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This is a true story of a family's attempt at working together to
care for aging parents. It involves four adult siblings, two
parents, some anger, resentment, love and joy. There are tears,
astonishment, sleepless nights, laughter and a whole lot of
conflict, quiet and otherwise. Mary L. Currier shares her insight,
beliefs and professional experiences to normalize conflict between
adult siblings. She explains that families are often no strangers
to conflict. Rather, they may be strangers to managing that
conflict. Or perhaps it's more of an unwillingness to slip into the
deeper crevices of those sticky issues that form the patterns of
communication, therefore creating conflict. Either way, there is
often a deeply imbedded cycle of poor communication that courses
through family veins. You'd think that blood relatives would have a
comparatively easy time sorting out issues of conflict. You'd think
that four siblings would share similarities in problem solving
techniques. That is not the case in this family. What first
appeared as a moderate challenge evolved into a lifelong lesson
requiring patience, self-understanding, unconditional love and an
unending supply of forgiveness. As anxiety, Alzheimer's,
depression, and cancer, come out from behind the shadows, each
family member acts, or reacts, as only they can - with the skills
they have cultivated. Does that work for them? Not always. This is
a wonderful tool for adult siblings thinking about how they will
sustain their relationships with one another as they venture into
the care giving process. Mary even offers troubleshooting guidance
in an effort to improve skills in communications and conflict
resolution in hopes of sustaining adult sibling relationships.
This book covers age 35-65 with the same theme of aging and is part
of a trilogy. The growing family should enjoy life and live lusty,
hence the name of the book. A person's best years will come in the
period of age 35-65. So live "Lusty," you may never have it this
good again, even with a long life.
Maria Kelmis was adopted from Greece at the age of fifteen months.
She always knew she was adopted and considers it one of the best
things that happened in her life. Golden Strangers is a story about
a journey to find her biological mother specifically to thank her
and tell her that she had a wonderful life. You will experience the
great moments in Maria's life that may not have happened if she was
not adopted from Greece. Journey with Maria to San Diego,
California, as a young lady out on her own for the first time,
share her multiple visits to Greece including the months she spent
on the island of Santorini painting, travel with her to Uganda,
Africa, as she embarks on the experience of a lifetime, and share
the excitement of participating in the 1984 Olympics in Los
Angeles. All these events combined with her biological mother's
sacrifice have made Maria thankful for all of the blessings in her
life and have given her the desire to give back in so many ways;
from working and volunteering with the Greek Orthodox Church, to
helping the homeless, volunteering with autistic children, and
becoming a certified life coach, thereby helping people with their
life goals. This book is not only for people who share her story of
adoption, it is for anyone who loves to hear a great story and
believes in a power greater than all of us that makes things happen
in our lives. If you have adopted a child or know of someone who
has, you are encouraged to buy her children's book, Rainbow Bridge,
which is a book for parents to read to their children of any age to
let them know that they were adopted and that they are special and
loved, also published by AuthorHouse.
This book outlines events and situations that we all live in
reality and not smile about at the end of the day but instead wake
up the very next day trying to find a solution to yesterday which
allows more weight to carry over on our shoulders from the results
of today. You will read all walks of life pertaining to:
inspiration, love, commitment, prayers, life's realities, divided
families, child molestation, teen parenting, step parenting and
more. What if we can change lives with someone else for one day
maybe longer depending on the SITUATION in which you are put in?
What if a father can exchange places with a mother, a man can
change places with a woman, a single person can change places with
a married person, a child can change places with their parent, a
suspect can change places with a victim, the system can change
places with those in need, etc. To walk in someone else shoes and
seek why they suffer from emotional distress will better help you
understand why they are the way they are. A FAMILY THAT PRAYS
TOGETHER, STAYS TOGETHER THOSE WHO FAIL TO PRAY, FAIL TO SUCCEED
-Your daughter, maxed out on credit cards, asks you to co-sign a
lease.
-Your son can't afford rent and needs to move back home.
-Your ex-daughter-in-law is laid off, losing your grandchildren's
health insurance.
-Your nephew agrees to enter an expensive addiction treatment
program.
-Your older son, recently diagnosed with Adult Attention Deficit
Disorder, is months behind on his mortgage payments.
Millions of parents face these dilemmas, years after they
thought their children would be independent. As you extend
financial assistance, how can you help a young adult become prudent
and accountable?
In "Trust Me," family psychologist Kenneth Kaye and his son,
Nick, use the experience of Nick's struggle with what he calls
"Attention Money Disorder" to combine a no-nonsense strategy,
practical advice, business wisdom, and dozens of examples. They
show you step by step how to negotiate a "Deal" with your young
adult, rebuilding mutual trust and nurturing the skills and habits
of a self-supporting grown-up.
"I love this wonderfully practical, down-to-earth, funny,
thoughtful, warm, subversive book. Subversive because those who
follow the two Kayes' advice will be better mentors, but also more
financially responsible themselves. Every parent or relative who's
worried about subsidizing an adult child needs this book."
-Joline Godfrey, Author, "Raising Financially Fit Kids"
My first book "Finding the Me in Me" focused on my thoughts as a
parent after then death of Becca. Now I write the story of the
legal process that her death required. Not only dela;ing with her
death, but dealig with the legal component of murder. I suppose the
hardnest part is being a mother you think you always have a say so
in your children's lives - whether they like it or not. Legally you
find out you don't.
This is a journey I would hope no parent ever needs, but will
provide some insight into the legal process as you learn to cope
with the death of a loved one.
