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"Writers On The Edge" offers a range of essays, memoirs and poetry
written by major contemporary authors who bring fresh insight into
the dark world of addiction, from drugs and alcohol, to sex,
gambling and food. Editors Diana M. Raab and James Brown have
assembled an array of talented and courageous writers who share
their stories with heartbreaking honesty as they share their
obsessions as well as the awe-inspiring power of hope and
redemption.
"Open to any piece in this collection, and the scalding,
unflinching, overwhelming truths within will shine light on places
most people never look. Anyone who reads this book, be they users
or used, will put it down changed. And when they raise their eyes
from the very last page, the world they see may be redeemed, as
well." --Jerry Stahl, author of Permanent Midnight
CONTRIBUTORS: Frederick & Steven Barthelme, Kera Bolonik,
Margaret Bullitt-Jonas, Maud Casey, Anna David, Denise Duhamel,
B.H. Fairchild, Ruth Fowler, David Huddle Perie Longo, Gregory Orr,
Victoria Patterson, Molly Peacock, Scott Russell Sanders, Stephen
Jay Schwartz, Linda Gray Sexton, Sue William Silverman, Chase
Twichell, and Rachel Yoder
About the Editors
Diana M. Raab, an award-winning memoirist and poet, is author of
six books including "Healing With Words" and "Regina's Closet."
She's an advocate of the healing power of writing and teaches
nation-wide workshops and in the UCLA Extension Writers' Program.
James Brown, a recovering alcoholic and addict, is the author of
the memoirs, " The Los Angeles Diaries" and "This River." He is
Professor of English in the MFA Program in Creative Writing at
California State University, San Bernardino.
From the Reflections of America Series
Modern History Press www.ModernHistoryPress.com
SEL006000 Self-Help: Substance Abuse & Addictions -
Alcoholism
SEL003000 Self-Help: Adult Children of Alcoholics
PSY038000 Psychology: Psychopathology - Addiction
How do you find hope and even joy in a world that is racist, sexist and facing climate crisis? How do you prepare your children for it, but also fill them with all the boundlessness and eccentricity that they deserve and that life has to offer?
In Brown Baby, Nikesh Shukla explores themes of racism, feminism, parenting and our shifting ideas of home. This memoir, by turns heartwrenching, hilariously funny and intensely relatable, is dedicated to the author’s two young daughters, and serves as an act of remembrance to the grandmother they never had a chance to meet. Through love, grief, food and fatherhood, Shukla shows how it’s possible to believe in hope.
"Think about it. In order to be grandmothers we once had to be
mothers. After giving birth, we, as the mothers, were responsible
for our baby's/child's well being. As grandmothers, on the other
hand, we have choices. Our roles are open for interpretation and
conscious choices. When I became a grandmother, and even when my
daughters-in-law were pregnant, I made a conscious decision to be
an involved grandmother, one of the caretakers or a Granny-Nanny.
I was sure that helping out and taking care of a baby would be
easy like getting back on a bicycle after a twenty-year lapse. Oh,
how wrong I was. There are new rules, new products, new findings
and plenty of taboos. How did my three children ever survive their
hazardous childhoods?"
Parenting rules have gone through some serious revisions since
author Lois Young-Tulin raised her kids. In her helpful guide, "The
Granny Nanny," Young-Tulin offers a unique opportunity for today's
grandmas to hone their skills and learn the twenty principles for
successful grandmothering in a modern world.
Get to know Grandma like never before with this enlightening
keepsake journal that includes dozens of questions to get the
storytelling started and space to record the conversations for
future generations. Preserve your memories and share your life
story with your family in this lovely keepsake book. With dozens of
questions prompting you to recall and record moments big and small,
this interactive grandmother's journal will help you capture all of
life's most memorable highs and lows. Whether you record the
remembrances of your life yourself or children and grandchildren
use this book to encourage a conversation to learn about Grandma's
life, The Story of Grandma offers a beautiful way to create a
collaborative memory book and share the stories of her life with
future generations.
'Brown Baby is a beautifully intimate and soul-searching memoir. It
speaks to the heart and the mind and bears witness to our turbulent
times.' - Bernardine Evaristo, author of Girl, Woman, Other How do
you find hope and even joy in a world that is prejudiced, sexist
and facing climate crisis? How do you prepare your children for it,
but also fill them with all the boundlessness and eccentricity that
they deserve and that life has to offer? In Brown Baby, Nikesh
Shukla, author of the bestselling The Good Immigrant, explores
themes of sexism, feminism, parenting and our shifting ideas of
home. This memoir, by turns heartwrenching, hilariously funny and
intensely relatable, is dedicated to the author's two young
daughters, and serves as an act of remembrance to the grandmother
they never had a chance to meet. Through love, grief, food and
fatherhood, Shukla shows how it's possible to believe in hope.
Like a photo shoot, pictures flashed in Anthony's head as he
reflected on the first time he heard the horrifying clank of the
barred door that was now staring at his back, he vividly recalled,
his face smashed against the dusty police car, bright red and blue
Lights blindly flashing in his eyes. Everything was a blur! His
heart beating so fast and pounding so hard he could hardly hear the
cop as he repeated his words... "Do you understand your rights!" A
preacher's son on the way to a place deemed worse than hell! Just a
teenaged boy when he was facing those bars, now a man 7 years later
who has made a promise to himself to rectify his wrongs. Read this
captivating story about a young man's journey into manhood down a
twisted road through tragedy and triumph.
