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While this book is technically a sequel, the hope was that there
would never be reason to continue the first book's storyline. That
book was left open-ended because we can never be sure of an
addict's long-term sobriety. Given the longevity of his addiction,
his drug of choice and history of failures, the probability was
high that my son could relapse again. He had been clean and sober
for 30 months (18 months in prison and 12 months back home) before
his regression was triggered by a prescription pharmaceutical.
Vicodin was prescribed and that led my son back to the streets for
methadone and from there it was just a matter of time before
reconnecting with his old friend, heroin. My son's meltdown and the
mind-numbing ugliness of the fallout are documented in-depth,
during the early chapters of this book. In an effort to better
understand the profound difficulties that addicts struggle with,
and why they seem powerless to control their lives, the mid-section
of the book is devoted to research. The book covers addictions in
general, the history of worldwide drug usage, the pros and cons of
the various treatment programs, the debate over the difference of
opinion regarding the numerous models, the causal triggers and the
pharmaceutical companies. Every addict has two personalities, but
the general public only sees the manifestation of the unsightly
one...the good one goes unnoticed, even when they're clean and
sober. The indistinguishable one is no different than you or me;
he's just overpowered by his unwanted tenant...addiction. I'm
trying to point out that no one "wants" to be an addict. Once
clean, the addict knows that he must always be strong and vigilant
because his co-pilot isalways waiting in the wings for his chance
to once again, take over the flight controls.
About the BookThis book "From the Bottom to The Top," presents a
challenging educational thought to the mind for all readers. Being
able to read this book at first hand and seeing the parent and
child (Larry) relationship can be very challenging, though
interesting and educational. In fact, it is simply a sensible
recognition that, for a limited period, we need to put in some
extra quality time and effort in consolidating all our moral and
natural resources to achieve a worthy goal, starting at the bottom
and finishing at the top line.What might parents do to help ease
the tension between them and their children? How can they motivate
their children to be more successful and get to the top? How about
your self-esteem? How can you empower yourself to be your best? How
can you prevent them from getting underneath your skin? To these
and other questions, Part I of this book offers a practical, "what
to do with Larry story," hands-on approach.Part I of this book
concludes brilliantly and impressively, leaving me in a state of
insatiable yearning for the continuation of the rest of the book,
to find out how Larry got to the top from the bottom. I just cannot
wait to read the ensuing parts of this book "From the Bottom to the
Top." By Mr. Peter Cole
If your adult child becomes incapacitated or dies, you do not
automatically gain custody of your grandchildren. Sometimes,
depending on the age of the children and whether or not they are
adoptable will determine who gets custody. Hundreds of thousands of
dollars in federal bonus monies are given to states each year when
they exceed the number of adoptions from the previous year. Your
grandchild may be needed to help reach the numbers necessary for
your state to receive its bonus.
Today begins the last day of Rocquelle "Rocqui" Johnson's
'fairy-tale' life when she abruptly receives a disturbing phone
call from her mother that prompts her immediate return to her
imperfect past. Fayetteville NC, where she grew up was only three
hundreds miles away from Richmond VA, where she now lives. Yet, it
was worlds apart from her successful business and her loving fiance
Zoric. Rocqui knew that coming home would mean the start of
revisiting her childhood bittersweet memories. But nothing prepared
her for an encounter with a handsome stranger that may potentially
destroy her plans to live 'happily ever after'.
Nathan Walker is a Criminal Lawyer passionate about two things; his
job, and his fianc, Angelique. That's it. The two have been getting
through life's roller coasters as one, and when life takes a turn
for the worse, Nathan and Angelique expect their relationship to
stay solid. Struggling with a life altering situation, Nathan
crosses paths with Casey Green a Social Worker who realizes she
needs him as much as he needs her emotionally, and physically.
Caught in the middle of a love triangle with him on top, and with
Love and life at each end, Nathan needs to step up and be both a
man and a father! With the rebirth of life and affection, Nathan is
pushed to his breaking point, again, where he is then, left with
nothing, or so he thinks. His life was always missing something he
just didn't know what it was, until...
When fifteen-year old Celeste Zather catches the eyes of Preston
Carnegie, she never expects him to relentlessly pursue her. At
eighteen, Preston knows well what he wants and how to get it.
Celeste is no exception. A carefree and innocent girl, Celeste is
introduced to a world of parties, alcohol, and sex, the world that
Preston is accustomed to. Pregnancy compels them to marry, but love
holds them together. Preston becomes a preacher. As their family
continues to grow in the admonition of faith in God, the enemy is
in hot pursuit of destruction and death. After winning a prize for
family of the year, the enemy distracts them. They divorce. The
siblings deal with the troubles differently; some move on, and some
go astray. Despite the enemy, the Carnegies have one thing in
common-their faith in God.
Marilyn McCullough has had two husbands, five children, two
stepchildren, six dogs, three cats, and two goldfish. In this
memoir, she provides a humorous look at all aspects of her
life-from the everyday trials and tribulations of family, friends,
relationships, and aging to the not-so-ordinary topics of toe
fungus, flatulence, gargling, and moth killing. In this, her second
published book, McCullough has gathered articles previously
published in an Illinois newspaper and has combined them with
reflections about events both current and past. In addition to her
uncanny and often comedic essays on at life, she has included a
collection of short stories geared toward children. Through the
stories, observations, and experiences presented in "One Brick
Loose-Not Missing, But Who Cares?" McCullough communicates her
life's philosophy-live life with a certain amount of gusto, enjoy
the good, and accept the bad.
Ring around the Rosie A pocket full of posies, Ashes Ashes We all
fall down As a little girl growing up singing Ring Around the
Rosie, little did I know, that this would become our family ballad.
My maternal grandpa used to say, "One day this family will destroy
itself " How could I possibly understand what that meant? But I
remember him saying it, all the same. Grandpa's prediction now
rings true, as our family did destroy itself and fell to the ashes
with the final act of our mother's passing. She left a carefully
woven Gordian knot through deceptive means in her death wake of
such vast proportion and complexity that it may never unravel. The
death and passing of a loved one is difficult, even under the best
of circumstances. But if the ties that bind left behind unaddressed
confusion, misunderstandings, and/or deceit, the pain can run deep
and leave a lasting "nonnegotiable" imprint, limited not to just
one member, but the entire family for generations to come.
This is what I am sure of. There are millions of parents in this
world. But there are only a select few with special needs children.
No matter what you believe, this child was not given to you by
mistake. You were chosen. You were entrusted to lead, guide and
nurture that child. It's not by mistake; it's by design.
By 1993, God had blessed Nancy Ferrin with six precious
children. One was taken home to heaven soon after birth, but the
others were her treasures here on earth. The early years were
uneventful and filled with activities, family fun, and spiritual
training. However, the teen years led one son on an unexpected,
destructive path. Heartbreak grew when a few years later, her only
daughter followed in her brother's footsteps. During those
agonizing years, God's peace sustained Nancy as she turned to Him
repeatedly for understanding and strength. Because there are
countless other parents dealing with similar struggles, this book
is intended to help with the confusion and uncertainty of the
prodigal years.
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