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Honestly, this book started as a sort of therapy, my thoughts, my
memories, happier moments in my life. While sitting at my son's
hospital bedside I began to think about what brought us here, how,
who we are and the people that have help mold our lives. I realized
after all that I've, we've been through we were blessed. Still
Standing is a way to share the warmth that I felt everyday from
inner peace, from Gods love, in spite of everyday tribulations-life
is so very beautiful and worth living to the fullest. Still
standing is from my heart a tribute to my love for my babies and
for myself. Ma
Aaron Canducci"s life is shaken to the core when his best friend,
Hye Rosen, dies suddenly in the prime of his life. Within weeks of
Hy's death, Aaron discovers that his wife is having an affair with
another woman. Suddenly alone and depressed, Aaron searches for
answers by reading his spiritual books, consulting a friend and
psychic counselor, and by volunteering with the Salvation Army. His
long-time friends at the Bokie Joint provide friendship and support
while Aaron adjusts to the changes. Aaron's life seems to be
turning around a few months later when he meets Sofia Cristall, a
beautiful and talented interior designed who is as smitten with
Aaron as he is with her. Aaron gets caught up in the web of a Mafia
Don's manipulations and he learns some truths about his friends at
the Bookie Joint that he would rather not know. At the same time,
he is offered a chance to become a part of a family he never knew
existedl But, will those family connections cost him th woman he
loves?
Alzheimer's is a devastating disease, robbing its victims of so
much of themselves before the end. For caregivers facing this
disease, a diagnosis of Alzheimer's disease can sound like the
ultimate tragedy, the disease that will rob us of our loved one by
inches. It doesn't have to be. While Alzheimer's and related
dementias are serious and not easily understood diseases, a new
guide can help families negotiate the difficult scientific,
emotional, and practical issues of dealing with the disease. In a
moving and easy to read format, Dr. Steinberg has laid out a true
caregiver's guide to dealing with Alzheimer's disease, from the
first signs to the final stages. Incorporating science, real-life
case studies from his practice and from his extensive experience as
a nationally recognized seminar speaker, as well as from his
personal journey coping with his mother's illness, Dr. Steinberg
leads the reader through a learning and healing process. In a
candid and personal sharing of his experience, Dr. Steinberg helps
the reader clearly understand what to expect, when to ask for help,
how to cope with the changes and the inevitable pressures within
the family, and how to continue to love as a loved one's disease
threatens family stability and well-being. With his profound
knowledge of the disease, its treatment and manifestations, and his
great love and tenderness as the son of an Alzheimer's patient, Dr.
Steinberg has created a truly memorable work.
Traces of my Tears is not only the story of a young woman's
grieving process, it's a journey of healing, an introspection
inside a tormented soul. Not only will Julia have to heal from an
unfinished love story, but she'll uncover a family secret that will
help her understand and acknowledge her mother's own tormented life
and guilt. The book is a testimonial of shame, deception and
hardship as Julia realizes that acceptance and forgiveness are the
only remedies to a suffering soul.
Dear Reader, "Resilience Matters" is a story - my story - that has
been in my heart and on my mind for more than sixty years. I
originally decided to write it for my children and grandchildren;
however, many have told me it would be inspirational reading for
others who have led a less than privileged life. In these pages you
will join me on a journey through the foster care system, an
abusive first marriage, and the ordeal of breast cancer, which
included multiple reconstructive surgeries. At this point in my
life, I am happy to report I have arrived at a place of perfect
contentment. It is my hope that those who read this book will find
the courage to put themselves first, while honoring their personal
histories that live in their hearts and souls. I also hope that my
readers will learn to always hold onto their dreams. Dreams can
come true. Mine did! Joanne Bellontine
"Oh, no-" the anguished cry rang out. For a sister and her
brothers, it was terrible news-of a death in the family-the death
that left them dumbfounded. Broken hearted, here they were, a grand
family suddenly bereft of a great part. It made no sense. ..".Sorry
to inform you," the awful words struck like a thunderbolt. Mom and
dad had crashed on their vacation trip. -So unfair, so unreal, so
jarring...so final. All the siblings could think of was how much
love was lost to them. Their parents were the linchpins; they were
the finest; they were the most revered. At a loss due to a loss. So
much love and affection was denied them in an unpredictable moment.
