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Jeremy Ivester is a transgender man. Thirty years ago, his parents
welcomed him into the world as what they thought was their
daughter. As a child, he preferred the toys and games our society
views as masculine. He kept his hair short and wore boys' clothing.
They called him a tomboy. That's what he called himself. By high
school, when he showed no interest in flirting, his parents thought
he might be lesbian. At twenty, he wondered if he was asexual. At
twenty-three, he surgically removed his breasts. A year later, he
began taking the hormones that would lower his voice and give him a
beard-and he announced his new name and pronouns. Never a Girl,
Always a Boy is Jeremy's journey from childhood through coming out
as transgender and eventually emerging as an advocate for the
transgender community. This is not only Jeremy's story but also
that of his family, told from multiple perspectives-those of the
siblings who struggled to understand the brother they once saw as a
sister, and of the parents who ultimately joined him in the battle
against discrimination. This is a story of acceptance in a world
not quite ready to accept.
This interactive follow-up to the beloved and bestselling Just
Between Us: Mother & Daughter journal is packed with new ways
to share and get creative together. With sensitivity and
thoughtfulness, this hands-on keepsake journal provides the space
and encouragement for mother-daughter conversations. Co-written by
a real-life mother-daughter team, Meredith and Sofie Jacobs, and
featuring inspirational mantras, notecards, stickers, stencils, and
certificates of appreciation alongside conversation-sparking
prompts, this shared journal has all the essentials to cultivate
shared respect and deep understanding in one of life's most
important relationships. As mothers and daughters, how much do we
share with each other, and how might our lives be enriched if we
dared to be more open? This eye-catching journal and keepsake is an
ideal tool for initiating difficult and important conversations
between mothers and their daughters. Perfect for moms and daughters
who are already close, it is also a shared resource for any
mother-daughter pair looking to deepen their relationship. *
BESTSELLING JOURNAL SERIES: First published over 10 years ago, Just
Between Us: Mother & Daughter continues to be a bestseller! Now
remade with new prompts, new art, and new interactive content, this
journal is perfect for long-time fans and new journalers alike. *
MOTHER-DAUGHTER AUTHOR DUO: Meredith and Sofie Jacobs, the
mother-daughter co-authors, started journaling together when Sofie
was just nine years old. Today, they're still close, completing one
another's sentences as they collaborate on special projects like
this one! But they've also been in your shoes: they know both the
joys and challenges of this most important relationship because
they've lived it. * INTERACTIVE CONTENT: Playful interactive
content like sticker sheets, cardstock notecards, stencils,
mantras, and certificates of appreciation add a whole new level of
self-expression and communication. The journal includes writing
prompts to get the conversation started and keep it going, as well
as drawing activities to draw you out and keep it fun. * FOR THE
RELUCTANT JOURNALER: Perfect for a reluctant reader, writer, and
journaler, it's full of drawing prompts and other interactive
activities that don't require pages of writing which can sometimes
feel like homework. Instead, engage with highly visual and
interactive content, and play! * SOCIO-EMOTIONAL LEARNING: This
journal is filled with opportunities for socio-emotional learning,
from prompts asking users to reflect on what matters to them and
how they feel to stickers that reflect their daily emotions. In
addition, it's filled with opportunities for gifting-from notecards
to certificates to mantras-inviting users to listen to one another,
and encourage one another. * TIMELY: In a new age of feminism and
#MeToo, mothers and daughters are eager to share more and uplift
one another. This journal will facilitate those necessary
conversations in fun, funny, and heartwarming ways by offering a
safe space to be honest. Writing removes a layer of awkwardness by
providing some distance, and will encourage vulnerability and
truthfulness in those more reluctant to share. * PERFECT GIFT:
Perfect for Mother's Day gifting, as well as everyday gestures of
appreciation and togetherness. PERFECT FOR: * Mothers and daughters
* Daughters looking for the perfect Mother's Day gift or everyday
gift * Mothers looking to build or maintain the bond they have with
their daughter * Fans of the original journal who are eager for new
content * Gift givers looking for a high-value interactive journal
* Anyone looking to promote socio-emotional learning
Find The Love, Patience, and Insight to Take Your Life Back What
does it look and feel like to be a Mother of an Addict? How does a
Mother's unconditional love help her child's addiction? Sandy
Sherman is a Mother of 2 addicts - a Daughter and a Son. For 5
years she felt her life was spiraling down into a pit of despair,
fear, helplessness, grief that was consuming her life. She felt
alone and humiliated and the dreams she had for her kids were all
gone as she witnessed their addictions take over their bodies and
souls. Sandy learned to live her life by deciding to take her life
back. Through educating herself about the disease of addiction by
reading, talking with other Mom's, helping to counsel others and
sharing her story, she has written Stronger in hopes of inspiring
Mom's to take action.
