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For most of her adult life, Dara Kurtz kept a Ziploc bag of letters
written by her mother who passed away from cancer when she was
twenty-eight years old. The bag also included other letters written
by her long-departed grandmothers. These letters gave Dara a
glimpse into their lives and personalities at the time the letters
were written. They offered her so much wisdom and relevance and
taught her so many beautiful, life lessons that Dara decided to
share their story, the incredible love between Jewish mothers and
daughters, and the wisdom passed on from one generation to the
next. As a mother, Dara has passed down these family traditions and
wisdom to her two daughters, who now carry on the legacy contained
in the Ziploc bag bridging the generations of women in their
family. She unexpected discovered that this is best done through
the lens of love and through the hand-written word.
Deepen your family's relationship with your grandparents using this
beautiful deck of conversation cards. These conversation starters
will help your family spark discussions with your grandmother or
grandfather about their favourite memories and wisdom they've
gained over the years. If you're eager to learn more about their
lives and experience, but don't know where to begin, this deck will
help you ignite the conversation. Thoughtfully designed by
bestselling author Korie Herold, Meaningful Conversations with My
Grandparents is the perfect gift for Mother's Day, Father's Day,
Thanksgiving, Christmas, birthdays, or any time of year. It's also
designed to look beautiful on a dining table or coffee table even
when not in use. Cards include questions, such as: Early Childhood:
What was your house like growing up? What were your favourite toys
or playtime activities? School Years: What did you think you wanted
to be when you grew up? What were you like as a teenager? Work and
Travel: What was your first job? What family vacations do you
remember the most? Love and Family: What's your best relationship
advice? How did you feel when you found out you were going to be a
grandparent? Character and Values: What do you value most in life?
What family values do you hope to pass down? Hypotheticals and
Curiosities: What's something you wish you had done differently?
What's the best advice you ever received? Special features include:
Elegant designed box with gold foil Gold foil and hand-drawn
illustrations printed on matte paper and heavy cardstock
Carefully-developed designs and prompts allow to you reflect and
remember "We are not taught how to have meaningful conversation,"
says author Korie Herold. "That's a skill gained over time, and
it's my mission to help you learn it." The Meaningful Conversations
with Grandparents deck can be used as a standalone item, or as a
companion to the guided journals Grandma's Story and Grandpa's
Story. Use the conversation cards to start discussions around the
dinner table, and then if you're so inclined, purchase one of the
guided journals to document your grandparent's answers as you go
along.
Fathers, Prisons, and Family Reentry: Presencing as a Framework and
Method asks scholars, policy makers, advocates, and practitioners
to rethink family reentry in a new light, to seek to understand
both the urgent and intolerable loss as well as the real and
present potential of families. There are almost one million parents
of minor-aged children currently serving time in U.S. prisons-most
of them fathers. Based on post-phenomenological analyses, William
Muth offers a new framework for conceptualizing family reentry as a
present phenomenon. It seeks to reveal the intense ways
incarcerated fathers and their families live their present-absence,
and draws on these intensities to define a new role for researchers
and practitioners: nurturing the potential of families in the here
and now. The current situation is intolerable. A credible family
reentry approach is urgently needed. This book is an attempt to
address these families as they potentially are, and might become,
if we would be willing to "meet them half-way," in the words of the
poet Alice Fulton.
What happens when after ten years of what you thought was a happy
and normal family life your wife suddenly turns your world upside
down and leaves, leaving you, heartbroken and in shock and with two
expectant young children to care for and raise? First you hit the
bottle, get seriously drunk and hit a downward spiral in free fall,
heading for certain disaster. Then, once you've hit rock bottom,
you take stock of the situation, pick yourself up, dust yourself
down and begin the long and difficult climb out of the abyss,
putting life together again piece by arduous piece. This is what
happened to Brian Rowlands and this is his true story. Beginning
with the end of his marriage, this book charts his and his
children's journey along the long and very rocky road they
encountered as they struggled to re-build their shattered lives and
put some kind of stability and substance back in place. Filled with
many highs and lows and told in an honest and open manner this book
charts the last ten years in this single parent family's remarkable
life. From heartbreak to happiness, through disastrous
relationships, difficult medical problems and eleven different
homes in five years, their story will entertain, enthrall and
shock. Drawing the reader in, once started it is a book that the
reader will want to go on reading, page after page, leaving you
begging for more and wanting to know just what happens next.
