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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Family & other relationships > Intergenerational relationships
*** 'An honest and thoughtful memoir. Moving but, ultimately, full
of hope. Beautiful.' KATE MOSSE 'Superb. Love & Care is a book
about the unbreakable bonds of family, the cruelty of passing time
and a love that never dies.' TONY PARSONS 'A beautiful, intimate
story of love and understanding - candid and funny. This is a
lyrical memoir of hope and forgiveness.' RAYNOR WINN, author of The
Salt Path 'He's in hospital again . . . and he's not eating.
Perhaps you should think about coming back to the UK,' Brenda said.
'I don't think your dad will be going home again.' Shaun's mother
is in a care home with Parkinson's Dementia and now his father is
dying. He should go back. And yet this was supposed to be his time.
Shaun has relocated to a new country to make a fresh start. His two
daughters are grown-up. He has moved on from the divorce. He is
single and he is free and still hoping to find love again. Will
this mean giving up on his own life? 'A heart-warming,
heart-wrenching, and beautifully humane account of loving and
caring.' NICCI GERRARD, novelist and author of What Dementia
Teaches Us About Love 'An insightful tale of care . . . this book
needed to be written.' JO GOOD, BBC Radio London 'A vital subject,
a really strong voice and, hurrah, humour makes this absorbing
reading.' CAROLINE RAPHAEL, Radio 4's Book at Bedtime 'An
eye-opening - and at times jaw dropping - account that will make
you weep with its tenderness and compassion . . . A highly readable
tale of redemption and a celebration of love's many hues.' PAUL
BLEZARD, Love Reading 'Moving' DAILY MAIL
Positive advice for divorced dads and their families
The country's leading authority on fathers' rights Jeffery M.
Leving presents a definitive how-to resource for divorced dads of
any age, background, and marriage history. Leving offers targeted
guidance and suggests techniques for staying connected with
children and dealing with ex-wives--and in some cases a new
girlfriend or the wife's new boyfriend--during the divorce and
afterwards. This upbeat book offers good news for divorced dads and
counters many of the myths that paint divorcing fathers as
alienated, irresponsible, or absent.Includes advice for overcoming
limited access to children with cooperative responses and legal
remedies if necessaryReveals how to avoid depression and feelings
of guilt that can cause a divorced dad to give up and lose
connection with his kidsOffers ideas for responding to an ex-wife's
remarriage, moving, unfounded accusations, and other common
issuesContains guidance for engaging in new relationships and
possibly remarriage
"How to Be a Good Divorced Dad" is practical and down-to-earth
and offers dozens of real life examples of dads who have discovered
the importance of staying involved in their children's lives.
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'Raw, elemental and beautiful.' Telegraph 'This is quite simply the
best book about motherhood I have ever read.' - Eleanor Mills in
the Sunday Times Mother to five children, Clover Stroud has
navigated family life across two decades, both losing and finding
herself. In her touching, provocative and profoundly insightful
book, she captures a sense of what motherhood really feels like -
how intense, sensuous, joyful, boring, profound and dark it can be.
My Wild and Sleepless Nights examines what it means to be a mother,
and reveals with unflinching honesty the many conflicting emotions
that this entails: the joy and the wonder, the loneliness and
despair. MORE PRAISE FOR CLOVER STROUD: 'Clover's expertise is
writing about family life in a way that feels both new and entirely
familiar' - Pandora Sykes 'As tender, blazing, funny and
unflinching as the love it describes. I want to give this
triumphant book to every mother I know' - Rachel Joyce 'Stroud is
always willing to rip open her very soul in order to reveal the
truth about her life - and every time a woman tells the truth like
this, it sets another woman free' - Elizabeth Gilbert 'I read in
one greedy gulp and am still slightly reeling. Extraordinary
writing... For mothers and those even vaguely interested in family
dynamics it is fascinating' - Alexandra Heminsley Charting the
course of one year, the first in her youngest child's life, Clover
searches for answers to questions that many of us would be too
afraid to admit to - not only about motherhood, but also about
female sexuality and identity. Her story will speak to all mothers,
and anyone about to embark on that journey.
Bird-Bent Grass chronicles an extraordinary mother-daughter
relationship that spans distance, time, and, eventually,
debilitating illness. Personal, familial, and political narratives
unfold through the letters that Geeske Venema-de Jong and her
daughter Kathleen exchanged during the late 1980s and through their
weekly conversations, which started after Geeske was diagnosed with
Alzheimer's disease twenty years later. In 1986, Kathleen accepted
a three-year teaching assignment in Uganda, after a devastating
civil war, and Geeske promised to be her daughter's most faithful
correspondent. The two women exchanged more than two hundred
letters that reflected their lively interest in literature,
theology, and politics, and explored ideas about identity,
belonging, and home in the context of cross-cultural challenges.
Two decades later, with Geeske increasingly beset by Alzheimer's
disease, Kathleen returned to the letters, where she rediscovered
the evocative image of a tiny, bright meadow bird perched
precariously on a blade of elephant grass. That image - of
simultaneous tension, fragility, power, and resilience - sustained
her over the years that she used the letters as memory prompts in a
larger strategy to keep her intellectually gifted mother alive.
Deftly woven of excerpts from their correspondence, conversations,
journal entries, and email updates, Bird-Bent Grass is a complex
and moving exploration of memory, illness, and immigration;
friendship, conflict, resilience, and forgiveness; cross-cultural
communication, the ethics of international development, and
letter-writing as a technology of intimacy. Throughout, it reflects
on the imperative and fleeting business of being alive and loving
others while they're ours to hold.
"If there is a doyenne of the parenting memoir, it would be Anne
Lamott."--"Time "
In "Some Assembly Required," Anne Lamott enters a new and
unexpected chapter in her own life: grandmotherhood. Stunned to
learn that her son, Sam, is about to become a father at nineteen,
Lamott begins a journal about the first year of her grandson Jax's
life. In careful and often hilarious detail, Lamott and Sam--about
whom she first wrote so movingly in "Operating
Instructions"--struggle to balance their changing roles. By turns
poignant and funny, honest and touching, "Some Assembly Required
"is the true story of how the birth of a baby changes a family--as
this book will change everyone who reads it.
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