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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Family & other relationships > Intergenerational relationships
Many powerful voices are influencing our grandchildren, from those
at home and in their schools to those in the world of entertainment
and media. What can you as a grandparent do to speak wisdom and
godliness into their lives? Grandparenting gives you a biblical
foundation for investing spiritually in your grandkids, walking you
through the principles of influencing them for Christ--from sharing
with unbelieving grandkids to discipling them into a mature faith.
This book is perfect for individual use, small groups, or Sunday
school classes. A Grandparenting DVD is available that features
eight family ministry experts with over five hours of video
content. Two other resources are also available: Biblical
Grandparenting is a full-length leadership book that places
grandparenting ministry on a firm scriptural foundation. It is
ideal for pastors and church leaders as well as for use in the
classroom at seminaries. Equipping Grandparents is a brief book to
teach pastors how to begin a grandparenting ministry in their
church.
'I Never Said I Love You is one of the most electric, enchanting,
engrossing and energising memoirs of self-harm, self-loathing,
grief, eating disorders, suicide - and sex - that you will read.'
The Sunday Times 'Indecently entertaining... one of the most
uplifting and eccentric memoirs I have ever read.' Observer
'Brutally honest and relentlessly funny.' Adam Kay, author of 'This
is Going to Hurt' 'A brilliant memoir full of gasp-inducing honesty
about depression and family and taking control of your own pain.
Funny, sad, hopeful, I Never Said I Loved You is an irresistible,
strangely empowering read.' Matt Haig 'This mind-blowingly
wonderful memoir had me convulsing with laughter even while my
heart was breaking. It's utterly effing BEAUTIFUL.' Marian Keyes 'I
found myself blindsided by this extraordinary book ... I was deeply
moved by its capacity both to depict pain, and offer consolation. I
loved it, and won't ever forget it.' Sarah Perry 'Both touching and
funny' the Telegraph On an unlikely backpacking trip, Rhik and his
mother find themselves speaking openly for the first time in years.
Afterwards, the depression that has weighed down on Rhik begins to
loosen its grip for a moment - so he seizes the opportunity: to own
it, to understand it, and to find out where it came from. Through
this begins a journey of investigation, healing and recovery. Along
the way Rhik learns some shocking truths about his family, and
realizes that, in turn, he will need to confront the secrets he has
long buried. But through this, he triumphs over his fears and
brings his depression into the light. I Never Said I Loved You is
the story of how Rhik learned to let go, and then keep going. With
unique humour and honesty, he has created a powerfully rich, funny
and poignant exploration of the light and dark in all of us. A
vital, moving and darkly funny memoir by a powerful new voice in
non-fiction. 'Both unputdownable and beautifully-written, bracing
and consoling. A book that tackles mental health and the darkest
things with razor-sharp wit and mordant laughs aplenty ... read
this.' Sharlene Teo 'Touching, funny, wildly readable ... Look out
for it.' Sathnam Sanghera 'No one writes better, or more sweetly,
about how it feels to feel. Even the darkest times are shot through
with glorious, bright beams of wit.' Janet Ellis 'It's honest and
funny (and beautifully painful and brutal at times), but also - oh
goodness - it's so elegant. The writing is graceful and kind, even
when it hurts a little to remember it's a memoir.' Joanna Cannon
'Equal parts hilarious and heartbreaking. What an absolutely
riveting read.' Nikita Gill 'Heartbreaking, funny, raw, brave and -
yes! - even better than the egg thing.' Erin Kelly 'I have always
loved Rhik Samadder's writing. And now there's a whole book!'
Jessie Burton 'A sparkling, thoughtful memoir. It manages to be
witty, charming, brooding and devastating all the same time.'
Justin Myers, The Guyliner
Discover a daughter's journey into her father's past in this Sunday
Times bestseller and winner of the 2016 Costa Biography Award.
Keggie Carew grew up under the spell of an unorthodox, enigmatic
father. An undercover guerrilla agent during the Second World War,
in peacetime he lived on his wits and dazzling charm. But these
were not always enough to sustain a family. As his memory began to
fail, Keggie embarked on a quest to unravel his story once and for
all. Dadland is that journey. It takes us into shadowy corners of
history, a madcap English childhood, the poignant breakdown of a
family, the corridors of dementia and beyond. 'OH THIS BOOK.
