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As a mother, what more do we want then to feel empowered, motivated
and inspired? We want to learn from our own mistakes, as well as
those of other experienced mothers. We want to be able to expand
upon our strengths, and to have the opportunity to share the good,
the bad, and the ugly with fellow women. This book is for every
woman... the young, the seasoned, and everyone in between. For each
woman who has already been blessed with the gift of motherhood, for
the mothers-to-be, for every woman who is considering becoming a
mother. This book is a collection of 101 moments that will leave
each reader feeling moved, feeling touched, feeling inspired, but
most of all, feeling compelled to read these stories again and
again. 101 Moments of Motherhood is set up in an ideal way to pick
up the book and open to any page to receive some type of emotional
or inspirational discovery. But most of all, you will be reminded
that we are not on this intimidating yet exhilarating, exhausting
yet rejuvenating, absolutely incredible journey alone.
Head Above Water takes us into a space of intimate conversations on
illness and society's stigmatization of disabled bodies. We are
invited in to ask the big questions about life, loss, and the place
of the other. The narrative builds a bridge that reminds us of our
common humanity and weaves the threads that tie us all together.
Through conversations about women's identities, bodies, and our
journeys through life, we arrive at a politics of love, survival,
and hope.
Are you one of the countless people who grew up with emotionally
immature parents? If you suffer from this troubling parent/child
dynamic, you may still recall painful moments from your childhood
when your emotional needs were not met, when your feelings were
dismissed, or when you took on adult levels of maturity in an
effort to "compensate" for your parents' behavior. And while you
likely cultivated strengths such as self-reliance and independence
along the way- strengths that have served you well as an
adult-having to be the emotionally mature person in your
relationship with your parent is confusing and even damaging. If
you are ready to gain the insight you need to move on from feelings
of loneliness and abandonment and find healthy ways to meet your
own emotional needs, this book will help light the way. You'll
discover the four main types of emotionally immature parents:
*Emotional parents, who may vacillate between over-involvement and
abandonment, leading to frightening instability and
unpredictability *Driven parents, who are often compulsively busy
and can't stop trying to perfect everything, including other people
*Passive parents, who may have a laissez-faire mindset and avoid
dealing with anything upsetting *Rejecting parents, who may
withdraw from any relationship with their child, showing either
detachment or anger as primary responses All emotionally immature
parents have one defining characteristic in common, even if they
differ in style-none of them puts their child's needs first. This
book will show you that you are not to blame for your parent's
behavior. It also offers real skills for handling difficult family
situations and moving on from the emotional wounds of your
childhood. If you are ready to gain a greater understanding of both
your parents and yourself, this book provides a much-needed guide.
In the summer of 1978, I took my quarter horse to lead trail rides
for kids at a Bible camp in rural Iowa. I had just found out my
sister, Melody, had been diagnosed with the fastest-acting,
worst-type of leukemia. My mom wrote me letters every day that I
was away (nobody called long distance unless it was a true
emergency in those days). I kept those letters and compiled them
into the journey that was our lives that summer. Melody Heuss
prayed that God would bring her closer to Him during a time when
she felt she had drifted away from Him in her daily walk. I don't
know what it would be like to choose my young husband's new wife. I
don't know what it would be like to handpick a mother for my two
small children; but my sister did. When she knew she was going to
die, she convinced Carl, her husband and love of her life, to
re-marry. Melody made a list of eligible women and then narrowed it
down to one that Carl had never even met All the while she was
having numerous bone marrow aspirations, blood transfusions, and
chemotherapy that would turn her 28-year-old body into a bald,
disease-ravaged weakling. Her inner strength, courage, and attitude
brought inspiration to every single person who walked into her
hospital room and life. Nurses, family and friends were changed
forever by the way she handled her passing into the next life. This
is a story told from Melody's mother, Ruth's, point of view, the
writer of the letters. The frustrations and difficulties of
watching her child suffer tugs on your heart. You will also get a
glimpse of what I went through being away from home, and being torn
between wanting to be in the hospital room, but knowing I was where
God wanted me to be. Plus, you get to witness Susan, the young
woman who had already endured many loses and heartbreaks of her
own, step into this family on faith. Ruth personally witnessed the
power and assurance of God's eternal love for us, even in her
grief. On the early August morning of Melody's passing, Ruth
received a "gift" most of us never get to see. It was a message
from God, declaring the promise of life after death in a physical,
tangible way. It was a real miracle that all Christians can believe
in and cherish. Crystal Jolly
R.E.P.A.I.R. is a Six-Stage Program for abusesurvivors that will
transform your life forever
Recognize and accept your adult problems stemmingfrom childhood
sexual abuse.Enter into a commitment to transform your life.Process
your issues with tools and techniques that willenable you to become
healthy.Awareness to discover reality as you gather andassemble the
pieces of the broken puzzle your life became.Insight into the
complete picture helps you begin toreturn to what you were prior to
being sexually violated.Rhythm recovers the natural rhythm you had
beforethe incest happened, the blueprint that is the essence ofyour
true nature, becoming who you really are.