The perfect Mother's Day gift, birthday gift for mom from her adult
daughter, or sweet treasure for a daughter of any age! Show Mom
your appreciation with this classic mom book from New York Times
bestselling author Greg Lang. Why a Daughter Needs a Mom has been
bringing together mothers and daughters for years, and makes the
perfect gift for moms everywhere. As a girl's most trusted friend,
her mom is the one who understands best. She's been there through
it all: the triumph and heartache, the skinned knees and the broken
hearts. A Daughter Needs a Mom... To soothe the pain of a broken
heart To nurture her imagination To teach her that class never goes
out of style To teach her to make thankfulness a habit To give her
the courage to stand up for herselfWhy A Daughter Needs a Mom
celebrates 100 reasons why Mom's steadfast love is the guiding
light her daughter needs to become the wonderful woman she's meant
to be. For new moms with their first daughter, mothers-to-be, or
for any mom and daughter out there, celebrate how a mother helps
her girl grow.
Dear Nanny (sketch design) is an award-winning journal filled with
over 60 fun and inspiring questions carefully created to inspire
any grandmother to tell her story - probably one of the most
valuable gifts you will ever buy. Everyone has stories to share
about their own amazing life and it is so important to find ways to
capture and treasure them. Dear Nanny contains 60 carefully
designed questions to ask her about her life. Ask her to complete
it carefully, adding photos and memorabilia along the way. Find out
how things have changed throughout her life, what things did she do
as a child that are different from today. What were her own parents
really like and what adventures has she had in her life. Discover
what your own mum or dad was like when they were young! What about
your own relationship with your grandmother, what are her favourite
memories of the times you have spent together and is there any
advice she would like to give you? When you get her completed
journal returned to you, this will be one of the most emotional
presents you have ever received. A great gift for Mother's Day,
Grandparent's Day, her birthday, an anniversary, Christmas or just
because you care ...
This story is a true, revealing, and sometimes shocking insight
into the little known world of educational test publishing and the
gamble that led the flamboyant Ethel Clark to become one of the
industry's major players. How she grew the business (once known as
California Test Bureau, now CTB/McGraw-Hill) and dealt with the
IRS, the unions, the U.S. Army, and her scholarly husband, Willis,
was far from traditional, and her personal life was often
scandalous. Ethel's drive to "be somebody," her disregard for
conventional behavior, and her foresight in adopting leading-edge
technology contrasted sharply with the persona of her husband
Willis Clark, Ed.D. Willis was a pioneer in educational testing,
who dedicated his life to the development of many nationally used
educational tests and always emphasized the importance of designing
tests with results to "help the teacher help the child." Ethel and
Willis greatly influenced the growth and prominence of one of
America's significant but controversial industries. An Appendix
highlights test development from conception to the application of
test results.
"The Caregiving Trap" combines the authentic life and professional
experience of Pamela D. Wilson, who provides recommendations for
overwhelmed and frustrated caregivers who themselves may one day
need care. "The Caregiving Trap" includes stories about Pamela's
actual personal and professional experience along with end of
chapter exercises to support caregivers. Common caregiving issues
include: A sense of duty and obligation to provide care that
damages family relationships Emotional and financial challenges
resulting in denial of care needs Ignorance of predictive events
that result in situations of crises or harm Delayed decision making
and lack of planning resulting in limited choices Minimum standards
of care supporting the need for advocacy
So, you're having a teenager? Congratulations/commiserations.