Beautiful and fierce and brave. Memory and war and family and loss
and, well, wow' Helen Macdonald, bestselling author of H is for
Hawk 'A thrilling history of Churchill's Special Operations
Executive... combined ingeniously with a tender, moving, funny
portrait of the author's father' Nick Hornby, Observer
The Message in the Bottle helps those who feel alone in their
struggle with the drinker in their life find peace and hope. Is the
drinker in your life making you crazy? Do you find that your
thoughts and free time are consumed by ideas and plans to fix
things so they won't want to drink? Do you feel like you can't talk
with anyone about what's really going on, because they won't get it
or because you can't believe the situation you're in? Stephanie
McAuliffe shares her journey of growing up in a family where
cocktails started by 5:00 p.m. She reveals her marriages to two
alcoholics, and shows how she navigated life being surrounded by
alcohol and alcoholics-and broke an unhealthy family cycle that
went back at least four generations. Full of stories of survival,
The Message in the Bottle is packed with support to help children
and spouses of alcoholics find peace amidst the chaos.
A Woman's Story is Annie Ernaux's "deeply affecting account of
mothers and daughters, youth and age, and dreams and reality"
(Kirkus Reviews). Upon her mother's death from Alzheimer's, Ernaux
embarks on a daunting journey back through time, as she seeks to
"capture the real woman, the one who existed independently from me,
born on the outskirts of a small Normandy town, and who died in the
geriatric ward of a hospital in the suburbs of Paris." She explores
the bond between mother and daughter, tenuous and unshakable at
once, the alienating worlds that separate them, and the inescapable
truth that we must lose the ones we love. In this quietly powerful
tribute, Ernaux attempts to do her mother the greatest justice she
can: to portray her as the individual she was. She writes, "I
believe I am writing about my mother because it is my turn to bring
her into the world."
My Father's Glass Eye is Jeannie's struggle to honour her father,
her larger-than-life hero, but also the man who named her after his
daughter from a previous marriage, a daughter who died. After his
funeral, Jeannie spends the next decade in escalating mania, in and
out of hospitals - increasingly obsessed with the other Jeanne.
Obsession turns to investigation as she plumbs her childhood
awareness of her dead half-sibling and hunts for clues into the
mysterious circumstances of her death. It becomes a puzzle she she
must solve to better understand herself and her father. Jeannie
pulls us into her unravelling with such intimacy that her insanity
becomes palpable, even logical. A brilliant exploration of the
human psyche, My Father's Glass Eye deepens our definitions of
love, sanity, grief, and recovery.
'The most beauitful word on the lips of mankind is the word
'mother'. Kahlil Gibran Mum: it is hard to truly express all the
love and wonder contained in those three little letters. This
little book collects the wittiest, truest and most adoring quotes
on what makes mums so great. Whether it's making sure we always
have our gym kit, knowing just how to make us laugh when we're sad,
or just being there for us through thick and thin, mums are simply
the best. I love you, Mum!
