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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Family & other relationships > Intergenerational relationships
Chatting with colleagues at the coffee machine is easy enough.
Talking to a new colleague is a little less easy. Having an
in-depth conversation with someone you do not know, is anything but
easy. And, if that someone is either half your age or twice as old,
it becomes difficult. This game turns that task into a joyful
experience. Lay Your Cards on The Table consists of 60 cards with
conversation starters. Choose questions from 3 different categories
and you will be having great conversations in no time. You can play
this game with 2 people or more. You can start the conversation by
randomly asking or answering some of the questions or, if you need
some more guidance, you can use the game rules. Although in the
end, there really is just one rule: Whatever is discussed on the
table, stays there!
This story is a true, revealing, and sometimes shocking insight
into the little known world of educational test publishing and the
gamble that led the flamboyant Ethel Clark to become one of the
industry's major players. How she grew the business (once known as
California Test Bureau, now CTB/McGraw-Hill) and dealt with the
IRS, the unions, the U.S. Army, and her scholarly husband, Willis,
was far from traditional, and her personal life was often
scandalous. Ethel's drive to "be somebody," her disregard for
conventional behavior, and her foresight in adopting leading-edge
technology contrasted sharply with the persona of her husband
Willis Clark, Ed.D. Willis was a pioneer in educational testing,
who dedicated his life to the development of many nationally used
educational tests and always emphasized the importance of designing
tests with results to "help the teacher help the child." Ethel and
Willis greatly influenced the growth and prominence of one of
America's significant but controversial industries. An Appendix
highlights test development from conception to the application of
test results.
"The Caregiving Trap" combines the authentic life and professional
experience of Pamela D. Wilson, who provides recommendations for
overwhelmed and frustrated caregivers who themselves may one day
need care. "The Caregiving Trap" includes stories about Pamela's
actual personal and professional experience along with end of
chapter exercises to support caregivers. Common caregiving issues
include: A sense of duty and obligation to provide care that
damages family relationships Emotional and financial challenges
resulting in denial of care needs Ignorance of predictive events
that result in situations of crises or harm Delayed decision making
and lack of planning resulting in limited choices Minimum standards
of care supporting the need for advocacy
Deepen your family's relationship with your grandparents using this
beautiful deck of conversation cards. These conversation starters
will help your family spark discussions with your grandmother or
grandfather about their favourite memories and wisdom they've
gained over the years. If you're eager to learn more about their
lives and experience, but don't know where to begin, this deck will
help you ignite the conversation. Thoughtfully designed by
bestselling author Korie Herold, Meaningful Conversations with My
Grandparents is the perfect gift for Mother's Day, Father's Day,
Thanksgiving, Christmas, birthdays, or any time of year. It's also
designed to look beautiful on a dining table or coffee table even
when not in use. Cards include questions, such as: Early Childhood:
What was your house like growing up? What were your favourite toys
or playtime activities? School Years: What did you think you wanted
to be when you grew up? What were you like as a teenager? Work and
Travel: What was your first job? What family vacations do you
remember the most? Love and Family: What's your best relationship
advice? How did you feel when you found out you were going to be a
grandparent? Character and Values: What do you value most in life?
What family values do you hope to pass down? Hypotheticals and
Curiosities: What's something you wish you had done differently?
What's the best advice you ever received? Special features include:
Elegant designed box with gold foil Gold foil and hand-drawn
illustrations printed on matte paper and heavy cardstock
Carefully-developed designs and prompts allow to you reflect and
remember "We are not taught how to have meaningful conversation,"
says author Korie Herold. "That's a skill gained over time, and
it's my mission to help you learn it." The Meaningful Conversations
with Grandparents deck can be used as a standalone item, or as a
companion to the guided journals Grandma's Story and Grandpa's
Story. Use the conversation cards to start discussions around the
dinner table, and then if you're so inclined, purchase one of the
guided journals to document your grandparent's answers as you go
along.
