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Like a photo shoot, pictures flashed in Anthony's head as he
reflected on the first time he heard the horrifying clank of the
barred door that was now staring at his back, he vividly recalled,
his face smashed against the dusty police car, bright red and blue
Lights blindly flashing in his eyes. Everything was a blur! His
heart beating so fast and pounding so hard he could hardly hear the
cop as he repeated his words... "Do you understand your rights!" A
preacher's son on the way to a place deemed worse than hell! Just a
teenaged boy when he was facing those bars, now a man 7 years later
who has made a promise to himself to rectify his wrongs. Read this
captivating story about a young man's journey into manhood down a
twisted road through tragedy and triumph.
Do you long for a closer bond with your son? Do you want the kind of relationship that will honor God and be a blessing to both of you for the rest of your lives?
In Fathers and Sons Angus Buchan explains how fathers can foster a rewarding and God-honoring relationship with their sons.
Through topics like humility, love, appreciation, grace and respect Angus inspires men to be the godly fathers God has ordained them to be and reminds them that it is never too early or too late to nurture the special and blessed relationship between a father and his son.
"Love, Pray, Listen offers empathy and grounded biblical wisdom to
help parents thrive, no matter what path their adult kids
take."--PASTOR STEVE STROOPE Wisdom and Hope for Parents of
Grown-Ups As a parent, your role changes drastically after your
kids grow up. You fear heartache and strained relationships when
your children choose difficult--even seemingly wrong--paths. Love,
Pray, Listen is the gracious, practical resource you need for
navigating the rocky terrain of parenting grown-ups. In this book,
mom and author Mary DeMuth answers questions like: * What do I do
when my kids make choices that don't align with my values? * How do
I keep communication lines open with my grown children? * When do I
speak, and when do I listen? * Is it possible to hold on to my joy
when parenting is so hard? * How do I avoid the temptation of
meddling in my kids' lives? Love, Pray, Listen offers a robust
theology for long-term parenting gleaned from the discipleship
model Jesus exemplified, one that carefully and thoughtfully
applies his way of expressing love. This is your invitation for
spiritual growth and a path toward fulfilling relationships with
your adult children.
At last! A no-nonsense, entertaining, and insightful book for dads
and daughters who want more from their relationship--or who want to
understand and rebuild it on an adult level. Dr. Linda Nielsen
addresses the questions that daughters and dads regularly ask
her--and a lot more. Based on two decades of work with hundreds of
dads and daughters, BETWEEN FATHERS AND DAUGHTERS summarizes
cutting-edge research in clear language and offers compelling
stories about real people--including well-known celebrities. With
candor and humor, BETWEEN FATHERS AND DAUGHTERS exposes the
half-truths, downright lies, and family dynamics that prevent so
many dads and daughters from having a more relaxed, more
meaningful, more communicative relationship, regardless of age.
Explaining why most daughter-dad relationships haven't reached
their full potential or have unraveled, Nielsen provides hope as
she shows fathers and daughters how to make changes now!
Mapping out a "family constellation," explains Dr. Joy Manne,
encompasses exploring previous powerful life events from accidents
to adoptions and accessing the deepest dynamics in that family
system. This process helps us recognize and then resolve deeply
seated family patterns. For example, in order to understand a
person's inability to trust, the family history of betrayal must be
uncovered and released. These insights replace resentment with
respect, pain with understanding.
Dr. Manne uses the knowledge gained from her own practice as well
as her educational experiences with Bert Hellinger, the founder of
Family Constellations therapy, to clearly describe this technique.
Most family constellation sessions are carried out in a group
setting, with the facilitator first seeking clarity regarding the
issue or problem the client has come to work out. Representatives
are then chosen from among the group and the constellation is set
up and worked in until it comes to resolution. This may be followed
by a closing ritual and advice about how to integrate what the
constellation has revealed. Through the use of real-life examples
of family constellations, Dr. Manne makes this increasingly popular
practice understandable and relatable.