From the Waterstones Prize-shortlisted author of Our Castle by the
Sea comes a gorgeously gothic story, perfect for fans of Emma
Carroll and Frances Hardinge ... 'My book of the year. This is
storytelling so secure and shining that you can almost feel the
glow.' HILARY MCKAY, COSTA BOOK AWARD-WINNING AUTHOR OF THE
SKYLARK'S WAR 'I absolutely love this book ... Lucy Strange is a
wonderful, accomplished writer whose books stay with you long after
you have finished reading.' NATASHA FARRANT, COSTA BOOK
AWARD-WINNING AUTHOR OF VOYAGE OF THE SPARROWHAWK Life is hard for
Willa, Grace and Freya, and their three younger sisters. Six
motherless girls working a farm, living in fear of their cruel
father and the superstition that obsesses him - The Curse of Six
Daughters. With the arrival of the mysterious Full Moon Fayre,
there's a chance for the eldest girls to steal a moment's fun, but
the day the fayre moves on, Grace vanishes. Willa goes after her,
following a trail that leads into the dangerous Lost Marsh, where
it is said a will-o'-the-wisp lures lost souls into the dark waters
of the mire. If Willa is to survive and reunite her family, she
will need to unravel the secrets her father has kept hidden, and
face her own deepest fears ... The spellbinding new novel from Lucy
Strange, author of The Secret of Nightingale Wood, The Ghost of
Gosswater and the Waterstones Prize-shortlisted Our Castle by the
Sea Perfect for fans of Emma Carroll, Frances Hardinge and Sophie
Anderson Combines dreamy magical realism with a thrilling mystery
In a world full of many influences, The Parenting Project shows you
how, through the practice of daily conversation, to maintain
influence in your child's life. Are you losing the influence game
with your children? If you want to direct your child's growth, then
they need to get to know you. In The Parenting Project, parenting
experts Dr. Amy Alamar and Dr. Kristine Schlichting show you how to
talk with your children on a regular basis to gain their trust. In
a time when kids have many things vying for their attention, you
want to become the go-to person, the one they turn to the most for
advice and comfort. Sometimes it's difficult to speak with your
children about serious subjects. That's why The Parenting Project
teaches you how to make a habit of it, providing you with prompts
to help start potentially difficult conversations across a broad
range of subjects that apply to everyday life. The authors have
divided these conversations into five categories to inform your
approach-Heart-based, Uncomfortable, Dangerous, Character, and
Brave-because each type requires different strategies and
"conversation starters." The book includes story after story of how
parents have built extraordinary relationships with kids through
the act of talking with one another, day by day. With some help
from Dr. Alamar and Dr. Schlichting, it will be become easier to
open up conversations with (rather than at) your children so that
when the big questions arise, your child will turn to you first.
"You see me at my worst, you see me at my best I have been used, I
have been abused I have been broken, I have been mended, I have
been lied to. I have been called all sort of names I have been the
cause of everything broken, so they claim Who am I? I am the one
that catches you when you fall" Love has many layers. This
heartfelt collection of original poetry explores the ups and downs
of life's relationships. A beautiful study of the power of personal
connection.
From the critically acclaimed author of Children of the Quicksands
- shortlisted for the Waterstones Children's Book Prize - comes a
breathtaking magical adventure ... Kuki refuses to believe in the
curse of the Abiku. Her destiny is not to die young!Her biggest
problem right now is moving house and fitting in at her new
school.One evening while exploring, Kuki spies a driveway lined
with giant palm trees. It leads to an abandoned beach house of
shadows and scattered sea shells. And in the fading light, she
meets a girl called Enilo.They become friends - the best of
friends.Until Kuki makes a terrifying discovery ... The second
novel by Times/Chicken House Competition-winning Efua Traore,
author of critically acclaimed Children of the Quicksands A
beautifully evoked middle-grade adventure set in the author's
native Nigeria and drawing from rich Yoruba mythology A story about
the power of female friendship over fear and superstition PRAISE
FOR CHILDREN OF THE QUICKSANDS: 'A joy of a book: rich, warm,
powerful storytelling' KATHERINE RUNDELL 'A thrilling adventure
bright with the gorgeous colours of Nigeria - glorious!' JASBINDER
BILAN '[A] beautifully evoked story' THE TELEGRAPH 'Traore's
storytelling feels almost otherworldly ... exhilarating' THE TIMES
Dear Granny (sketch design) is an award-winning journal filled with
over 60 fun and inspiring questions carefully created to inspire
any grandmother to tell her story - probably one of the most
valuable gifts you will ever buy. Everyone has stories to share
about their own amazing life and it is so important to find ways to
capture and treasure them. Dear Granny contains 60 carefully
designed questions to ask her about her life. Ask her to complete
it carefully, adding photos and memorabilia along the way. Find out
how things have changed throughout her life, what things did she do
as a child that are different from today. What were her own parents
really like and what adventures has she had in her life. Discover
what your own mum or dad was like when they were young! What about
your own relationship with your grandmother, what are her favourite
memories of the times you have spent together and is there any
advice she would like to give you? When you get her completed
journal returned to you, this will be one of the most emotional
presents you have ever received. A great gift for Mother's Day,
Grandparent's Day, her birthday, an anniversary, Christmas or just
because you care ...
Jeremy Ivester is a transgender man. Thirty years ago, his parents
welcomed him into the world as what they thought was their
daughter. As a child, he preferred the toys and games our society
views as masculine. He kept his hair short and wore boys' clothing.