*** 'An honest and thoughtful memoir. Moving but, ultimately, full
of hope. Beautiful.' KATE MOSSE 'Superb. Love & Care is a book
about the unbreakable bonds of family, the cruelty of passing time
and a love that never dies.' TONY PARSONS 'A beautiful, intimate
story of love and understanding - candid and funny. This is a
lyrical memoir of hope and forgiveness.' RAYNOR WINN, author of The
Salt Path * Shaun is finally free of responsibilities to anyone but
himself; single, with two grown up daughters, he is just embarking
on a new life in a new country when he gets a call to say his
father is dying. His mother has Parkinson's Dementia and is in a
care home. Shaun faces a stark choice: should he give up his
new-found freedom, or turn his back on the woman he'd fought so
hard to protect, not least from his own father? Shaun's mother had
loved and cared for her son all her life. Could he now do the same
for her? 'A heart-warming, heart-wrenching, and beautifully humane
account of loving and caring.' NICCI GERRARD, novelist and author
of What Dementia Teaches Us About Love 'An insightful tale of care
. . . this book needed to be written.' JO GOOD, BBC Radio London 'A
vital subject, a really strong voice and, hurrah, humour makes this
absorbing reading.' CAROLINE RAPHAEL, Radio 4's Book at Bedtime 'An
eye-opening - and at times jaw dropping - account that will make
you weep with its tenderness and compassion . . . A highly readable
tale of redemption and a celebration of love's many hues.' PAUL
BLEZARD, Love Reading 'Moving' DAILY MAIL
SHORTLISTED FOR THE IRISH BOOK AWARDS 2021 SHORTLISTED FOR THE KATE
O'BRIEN AWARD 2022 'A stunning debut from this new Irish talent'
STELLAR A young woman comes of age in the shadow of her family's
tragic past When Beth Crowe starts university, she is shadowed by
the ghost of her potential as a competitive swimmer. Free to create
a fresh identity for herself, she finds herself among people who
adore the poetry of her grandfather, Benjamin Crowe, who died
tragically before she was born. She embarks on a secret
relationship - and on a quest to discover the truth about Benjamin
and his widow, her beloved grandmother Lydia. The quest brings her
into an archive that no scholar has ever seen, and to a person who
knows things about her family that nobody else knows. Holding Her
Breath is a razor-sharp, moving and seriously entertaining novel
about complicated love stories, ambition and grief - and a young
woman coming fully into her powers. __________ 'A beautiful
coming-of-age story told with impressive skill and lightness of
touch . . . I absolutely loved it' LOUISE O'NEILL 'Whip smart
observations and addictive prose' SUNDAY TELEGRAPH 'Precise, sure,
engaging, and a joy to read' RODDY DOYLE 'A moving debut with a
satisfying conclusion' IRISH INDEPENDENT 'Brilliant, vivid - I
enjoyed this book ENORMOUSLY' MARIAN KEYES 'Enthralling' IMAGE 'A
nimble account of student life with a darkly enjoyable undercurrent
of secrecy and emotional turmoil' SARA BAUME 'A truly compelling
read, and one I wholeheartedly recommend' BUZZ 'Through the dark
sky of our times, Eimear Ryan arrives like a comet, a bright talent
scorching through every page' DOIREANN NI GHRIOFA, author of A
Ghost in the Throat 'Brilliantly realised, gripping, and moving . .
. This is absolutely the real thing' KEVIN POWER 'Written with a
wonderful clarity and insight, Holding Her Breath lingers in the
imagination. Beth's unravelling and re-ravelling is drawn with
great skill and empathy. A brilliant debut' DONAL RYAN
Tens of millions of Americans either suffer from Alzheimer's or
care for someone who does. In a single generation, that number will
triple. Jeanne Murray Walker's memoir speaks with compassionate
wisdom about the gifts that wait to be discovered even in the midst
of this grim disease. As Walker cares for her mother during her
heartrending decline, she, her sister and her mother develop closer
ties. The intimate look at illness and death-hardly acknowledged by
our culture-becomes another sort of gift and after spending
thousands of hours with her mother, Jeanne begins to recover her
own early memories and understand her history in a transformative
way. THE GEOGRAPHY OF MEMORY reveals that for all the grim news
about Alzheimer's, it is possible to find joy and hope in the midst
of pain. The story is made up of three braided strands. Two are
narrative: the present story of caring for her mother and the past
story of Walker's childhood memories. The third strand is a series
of pithy Field Notes that anchor the book in practical reflections
on memory. Interwoven are chapters which flash back to Walker's
teenage battles with her feisty, valiant, widowed mother. Only
because Walker slowed down and spent thousands of hours in the
company of her mother during the last decade of her life was she
able to recover these memories. The field notes are short, poetic
pauses in the narrative that address memory: what it is, how it
works, how it can be strengthened, what happens when it goes away.
Geography of Memory is the hopeful story about Alzheimer's that
readers are waiting to hear.
