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Chatting with colleagues at the coffee machine is easy enough.
Talking to a new colleague is a little less easy. Having an
in-depth conversation with someone you do not know, is anything but
easy. And, if that someone is either half your age or twice as old,
it becomes difficult. This game turns that task into a joyful
experience. Lay Your Cards on The Table consists of 60 cards with
conversation starters. Choose questions from 3 different categories
and you will be having great conversations in no time. You can play
this game with 2 people or more. You can start the conversation by
randomly asking or answering some of the questions or, if you need
some more guidance, you can use the game rules. Although in the
end, there really is just one rule: Whatever is discussed on the
table, stays there!
The fatherhood movement has established itself as the most
innovative and effective response to the most daunting crisis
facing American families. Written by the movement's founders, this
indispensable book illustrates the movement's methods for
reconnecting men with their children and restoring the fragile
bonds that hold our society together. This book is the manifesto of
the fatherhood movement, and it provides valuable insights into the
historical, social, economic, and spiritual dimensions of the
'disappearance' of fathers from society. Reflecting the complex
nature of this problem, the contributors include activists,
politicians, public intellectuals, and academics from a broad range
of disciplines. They not only identify the root causes of the
widespread withdrawal of fathers from family life, but also offer
specific remedies on the individual, local, and national levels.
This is a timely and important contribution to a topic of growing
concern to all Americans.
Dear Granny (sketch design) is an award-winning journal filled with
over 60 fun and inspiring questions carefully created to inspire
any grandmother to tell her story - probably one of the most
valuable gifts you will ever buy. Everyone has stories to share
about their own amazing life and it is so important to find ways to
capture and treasure them. Dear Granny contains 60 carefully
designed questions to ask her about her life. Ask her to complete
it carefully, adding photos and memorabilia along the way. Find out
how things have changed throughout her life, what things did she do
as a child that are different from today. What were her own parents
really like and what adventures has she had in her life. Discover
what your own mum or dad was like when they were young! What about
your own relationship with your grandmother, what are her favourite
memories of the times you have spent together and is there any
advice she would like to give you? When you get her completed
journal returned to you, this will be one of the most emotional
presents you have ever received. A great gift for Mother's Day,
Grandparent's Day, her birthday, an anniversary, Christmas or just
because you care ...
"They've always wanted me to be open and honest with them, I've
spent years explaining stuff to them, and sometimes they still
don't understand everything" - Milly, 16 "Your parents aren't
actually hatching a plan to ruin your life..." Jim, 52 From minor
matters (tidiness, homework, sleep) to big and important ones
(relationships, mental ill health, drugs and alcohol), teenagers
and their parents often struggle to talk to each other - and
talking is key if your young person is facing new challenges as
they leave childhood behind. A well-timed conversation, a listening
ear, a non-judgemental and receptive attitude - all these can make
an enormous and lasting impact on how safely and happily a teenager
navigates this crucial stage of their development. Oh, if only it
were that easy. It's not always easy to talk to your teenager, or
for them to talk to you, but it is critical and may even be
life-saving. This book draws extensively on hundreds of
conversations that Fiona Spargo-Mabbs has conducted with young
people and parents in focus groups and school and college
workshops, to give a framework for tackling tough conversations
about difficult things, without judgement or anger. It gives
context and insight, based on the latest neuroscience findings on
the teenage brain and, importantly, it gives hundreds of prompts
and plenty of practical suggestions and strategies to make
communication between parents and young people a two-way street
that builds the foundations for a strong relationship with your
adult child. Covering everything from the small stuff, like curfews
and screen time, to the tough stuff of sex, self-harm and suicide,
this is a warm, compassionate and important book that draws on
lived experience and the lives of young people as they are, not as
we think they might, or should, be.
My Father's Glass Eye is Jeannie's struggle to honour her father,
her larger-than-life hero, but also the man who named her after his
daughter from a previous marriage, a daughter who died. After his
funeral, Jeannie spends the next decade in escalating mania, in and
out of hospitals - increasingly obsessed with the other Jeanne.
