entertaining book is the
perfect way to show any father or father-to-be that they are the
world's Most Valuable Dad.
A Woman's Story is Annie Ernaux's "deeply affecting account of
mothers and daughters, youth and age, and dreams and reality"
(Kirkus Reviews). Upon her mother's death from Alzheimer's, Ernaux
embarks on a daunting journey back through time, as she seeks to
"capture the real woman, the one who existed independently from me,
born on the outskirts of a small Normandy town, and who died in the
geriatric ward of a hospital in the suburbs of Paris." She explores
the bond between mother and daughter, tenuous and unshakable at
once, the alienating worlds that separate them, and the inescapable
truth that we must lose the ones we love. In this quietly powerful
tribute, Ernaux attempts to do her mother the greatest justice she
can: to portray her as the individual she was. She writes, "I
believe I am writing about my mother because it is my turn to bring
her into the world."
This highly original book argues for increased recognition of
pregnancy, birthing and childrearing as social activities demanding
simultaneously physical, intellectual, emotional and moral work
from those who undertake them. Amy Mullin considers both parenting
and paid childcare, and examines the impact of disability on this
work. The first chapters contest misconceptions about pregnancy and
birth such as the idea that pregnancy is only valued for its end
result, and not also for the process. Following chapters focus on
childcare provided in different circumstances and on the needs of
both providers and receivers of care. The book challenges the
assumption that isolated self-sacrifice should be the norm in
either pregnancy or childcare. Instead reproductive labor requires
greater social support. Written from the perspective of a feminist
philosopher, the book draws on the work of, and seeks to increase
dialogue between, philosophers and childcare professionals,
disability theorists, nurses and sociologists.
The perfect gift for your grandfather (ideal for Father's Day and
birthday giving), this beautiful keepsake memory book is designed
to capture and preserve grandfather's unique memories, from the
days of his own childhood through the precious moments he spends
with his grandchild. Includes digital media prompts as well, for
the modern grandpa! Gorgeously designed, this charming guided
journal offers a place to chronicle grandfather's own life story,
keep a living record of his experiences, and record his hopes and
dreams for his grandchild. Each page includes thoughtful prompts to
inspire grandpa to record his most meaningful memories, plus plenty
of space for including memorabilia and photographs.
This is a collection of stories about Mennonite fathers by their
daughters. Written by well-known and first-time writers, these
stories illuminate the often close and sometimes troubling
relationships that exist between one of humanity's most precious
bonds. From battles over relationships and sexuality, to debates
over chores and church, these stories also hold the shared
intimacies of driving side by side with dad, laughing, and headed
down the road.
Most of us, at some time in our lives, must make decisions for our
Parents. Sometimes they are difficult and sometimes they have to be
done quickly. Each family member is brought in to help and
sometimes it gets a little crazy. Sometimes we just need advice or
a shoulder to cry on. Sometimes it just works out.
This powerful and unusual story contrasts The Bicknells, a wealthy
and influential family in Rosedale, Toronto, Ontario, into which I
was born out of wedlock, with a farm couple from near Brockville,
Ontario who adopted me in 1935. At the age of sixteen I began to
feel unsettled and lost. Eighteen years later I finally acted on
that feeling and began the search for my lost parents. Using
documents I found in a box in the closet of my adoptive mother
after her death, I have retrieved the moment when a sleek limousine
emerged from the dust of a gravel road delivering me to my new
parents. The book follows that limousine back as I searched for my
birth mother, taking me into mystery, intrigue and cover-up by the
legal system but bringing me finally to a supper dance in the
Crystal Ballroom of the historic King Edward Hotel in Toronto,
where by chance, my birth parents were reunited. The memoir is a
story of loss and recovery but it is also a story of love, strength
and redemption
My Beautiful Daughter is an inspirational true story about a
daughters fight against drug addiction through the eyes of her
mother. Louise goes from a happy contented child, to a self
destructive drug addict. The impact that it would have on her
family especially her parents is key to it all. The story starts
where the mother is looking back over the years to when it began,
and how she coped with trying to help her daughter, but at the same
time having to come to terms with the fact that she may lose her.
It covers the constant battle over the lack of help and advice for
parents from the professionals. Whilst dealing with her grief on a
daily basis, she struggles to understand why this is happening.
Then she has to come to terms with the revelation that a terrible
event caused her beautiful daughter to take heroin in the first
place, leaving the whole family distraught. Finally as her daughter
battles to stay clean, a serious life threatening health problem is
diagnosed which is one of the consequences of her years of drug
abuse. Every time her mother thinks that its nearly over, another
challenge emerges and another fight begins. This is a very
emotionally charged account of pure desperation from her parents,
determined to get back the daughter they feel is lost to them,
never giving up hope and at times barely keeping sane, and while
their daughter fights her addiction they have to face up to the
trauma that led to her drug abuse.
There's a special bond between grandparents and their
grandchildren, and an unconditional love that is truly special.
Whether an experienced grandparent, or a grandparent-to-be, you'll
enjoy these 101 heartwarming, amusing and inspirational stories.
The moment a grandchild is born, a grandparent is born too. This
collection is full of stories by grandparents about being a
grandparent, and grandchildren about their grandparents. Personal
stories about legacies and traditions, a grandparent's wisdom and
lessons from grandchildren as well as the joys and challenges of
grandparenting will touch your heart and tickle your funny bone.
Misty Blue takes her childhood trauma and grabs you with its
intensity. She skillfully and effortlessly invites you to travel
with her as she explores her toxic environment and brings to light
the horrors that so many innocent children could be experiencing
this very moment She unravels the unsolved mystery of the
HOFFA-KENNEDY killings and most of all, she sets the story straight
without reservation She uses her southern writing style leaving you
no doubt that her story is the truth. Misty Blue was born into an
alcoholic emotionally unavailable family and is brutally honest
about the life threatening situations she experienced on a daily
basis. She has survived situations the rest of us only hear and
read about . From a father that was a criminal and psychological
abuser who parented with fear to a mother who is chronically
depressed and trapped; she is proof you can survive a sad hopeless
childhood without love. She has seen Hell and lived to tell about
it She is proof that God's is our unconditional loving parent and
that it is humans and evil that create suffering.
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