'Extraordinary . . . stunning' - Elizabeth Macneal, author of The
Doll Factory 'Vivid details, visceral prose and strong willful
women' - Angie Cruz, author of Dominicana Five generations of
women, linked by blood and circumstance, by the secrets they share,
and by a single book passed down through a family, with an
affirmation scrawled in its margins: We are force. We are more than
we think we are. 1866, Cuba: Maria Isabel is the only woman
employed at a cigar factory, where each day the workers find
strength in daily readings of Victor Hugo. But these are dangerous
political times, and as Maria begins to see marriage and motherhood
as her only options, the sounds of war are approaching. 1959, Cuba:
Dolores watches her husband make for the mountains in answer to
Fidel Castro's call to arms. What Dolores knows, though, is that to
survive, she must win her own war, and commit an act of violence
that threatens to destroy her daughter Carmen's world. 2016, Miami:
Carmen, still wrestling with the trauma of displacement, is shocked
when her daughter Jeanette announces her plans to travel to Cuba to
see her grandmother Dolores. In the walls of her crumbling home
lies a secret, one that will link Jeanette to her past, and to this
fearless line of women. From nineteenth-century cigar factories to
present-day detention centres, from Cuba to the United States to
Mexico, Gabriela Garcia's Of Women and Salt follows Latina women of
fierce pride, bound by the stories passed between them. It is a
haunting meditation on the choices of mothers and the tenacity of
women who choose to tell their truth despite those who wish to
silence them.
Since 1954, "Twenty-Four Hours a Day" has become a stable force in
the recovery of many alcoholics throughout the world. With over six
and a half million copies in print (the original text has been
revised), this "little black book" offers daily thoughts,
meditations, and prayers for living a clean and sober life. A
spiritual resource with practical applications to fit our daily
lives.
"For yesterday is but a dream, and tomorrow is only a vision" is
part of the Sanskrit proverb quoted at the beginning of the book
which has become one of the basic building blocks for a life of
sobriety. In addition to a thought, meditation and prayer for each
day of the year, this handy, pocket-sized volume also contains the
Serenity Prayer and the 12 Steps and 12 Traditions of Alcoholics
Anonymous. It is a simple, yet effective way to help us relate the
Twelve Steps to everyday life and helps us find the power not to
take that first drink each day.
Find The Love, Patience, and Insight to Take Your Life Back What
does it look and feel like to be a Mother of an Addict? How does a
Mother's unconditional love help her child's addiction? Sandy
Sherman is a Mother of 2 addicts - a Daughter and a Son. For 5
years she felt her life was spiraling down into a pit of despair,
fear, helplessness, grief that was consuming her life. She felt
alone and humiliated and the dreams she had for her kids were all
gone as she witnessed their addictions take over their bodies and
souls. Sandy learned to live her life by deciding to take her life
back. Through educating herself about the disease of addiction by
reading, talking with other Mom's, helping to counsel others and
sharing her story, she has written Stronger in hopes of inspiring
Mom's to take action.
The secrets, lies, and layers of deception about Diane Dewey's
origins were meant for her protection--but eventually, they
imploded. Living with her family in suburban Philadelphia, Diane
had grown up knowing she was born in Stuttgart and adopted at age
one from an orphanage. She'd been told her biological parents were
dead. Then, in 2002, when she was forty-seven years old, Diane got
a letter from Switzerland: her biological father, Otto, wanted to
bring her into his life. With that, her world shifted on its axis.
In the months that ensued, everybody had a different story to tell
about Diane's origins, including Otto when they met in New York
City. She struggled to understand what was at stake with the lies.
Like a private eye, she sifted through competing versions of the
truth only to find that, having traveled throughout Europe and
back, identity is a state of mind. As more information surfaced,
the myths gave way to a certain elusive peace; Diane discovered a
tribe in her mother's family, found a Swiss husband, gained a
voice, and, for the first time, began to trust in the intuition
that had nudged her all along. One-part forensic investigation,
one-part self-discovery, Fixing the Fates is a story about seeing
behind artifice and living one's truth.
It's 1983 and best friends Vicky and Lucy swear that they will
always be there for each other, that they'll never let anyone come
between them. But fast forward 4 years and life on the Canterbury
Estate has gotten very messy. Lucy has fallen for local policeman's
son, Jimmy. And Vicky is madly in love with Paddy, the charming but
ruthless local bad boy. The boys are bitter enemies and determined
to keep the two girls apart. But then Vicky is accused of murder,
and even her drug-dealer boyfriend wants her mouth shut,
permanently. Maybe Lucy is the only one who can save her... Love,
murder, revenge. Who can you really trust when there's blood on
your hands?
