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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Family & other relationships > Intergenerational relationships
Dorothy has inherited millions as well as her family estate, a
haven from her childhood, but will she refuse her inheritance? The
will stipulates that she must care for her mentally ill mother, a
difficult person whom she blames for ruining her marriage. A
handsome cousin by marriage, who was the object of her childhood
affection, comes back into her life to play the role of "kissing
cousin." In addition, her ex-husband appears as she copes with
eerie threats, the kidnapping of her child, and ultimately, murder.
Set in the fifties and early sixties, before the use of cell phones
and personal computers, this novel will appeal to those who might
enjoy a trip to a simpler age. Some things, however, never change,
such as romance, mystery, and family dynamics.
Marriage is a major step in a relationship, and each member of that
newly joined pair brings with them their own existing family and
the corresponding complexity and richness of in-law relationships.
These are multi-generational, multi-layered, and, like a
kaleidoscope, a shifting amalgam of emotional colors. Exceptionally
important, in-law relationships can be joyous and comforting. They
can also be complicated, contentious, and disappointing. These ties
serve as a model for how to stay connected across generations for
the well-being of grandparents, parents, and grandchildren, and as
a bellwether for what to avoid. Drawing on interviews and survey
data with more than 1,500 mothers-in-law, fathers-in-law,
daughters-in-law, and sons-in-law, the book describes how these
complicated and highly significant relationships develop over time.
Geoffrey L. Greif and Michael E. Woolley focus on the relationships
between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law as well as
fathers-in-law with sons-in-law. They describe the struggles as
well as the triumphs that people encounter with these relationships
from the perspectives of both generations and suggest ways to
improve the relationships. To improve in-law relationships, Greif
and Woolley present action-oriented family therapy theories based
on the insight, communication, boundary building, and narratives
that family members wish to create. They also explore how these
relationships change with the normal transitions of marrying into
the family, having children/grandchildren, and aging. In-law
Relationships describes highly successful and nurturing connections
as well as those that are troubled and distant. The resulting book
offers a variety of clinical lenses to help readers of all
backgrounds focus on and, if needed, repair in-law relationships.
"Writers On The Edge" offers a range of essays, memoirs and poetry
written by major contemporary authors who bring fresh insight into
the dark world of addiction, from drugs and alcohol, to sex,
gambling and food. Editors Diana M. Raab and James Brown have
assembled an array of talented and courageous writers who share
their stories with heartbreaking honesty as they share their
obsessions as well as the awe-inspiring power of hope and
redemption.
"Open to any piece in this collection, and the scalding,
unflinching, overwhelming truths within will shine light on places
most people never look. Anyone who reads this book, be they users
or used, will put it down changed. And when they raise their eyes
from the very last page, the world they see may be redeemed, as
well." --Jerry Stahl, author of Permanent Midnight
CONTRIBUTORS: Frederick & Steven Barthelme, Kera Bolonik,
Margaret Bullitt-Jonas, Maud Casey, Anna David, Denise Duhamel,
B.H. Fairchild, Ruth Fowler, David Huddle Perie Longo, Gregory Orr,
Victoria Patterson, Molly Peacock, Scott Russell Sanders, Stephen
Jay Schwartz, Linda Gray Sexton, Sue William Silverman, Chase
Twichell, and Rachel Yoder
About the Editors
Diana M. Raab, an award-winning memoirist and poet, is author of
six books including "Healing With Words" and "Regina's Closet."
She's an advocate of the healing power of writing and teaches
nation-wide workshops and in the UCLA Extension Writers' Program.
James Brown, a recovering alcoholic and addict, is the author of
the memoirs, " The Los Angeles Diaries" and "This River." He is
Professor of English in the MFA Program in Creative Writing at
California State University, San Bernardino.
From the Reflections of America Series
Modern History Press www.ModernHistoryPress.com
SEL006000 Self-Help: Substance Abuse & Addictions -
Alcoholism
SEL003000 Self-Help: Adult Children of Alcoholics
PSY038000 Psychology: Psychopathology - Addiction
"Think about it. In order to be grandmothers we once had to be
mothers. After giving birth, we, as the mothers, were responsible
for our baby's/child's well being. As grandmothers, on the other
hand, we have choices. Our roles are open for interpretation and
conscious choices. When I became a grandmother, and even when my
daughters-in-law were pregnant, I made a conscious decision to be
an involved grandmother, one of the caretakers or a Granny-Nanny.
I was sure that helping out and taking care of a baby would be
easy like getting back on a bicycle after a twenty-year lapse. Oh,
how wrong I was. There are new rules, new products, new findings
and plenty of taboos. How did my three children ever survive their
hazardous childhoods?"
