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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Family & other relationships > Intergenerational relationships
Find The Love, Patience, and Insight to Take Your Life Back What
does it look and feel like to be a Mother of an Addict? How does a
Mother's unconditional love help her child's addiction? Sandy
Sherman is a Mother of 2 addicts - a Daughter and a Son. For 5
years she felt her life was spiraling down into a pit of despair,
fear, helplessness, grief that was consuming her life. She felt
alone and humiliated and the dreams she had for her kids were all
gone as she witnessed their addictions take over their bodies and
souls. Sandy learned to live her life by deciding to take her life
back. Through educating herself about the disease of addiction by
reading, talking with other Mom's, helping to counsel others and
sharing her story, she has written Stronger in hopes of inspiring
Mom's to take action.
In a world where our families are more scattered than ever, true
and lasting family connections are hard to forge and even harder to
maintain--and they don't happen by accident. For grandparents who
long to create a close-knit bond in their family, popular speaker
and parenting expert Susan Alexander Yates has a revolutionary new
book. Cousin Camp is an inspiring, practical book that outlines how
grandparents can plan and host a camp. Grandmother to 21
grandchildren, Yates has been creating cousin camps and family
camps for years. Now she passes on what she's learned so you can
help your children and grandchildren develop meaningful, lasting
connections with each other--and with you! Full of specific,
practical ideas and hilarious stories, this book contains
everything you need to know from initial planning (who, when, and
where) to a daily schedule to specific ways to build friendships
among family members. Yates also includes plenty of ideas for
family camps and reunions to draw everyone closer.
In this important sequel to Adult Children of Emotionally Immature
Parents, author Lindsay Gibson offers powerful tools to help you
step back and protect yourself at the first sign of an emotional
takeover, make sure your emotions and needs are respected, and
break free from the coercive control of emotionally immature
parents. Growing up with emotionally immature parents (EIPs) can
leave you feeling lonely and neglected. You may have trouble
setting limits and expressing your feelings. And you may even be
more susceptible to other emotionally immature people as you
establish adult relationships. In addition, as your parents become
older, they may still treat your emotions with mockery and
contempt, be dismissive and discounting of your reality and try to
control and diminish your sense of emotional autonomy and freedom
of thought. In short, EIPs can be self-absorbed, inconsistent and
contradictory. So, how can you recover from their toxic behaviour?
Drawing on the success of her popular self-help book, Adult
Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, author Lindsay Gibson
offers yet another essential resource. With this follow-up guide,
you'll learn practical skills to help you recognize the signs of an
EIP, protect yourself against an emotional takeover, reconnect with
your own emotions and needs and gain emotional autonomy in all your
relationships. This is a how-to book, with doable exercises and
active tips and suggestions for what to say and do to increase
emotional autonomy and self-awareness. If you're ready to stop
putting your own needs last, clear the clutter of self-doubt, and
move beyond the fear of judgment and punishment that's been
instilled in you by emotionally immature parents, this book will
help you find the freedom to finally live your life your way.
An inspirational fill-in gift book to complete and give to your
mum. Often we find it difficult to express our true feelings to the
ones we love. This beautiful journal is a very special way to say
'I love you' to your mum. Fill in the prompted pages and gift to
your mum as a sign of your deep connection to one another.
In GOOD TALK, DAD, this talented father-son team shares stories of
their funny and heartwarming relationship. Told in a unique
back-and-forth banter style, this extended conversation riffs on
everything from music and sports to summer camp, driving lessons,
and family life. Imagine Big Russ & Me meets Sh*t My Dad Says.
After Bill went public with his struggle with Parkinsons disease,
the Geists decided to collaborate on this book so their children
and grandchildren would have a record of their unique bond. Now
that Willie is a father (and Bill a grandfather), Willie has
continued Bill's child-rearing traditions in the hopes of carrying
on the riotous Geistian parenting legacy. The result is
delightfully entertaining, wildly funny, and poignant as well.
SHORTLISTED FOR THE IRISH BOOK AWARDS 2021 SHORTLISTED FOR THE KATE
O'BRIEN AWARD 2022 'A stunning debut from this new Irish talent'
STELLAR A young woman comes of age in the shadow of her family's
tragic past When Beth Crowe starts university, she is shadowed by
the ghost of her potential as a competitive swimmer. Free to create
a fresh identity for herself, she finds herself among people who
adore the poetry of her grandfather, Benjamin Crowe, who died
tragically before she was born. She embarks on a secret
relationship - and on a quest to discover the truth about Benjamin
and his widow, her beloved grandmother Lydia. The quest brings her
into an archive that no scholar has ever seen, and to a person who
knows things about her family that nobody else knows. Holding Her
Breath is a razor-sharp, moving and seriously entertaining novel
about complicated love stories, ambition and grief - and a young
woman coming fully into her powers. __________ 'A beautiful
coming-of-age story told with impressive skill and lightness of
touch . . . I absolutely loved it' LOUISE O'NEILL 'Whip smart
observations and addictive prose' SUNDAY TELEGRAPH 'Precise, sure,
engaging, and a joy to read' RODDY DOYLE 'A moving debut with a
satisfying conclusion' IRISH INDEPENDENT 'Brilliant, vivid - I
enjoyed this book ENORMOUSLY' MARIAN KEYES 'Enthralling' IMAGE 'A
nimble account of student life with a darkly enjoyable undercurrent
of secrecy and emotional turmoil' SARA BAUME 'A truly compelling
read, and one I wholeheartedly recommend' BUZZ 'Through the dark
sky of our times, Eimear Ryan arrives like a comet, a bright talent
scorching through every page' DOIREANN NI GHRIOFA, author of A
Ghost in the Throat 'Brilliantly realised, gripping, and moving . .