Obsession turns to investigation as she plumbs her childhood
awareness of her dead half-sibling and hunts for clues into the
mysterious circumstances of her death. It becomes a puzzle she she
must solve to better understand herself and her father. Jeannie
pulls us into her unravelling with such intimacy that her insanity
becomes palpable, even logical. A brilliant exploration of the
human psyche, My Father's Glass Eye deepens our definitions of
love, sanity, grief, and recovery.
This story is a true, revealing, and sometimes shocking insight
into the little known world of educational test publishing and the
gamble that led the flamboyant Ethel Clark to become one of the
industry's major players. How she grew the business (once known as
California Test Bureau, now CTB/McGraw-Hill) and dealt with the
IRS, the unions, the U.S. Army, and her scholarly husband, Willis,
was far from traditional, and her personal life was often
scandalous. Ethel's drive to "be somebody," her disregard for
conventional behavior, and her foresight in adopting leading-edge
technology contrasted sharply with the persona of her husband
Willis Clark, Ed.D. Willis was a pioneer in educational testing,
who dedicated his life to the development of many nationally used
educational tests and always emphasized the importance of designing
tests with results to "help the teacher help the child." Ethel and
Willis greatly influenced the growth and prominence of one of
America's significant but controversial industries. An Appendix
highlights test development from conception to the application of
test results.
This booklet is Mom's ticket to some much-deserved quality time and
care. The 12 shimmering foil-stamped tickets inside can be redeemed
anytime for the gifts she really wants―ranging from fun family
activities to favors that let her take a load off. Perfect to give one
at a time or as a set, these tickets are a sweet and thoughtful way to
let Mom know she's the best on Mother's Day―or any day.
- GREAT FOR THE MOTHER WHO HAS EVERYTHING: Can't think of the
perfect present for Mom? This ticket booklet is a unique and fun gift,
and also a fabulous way to give experiences―like a family fun activity
or a favor that lets her take a load off―that she's sure to love.
- EASY BUT THOUGHTFUL GIFT: Gifting gold! This is a perfect
last-minute gift for moms, whether for birthdays, Mother's Day, or just
because.
- ADD YOUR OWN PERSONAL TOUCH: All 12 tickets offer space on
the back to add a personal touch, and the booklet includes one blank
ticket that you can fill in with your own gift idea.
- GIFT ALL AT ONCE, OR THROUGHOUT THE YEAR: This booklet for
Mom is full of the gifts she most wants to receive-and they can be
gifted all together or individually one at a time. Either way, she'll
feel like a winner with a Lucky Ticket in hand.
- INCLUDES: booklet with 12 gold foil-stamped perforated
tickets
So, you're having a teenager? Congratulations/commiserations.
Worried about drugs? We recommend Valium, wine and HRT. Happy you
survived the toddler tantrums? Let us introduce you to the eye
roll, the cold shoulder and the incoherent mumble. On the bright
side, you've reduced your need for Google - your adolescent is now
able to frequently correct, hector and lecture you with their
strong opinion on everything. And if you feel tired, you're not
imagining it. Teen years are like dog years: for every year your
teen ages, you age seven. You need a survival guide for the testing
times ahead. Friends, next-door neighbours and fellow mums of teens
Sarah Macdonald and Cathy Wilcox have lived through it all and
produced this straight-talking, not entirely sarcastic, informative
guide to what for many parents are the most challenging - but
interesting and exciting - years in the role. From A is for
Argumentative, Awkward and Angst, to Z is for Zits and Zzzzzs.
Because having a toddler is a doddle.
In Changing Course, the best-selling sequel to It Will Never Happen
to Me, Claudia Black extends a helping hand to individuals working
through the painful experience of being raised with addiction in
the family. ""How do you go from living according to the rules -
Don't Talk, Don't Trust, Don't Feel - to a life where you are free
to talk and trust and feel?"" Dr. Black asks. ""You do this through
a process that teaches you to go to the source of those rules, to
question them, and to create new rules of your own,"" she explains.
Using charts, exercises, checklists, and real-life stories of adult
children of alcoholics, Dr. Black guides readers in healing from
the fear, shame, and chaos of addiction.