They called him a tomboy. That's what he called himself. By high
school, when he showed no interest in flirting, his parents thought
he might be lesbian. At twenty, he wondered if he was asexual. At
twenty-three, he surgically removed his breasts. A year later, he
began taking the hormones that would lower his voice and give him a
beard-and he announced his new name and pronouns. Never a Girl,
Always a Boy is Jeremy's journey from childhood through coming out
as transgender and eventually emerging as an advocate for the
transgender community. This is not only Jeremy's story but also
that of his family, told from multiple perspectives-those of the
siblings who struggled to understand the brother they once saw as a
sister, and of the parents who ultimately joined him in the battle
against discrimination. This is a story of acceptance in a world
not quite ready to accept.
Ready or not, you're a parent again. And if you're wondering how
exactly you're going to raise your children's children, you're not
alone.More than 3 million Americans are raising their
grandchildren, and they, like you, have done this all before. But
this time, you're parenting under different circumstances--and
likely as a result of scenarios you never envisioned for your
family.Now more than ever, substance use has made many birth
parents simply unfit for the job. The opioid epidemic has ravaged
families across the country. Grandparents are stepping out of
retirement to care for their grandchildren, who may have been born
addicted to opioids as well.Or the impetus might be mental health,
incarceration, or immaturity. Whatever the reason for your new
role, your kinship care is needed to help your grandchildren adjust
to a shifting family dynamic while perhaps facing problem behaviors
that can develop as a result of a difficult past environment,
neonatal abstinence, or any number of other birth syndromes.Your
top priority now is to help your grandchildren to emerge thriving
from what may initially feel like a less-than-ideal situation. The
deeply rewarding experience of creating a grandfamily in the midst
of crisis reminds us that all families are built and strengthened
over time.The Grandfamily Guidebook offers just the right mix of
expert advice and insights gathered from thousands of grandparents
who are raising grandchildren. With this comprehensive guide you'll
avoid common pitfalls as you adjust to your new normal, and have a
touchstone to come back to as things unfold. With advice on
everything from engaging with birthparents, to managing legal and
financial considerations, challenges with school and social life,
and your own self-care, you'll always have a practical, inspiring
guide to building a grandfamily.
The Sunday Times bestseller The moving and inspiring account of
heartbreak and courage, and the life-affirming relationship between
a father and son. Ben Brooks-Dutton's wife - the great love of his
life - was knocked down and killed by a car as he walked beside
her, pushing their two-year-old son in his buggy. Life changed
forever. Suddenly Ben was a widower deep in shock, left to raise
their bewildered child alone. In the aftermath Ben searched for
guidance from men in similar situations, but it appeared that young
widowed fathers don't talk. Well meaning loved ones admired his
strength. The unwritten rule seemed to be to 'shut up, man up and
hide your pain'. Lost, broken and afraid of the future, two months
after his wife Desreen's death, Ben started a blog with the aim of
rejecting outdated conventions of grief and instead opening up
about his experiences. Within months Life as a Widower, had
received a million hits and had started an all-too-often hushed
conversation about the reality of loss and grief. This is the story
of a man and a child who lost the woman they so dearly love and
what happened in the year that followed. Ben describes the
conflicting emotions that come from facing grief head on. He rages
against the cliches used around loss and shows the strange and
cruel ways in which grief can take hold. He also charts what it
means to become a sole parent to a child who has lost their mother
and cannot yet understand the meaning of death. Through the shock
and sadness shine moments of hope and insight. So much of what Ben
learns comes from watching his son struggle, survive and live, as
children do, from moment to moment where hurt can turn to happiness
and anger can turn to joy. This is a story of loss, heartbreak and
courage. At its heart is the funny, infuriating and life affirming
relationship between a father and son and their ongoing love for an
extraordinary woman.
Lyndall Gordon was born in 1941 in Cape Town, a place from which `a
ship takes fourteen days to reach anywhere that matters'. Born to a
mother whose mysterious illness confined her for years to life
indoors, Lyndall was her secret sharer, a child who grew to know
life through books, story-telling and her mother's own writings. It
was an exciting, precious world, pure and rich in dreams and
imagination - untainted by the demands of reality. But a daughter
grows up. Despite her own inability to leave home for long,
Lyndall's mother believed in migration, a belief that became almost
a necessity once the horrors of apartheid gripped their country.