Therapists' Acclaim for "REPAIR Your Life"
"Thank you Marjorie and God bless you for adapting thisprogram for
our survivors to follow. You have given survivorshope to continue
on their healing journey."
-Donna Gustafson, Executive Director, Sunrise Center Against Sexual
Abuse
"Anyone wanting to recover from the life-long trauma ofchildhood
sexual abuse will benefit from this book."
-Marcelle B. Taylor, MFT
"This program just has to work, because whether intuitivelyor
through research, Marjorie McKinnon has assembleda highly effective
program of recovery."
-Bob Rich, PhD
Please visit www.TheLampLighters.org for more information or tofind
a group in your area.
Special editions available for young people: ask your bookseller
for "REPAIR for Kids"and "REPAIR for Toddlers."
Another life-changing title from Loving Healing Press
www.LHPress.com
SEL001530 Self-Help: Abuse - Sexual
SEL029000 Self-Help: Twelve-Step Programs
My Mother, My Daughter, My Self is a significant self-revelatory
work which chronicles the separation process between mother and
child, focusing most specifically on the mother/daughter
relationship. The book asks a core question for all mothers and
adult children: how do we perform the perplexing, sometimes
terrifying act of separation from our mothers and our children
while simultaneously marching toward the unknown terrain of
individuality? How do we yield to this inevitable process of
emotional separation from that which was once our own self? The
author uses her own experiences as a daughter, as a mother of a
newly-adopted baby, and as a psychoanalyst to explore an essential
truth: that our relationships with our mothers affect our other
significant love relationships, our values, our self-esteem, and
our sense of satisfaction, often throughout the whole of our lives.
She also uses the experiences of some of her patients, taken from
her forty years as a practicing clinician, to provide further
fascinating insights and illustration.Readers are gifted with both
an internal parenting 'guide' as well as a deeply profound memoir
about the internal process of being a mother that is so crucial,
yet rarely looked at so intently.
Dear Nana (sketch design) is an award-winning journal filled with
over 60 fun and inspiring questions carefully created to inspire
any grandmother to tell her story - probably one of the most
valuable gifts you will ever buy. Everyone has stories to share
about their own amazing life and it is so important to find ways to
capture and treasure them. Dear Nana contains 60 carefully designed
questions to ask her about her life. Ask her to complete it
carefully, adding photos and memorabilia along the way. Find out
how things have changed throughout her life, what things did she do
as a child that are different from today. What were her own parents
really like and what adventures has she had in her life. Discover
what your own mum or dad was like when they were young! What about
your own relationship with your grandmother, what are her favourite
memories of the times you have spent together and is there any
advice she would like to give you? When you get her completed
journal returned to you, this will be one of the most emotional
presents you have ever received. A great gift for Mother's Day,
Grandparent's Day, her birthday, an anniversary, Christmas or just
because you care ...
For most of her adult life, Dara Kurtz kept a Ziploc bag of letters
written by her mother who passed away from cancer when she was
twenty-eight years old. The bag also included other letters written
by her long-departed grandmothers. These letters gave Dara a
glimpse into their lives and personalities at the time the letters
were written. They offered her so much wisdom and relevance and
taught her so many beautiful, life lessons that Dara decided to
share their story, the incredible love between Jewish mothers and
daughters, and the wisdom passed on from one generation to the
next. As a mother, Dara has passed down these family traditions and
wisdom to her two daughters, who now carry on the legacy contained
in the Ziploc bag bridging the generations of women in their
family. She unexpected discovered that this is best done through
the lens of love and through the hand-written word.
Dear Grandpa (sketch design) is an award-winning journal filled
with over 60 fun and inspiring questions carefully created to
inspire any grandfather to tell his story - probably one of the
most valuable gifts you will ever buy. Everyone has stories to
share about their own amazing life ... and it is so important to
find ways to capture and treasure them. Dear Grandpa contains 60
carefully designed questions to ask him about his life. Ask him to
complete it carefully, adding photos and memorabilia along the way.
Find out how things have changed throughout his life, what things
did he do as a child that are different from today. What were his
own parents really like and what adventures has he had in her life.
Discover what your own Mum or Dad was like when they were young!
What about your own relationship with your grandfather, what are
his favourite memories of the times you have spent together and is
there any advice he would like to give you? When you get his
completed journal returned to you, this will be one of the most
emotional presents you have ever received. A great gift for
Father's Day, Grandparent's Day, his birthday, an anniversary,
Christmas or just because you care ...