Tens of millions of Americans either suffer from Alzheimer's or
care for someone who does. In a single generation, that number will
triple. Jeanne Murray Walker's memoir speaks with compassionate
wisdom about the gifts that wait to be discovered even in the midst
of this grim disease. As Walker cares for her mother during her
heartrending decline, she, her sister and her mother develop closer
ties. The intimate look at illness and death-hardly acknowledged by
our culture-becomes another sort of gift and after spending
thousands of hours with her mother, Jeanne begins to recover her
own early memories and understand her history in a transformative
way. THE GEOGRAPHY OF MEMORY reveals that for all the grim news
about Alzheimer's, it is possible to find joy and hope in the midst
of pain. The story is made up of three braided strands. Two are
narrative: the present story of caring for her mother and the past
story of Walker's childhood memories. The third strand is a series
of pithy Field Notes that anchor the book in practical reflections
on memory. Interwoven are chapters which flash back to Walker's
teenage battles with her feisty, valiant, widowed mother. Only
because Walker slowed down and spent thousands of hours in the
company of her mother during the last decade of her life was she
able to recover these memories. The field notes are short, poetic
pauses in the narrative that address memory: what it is, how it
works, how it can be strengthened, what happens when it goes away.
Geography of Memory is the hopeful story about Alzheimer's that
readers are waiting to hear.
Just one simple thought a day to preserve five years of memories
with your children-finally, a record book that is doable! A Memory
a Day for Moms,a beautiful five-year journal with carefully curated
questions and writing prompts, offers you just that. Jot down a
single thought, memory, or prayer, and build a treasured keepsake
day by day. Mothers in all stages of life will find something to
love about A Memory a Day for Moms, as it allows you to reflect on
and record your children's growth and your own journey as a mom.
Whether you are knee-deep with littles or navigating the tricky
waters of high school and beyond, prompts such as "My child said
the funniest thing today!" "My hope for my child is," and "Lately
we've been enjoying _____ together" will always resonate. This
luxurious journal makes a beautiful gift for a birthday or baby
shower, or as a special treat for yourself. With spacious lines and
a prettily designed interior, you will love coming back to A Memory
a Day for Moms day after day.
In a world where our families are more scattered than ever, true
and lasting family connections are hard to forge and even harder to
maintain--and they don't happen by accident. For grandparents who
long to create a close-knit bond in their family, popular speaker
and parenting expert Susan Alexander Yates has a revolutionary new
book. Cousin Camp is an inspiring, practical book that outlines how
grandparents can plan and host a camp. Grandmother to 21
grandchildren, Yates has been creating cousin camps and family
camps for years. Now she passes on what she's learned so you can
help your children and grandchildren develop meaningful, lasting
connections with each other--and with you! Full of specific,
practical ideas and hilarious stories, this book contains
everything you need to know from initial planning (who, when, and
where) to a daily schedule to specific ways to build friendships
among family members. Yates also includes plenty of ideas for
family camps and reunions to draw everyone closer.
SHORTLISTED FOR THE BOOKER PRIZE 2020 LONGLISTED FOR THE WOMEN'S
PRIZE FOR FICTION 2021 WINNER OF THE SUSHILA DEVI AWARD 2021 NEW
YORK TIMES 100 NOTABLE BOOKS OF 2021 A searing debut novel about
mothers and daughters, obsession and betrayal - for fans of Jenny
Offill, Deborah Levy, Rachel Cusk and Diana Evans 'Beautifully
written, emotionally wrenching and poignant in equal measure' The
Booker Prize Judges 2020 'An unsettling, sinewy debut, startling in
its venom and disarming in its humour from the very first sentence'
Guardian 'I would be lying if I said my mother's misery has never
given me pleasure.' This is a tale of obsession and betrayal. This
is a poisoned love story. But not between lovers - between mother
and daughter. Tara and Antara, a woman and her angry shadow. But
which one is which? Sharp as a blade and compulsively readable,