Parenting rules have gone through some serious revisions since
author Lois Young-Tulin raised her kids. In her helpful guide, "The
Granny Nanny," Young-Tulin offers a unique opportunity for today's
grandmas to hone their skills and learn the twenty principles for
successful grandmothering in a modern world.
Many grandparents experience a surge of joy with the birth or
adoption of a grandchild. For years afterward, time together is
eagerly coveted, pictures are treasured and displayed, and multiple
gifts along with various kinds of support are gladly provided.
Richard Olson, a retired minister, professor of theology, and
grandparent many times over, presents the unconditional love of a
grandparent as indicative of a vocation, a calling from God. He
explores the vocation of grandparent in all of its multiple
dimensions of being and doing. Informed by a biblical perspective,
the book explores the author's personal journey of grandparenting
and includes conversations with a diverse set of other
grandparents. Olson examines biblical examples of grandparenting
and suggests that the grandparent vocation has possibilities that
often go unnoticed. These include care, enjoyment, and response to
issues throughout a grandchild's growth. He also addresses concerns
for our grandchildren's future world, and how grandparents can
engage in mutual conversation about faith, morals, and values in a
changing world. In addition, Olson discusses increasingly common
relationship types such as grandparents serving as primary
caregivers, adults becoming step-grandparents through marriage,
interreligious family systems, and grandparents handling children
with special needs. The book includes questions for personal or
group reflection.
'The best piece of nature writing since H is for Hawk, and the most
powerful work of biography I have read in years' Neil Gaiman
'Wonderful - I can't recommend it too highly' Helen Macdonald 'One
of those rare, enchanted books' Isabella Tree 'Beautiful - it made
me cry' Simon Amstell 'I was entranced' Cathy Rentzenbrink This is
a story about birds and fathers. About the young magpie that fell
from its nest in a Bermondsey junkyard into Charlie Gilmour's life
- and swiftly changed it. Demanding worms around the clock,
riffling through his wallet, sharing his baths and roosting in his
hair... About the jackdaw kept at a Cornish stately home by
Heathcote Williams, anarchist, poet, magician, stealer of
Christmas, and Charlie's biological father who vanished from his
life in the dead of night. It is a story about repetition across
generations and birds that run in the blood; about a terror of
repeating the sins of the father and a desire to build a nest of
one's own. It is a story about change - from wild to tame; from
sanity to madness; from life to death to birth; from freedom to
captivity and back again, via an insane asylum, a prison and a
magpie's nest. And ultimately, it is the story of a love affair
between a man and a magpie.
Were you raised by a narcissist? This essential guide will show you
how to stop feeling invisible, quiet your critical inner voice, and
start living life on your own terms. Did you grow up with a mother
who was controlling or manipulative? Was she emotionally or
psychologically abusive toward you? Did she make you feel ashamed,
rejected, or "crazy?" Was it all about her, all of the time? When
your mother is a narcissist, it can damage and invalidate your
sense of self, and leave you with lasting anxiety, insecurity,
self-doubt, and a relentlessly critical internal voice. But there
are tools you can use to move forward in your adult life with
confidence. The evidence-based skills in this book will help you
heal the scars of growing up with a self-absorbed and narcissistic
mother. Written by a psychologist and expert in narcissism, Adult
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers offers proven-effective
strategies drawn from cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT),
dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), and acceptance and commitment
therapy (ACT) to help you reduce anxiety, build confidence,
overcome self-criticism, and live the life you deserve. You'll also
find tons of practical tips to help you build healthy, trusting
relationships; stop apologizing for the failures of others; and
start trusting your own good judgment. If you were raised by a
narcissistic mother and are struggling with the lingering effects
of a toxic upbringing, this is the road map you need to heal the
past and thrive in the present and future.
We parents are plagued with doubt. In an ever-changing world our
children must adapt constantly to the demands of the modern world -
and we as parents do too. From social media pressures, generational
expectations, and with a mental health crisis sweeping the younger
generation, parenting can be a challenging and uncertain journey
through uncharted territory. Dr Shefali, a therapist who has worked
with thousands of parents - and is a parent herself - is here to
provide a helping hand. Empowering parents with her revolutionary
conscious parenting method, The Parenting Map will lead you on an
exciting path of growth, helping you to disrupt unhealthy belief
patterns and overcome deeply ingrained fears so you can find an
authentic connection between yourself and your children. Following
a step-by-step plan to navigate everyday challenges, Dr Shefali
will teach you how to shift your focus to a new consciousness,
transform your mindset, and improve your communication within the
parenting dynamic. Your entire relationship with your children -
and with yourself - will change, resulting in deeper bonds and
healthy, thriving, well-adjusted children. Featuring hands-on
practical advice which question and empower you, as well as case
studies to help you day to day, The Parenting Map is the ultimate
manual for the modern-day parent. 'In this essential work, Dr.