This powerful and unusual story contrasts The Bicknells, a wealthy
and influential family in Rosedale, Toronto, Ontario, into which I
was born out of wedlock, with a farm couple from near Brockville,
Ontario who adopted me in 1935. At the age of sixteen I began to
feel unsettled and lost. Eighteen years later I finally acted on
that feeling and began the search for my lost parents. Using
documents I found in a box in the closet of my adoptive mother
after her death, I have retrieved the moment when a sleek limousine
emerged from the dust of a gravel road delivering me to my new
parents. The book follows that limousine back as I searched for my
birth mother, taking me into mystery, intrigue and cover-up by the
legal system but bringing me finally to a supper dance in the
Crystal Ballroom of the historic King Edward Hotel in Toronto,
where by chance, my birth parents were reunited. The memoir is a
story of loss and recovery but it is also a story of love, strength
and redemption
Parents serve as their children's first teachers. What they learn
at home helps them build on their learning and education at school.
In A Parent's Guide to a Peaceful Home, author Patricia Braxton
provides a guide to helping parents manage their home in a
peaceful, loving way in order to ensure success for their children
at home and at school. This handbook presents Braxton's TAD (Toward
Affective Development) model, which gives practical advice to help
parents teach their children responsibility, respect, discipline,
and other positive character traits. It also teaches parents how to
relate to each other properly and how to affect change from within.
Through TAD, Braxton works to change the face of families in a
positive way. The steps detailed in A Parent's Guide to a Peaceful
Home can facilitate an atmosphere where love, compassion, respect,
and other virtues are taught by example and reinforced to produce a
lasting, peaceful home.
The study of parents from their own perspective not just as
socializing agents of their children has been long neglected. This
book summarizes and presents the new and surging literature on
parenting representations namely parents' views, emotions and
internal world regarding their parenting. Within this area, several
prominent researchers typically coming from the attachment
tradition suggested various ways of assessing parenting
representations, mostly by way of semi-structured interviews. This
book presents their conceptualizations and includes detailed
descriptions of their interviews and their coding schemes. In
addition, a review and summary of the growing number of findings in
this domain and an integrated conceptualization that serves a
theoretical base for future research are presented. Finally, the
clinical implications of the study of parenting representations are
discussed at large. Clinical notions and conceptualizations
regarding parenting representations are presented and thoroughly
discussed including detailed case studies that demonstrate among
other things intergenerational transmission of representations.
'A hugely impressive achievement.' - Hadley Freeman, author of
House of Glass At 8.00am on Monday 18th June 2001, Danielle Jones
left home dressed in her school uniform - and promptly vanished.
The 15-year old's body was never recovered, but Danielle's parents
soon learned that her 'Uncle Stuart', a close family friend, had
concealed a decades-long history of sexual violence against teenage
girls. Despite the absence of a body, Stuart Campbell was sentenced
to life in prison for Danielle's abduction and murder. But what set
him on his path as a violent sexual predator? And how do you come
to terms with his actions if he's your own flesh and blood? In My
Brother the Killer, Stuart's older brother Alix Sharkey chronicles
the violent childhood and troubled teens that helped shape a bright
and handsome little boy into one of Britain's most notorious
killers, and led to one of the UK's most unusual murder trials.
Sharkey also poses several terrifying questions: what happens when
you discover a deadly sexual predator in your family? Is it
possible to trace the root of his heinous crimes? And with the
clock ticking towards his possible parole, can Stuart Campbell be
convinced to reveal the location of Danielle's remains? A
devastating hybrid of true crime and family memoir, My Brother the
Killer examines the true cost of keeping dark family secrets.
"When A Father Fails" is the life story of an urban pastor who was
a public image but a private failure. Follow his journey as he
honestly shares the reasons for his failure and his struggle to
overcome his past transgressions. This book was written as a salute
to all children who strive to overcome their father's own failures
in their life. This book is also intended to lift the spirit of
those wounded by life and to encourage every invisible father to
pursue reconciliation with their children today.
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The Missing Piece
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Jordan Stephens; Illustrated by Beth Suzanna
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A heart-warming, fresh and original story about family and
friendship from brand-new picture book author, writer and performer
Jordan Stephens. Sunny loves jigsaw puzzles - the bigger the
better. When she completes one, she gets a warm, happy honeybee
buzz. One day, her Gran gives her a ONE-THOUSAND-PIECE puzzle.
Piece after piece, all by herself, she puts together the picture,
until ... DISASTER! The final piece is missing. Sunny may be small,
but she is very determined - so she sets off to find it. As the day
whizzes by in a whirl of new places and friends, Sunny discovers
that looking for something is every bit as fun as finding it, and
that perhaps the missing piece was there all along ...