David and the Old Man is a true life story about a father and his
oldest son. The father a rugged, independent, stubborn and
selfserving man who grew up on a farm where growing food became the
only way to survive. He carries this farm mentality into his own
family situation and has an enormous garden which primarily
provides for his wife and four children. He grows and stores enough
food for his family, all the neighbors and friends. Beyond his own
belief, the Old Man's first son is not the rugged individualist he
pictured his first son to be. David, as a youth, appears to have
all the normal tendecies of any other kid, but does not fully
develop physically and has a dislike of certain foods. The
psychological battle between father and son is further nututred by
the Old Man's dislike for David's passive and unfatherlike
personality. David develops anorexia nervosa patterns in the earl
1960's and becomes a full blown anorexic case by his late teens.
What is unusual about this-- David is a male, completely rare for
this disease and exceptionally rare for tha time period in which it
occrred. The family battles the Old Man's will and lives with a son
or brother who displays no regard for himself or those close to
him.
This book is writen from classical collections of my struggles in
life and my decissions through critical moments some of them was
dirty, some of them was stupid and most of them was specifical
about of love. However it's a concise short words which I presented
to you based on my ideaology that mordern society is occupied and
busy so therefore should be given happy time easy times and moments
of relaxation. This book is small but its interpretaion could be
deep because it contains inscriptions of different insights of
various situations so this book is written to act like a seed
planted in a soil how you interpreted depends on the type of fruit
it will bear but I hope it inspire you to be a better person. I do
believe that this is work is sutiable for youth, family people and
modern philosopher refelecting about Love, Life and Time. Finally
please give me feed back about what you think or feel because this
is my first book and it took me more than 2 years.
About the BookThis book "From the Bottom to The Top," presents a
challenging educational thought to the mind for all readers. Being
able to read this book at first hand and seeing the parent and
child (Larry) relationship can be very challenging, though
interesting and educational. In fact, it is simply a sensible
recognition that, for a limited period, we need to put in some
extra quality time and effort in consolidating all our moral and
natural resources to achieve a worthy goal, starting at the bottom
and finishing at the top line.What might parents do to help ease
the tension between them and their children? How can they motivate
their children to be more successful and get to the top? How about
your self-esteem? How can you empower yourself to be your best? How
can you prevent them from getting underneath your skin? To these
and other questions, Part I of this book offers a practical, "what
to do with Larry story," hands-on approach.Part I of this book
concludes brilliantly and impressively, leaving me in a state of
insatiable yearning for the continuation of the rest of the book,
to find out how Larry got to the top from the bottom. I just cannot
wait to read the ensuing parts of this book "From the Bottom to the
Top." By Mr. Peter Cole
While this book is technically a sequel, the hope was that there
would never be reason to continue the first book's storyline. That
book was left open-ended because we can never be sure of an
addict's long-term sobriety. Given the longevity of his addiction,
his drug of choice and history of failures, the probability was
high that my son could relapse again. He had been clean and sober
for 30 months (18 months in prison and 12 months back home) before
his regression was triggered by a prescription pharmaceutical.
Vicodin was prescribed and that led my son back to the streets for
methadone and from there it was just a matter of time before
reconnecting with his old friend, heroin. My son's meltdown and the
mind-numbing ugliness of the fallout are documented in-depth,
during the early chapters of this book. In an effort to better
understand the profound difficulties that addicts struggle with,
and why they seem powerless to control their lives, the mid-section
of the book is devoted to research. The book covers addictions in
general, the history of worldwide drug usage, the pros and cons of
the various treatment programs, the debate over the difference of
opinion regarding the numerous models, the causal triggers and the
pharmaceutical companies. Every addict has two personalities, but
the general public only sees the manifestation of the unsightly
one...the good one goes unnoticed, even when they're clean and
sober. The indistinguishable one is no different than you or me;
he's just overpowered by his unwanted tenant...addiction. I'm
trying to point out that no one "wants" to be an addict. Once
clean, the addict knows that he must always be strong and vigilant
because his co-pilot isalways waiting in the wings for his chance
to once again, take over the flight controls.
From the Waterstones Prize-shortlisted author of Our Castle by the
Sea comes a gorgeously gothic story, perfect for fans of Emma
Carroll and Frances Hardinge ... 'My book of the year. This is
storytelling so secure and shining that you can almost feel the
glow.' HILARY MCKAY, COSTA BOOK AWARD-WINNING AUTHOR OF THE
SKYLARK'S WAR 'I absolutely love this book ... Lucy Strange is a
wonderful, accomplished writer whose books stay with you long after
you have finished reading.' NATASHA FARRANT, COSTA BOOK
AWARD-WINNING AUTHOR OF VOYAGE OF THE SPARROWHAWK Life is hard for
Willa, Grace and Freya, and their three younger sisters. Six
motherless girls working a farm, living in fear of their cruel
father and the superstition that obsesses him - The Curse of Six
Daughters. With the arrival of the mysterious Full Moon Fayre,
there's a chance for the eldest girls to steal a moment's fun, but
the day the fayre moves on, Grace vanishes. Willa goes after her,
following a trail that leads into the dangerous Lost Marsh, where
it is said a will-o'-the-wisp lures lost souls into the dark waters
of the mire. If Willa is to survive and reunite her family, she
will need to unravel the secrets her father has kept hidden, and
face her own deepest fears ... The spellbinding new novel from Lucy
Strange, author of The Secret of Nightingale Wood, The Ghost of
Gosswater and the Waterstones Prize-shortlisted Our Castle by the
Sea Perfect for fans of Emma Carroll, Frances Hardinge and Sophie
Anderson Combines dreamy magical realism with a thrilling mystery
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