What was to become of them? Mom with her daily wisdom. Dad with his
usual counsel. Mom with her laugh. Dad with his wry humor. Mom with
her catering and caring. Dad with his hugs and counsel. What will
they do without them? The sister and her husband, the brothers and
their wives, succumbed to the pain, weakening them. Where would the
strength come from that was required to survive such a tragedy?
When ravaged by happenstance, What holds the family together when
hope and promise lose some of their dash? In the moments of crisis,
inevitably, people are hanging on by hanging tough. That courage
comes from their heritage, which is the real force, the saving
grace. It's not just what they have inherited in family lore, but
the bond that ties endowment and legacy together in a triumvirate
that can spark the spirit. Haunting Memories says something about
how desire can influence perception; by allowing-or causing-us to
see what we want to see. We wonder when they're gone, Did we do
enough for them? Did we express our love and affection often
enough? Were we good to them? We aren't going to be able to answer
yes to all such questions without some reservation. -Because we're
never going to think we've done all that we could have or should
have done for our loved ones. We can't get our minds off them. We
can't let them go. We want them back. But we can't have them back.
They are where they are. -And we can't get there from here.
Come along with Von Hahnke as he journeys to uncover the facts and
truth surrounding his family history and the monument from the
kaiser. He also answers in part the reasons Germany wasn't involved
in a war for almost forty years prior to World War I. "One of the
best-known and most popular soldiers in Germany." -Newport RI Sun
Newspaper "One of the most decorated generals in Europe." -Trenton
Evening News
Imagine growing up in small Indiana towns in the 1940s in a very
strict religious family and then realizing at the age of six that
there was something sexually "wrong" with you. You had no name for
it, and you didn't really understand it, but you knew it all the
same. By the time you were seven and eight years old, you heard
adults talk about sexual perversion and teenagers using the terms
"faggot" or "queer" as if they were describing the plague. But you
knew deep inside it was you they were talking about Then skip
forward a few years when you felt compelled to find someone else
like you. You knew you couldn't be the only one, and you didn't
think you could survive on erotic dreams or daydreaming. And so you
began to sexually experiment with older men who called themselves
queer, but you knew it didn't describe you. Then, at age seventeen,
you found yourself in your first small gay bar, where you finally
discovered you weren't the only one like you on this planet But
when your mother discovered you'd been invited to a gay party, she
told you that you would burn in hell if you didn't become
heterosexual. And that was just the beginning. Following My Path is
the true account of the author discovering who he was and all the
things that happened along the way. Some of the things are serious,
and some are funny, but all are interesting and vital to
understanding what many gay people have had to endure. Reading
Following My Path may: * change your mind about whether being gay
is a choice or not; * make you see gay people differently and with
more understanding, particularly those who are older and in the
closet longer; * teach you to love your children unconditionally,
even if there are parts of them you can't understand or accept; *
teach you not to lay guilt trips on your children; and * teach gay
LGBT people not to leave God out of their lives, as we, too, are
made in his image, and he wants us to lead happy and fulfilling
lives. Following My Path is the author's confirmation in his belief
in God and his comfort with being an "outed," gay Christian.
This is a true story of a family's attempt at working together to
care for aging parents. It involves four adult siblings, two
parents, some anger, resentment, love and joy. There are tears,
astonishment, sleepless nights, laughter and a whole lot of
conflict, quiet and otherwise. Mary L. Currier shares her insight,
beliefs and professional experiences to normalize conflict between
adult siblings. She explains that families are often no strangers
to conflict. Rather, they may be strangers to managing that
conflict. Or perhaps it's more of an unwillingness to slip into the
deeper crevices of those sticky issues that form the patterns of
communication, therefore creating conflict. Either way, there is
often a deeply imbedded cycle of poor communication that courses
through family veins. You'd think that blood relatives would have a
comparatively easy time sorting out issues of conflict. You'd think
that four siblings would share similarities in problem solving
techniques. That is not the case in this family. What first
appeared as a moderate challenge evolved into a lifelong lesson
requiring patience, self-understanding, unconditional love and an
unending supply of forgiveness. As anxiety, Alzheimer's,
depression, and cancer, come out from behind the shadows, each
family member acts, or reacts, as only they can - with the skills
they have cultivated. Does that work for them? Not always. This is
a wonderful tool for adult siblings thinking about how they will
sustain their relationships with one another as they venture into
the care giving process. Mary even offers troubleshooting guidance
in an effort to improve skills in communications and conflict
resolution in hopes of sustaining adult sibling relationships.
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