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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Family & other relationships > Intergenerational relationships
This book explores the development of a new path of transition
between adolescence and adulthood in recent generations. Whereas
traditionally the transition into adulthood was marked by a clear
and irreversible change in condition, we are now seeing a
continuance in the role and influence of the family on the young
adult. What consequences does this have for our society? Is the
persistence of emotional bonds which previously loosened during
adolescence, inhibiting young people from developing into full
adulthood? The authors present a clear and in-depth analysis of the
theoretical framework surrounding the transition into adulthood
both from a generational point of view and a relationship-centred
perspective. The findings of international research are presented
and compared across generations, gender and geographical location
within Europe. The different research methods of 'family related
research' and 'family research' are also distinguished and
analysed. This volume offers an original and multi-faceted review
of this topic. The family is considered as an organization, and the
interdependencies and interconnections between its members, the
generations and genders investigated. It offers a unique
contribution to the current literature and will appeal to an
international audience of researchers, policy makers and educators
both in academic and professional spheres.
Margaret Nelson investigates the lives of single, working-class
mothers in this compelling and timely book. Through personal
interviews, she uncovers the different challenges that mothers and
their children face in small town America--a place greatly changed
over the past fifty years as factory work has dried up and national
chains like Walmart have moved in.
'A hugely impressive achievement.' - Hadley Freeman, author of
House of Glass At 8.00am on Monday 18th June 2001, Danielle Jones
left home dressed in her school uniform - and promptly vanished.
The 15-year old's body was never recovered, but Danielle's parents
soon learned that her 'Uncle Stuart', a close family friend, had
concealed a decades-long history of sexual violence against teenage
girls. Despite the absence of a body, Stuart Campbell was sentenced
to life in prison for Danielle's abduction and murder. But what set
him on his path as a violent sexual predator? And how do you come
to terms with his actions if he's your own flesh and blood? In My
Brother the Killer, Stuart's older brother Alix Sharkey chronicles
the violent childhood and troubled teens that helped shape a bright
and handsome little boy into one of Britain's most notorious
killers, and led to one of the UK's most unusual murder trials.
Sharkey also poses several terrifying questions: what happens when
you discover a deadly sexual predator in your family? Is it
possible to trace the root of his heinous crimes? And with the
clock ticking towards his possible parole, can Stuart Campbell be
convinced to reveal the location of Danielle's remains? A
devastating hybrid of true crime and family memoir, My Brother the
Killer examines the true cost of keeping dark family secrets.
The perfect Mother's Day gift, birthday gift for mom from her adult
daughter, or sweet treasure for a daughter of any age! Show Mom
your appreciation with this classic mom book from New York Times
bestselling author Greg Lang. Why a Daughter Needs a Mom has been
bringing together mothers and daughters for years, and makes the
perfect gift for moms everywhere. As a girl's most trusted friend,
her mom is the one who understands best. She's been there through
it all: the triumph and heartache, the skinned knees and the broken
hearts. A Daughter Needs a Mom... To soothe the pain of a broken
heart To nurture her imagination To teach her that class never goes
out of style To teach her to make thankfulness a habit To give her
the courage to stand up for herselfWhy A Daughter Needs a Mom
celebrates 100 reasons why Mom's steadfast love is the guiding
light her daughter needs to become the wonderful woman she's meant
to be. For new moms with their first daughter, mothers-to-be, or
for any mom and daughter out there, celebrate how a mother helps
her girl grow.
Make leaf rubbings, learn the neighbourhood bird songs together,
turn an aquarium into a worm hotel, create a firefly lantern. There
are garden projects, both for the outdoors - grow a container
snacking garden, sweet potato vines, peanuts and more. Cooking
projects both in the sunshine - baking in a solar over and in the
kitchen - what child will ever forget the time the two or you made
Potato Volcanoes with Lava? And lots of rainy day activities for
time when nature's in a cranky mood.
This is a book which seeks help those going through the process of
mid-adolescence - either from the point of view of the adolescent
or their families - it attends to the serious strains that may have
to be borne if the picture portrayed is to have any realism. 'Youth
culture' may idealize the adolescent and vilify parents; but, as we
shall see, the paradoxical expectations placed on both adolescents
and their parents arise from the creative tension between the
desire to progress and the desire to regress as mid-adolescents
consolidate the move out of childhood and prepare for adulthood. No
easy task for the mid-adolescent and those responsible for them.