Deepen your family's relationship with your grandparents using this
beautiful deck of conversation cards. These conversation starters
will help your family spark discussions with your grandmother or
grandfather about their favourite memories and wisdom they've
gained over the years. If you're eager to learn more about their
lives and experience, but don't know where to begin, this deck will
help you ignite the conversation. Thoughtfully designed by
bestselling author Korie Herold, Meaningful Conversations with My
Grandparents is the perfect gift for Mother's Day, Father's Day,
Thanksgiving, Christmas, birthdays, or any time of year. It's also
designed to look beautiful on a dining table or coffee table even
when not in use. Cards include questions, such as: Early Childhood:
What was your house like growing up? What were your favourite toys
or playtime activities? School Years: What did you think you wanted
to be when you grew up? What were you like as a teenager? Work and
Travel: What was your first job? What family vacations do you
remember the most? Love and Family: What's your best relationship
advice? How did you feel when you found out you were going to be a
grandparent? Character and Values: What do you value most in life?
What family values do you hope to pass down? Hypotheticals and
Curiosities: What's something you wish you had done differently?
What's the best advice you ever received? Special features include:
Elegant designed box with gold foil Gold foil and hand-drawn
illustrations printed on matte paper and heavy cardstock
Carefully-developed designs and prompts allow to you reflect and
remember "We are not taught how to have meaningful conversation,"
says author Korie Herold. "That's a skill gained over time, and
it's my mission to help you learn it." The Meaningful Conversations
with Grandparents deck can be used as a standalone item, or as a
companion to the guided journals Grandma's Story and Grandpa's
Story. Use the conversation cards to start discussions around the
dinner table, and then if you're so inclined, purchase one of the
guided journals to document your grandparent's answers as you go
along.
Preserve your life story and pass it down to your family in this
beautiful keepsake memory book. Grandma's Story is a guided journal
thoughtfully designed to help grandmothers record their special
memories and share them with their grandchildren and family.
Designed by bestselling artist Korie Herold, this keepsake book
offers writing prompts and journaling pages to guide grandmothers
along as they record their life's most precious moments. This book
is the perfect gift for Mother's Day, birthdays, or any time of
year for your grandmother. Sections and writing prompts include: *
Early Childhood: What was your house like growing up? What were
your favorite toys or playtime activities? * School Years: What did
you think you wanted to be when you grew up? What were you like as
a teenager? * Work and Travel: What was your first job? What family
vacations do you remember the most? * Love and Family: What's your
best relationship advice? How did you feel when you found out you
were going to be a grandfather? * Character and Values: What do you
value most in life? What family values do you hope to pass down? *
Hypotheticals and Curiosities: What's something you wish you had
done differently? What's the best advice you ever received? * Words
of Wisdom: Additional space to write letters to your family Special
features include: * Elegant linen with gold foil cover * Acid-free
and archival paper * Layflat design allows you to easily write in
the book * Carefully developed designs and prompts allow to you
reflect and remember
What happens when after ten years of what you thought was a happy
and normal family life your wife suddenly turns your world upside
down and leaves, leaving you, heartbroken and in shock and with two
expectant young children to care for and raise? First you hit the
bottle, get seriously drunk and hit a downward spiral in free fall,
heading for certain disaster. Then, once you've hit rock bottom,
you take stock of the situation, pick yourself up, dust yourself
down and begin the long and difficult climb out of the abyss,
putting life together again piece by arduous piece. This is what
happened to Brian Rowlands and this is his true story. Beginning
with the end of his marriage, this book charts his and his
children's journey along the long and very rocky road they
encountered as they struggled to re-build their shattered lives and
put some kind of stability and substance back in place. Filled with
many highs and lows and told in an honest and open manner this book
charts the last ten years in this single parent family's remarkable
life. From heartbreak to happiness, through disastrous
relationships, difficult medical problems and eleven different
homes in five years, their story will entertain, enthrall and
shock. Drawing the reader in, once started it is a book that the
reader will want to go on reading, page after page, leaving you
begging for more and wanting to know just what happens next.
This booklet is Mom's ticket to some much-deserved quality time and
care. The 12 shimmering foil-stamped tickets inside can be redeemed
anytime for the gifts she really wants―ranging from fun family
activities to favors that let her take a load off. Perfect to give one
at a time or as a set, these tickets are a sweet and thoughtful way to
let Mom know she's the best on Mother's Day―or any day.
- GREAT FOR THE MOTHER WHO HAS EVERYTHING: Can't think of the
perfect present for Mom? This ticket booklet is a unique and fun gift,
and also a fabulous way to give experiences―like a family fun activity
or a favor that lets her take a load off―that she's sure to love.