Worried about drugs? We recommend Valium, wine and HRT. Happy you
survived the toddler tantrums? Let us introduce you to the eye
roll, the cold shoulder and the incoherent mumble. On the bright
side, you've reduced your need for Google - your adolescent is now
able to frequently correct, hector and lecture you with their
strong opinion on everything. And if you feel tired, you're not
imagining it. Teen years are like dog years: for every year your
teen ages, you age seven. You need a survival guide for the testing
times ahead. Friends, next-door neighbours and fellow mums of teens
Sarah Macdonald and Cathy Wilcox have lived through it all and
produced this straight-talking, not entirely sarcastic, informative
guide to what for many parents are the most challenging - but
interesting and exciting - years in the role. From A is for
Argumentative, Awkward and Angst, to Z is for Zits and Zzzzzs.
Because having a toddler is a doddle.
Tens of millions of Americans either suffer from Alzheimer's or
care for someone who does. In a single generation, that number will
triple. Jeanne Murray Walker's memoir speaks with compassionate
wisdom about the gifts that wait to be discovered even in the midst
of this grim disease. As Walker cares for her mother during her
heartrending decline, she, her sister and her mother develop closer
ties. The intimate look at illness and death-hardly acknowledged by
our culture-becomes another sort of gift and after spending
thousands of hours with her mother, Jeanne begins to recover her
own early memories and understand her history in a transformative
way. THE GEOGRAPHY OF MEMORY reveals that for all the grim news
about Alzheimer's, it is possible to find joy and hope in the midst
of pain. The story is made up of three braided strands. Two are
narrative: the present story of caring for her mother and the past
story of Walker's childhood memories. The third strand is a series
of pithy Field Notes that anchor the book in practical reflections
on memory. Interwoven are chapters which flash back to Walker's
teenage battles with her feisty, valiant, widowed mother. Only
because Walker slowed down and spent thousands of hours in the
company of her mother during the last decade of her life was she
able to recover these memories. The field notes are short, poetic
pauses in the narrative that address memory: what it is, how it
works, how it can be strengthened, what happens when it goes away.
Geography of Memory is the hopeful story about Alzheimer's that
readers are waiting to hear.
In Changing Course, the best-selling sequel to It Will Never Happen
to Me, Claudia Black extends a helping hand to individuals working
through the painful experience of being raised with addiction in
the family. ""How do you go from living according to the rules -
Don't Talk, Don't Trust, Don't Feel - to a life where you are free
to talk and trust and feel?"" Dr. Black asks. ""You do this through
a process that teaches you to go to the source of those rules, to
question them, and to create new rules of your own,"" she explains.
Using charts, exercises, checklists, and real-life stories of adult
children of alcoholics, Dr. Black guides readers in healing from
the fear, shame, and chaos of addiction.
Economic, technological, social and environmental transformations
are affecting all humanity, and decisions taken today will impact
the quality of life for all future generations. This volume surveys
current commitments to sustainable development, analysing
innovative policies, practices and procedures to promote respect
for intergenerational justice. Expert contributors provide serious
scholarly and practical discussions of the theoretical,
institutional, and legal considerations inherent in
intergenerational justice at local, national, regional and global
scales. They investigate treaty commitments related to
intergenerational equity, explore linkages between regimes, and
offer insights from diverse experiences of national future
generations' institutions. This volume should be read by lawyers,
academics, policy-makers, business and civil society leaders
interested in the economy, society, the environment, sustainable
development, climate change, and other law, policy and practices
impacting all generations.
Though anxiety has risen among young people overall, recent studies
confirm that it has skyrocketed in girls since the turn of the
century - so what's to blame? And how can we help our girls? In the
same engaging, anecdotal style and reassuring tone that won over
thousands of readers of her first book, Untangled, clinical
psychologist Lisa Damour addresses the facts about psychological
pressure before turning to the the many facets of girls' lives
where stress hits them hard: the parental expectations they face at
home, pressures at school, social anxiety among their peers, and on
social media. Guiding us through these areas and more, Damour
provides critical coping strategies and top tips that will help our
daughters to face their fears and find out just how brave they can
be.
Dear Granny (sketch design) is an award-winning journal filled with
over 60 fun and inspiring questions carefully created to inspire
any grandmother to tell her story - probably one of the most
valuable gifts you will ever buy. Everyone has stories to share
about their own amazing life and it is so important to find ways to
capture and treasure them. Dear Granny contains 60 carefully
designed questions to ask her about her life. Ask her to complete
it carefully, adding photos and memorabilia along the way. Find out
how things have changed throughout her life, what things did she do
as a child that are different from today. What were her own parents
really like and what adventures has she had in her life. Discover
what your own mum or dad was like when they were young! What about
your own relationship with your grandmother, what are her favourite
memories of the times you have spent together and is there any
advice she would like to give you? When you get her completed
journal returned to you, this will be one of the most emotional
presents you have ever received. A great gift for Mother's Day,
Grandparent's Day, her birthday, an anniversary, Christmas or just
because you care ...