Fathers, Prisons, and Family Reentry: Presencing as a Framework and
Method asks scholars, policy makers, advocates, and practitioners
to rethink family reentry in a new light, to seek to understand
both the urgent and intolerable loss as well as the real and
present potential of families. There are almost one million parents
of minor-aged children currently serving time in U.S. prisons-most
of them fathers. Based on post-phenomenological analyses, William
Muth offers a new framework for conceptualizing family reentry as a
present phenomenon. It seeks to reveal the intense ways
incarcerated fathers and their families live their present-absence,
and draws on these intensities to define a new role for researchers
and practitioners: nurturing the potential of families in the here
and now. The current situation is intolerable. A credible family
reentry approach is urgently needed. This book is an attempt to
address these families as they potentially are, and might become,
if we would be willing to "meet them half-way," in the words of the
poet Alice Fulton.
In 1905, the young and handsome Yalek left Baranovka, Russia,
for the United States seeking a new way of life. He would work hard
and save enough money to bring his family and his new bride, Riva,
to America.
In "Obsessive Memories," author Clara R. Maslow tells the
history of two close-knit families, raised in the same culture of
intellectual Jews in Russia, who immigrated to the United States in
the early 1900s. It is a story of a time of new political thinking
and the flight of young families in Eastern Europe seeking to live
in a democracy, away from the old czarist regimes, monarchies, and
other forms of repressive governments.
With photos included, this memoir shares what it was like
growing up as part of a Russian family in Trenton, New Jersey. It
focuses on Maslow's father, Yalek, an intelligent man with
exceptional talents in creative arts, architectural drawing, and
construction. "Obsessive Memories" also explores Maslow's
relationship with her father and seeks to find meaning in why he
was unable to outwardly express his love for her or her family.
'Brown Baby is a beautifully intimate and soul-searching memoir. It
speaks to the heart and the mind and bears witness to our turbulent
times.' - Bernardine Evaristo, author of Girl, Woman, Other How do
you find hope and even joy in a world that is prejudiced, sexist
and facing climate crisis? How do you prepare your children for it,
but also fill them with all the boundlessness and eccentricity that
they deserve and that life has to offer? In Brown Baby, Nikesh
Shukla, author of the bestselling The Good Immigrant, explores
themes of sexism, feminism, parenting and our shifting ideas of
home. This memoir, by turns heartwrenching, hilariously funny and
intensely relatable, is dedicated to the author's two young
daughters, and serves as an act of remembrance to the grandmother
they never had a chance to meet. Through love, grief, food and
fatherhood, Shukla shows how it's possible to believe in hope.
This is the story of a search for the causes of a father's early
death and the consequences for his children. A Jamaican immigrant
falls from a window to his death, leaving a wife and four young
children grieving and poor in a Chicago slum. Why? When he begins
high school the mother asks the youngest son to study the letters
and papers his father left behind. He discovers that his father
committed suicide but holds this secret for many years. He also
uncovers the story of his father's twenty-year unsuccessful
struggle to obtain a legacy his father left him in Jamaica. The son
puts the fi les aside but retrieves them twenty years later and
travels to Jamaica where he fi nds relatives and uncovers more
family secrets. The story that unfolds reaches back to the middle
of the nineteenth century and a Native American reservation. The
impact of each generation on the next holds the answer to the
question "Why?"
Many grandparents experience a surge of joy with the birth or
adoption of a grandchild. For years afterward, time together is
eagerly coveted, pictures are treasured and displayed, and multiple
gifts along with various kinds of support are gladly provided.
Richard Olson, a retired minister, professor of theology, and
grandparent many times over, presents the unconditional love of a
grandparent as indicative of a vocation, a calling from God. He
explores the vocation of grandparent in all of its multiple
dimensions of being and doing. Informed by a biblical perspective,
the book explores the author's personal journey of grandparenting
and includes conversations with a diverse set of other
grandparents. Olson examines biblical examples of grandparenting
and suggests that the grandparent vocation has possibilities that
often go unnoticed. These include care, enjoyment, and response to
issues throughout a grandchild's growth. He also addresses concerns
for our grandchildren's future world, and how grandparents can
engage in mutual conversation about faith, morals, and values in a
changing world. In addition, Olson discusses increasingly common
relationship types such as grandparents serving as primary
caregivers, adults becoming step-grandparents through marriage,
interreligious family systems, and grandparents handling children
with special needs. The book includes questions for personal or
group reflection.