Burnt Sugar slowly untangles the knot of memory and rumour that
binds two women together, revealing the truth that lies beneath. 'A
work of extraordinary insight, courage and sophistication'
Washington Post 'Arresting and fiercely intelligent, disarmingly
witty and frank' Sunday Times 'A sly, slippery, often heartbreaking
novel about the role memory plays within families' Stylist
'Extraordinary... Come for the effortlessly stylish writing, stay
for the boiling wrath' Observer
'A total triumph', 'Romantic and heartbreaking and uplifting all at
once', 'Highly recommended' *The Independent best 'never-too-late'
story of 2021, and one of the 8 best uplifting books of the year*
IS IT EVER TOO LATE TO BE LOVED? 'Wonderful . . . An utter treat'
KATE MOSSE 'A heartfelt coming-of-age story . . . Remarkable'
LAURIE FRANKEL, New York Times bestselling author 'A heart-warming,
joyous love story - original, hopeful and totally charming' ADELE
PARKS 'I loved it! Really heart-warming and joyful, but also so
poignant. I cannot recommend this book highly enough' LORRAINE
KELLY 'Albert is one of the most endearing characters I've met in a
long time . . . Proof that it's never too late to find a happy
ending' SUSAN WIGGS, New York Times bestselling author 'A bright,
clear, sharply intelligent writer' JENNY COLGAN 'Will put a smile
on everyone's face . . . A great big hug of a book!' - MICHAEL
BALL, Radio 2 'Wonderful. Written with such a good heart, filled
with joy and strength and optimism . . . inventive and fun but most
importantly, true.' RUSSELL T. DAVIES 'A beautiful, timely
page-turner, straight from the heart . . . The perfect summer read'
MATTHEW BOURNE 'Brilliant . . . [I] recommend to all!' MATT LUCAS
***** ALBERT ENTWISTLE WAS A POSTMAN. It was one of the few things
everyone knew about him. And it was one of the few things he was
comfortable with people knowing. 64-year-old Albert Entwistle has
been a postie in a quiet town in Northern England for all his life,
living alone since the death of his mam 18 years ago. He keeps
himself to himself. He always has. But he's just learned he'll be
forced to retire at his next birthday. With no friends and nothing
to look forward to, the lonely future he faces terrifies him. He
realises it's finally time to be honest about who he is. He must
learn to ask for what he wants. And he must find the courage to
look for the man that, many years ago, he lost - but has never
forgotten . . . Join Albert as he sets out to find the long-lost
love of his life, and has an unforgettable and completely
life-affirming adventure on the way . . . This is a love story the
likes of which you have never read before! ***** 'Albert is such an
endearing character - flawed, funny and awkward, but completely
relatable. A wonderfully warm story that completely drew me in'
RUTH HOGAN 'A rollicking love story' IAN McKELLEN 'Albert is the
most delicious character and you'll be with him every step of the
way' SUN 'A charming adventure with love at its heart' MY WEEKLY 'A
life affirming story of lost love' THAT'S LIFE 'A unique and moving
story' CANDIS 'A heart-warming and uplifting read' ATTITUDE 'You
will weep and yet have your heart filled with joy' ARLENE PHILLIPS
'I raced through this heart-warming story' JUSTIN MYERS 'Prepare to
fall in love with Albert Entwistle! Touching and tender' S. J.
WATSON 'Albert is delightful and charming, and the book is too'
JONATHAN HARVEY 'I so enjoyed this - a warm-hearted, moving and
thought-provoking joy about an elderly postman's awakening to life
and love' FANNY BLAKE 'A total triumph. Romantic and heartbreaking
and uplifting all at once.' LAURA KAY 'Tender, witty, uplifting'
KATE EBERLEN As seen and heard on THE GRAHAM NORTON RADIO SHOW, BBC
Radio 4's WOMAN'S HOUR, RESONANCE FM, BBC Radio 2'S THE MICHAEL
BALL SHOW, TalkRADIO'S THE BADASS WOMEN'S SHOW, TIMES RADIO with
GILES COREN and many more . . .
Do you have a self-absorbed or narcissistic parent who's made you
feel rejected, unloved, or unworthy? Being a parent is usually all
about giving of yourself to foster your child's growth and
development. But what happens when this isn't the case? Some
parents dismiss the needs of their children, asserting their own
instead, demanding attention and reassurance from even very young
children. This may especially be the case when a parent has
narcissistic tendencies or narcissistic personality disorder (NPD).