This briefs offers a comprehensive view of the journey of
grandparents of children with disabilities by employing a wide
range of theoretical approaches such as intergenerational
relationships, positive psychology, psychoanalytic views and models
of stress. It presents a multidimensional view of grandparents,
which begins with the general role of grandparents in the family
and the transition to grandparenthood, as a major life event. The
briefs moves on to discuss grandparents' roles under unique
circumstances such as illness or disability in the family and then
deals with perspectives of parents of children with disabilities on
the role of grandparents. Finally, it reviews attitudes of
professionals toward grandparents and concludes with suggested
intervention strategies for working with families on
intergenerational relationships.
Empower yourself and the latest generation of girls with this
collection of inspiring reflections from notable, highly
accomplished women in politics, academia, athletics, the arts, and
business, including Madeleine Albright, Ruth Bader Ginsburg, and
more. In What I Told My Daughter, a powerful, diverse group of
women reflect on the best advice and counsel they have given their
daughters either by example, throughout their lives, or in
character-building, teachable moments between parent and child. One
of the country's only female police chiefs teaches her daughter the
meaning of courage, how to respond to danger but more importantly
how not to let fear stop her from experiencing all that life has to
offer. A bestselling writer, who has deliberated for years on
empowering girls, wonders if we're unintentionally leading them to
believe they can never make mistakes, when "resiliency is more
important than perfection." In a time when childhood seems at once
more fraught and more precious than ever, What I Told My Daughter
is a book anyone who wishes to connect with a young girl cannot
afford to miss.
For readers of The Stranger in the Woods and H Is For Hawk, a
beautifully written and emotionally rewarding memoir about a father,
his three sons, and a scrappy 100-acre piece of land in Upper Michigan.
Bruce Kuipers had never been much of a father or husband. Distant,
angry, and a serial cheater, he shoved away his three sons--journalist
Dean, forester Brett, and troubled Joe--and alienated his wife. But
Bruce did succeed in imparting to his sons his love of the outdoors and
the fishing and hunting skills involved in that passion.
In 1989, Bruce purchased a 100-acre property as a way to lure his sons
back after a divorce that had done further damage to an already damaged
family. The land was the perfect bait, but the moment the sons arrived,
conflicts arose over whether the land--which had been degraded and
reduced to a few stands of pine and blowing sand--should be left alone
or be actively restored. After an impasse of years, Bruce acquiesced,
and his sons proceeded with their restoration plan. What happened next
was a miracle of nature.
Dean Kuipers weaves a beautiful and surprising story about the
restorative power of land and of his own family, which so desperately
needed healing. Heartwarming and profound, The Deer Camp is the perfect
story of fathers, sons, and the beauty of the natural world.
There was once an elderly woman who called Time & Temperature
every day, just to hear the sound of another human voice. Did she
know it was an automated recording? Maybe, but it didn't matter-so
long as there was something there to lessen her loneliness.
Situations like this are not new, especially in nursing homes,
where people seemingly go to be forgotten-by family, by friends,
and by society. What if you could do something about their
loneliness? What if you could make them feel useful, loved, and
respected? Frank Pawlak, a pastor and evangelist, did just that. He
spent fifty years ministering to senior citizens, notably through
music and the word of God. His stories are many-as are his
hilarious anecdotes-but what Frank took away from his ministry was
more than just entertainment. Frank Pawlak came to realize that
just when you think you're blessing someone else, you turn out to
be the one who is blessed. The nursing home occupants he visited
taught him more than he could ever teach them; they showed him more
love than he could have given. His amazing journey is chronicled in
I Hear the Music-I Have to Go, as Frank lives out the adage, "If
you're looking for something to do with your life, help someone in
need!"
Broken relationships between adult children and their parents is a
widespread phenomenon. While the parent-child attachment
relationship is of critical importance for the child in the early
years of life, the parent-child relationship continues to be a
source of great importance over the course of the individual's life
span for both the child and the parent. For adults and adult
children who are estranged/alienated from each other, the pain and
dissatisfaction never fully go away. Despite the prevalence of the
problem of ruptured relationships, there are few resources
available for mental health professionals working with this
population. This book provides a tool for clinicians to turn to
when they are working with adult children and their parents seeking
to resolve conflict, improve communication, and enhance their
relationships.
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