- EASY BUT THOUGHTFUL GIFT: Gifting gold! This is a perfect
last-minute gift for moms, whether for birthdays, Mother's Day, or just
because.
- ADD YOUR OWN PERSONAL TOUCH: All 12 tickets offer space on
the back to add a personal touch, and the booklet includes one blank
ticket that you can fill in with your own gift idea.
- GIFT ALL AT ONCE, OR THROUGHOUT THE YEAR: This booklet for
Mom is full of the gifts she most wants to receive-and they can be
gifted all together or individually one at a time. Either way, she'll
feel like a winner with a Lucky Ticket in hand.
- INCLUDES: booklet with 12 gold foil-stamped perforated
tickets
Whether you're a veteran grandma or a Nana-to-be, this collection
of stories will warm your heart and make you laugh about the
universal experiences of being a grandmother.
This powerful and unusual story contrasts The Bicknells, a wealthy
and influential family in Rosedale, Toronto, Ontario, into which I
was born out of wedlock, with a farm couple from near Brockville,
Ontario who adopted me in 1935. At the age of sixteen I began to
feel unsettled and lost. Eighteen years later I finally acted on
that feeling and began the search for my lost parents. Using
documents I found in a box in the closet of my adoptive mother
after her death, I have retrieved the moment when a sleek limousine
emerged from the dust of a gravel road delivering me to my new
parents. The book follows that limousine back as I searched for my
birth mother, taking me into mystery, intrigue and cover-up by the
legal system but bringing me finally to a supper dance in the
Crystal Ballroom of the historic King Edward Hotel in Toronto,
where by chance, my birth parents were reunited. The memoir is a
story of loss and recovery but it is also a story of love, strength
and redemption
Parents serve as their children's first teachers. What they learn
at home helps them build on their learning and education at school.
In A Parent's Guide to a Peaceful Home, author Patricia Braxton
provides a guide to helping parents manage their home in a
peaceful, loving way in order to ensure success for their children
at home and at school. This handbook presents Braxton's TAD (Toward
Affective Development) model, which gives practical advice to help
parents teach their children responsibility, respect, discipline,
and other positive character traits. It also teaches parents how to
relate to each other properly and how to affect change from within.
Through TAD, Braxton works to change the face of families in a
positive way. The steps detailed in A Parent's Guide to a Peaceful
Home can facilitate an atmosphere where love, compassion, respect,
and other virtues are taught by example and reinforced to produce a
lasting, peaceful home.
We parents are plagued with doubt. In an ever-changing world our
children must adapt constantly to the demands of the modern world -
and we as parents do too. From social media pressures, generational
expectations, and with a mental health crisis sweeping the younger
generation, parenting can be a challenging and uncertain journey
through uncharted territory. Dr Shefali, a therapist who has worked
with thousands of parents - and is a parent herself - is here to
provide a helping hand. Empowering parents with her revolutionary
conscious parenting method, The Parenting Map will lead you on an
exciting path of growth, helping you to disrupt unhealthy belief
patterns and overcome deeply ingrained fears so you can find an
authentic connection between yourself and your children. Following
a step-by-step plan to navigate everyday challenges, Dr Shefali
will teach you how to shift your focus to a new consciousness,
transform your mindset, and improve your communication within the
parenting dynamic. Your entire relationship with your children -
and with yourself - will change, resulting in deeper bonds and
healthy, thriving, well-adjusted children. Featuring hands-on
practical advice which question and empower you, as well as case
studies to help you day to day, The Parenting Map is the ultimate
manual for the modern-day parent. 'In this essential work, Dr.
Shefali shares the wisdom of her generous heart and deep insights
gleaned from decades of clinical experience. The result is an
easy-to-follow, illuminating, and eminently practical guide to
making conscious parenting an every-day reality for our children
and ourselves.' GABOR MATE, MD, New York Times bestselling author
of The Myth of Normal 'Break free from the destructive patterns of
your past. For parents with kids of all ages, The Parenting Map is
the solution-oriented guide you have been looking for to raise
independent, authentic, and happy children.' GABBY BERNSTEIN, New
York Times bestselling author of The Universe Has Your Back 'The
Parenting Map is a must-have for all stages of the parenting
journey. It offers insight on self-aware parenting, which teaches
us that when we heal ourselves, we become our children's best
possible caretakers and champions. We can all use these gentle
tools to be the engaged, empathetic parents our children need.'
KATHERINE SCHWARZENEGGER PRATT, mother, New York Times bestselling
author, and advocate 'Raising children in our crazy world has never
been harder. Dr. Shefali's classic The Conscious Parent was a game
changer that introduced me to the idea of intentional and
self-aware parenting. And with The Parenting Map, she has done what
seemed impossible, she's given us the playbook!' EVA LONGORIA
BASTON, actor, director, and mom
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