'A total triumph', 'Romantic and heartbreaking and uplifting all at
once', 'Highly recommended' *The Independent best 'never-too-late'
story of 2021, and one of the 8 best uplifting books of the year*
IS IT EVER TOO LATE TO BE LOVED? 'Wonderful . . . An utter treat'
KATE MOSSE 'A heartfelt coming-of-age story . . . Remarkable'
LAURIE FRANKEL, New York Times bestselling author 'A heart-warming,
joyous love story - original, hopeful and totally charming' ADELE
PARKS 'I loved it! Really heart-warming and joyful, but also so
poignant. I cannot recommend this book highly enough' LORRAINE
KELLY 'Albert is one of the most endearing characters I've met in a
long time . . . Proof that it's never too late to find a happy
ending' SUSAN WIGGS, New York Times bestselling author 'A bright,
clear, sharply intelligent writer' JENNY COLGAN 'Will put a smile
on everyone's face . . . A great big hug of a book!' - MICHAEL
BALL, Radio 2 'Wonderful. Written with such a good heart, filled
with joy and strength and optimism . . . inventive and fun but most
importantly, true.' RUSSELL T. DAVIES 'A beautiful, timely
page-turner, straight from the heart . . . The perfect summer read'
MATTHEW BOURNE 'Brilliant . . . [I] recommend to all!' MATT LUCAS
***** ALBERT ENTWISTLE WAS A POSTMAN. It was one of the few things
everyone knew about him. And it was one of the few things he was
comfortable with people knowing. 64-year-old Albert Entwistle has
been a postie in a quiet town in Northern England for all his life,
living alone since the death of his mam 18 years ago. He keeps
himself to himself. He always has. But he's just learned he'll be
forced to retire at his next birthday. With no friends and nothing
to look forward to, the lonely future he faces terrifies him. He
realises it's finally time to be honest about who he is. He must
learn to ask for what he wants. And he must find the courage to
look for the man that, many years ago, he lost - but has never
forgotten . . . Join Albert as he sets out to find the long-lost
love of his life, and has an unforgettable and completely
life-affirming adventure on the way . . . This is a love story the
likes of which you have never read before! ***** 'Albert is such an
endearing character - flawed, funny and awkward, but completely
relatable. A wonderfully warm story that completely drew me in'
RUTH HOGAN 'A rollicking love story' IAN McKELLEN 'Albert is the
most delicious character and you'll be with him every step of the
way' SUN 'A charming adventure with love at its heart' MY WEEKLY 'A
life affirming story of lost love' THAT'S LIFE 'A unique and moving
story' CANDIS 'A heart-warming and uplifting read' ATTITUDE 'You
will weep and yet have your heart filled with joy' ARLENE PHILLIPS
'I raced through this heart-warming story' JUSTIN MYERS 'Prepare to
fall in love with Albert Entwistle! Touching and tender' S. J.
WATSON 'Albert is delightful and charming, and the book is too'
JONATHAN HARVEY 'I so enjoyed this - a warm-hearted, moving and
thought-provoking joy about an elderly postman's awakening to life
and love' FANNY BLAKE 'A total triumph. Romantic and heartbreaking
and uplifting all at once.' LAURA KAY 'Tender, witty, uplifting'
KATE EBERLEN As seen and heard on THE GRAHAM NORTON RADIO SHOW, BBC
Radio 4's WOMAN'S HOUR, RESONANCE FM, BBC Radio 2'S THE MICHAEL
BALL SHOW, TalkRADIO'S THE BADASS WOMEN'S SHOW, TIMES RADIO with
GILES COREN and many more . . .
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