Do you long for a closer bond with your son? Do you want the kind of relationship that will honor God and be a blessing to both of you for the rest of your lives?
In Fathers and Sons Angus Buchan explains how fathers can foster a rewarding and God-honoring relationship with their sons.
Through topics like humility, love, appreciation, grace and respect Angus inspires men to be the godly fathers God has ordained them to be and reminds them that it is never too early or too late to nurture the special and blessed relationship between a father and his son.
This seemingly simple but truly complex question" True or false:
"My mother was a good woman." This item has appeared in one form or
another on countless psychological inventories over the years. The
culturally-prescribed answer is, of course, "True." Even the people
most abused by their mothers tend to rise to defend "Mom." The
rationale varies: "She was basically good"; "She was never cut out
to have children"; "She simply had no idea how to be there for me";
"Perhaps if she hadn't had me..."; "Maybe it was I who turned her
into a bad mother?" As early as 1954 in his work with abused
children, psychoanalyst Ronald Fairbairn observed that a child
acknowledging to herself or anyone else that she had a bad mother
or that her mother was a bad woman was tantamount to admitting that
the child was, by association, a bad person --and so it becomes an
act of self-preservation to hold that one's mopther is good, never
mind all evidence to the contrary. In Horrible Mothers,
pshychotherapist Alice Thie Vieira takes us into the world of
individuals who have endured devastating damage at the hands of
society's most sacrosanst icon: the Mother. Vieira does so with
four chief aims: 1. to label abuse so as to be able to acknowledge
it; 2. to recognize that the sanctification of motherhood is a
burden that society has foisted upon them; 3. to help mothers
understand how their mothering may have hurt their children; 4. to
help victims of horrible mothering grasp the unfairness of what was
done to them, to comprehend how it affected their lives, and
acknowledge what they have endured so as to break free from
unhealthy attachments to their inadequate mothers, and thus move
forward and better realize their potentiality.
Many grandparents experience a surge of joy with the birth or
adoption of a grandchild. For years afterward, time together is
eagerly coveted, pictures are treasured and displayed, and multiple
gifts along with various kinds of support are gladly provided.
Richard Olson, a retired minister, professor of theology, and
grandparent many times over, presents the unconditional love of a
grandparent as indicative of a vocation, a calling from God. He
explores the vocation of grandparent in all of its multiple
dimensions of being and doing. Informed by a biblical perspective,
the book explores the author's personal journey of grandparenting
and includes conversations with a diverse set of other
grandparents. Olson examines biblical examples of grandparenting
and suggests that the grandparent vocation has possibilities that
often go unnoticed. These include care, enjoyment, and response to
issues throughout a grandchild's growth. He also addresses concerns
for our grandchildren's future world, and how grandparents can
engage in mutual conversation about faith, morals, and values in a
changing world. In addition, Olson discusses increasingly common
relationship types such as grandparents serving as primary
caregivers, adults becoming step-grandparents through marriage,
interreligious family systems, and grandparents handling children
with special needs. The book includes questions for personal or
group reflection.
With socio-economic and demographic changes taking place in
contemporary societies, new patterns of family relations are
forming partly due to significant family changes, value shifts,
precariousness in the labour market, and increasing mobility within
and beyond national boundaries. This book explores the exchange of
support between generations and examines variations in contemporary
practices and rationales in different regions and societies. It
draws on both theoretical perspectives and empirical analysis in
relation to new patterns of family reciprocity. Contributors
discuss both newly emerging patterns and more established ones
which are now being affected due to various opportunities and
pressures in contemporary societies. The book is split into two
parts, the first (Chapters one to four) reviews key theoretical and
conceptual debates in this field, while the second (Chapter five to
nine) offers insights and an understanding of exchange practices
based on case studies from different regions and different
relationships.
'The best piece of nature writing since H is for Hawk, and the most
powerful work of biography I have read in years' Neil Gaiman
'Wonderful - I can't recommend it too highly' Helen Macdonald 'One
of those rare, enchanted books' Isabella Tree 'Beautiful - it made
me cry' Simon Amstell 'I was entranced' Cathy Rentzenbrink This is
a story about birds and fathers. About the young magpie that fell
from its nest in a Bermondsey junkyard into Charlie Gilmour's life
- and swiftly changed it. Demanding worms around the clock,
riffling through his wallet, sharing his baths and roosting in his
hair... About the jackdaw kept at a Cornish stately home by
Heathcote Williams, anarchist, poet, magician, stealer of
Christmas, and Charlie's biological father who vanished from his
life in the dead of night. It is a story about repetition across
generations and birds that run in the blood; about a terror of
repeating the sins of the father and a desire to build a nest of
one's own. It is a story about change - from wild to tame; from
sanity to madness; from life to death to birth; from freedom to
captivity and back again, via an insane asylum, a prison and a
magpie's nest. And ultimately, it is the story of a love affair
between a man and a magpie.
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