Was he thinking, do I have to be this kind of boy to survive? Is
this what being a boy is? As a boy growing up on the south coast of
England, Howard Cunnell's sense of self was dominated by his
father's absence. Now, years later, he is a father, and his
daughter is becoming his son. Starting with his own childhood in
the Sussex beachlands, Howard tells the story of the years of
self-destruction that defined his young adulthood and the escape he
found in reading and the natural world. Still he felt compelled to
destroy the relationships that mattered to him. Saved by love and
responsibility, Cunnell charts his journey from anger to
compassion, as his daughter Jay realizes he is a boy, and a son.
Most of all, this is a story about love - its necessity and
fragility, and its unequalled capacity to enable us to be who we
are. Deeply thoughtful, searingly honest and exquisitely lyrical,
Fathers & Sons is an exploration of fatherhood, masculinity,
authenticity and family.
"Grandparents Cry Twice: Help for Bereaved Grandparents" is a book
about grandparents' dual sorrow when a grandchild dies. They cry
for their lost grandchild and they also cry for the terrible grief
they see their own child having to bear. The author, Mary Lou Reed,
writes of her experiences when her beloved grandson, Alex, died.
Through her personal story she touches the universal in all
grandparents' grief.
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Make leaf rubbings, learn the neighbourhood bird songs together,
turn an aquarium into a worm hotel, create a firefly lantern. There
are garden projects, both for the outdoors - grow a container
snacking garden, sweet potato vines, peanuts and more. Cooking
projects both in the sunshine - baking in a solar over and in the
kitchen - what child will ever forget the time the two or you made
Potato Volcanoes with Lava? And lots of rainy day activities for
time when nature's in a cranky mood.
Figuring out how to raise happy, healthy and successful kids can be
overwhelming. Parents find themselves wading through tons of
conflicting advice. Books that outline a "right way" of doing
things can leave even the most dedicated caregiver feeling
discouraged and inadequate when real life doesn't measure up. An
experienced psychiatrist and founder of the Center for Reflective
Communities, Regina Pally serves up something totally different in
her book. She argues that the key to successful parenting is
learning to slow down, reflect and recognise that there is no one
key to doing it right. The Reflective Parent synthesises the latest
in neuroscience research to show that our brain's natural
tendencies to empathise, analyse and connect with others are all we
need to be good parents. Full of practical, easy-to-implement
strategies that apply to every stage of a child's development, and
filled with engaging anecdotes, this book will help parents build
loving, lasting relationships with their kids.
If you have an adult child, you know that parenting doesn't stop
when a child reaches the age of eighteen. In many ways, it gets
more complicated. Both your heart and your head are as involved as
ever, whether your child lives under your roof or rarely stays in
contact. In Doing Life with Your Adult Children, parenting expert
Jim Burns helps you navigate the toughest and the most rewarding
parts of parenting your grown kids. Speaking from his own personal
and professional experience, Burns offers practical answers to
questions such as these: Is it OK to give advice to my grown child?
What's the difference between enabling and helping? What boundaries
should I have if my child moves back home? What do I do when my
child doesn't seem to be maturing into adulthood? How do I relate
to my grown child's significant other? What does it mean to have
healthy financial boundaries? How can I support my grown children
when I don't support their values? Including positive principles on
bringing kids back to faith, ideas on how to leave a legacy as a
grandparent, and encouragement for every changing season, Doing
Life with Your Adult Children is a unique book on your changing
role in a calling that never ends.
'Charming, touching and very very funny' Jenny Colgan 'Simply too
good' Daily Mail From the author of the Times bestselling A Chip
Shop in Poznan ONE HOUSE. TWO HOUSEMATES. THREE REASONS TO WORRY:
WINNIE AND BEN ARE SEPARATED BY 50 YEARS, A GULF IN CLASS, AND
MAJOR DIFFERENCES OF OPINION. When hunting for a room in London,
Ben Aitken came across one for a great price in a lovely part of
town. There had to be a catch. And there was. The catch was Winnie:
an 85-year-old widow who doesn't suffer fools. Full of warmth, wit
and candour, The Marmalade Diaries tells the story of an unlikely
friendship during an unlikely time. Imagine an intergenerational
version of Big Brother, but with only two contestants. One of the
pair a grieving and inflexible former aristocrat in her
mid-eighties. The other a working-class millennial snowflake. What
could possibly go wrong? What could possibly go right? Out of the
most inauspicious of soils - and from the author of The Gran Tour -
comes a book about grief, family, friendship, loneliness, life,
love, lockdown and marmalade.