Grandkids really say the most unique things, and you don't want to
forget those sweet moments. From stray observations to hilarious
quips, sweet sentiments, and more, capture their words in this
beautiful journal. With plenty of space for writing, this
best-selling keepsake journal is just the place to create a record
of your grandchild's most memorable sayings to revisit for years to
come.
In the '40s and '50s many men from Denmark traveled to Greenland to
work. Here they met Greenlandic women-which more than once resulted
in pregnancies. Many of these men then returned to Denmark, which
meant that the children grew up as illegitimate children without
even knowing their fathers. One of these children was Anne Sofie
Hardenberg, who was teased all through her childhood for having a
Danish father-and an absent one at that. By the age of 17 she
gathered the courage to write to her father. To her surprise he was
very glad to hear from her, and wished to make her a part of his
family. Unluckily they only got three weeks together-then he died
in a car accident... This book is Anne Sofie's memoir accompanied
by photos and letters between her and her Danish family. Today,
still, there is a problem with the legal rights of this generation
of "fatherless" children.
Do you have a self-absorbed or narcissistic parent who's made you
feel rejected, unloved, or unworthy? Being a parent is usually all
about giving of yourself to foster your child's growth and
development. But what happens when this isn't the case? Some
parents dismiss the needs of their children, asserting their own
instead, demanding attention and reassurance from even very young
children. This may especially be the case when a parent has
narcissistic tendencies or narcissistic personality disorder (NPD).
This fully revised and updated edition of a self-help classic
offers a step-by-step approach to resolving conflict and building a
meaningful relationship with a narcissistic parent. Children of the
Self-Absorbed offers clear definitions of narcissism and
narcissistic personality disorder to help you identify the extent
of your parent's problem. You'll learn the different types of
destructive narcissism and how to recognise their effects on your
relationships. Packed with proven techniques, you'll realise that
you're not helpless against your parent's behaviour, and that you
don't have to give up on the relationship. Instead, you'll find
realistic strategies and steps for setting up mutually agreed upon
behaviours, so you can fulfil your own emotional needs. In this new
edition, you'll discover: *Skills for managing intense emotions
*Tools for building character, self-esteem and self-acceptance *How
kindness and gratitude can promote self-healing *How to build trust
and empathy with others If you're ready to begin healing from the
pain of growing up with a self-absorbed parent and establish the
boundaries you need to thrive - this book will guide you, one step
at a time.
If your mother had superpowers, what would they be? What's your
favorite childhood memory of the two of you together? What has your
mom accomplished that makes you proud? Thought provoking and
celebratory, this fill-in gift book provides 50 prompts that help
you capture all the things you love and appreciate about your
mother: her talents, her quirks, the memories you share, and more.
With a fresh illustration style and deluxe production details like
a grain-embossed, foil-stamped cover, ribbon markers, and a 4-color
interior, this book is the perfect keepsake your mother will enjoy
for years to come.
It's a real shocker-such incredible news You are going to be a
grandmother What should you do? Where do you begin? Remarkably,
your offspring is pregnant and you are having a grandbaby "in Less
Than Nine Months " It's hard to imagine this complex transition.
You gave "them" life and now they give "you" new life
"Get Ready to Be a Grandmother" is an insightful journey through
the trimesters of pregnancy, delving into the communication issues
and challenges of this life-altering, newborn dimension called
Grandmotherhood. Get Ready is your definitive Guidebook to
Grandmothering, laying a concrete foundation for the road
ahead.
A lifelong educator and PR professional communicator, Dr. Susan:
the Gramma Guru(R) teaches you how to maximize your time, energy,
and resources through involvement rather than intrusion. If you are
joining the ten thousand Baby Boomers becoming grandmothers "every
day," "Get Ready" is the book to curl up with during the exciting
months ahead
The perfect Valentine's Day activity book! Think you know
everything there is to know about your husband? This marriage game
activity book for couples will be the judge... Quiz books for
couples are a fun way to find out just how well you know your
better half. Featuring 100 questions that range from...Can you name
one of his old flames? to Does he believe in the afterlife? to Does
he remember where you went on your first date together?, Do You
Know Your Husband? is a great husband and wife game to play-for
newlyweds and those celebrating their twentieth anniversaries
alike! Play as a couple on date night, or for the more competitive
types, invite another couple over to go head-to-head and see who
knows each other best. Grab a pencil and find out... Would he like
to go to space? Did he collect anything as a child? What does he
consider his best physical feature? Among your relatives, who is
his favorite? Is he superstitious?Also check out the companion
book, Do You Know Your Wife? so you each have a go! Makes a great
engagement party game or to give as a stocking stuffer,
anniversary, Valentine's Day or birthday gift!