Broken relationships between adult children and their parents is a
widespread phenomenon. While the parent-child attachment
relationship is of critical importance for the child in the early
years of life, the parent-child relationship continues to be a
source of great importance over the course of the individual's life
span for both the child and the parent. For adults and adult
children who are estranged/alienated from each other, the pain and
dissatisfaction never fully go away. Despite the prevalence of the
problem of ruptured relationships, there are few resources
available for mental health professionals working with this
population. This book provides a tool for clinicians to turn to
when they are working with adult children and their parents seeking
to resolve conflict, improve communication, and enhance their
relationships.
Grandkids really say the most unique things, and you don't want to
forget those sweet moments. From stray observations to hilarious
quips, sweet sentiments, and more, capture their words in this
beautiful journal. With plenty of space for writing, this
best-selling keepsake journal is just the place to create a record
of your grandchild's most memorable sayings to revisit for years to
come.
In a world where our families are more scattered than ever, true
and lasting family connections are hard to forge and even harder to
maintain--and they don't happen by accident. For grandparents who
long to create a close-knit bond in their family, popular speaker
and parenting expert Susan Alexander Yates has a revolutionary new
book. Cousin Camp is an inspiring, practical book that outlines how
grandparents can plan and host a camp. Grandmother to 21
grandchildren, Yates has been creating cousin camps and family
camps for years. Now she passes on what she's learned so you can
help your children and grandchildren develop meaningful, lasting
connections with each other--and with you! Full of specific,
practical ideas and hilarious stories, this book contains
everything you need to know from initial planning (who, when, and
where) to a daily schedule to specific ways to build friendships
among family members. Yates also includes plenty of ideas for
family camps and reunions to draw everyone closer.
Were you raised by a narcissist? This essential guide will show you
how to stop feeling invisible, quiet your critical inner voice, and
start living life on your own terms. Did you grow up with a mother
who was controlling or manipulative? Was she emotionally or
psychologically abusive toward you? Did she make you feel ashamed,
rejected, or "crazy?" Was it all about her, all of the time? When
your mother is a narcissist, it can damage and invalidate your
sense of self, and leave you with lasting anxiety, insecurity,
self-doubt, and a relentlessly critical internal voice. But there
are tools you can use to move forward in your adult life with
confidence. The evidence-based skills in this book will help you
heal the scars of growing up with a self-absorbed and narcissistic
mother. Written by a psychologist and expert in narcissism, Adult
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers offers proven-effective
strategies drawn from cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT),
dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), and acceptance and commitment
therapy (ACT) to help you reduce anxiety, build confidence,
overcome self-criticism, and live the life you deserve. You'll also
find tons of practical tips to help you build healthy, trusting
relationships; stop apologizing for the failures of others; and
start trusting your own good judgment. If you were raised by a
narcissistic mother and are struggling with the lingering effects
of a toxic upbringing, this is the road map you need to heal the
past and thrive in the present and future.
The secrets, lies, and layers of deception about Diane Dewey's
origins were meant for her protection--but eventually, they
imploded. Living with her family in suburban Philadelphia, Diane
had grown up knowing she was born in Stuttgart and adopted at age
one from an orphanage. She'd been told her biological parents were
dead. Then, in 2002, when she was forty-seven years old, Diane got
a letter from Switzerland: her biological father, Otto, wanted to
bring her into his life. With that, her world shifted on its axis.
In the months that ensued, everybody had a different story to tell
about Diane's origins, including Otto when they met in New York
City. She struggled to understand what was at stake with the lies.
Like a private eye, she sifted through competing versions of the
truth only to find that, having traveled throughout Europe and
back, identity is a state of mind. As more information surfaced,
the myths gave way to a certain elusive peace; Diane discovered a
tribe in her mother's family, found a Swiss husband, gained a
voice, and, for the first time, began to trust in the intuition
that had nudged her all along. One-part forensic investigation,
one-part self-discovery, Fixing the Fates is a story about seeing
behind artifice and living one's truth.
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