Shefali shares the wisdom of her generous heart and deep insights
gleaned from decades of clinical experience. The result is an
easy-to-follow, illuminating, and eminently practical guide to
making conscious parenting an every-day reality for our children
and ourselves.' GABOR MATE, MD, New York Times bestselling author
of The Myth of Normal 'Break free from the destructive patterns of
your past. For parents with kids of all ages, The Parenting Map is
the solution-oriented guide you have been looking for to raise
independent, authentic, and happy children.' GABBY BERNSTEIN, New
York Times bestselling author of The Universe Has Your Back 'The
Parenting Map is a must-have for all stages of the parenting
journey. It offers insight on self-aware parenting, which teaches
us that when we heal ourselves, we become our children's best
possible caretakers and champions. We can all use these gentle
tools to be the engaged, empathetic parents our children need.'
KATHERINE SCHWARZENEGGER PRATT, mother, New York Times bestselling
author, and advocate 'Raising children in our crazy world has never
been harder. Dr. Shefali's classic The Conscious Parent was a game
changer that introduced me to the idea of intentional and
self-aware parenting. And with The Parenting Map, she has done what
seemed impossible, she's given us the playbook!' EVA LONGORIA
BASTON, actor, director, and mom
In a world full of many influences, The Parenting Project shows you
how, through the practice of daily conversation, to maintain
influence in your child's life. Are you losing the influence game
with your children? If you want to direct your child's growth, then
they need to get to know you. In The Parenting Project, parenting
experts Dr. Amy Alamar and Dr. Kristine Schlichting show you how to
talk with your children on a regular basis to gain their trust. In
a time when kids have many things vying for their attention, you
want to become the go-to person, the one they turn to the most for
advice and comfort. Sometimes it's difficult to speak with your
children about serious subjects. That's why The Parenting Project
teaches you how to make a habit of it, providing you with prompts
to help start potentially difficult conversations across a broad
range of subjects that apply to everyday life. The authors have
divided these conversations into five categories to inform your
approach-Heart-based, Uncomfortable, Dangerous, Character, and
Brave-because each type requires different strategies and
"conversation starters." The book includes story after story of how
parents have built extraordinary relationships with kids through
the act of talking with one another, day by day. With some help
from Dr. Alamar and Dr. Schlichting, it will be become easier to
open up conversations with (rather than at) your children so that
when the big questions arise, your child will turn to you first.
Do you long for a closer bond with your son? Do you want the kind of relationship that will honor God and be a blessing to both of you for the rest of your lives?
In Fathers and Sons Angus Buchan explains how fathers can foster a rewarding and God-honoring relationship with their sons.
Through topics like humility, love, appreciation, grace and respect Angus inspires men to be the godly fathers God has ordained them to be and reminds them that it is never too early or too late to nurture the special and blessed relationship between a father and his son.
Like a photo shoot, pictures flashed in Anthony's head as he
reflected on the first time he heard the horrifying clank of the
barred door that was now staring at his back, he vividly recalled,
his face smashed against the dusty police car, bright red and blue
Lights blindly flashing in his eyes. Everything was a blur! His
heart beating so fast and pounding so hard he could hardly hear the
cop as he repeated his words... "Do you understand your rights!" A
preacher's son on the way to a place deemed worse than hell! Just a
teenaged boy when he was facing those bars, now a man 7 years later
who has made a promise to himself to rectify his wrongs. Read this
captivating story about a young man's journey into manhood down a
twisted road through tragedy and triumph.
Dear Nanny (sketch design) is an award-winning journal filled with
over 60 fun and inspiring questions carefully created to inspire
any grandmother to tell her story - probably one of the most
valuable gifts you will ever buy. Everyone has stories to share
about their own amazing life and it is so important to find ways to
capture and treasure them. Dear Nanny contains 60 carefully
designed questions to ask her about her life. Ask her to complete
it carefully, adding photos and memorabilia along the way. Find out
how things have changed throughout her life, what things did she do
as a child that are different from today. What were her own parents
really like and what adventures has she had in her life. Discover
what your own mum or dad was like when they were young! What about
your own relationship with your grandmother, what are her favourite
memories of the times you have spent together and is there any
advice she would like to give you? When you get her completed
journal returned to you, this will be one of the most emotional
presents you have ever received. A great gift for Mother's Day,
Grandparent's Day, her birthday, an anniversary, Christmas or just
because you care ...
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