Being a caregiver is a difficult role. It requires pateince,
tenderness, selflessness, and hard work. Providing care for another
human being, whether a parent, loved one, or as a professional
requires a level of self love and self care as well that can not be
ignored. While it may be a rewarding experience to care for a loved
one, it can also be a stressful, both emotionally and mentally. It
is easy to get caught up in taking care of someone else that you
forget to take care of yourself and your own physical and emotional
well being as well. How do you navigate your role as caregiver
without losing yourself? Conscious Caregiver can help readers
navigate caring for their loved one, whether that means full-time
in house caregiving or hiring support from outside services. With
information on talking to their loved ones about their situation,
how to handle the emotional stress, practical information on
medical needs and finances, and how to take time away to care for
themselves, Conscious Caregiver can help them care for their loved
one and themselves at the same time.
'A total triumph', 'Romantic and heartbreaking and uplifting all at
once', 'Highly recommended' *The Independent best 'never-too-late'
story of 2021, and one of the 8 best uplifting books of the year*
IS IT EVER TOO LATE TO BE LOVED? 'Wonderful . . . An utter treat'
KATE MOSSE 'A heartfelt coming-of-age story . . . Remarkable'
LAURIE FRANKEL, New York Times bestselling author 'A heart-warming,
joyous love story - original, hopeful and totally charming' ADELE
PARKS 'I loved it! Really heart-warming and joyful, but also so
poignant. I cannot recommend this book highly enough' LORRAINE
KELLY 'Albert is one of the most endearing characters I've met in a
long time . . . Proof that it's never too late to find a happy
ending' SUSAN WIGGS, New York Times bestselling author 'A bright,
clear, sharply intelligent writer' JENNY COLGAN 'Will put a smile
on everyone's face . . . A great big hug of a book!' - MICHAEL
BALL, Radio 2 'Wonderful. Written with such a good heart, filled
with joy and strength and optimism . . . inventive and fun but most
importantly, true.' RUSSELL T. DAVIES 'A beautiful, timely
page-turner, straight from the heart . . . The perfect summer read'
MATTHEW BOURNE 'Brilliant . . . [I] recommend to all!' MATT LUCAS
***** ALBERT ENTWISTLE WAS A POSTMAN. It was one of the few things
everyone knew about him. And it was one of the few things he was
comfortable with people knowing. 64-year-old Albert Entwistle has
been a postie in a quiet town in Northern England for all his life,
living alone since the death of his mam 18 years ago. He keeps
himself to himself. He always has. But he's just learned he'll be
forced to retire at his next birthday. With no friends and nothing
to look forward to, the lonely future he faces terrifies him. He
realises it's finally time to be honest about who he is. He must
learn to ask for what he wants. And he must find the courage to
look for the man that, many years ago, he lost - but has never
forgotten . . . Join Albert as he sets out to find the long-lost
love of his life, and has an unforgettable and completely
life-affirming adventure on the way . . . This is a love story the
likes of which you have never read before! ***** 'Albert is such an
endearing character - flawed, funny and awkward, but completely
relatable. A wonderfully warm story that completely drew me in'
RUTH HOGAN 'A rollicking love story' IAN McKELLEN 'Albert is the
most delicious character and you'll be with him every step of the
way' SUN 'A charming adventure with love at its heart' MY WEEKLY 'A
life affirming story of lost love' THAT'S LIFE 'A unique and moving
story' CANDIS 'A heart-warming and uplifting read' ATTITUDE 'You
will weep and yet have your heart filled with joy' ARLENE PHILLIPS
'I raced through this heart-warming story' JUSTIN MYERS 'Prepare to
fall in love with Albert Entwistle! Touching and tender' S. J.
WATSON 'Albert is delightful and charming, and the book is too'
JONATHAN HARVEY 'I so enjoyed this - a warm-hearted, moving and
thought-provoking joy about an elderly postman's awakening to life
and love' FANNY BLAKE 'A total triumph. Romantic and heartbreaking
and uplifting all at once.' LAURA KAY 'Tender, witty, uplifting'
KATE EBERLEN As seen and heard on THE GRAHAM NORTON RADIO SHOW, BBC
Radio 4's WOMAN'S HOUR, RESONANCE FM, BBC Radio 2'S THE MICHAEL
BALL SHOW, TalkRADIO'S THE BADASS WOMEN'S SHOW, TIMES RADIO with
GILES COREN and many more . . .
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