Today, more and more grandmothers around the world are taking on
varied responsibilities and many roles, sometimes concurrently.
Consequently, grandmothers continue to play, as in the past, an
influential role not only in the lives of their grandchildren, but
also in our communities and in society more broadly. Grandmothers
and Grandmothering: Creative and Critical Contemplations in Honour
of our Women Elders, as the title suggests, seeks to pay homage to
our grandmothers and their contributions to society. As well, it
aims to explore the textured and complex phenomena of
grandmothering from a range of disciplines and cultural
perspectives. Our hope is that this collection challenges
preconceived notions of what it means to be a grandmother and
provides insight into the multifaceted nature of grandmothering.
"They've always wanted me to be open and honest with them, I've
spent years explaining stuff to them, and sometimes they still
don't understand everything" - Milly, 16 "Your parents aren't
actually hatching a plan to ruin your life..." Jim, 52 From minor
matters (tidiness, homework, sleep) to big and important ones
(relationships, mental ill health, drugs and alcohol), teenagers
and their parents often struggle to talk to each other - and
talking is key if your young person is facing new challenges as
they leave childhood behind. A well-timed conversation, a listening
ear, a non-judgemental and receptive attitude - all these can make
an enormous and lasting impact on how safely and happily a teenager
navigates this crucial stage of their development. Oh, if only it
were that easy. It's not always easy to talk to your teenager, or
for them to talk to you, but it is critical and may even be
life-saving. This book draws extensively on hundreds of
conversations that Fiona Spargo-Mabbs has conducted with young
people and parents in focus groups and school and college
workshops, to give a framework for tackling tough conversations
about difficult things, without judgement or anger. It gives
context and insight, based on the latest neuroscience findings on
the teenage brain and, importantly, it gives hundreds of prompts
and plenty of practical suggestions and strategies to make
communication between parents and young people a two-way street
that builds the foundations for a strong relationship with your
adult child. Covering everything from the small stuff, like curfews
and screen time, to the tough stuff of sex, self-harm and suicide,
this is a warm, compassionate and important book that draws on
lived experience and the lives of young people as they are, not as
we think they might, or should, be.
If you have an adult child, you know that parenting doesn't stop
when a child reaches the age of eighteen. In many ways, it gets
more complicated. Both your heart and your head are as involved as
ever, whether your child lives under your roof or rarely stays in
contact. In Doing Life with Your Adult Children, parenting expert
Jim Burns helps you navigate the toughest and the most rewarding
parts of parenting your grown kids. Speaking from his own personal
and professional experience, Burns offers practical answers to
questions such as these: Is it OK to give advice to my grown child?
What's the difference between enabling and helping? What boundaries
should I have if my child moves back home? What do I do when my
child doesn't seem to be maturing into adulthood? How do I relate
to my grown child's significant other? What does it mean to have
healthy financial boundaries? How can I support my grown children
when I don't support their values? Including positive principles on
bringing kids back to faith, ideas on how to leave a legacy as a
grandparent, and encouragement for every changing season, Doing
Life with Your Adult Children is a unique book on your changing
role in a calling that never ends.
When eight-year-old Leah's parents get divorced, her mother,
Cessie, flees her conventional life as a suburban housewife in
search of a glamorous big city career in journalism. In the chaotic
years that follow Cessie lurches from one apartment, job and toxic
romance to the next, with her adoring daughter in tow. Cessie
describes her parenting style as 'benign neglect' and their family
motto 'Commitment sucks the life right out of you' is tacked up on
every rental fridge. In the aftermath of a disturbing sexual
experience at a pool party, Leah finds herself crippled with
anxiety. When she confides in her mother, Cessie makes an
astonishing disclosure in turn, one that alters everything: from
the age of twelve to fifteen she was in a clandestine relationship
with her middle-aged, married riding instructor. The damage
inflicted by the 'Horseman', Cessie explains, is the reason for all
her regrettable life choices - marriage, divorce and even
motherhood itself. Both women spend the ensuing decades haunted by
the spectre of the Horseman, until they decide to investigate what
became of him - an ill-conceived quest that will test the bonds of
love and redefine their relationship forever. Written with
unflinching candour and wit, Where You End and I Begin explores the
dark reverberations of victim narratives and the power of filial
love.
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