This fully revised and updated edition of a self-help classic
offers a step-by-step approach to resolving conflict and building a
meaningful relationship with a narcissistic parent. Children of the
Self-Absorbed offers clear definitions of narcissism and
narcissistic personality disorder to help you identify the extent
of your parent's problem. You'll learn the different types of
destructive narcissism and how to recognise their effects on your
relationships. Packed with proven techniques, you'll realise that
you're not helpless against your parent's behaviour, and that you
don't have to give up on the relationship. Instead, you'll find
realistic strategies and steps for setting up mutually agreed upon
behaviours, so you can fulfil your own emotional needs. In this new
edition, you'll discover: *Skills for managing intense emotions
*Tools for building character, self-esteem and self-acceptance *How
kindness and gratitude can promote self-healing *How to build trust
and empathy with others If you're ready to begin healing from the
pain of growing up with a self-absorbed parent and establish the
boundaries you need to thrive - this book will guide you, one step
at a time.
SHORTLISTED FOR THE IRISH BOOK AWARDS 2021 SHORTLISTED FOR THE KATE
O'BRIEN AWARD 2022 'A stunning debut from this new Irish talent'
STELLAR A young woman comes of age in the shadow of her family's
tragic past When Beth Crowe starts university, she is shadowed by
the ghost of her potential as a competitive swimmer. Free to create
a fresh identity for herself, she finds herself among people who
adore the poetry of her grandfather, Benjamin Crowe, who died
tragically before she was born. She embarks on a secret
relationship - and on a quest to discover the truth about Benjamin
and his widow, her beloved grandmother Lydia. The quest brings her
into an archive that no scholar has ever seen, and to a person who
knows things about her family that nobody else knows. Holding Her
Breath is a razor-sharp, moving and seriously entertaining novel
about complicated love stories, ambition and grief - and a young
woman coming fully into her powers. __________ 'A beautiful
coming-of-age story told with impressive skill and lightness of
touch . . . I absolutely loved it' LOUISE O'NEILL 'Whip smart
observations and addictive prose' SUNDAY TELEGRAPH 'Precise, sure,
engaging, and a joy to read' RODDY DOYLE 'A moving debut with a
satisfying conclusion' IRISH INDEPENDENT 'Brilliant, vivid - I
enjoyed this book ENORMOUSLY' MARIAN KEYES 'Enthralling' IMAGE 'A
nimble account of student life with a darkly enjoyable undercurrent
of secrecy and emotional turmoil' SARA BAUME 'A truly compelling
read, and one I wholeheartedly recommend' BUZZ 'Through the dark
sky of our times, Eimear Ryan arrives like a comet, a bright talent
scorching through every page' DOIREANN NI GHRIOFA, author of A
Ghost in the Throat 'Brilliantly realised, gripping, and moving . .
. This is absolutely the real thing' KEVIN POWER 'Written with a
wonderful clarity and insight, Holding Her Breath lingers in the
imagination. Beth's unravelling and re-ravelling is drawn with
great skill and empathy. A brilliant debut' DONAL RYAN
When children grow up and become adults we often assume, as
parents, that our job is done. In fact it's just the beginning of a
whole new stage in our lifelong connection. Relationships with
adult children are an aspect of parenting that is rarely discussed,
yet they require thoughtfulness and empathy, and can bring many new
challenges. - How can you avoid conflict when your adult child
returns to live with you? - What if you don't get on with their
partner? - How should you suppoer your child through a divorce, or
mental health challenges later in life? - Do you have mixed
feelings about looking after your grandchildren? - What if you
adult children don't get along? All Grown Up draws on the personal
experiences of parents, as well as advice from leading experts in
the filed, to offer support and guidance on working through these
common dilemmas to develop and maintain a close bond with your
adult child. Discover how to create family harmony and a strong,
enduring connection. Praise for Celia Dodd's Not Fade Away
'Optimistic and clever, this handbook for how to flourish in your
sixties - and beyond - may be the wisest book on reaching a
pensionable age' - The i newspaper 'As a child of the 60's,
ambitious and career driven, I needed to read this book. I now no
longer fear life's next chapter but instead I'm shouting "Bring it
on!"' - Jo Good, BBC Radio London 'Retirement is not about "giving
up". This book shows us how to discover the positives and relish
every moment of this major life transition'. - Aggie MacKenzie,
broadcaster and journalist.
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