Lyndall loves the rocks, the sea, the light of Cape Town, but,
struggling to achieve a life approved by her mother, she tries and
makes a failure of living in Israel and then, back once again in
her beloved South Africa she marries and moves with her husband to
New York. It's in America in 1968 when suddenly Lyndall realises
she cannot be, and does not want to be, the woman, the daughter and
the mother her mother wants her to be. This is a wonderfully
layered memoir about the expectations of love and duty between
mother and daughter. The particular time and place, the people and
the situation are Lyndall's, but the division between generations,
the pain and the joy of being a daughter are everywoman's.
"If you want to understand why Americans are protesting in the
streets right now, read this book. OK Boomer, Let's Talk blows the
lid off the conversations about inequality and racism that lie at
the heart of our national divide." -Jose Antonio Vargas, founder of
Define American and author of Dear America: Notes of an
Undocumented Citizen "Jill Filipovic cuts through the noise with
characteristic clarity and nuance. Behind the meme is a
thoughtfully reported book that greatly contributes to our
understanding of generational change." -Irin Carmon, coauthor of
the New York Times bestseller Notorious RBG Baby Boomers are the
most prosperous generation in American history, but their kids are
screwed. In this eye-opening book, journalist Jill Filipovic breaks
down the massive problems facing Millennials including climate,
money, housing, and healthcare. In Ok Boomer, Let's Talk,
journalist (and Millennial) Jill Filipovic tells the definitive
story of her generation-and it's no joke. Talking to gig workers,
economists, policy makers, and dozens of struggling Millennials
drowning in debt on a planet quite literally in flames, Filipovic
paints a shocking and nuanced portrait of a generation being left
behind: -Millennials are the most educated generation in American
history-and also the most broke. -Millennials hold just 3 percent
of American wealth. When they were the same age, Boomers held 21
percent. -The average older Millennial has $15,000 in student loan
debt. The average Boomer at the same age? Just $2,300 in today's
dollars. -Millennials are paying almost 40 percent more for their
first homes than Boomers did. -American families spend twice as
much on healthcare now than they did when Boomers were young
parents. Filipovic shows that Millennials are not the
avocado-toast-eating snowflakes of Boomer outrage fantasies. But
they are the first American generation that will do worse than
their parents. "OK, Boomer" isn't just a sarcastic dismissal-it's a
recognition that Millennials are in crisis, and that Boomer voters,
bankers, and policy makers are responsible. Filipovic goes beyond
the meme, upending dated assumptions with revelatory data and
revealing portraits of young people delaying adulthood to pay down
debt, obsessed with "wellness" because they can't afford real
healthcare, and struggling to #hustle in the precarious gig
economy. Ok Boomer, Let's Talk is at once an explainer and an
extended olive branch that will finally allow these two generations
to truly understand each other.
Designed to help caregivers understand how to cope with and
overcome the overwhelming challenges that arise while caregiving
for a loved one-especially an aging parent-Role Reversal is a
comprehensive guide to navigating the enormous daily challenges
faced by caregivers. In these pages, Waichler blends her personal
experience caring for her beloved father with her forty years of
expertise as a patient advocate and clinical social worker. The
result is a book offering invaluable information on topics ranging
from estate planning to grief and anger to building a support
network and finding the right level of care for your elderly
parent.
This highly original book argues for increased recognition of
pregnancy, birthing and childrearing as social activities demanding
simultaneously physical, intellectual, emotional and moral work
from those who undertake them. Amy Mullin considers both parenting
and paid childcare, and examines the impact of disability on this
work. The first chapters contest misconceptions about pregnancy and
birth such as the idea that pregnancy is only valued for its end
result, and not also for the process. Following chapters focus on
childcare provided in different circumstances and on the needs of
both providers and receivers of care. The book challenges the
assumption that isolated self-sacrifice should be the norm in
either pregnancy or childcare. Instead reproductive labor requires
greater social support. Written from the perspective of a feminist
philosopher, the book draws on the work of, and seeks to increase
dialogue between, philosophers and childcare professionals,
disability theorists, nurses and sociologists.
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