. This is absolutely the real thing' KEVIN POWER 'Written with a
wonderful clarity and insight, Holding Her Breath lingers in the
imagination. Beth's unravelling and re-ravelling is drawn with
great skill and empathy. A brilliant debut' DONAL RYAN
'Mindful Thoughts for Mothers is the perfect present for mums
everywhere. It explores a mother's world, helping the reader to
hold a sense of the "bigger picture" while being present in the
day-to-day.' - Mental Health Foundation 'The opposite of hardline,
hectoring motherhood manuals, this charmingly illustrated hardback
takes a gentle meander through the motherhood journey.' - Waitrose
Weekend Mindful Thoughts for Mothers brings mindful awareness to
important moments on the mothering journey. Part of the Mindful
Thoughts series, this beautifully illustrated little book meditates
on all aspects of motherhood, including: The first few months Your
identity as a mother Tantrums Teenagers Boundaries and compromise
...and many more Motherhood is one of the most wonderful and
powerful experiences we can have in life. As the early years of our
children's lives unfold, we will undoubtedly experience the joys
they bring, but will also encounter the stresses and demands that
appear daily and nightly on the parenting path. Using mindfulness
practice to manage these demands we can become more present and
meet life with awareness, in the moment. These 25 focused
reflections on motherhood will help you find greater
self-understanding and enable you to navigate a mindful path along
this exciting journey. If you like this, you might also be
interested in Mindful Thoughts for Fathers and Mindful Pregnancy
and Birth.
Jeremy Ivester is a transgender man. Thirty years ago, his parents
welcomed him into the world as what they thought was their
daughter. As a child, he preferred the toys and games our society
views as masculine. He kept his hair short and wore boys' clothing.
They called him a tomboy. That's what he called himself. By high
school, when he showed no interest in flirting, his parents thought
he might be lesbian. At twenty, he wondered if he was asexual. At
twenty-three, he surgically removed his breasts. A year later, he
began taking the hormones that would lower his voice and give him a
beard-and he announced his new name and pronouns. Never a Girl,
Always a Boy is Jeremy's journey from childhood through coming out
as transgender and eventually emerging as an advocate for the
transgender community. This is not only Jeremy's story but also
that of his family, told from multiple perspectives-those of the
siblings who struggled to understand the brother they once saw as a
sister, and of the parents who ultimately joined him in the battle
against discrimination. This is a story of acceptance in a world
not quite ready to accept.
From the time he was old enough to remember, Jim Hock was told
stories of his dad's glory days playing football in LA. A member of
the 1950s LA Rams, John Hock, Jim's dad, was a member of
Hollywood's Team, a football team that redefined what a sports team
looked like, sounded like, and acted like, all while
revolutionizing the sport of football. But Jim didn't know John the
football star, he just knew the sweet, funny guy he called Dad. In
a warm and aching memoir of childhood, good dad's, and what it is
to realize that your parents had a life and successes before you
came along.
Broken relationships between adult children and their parents is a
widespread phenomenon. While the parent-child attachment
relationship is of critical importance for the child in the early
years of life, the parent-child relationship continues to be a
source of great importance over the course of the individual's life
span for both the child and the parent. For adults and adult
children who are estranged/alienated from each other, the pain and
dissatisfaction never fully go away. Despite the prevalence of the
problem of ruptured relationships, there are few resources
available for mental health professionals working with this
population. This book provides a tool for clinicians to turn to
when they are working with adult children and their parents seeking
to resolve conflict, improve communication, and enhance their
relationships.
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Cowboy Grandma
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Sarah King, Wendy Ault; Illustrated by Sarah King
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This briefs offers a comprehensive view of the journey of
grandparents of children with disabilities by employing a wide
range of theoretical approaches such as intergenerational
relationships, positive psychology, psychoanalytic views and models
of stress. It presents a multidimensional view of grandparents,
which begins with the general role of grandparents in the family
and the transition to grandparenthood, as a major life event. The
briefs moves on to discuss grandparents' roles under unique
circumstances such as illness or disability in the family and then
deals with perspectives of parents of children with disabilities on
the role of grandparents. Finally, it reviews attitudes of
professionals toward grandparents and concludes with suggested
intervention strategies for working with families on
intergenerational relationships.
Millennials have disrupted almost every major industry. Whether
you're a parent trying to raise them, a pastor trying to reach
them, or an employer trying to retain them, they're disruptive. As
the largest living generation, millennials are one of the most
studied but misunderstood groups of our day. And the chasm between
the generations is only getting wider. Speaker and founder of the
Initiative Network Grant Skeldon pulls back the confusing
statistics about millennials to reveal the root issue: it's not a
millennial problem, it's a discipleship problem. Millennials are
known for their struggle to hold jobs, reluctance to live on their
own, and alarming migration away from the church. And now our
culture is feeling the results of a mentor-less, fatherless
generation. But how do you start discipling young people when you
struggle to connect with them? Written by a millennial, The Passion
Generation will guide you beyond the stats of what millennials are
doing to the why they're doing it and how we can all move toward
healthy community. With wit, compassion, and startling insights,
this book shares stories and studies drawn from Skeldon's years of
working to bridge generational gaps. In his signature
conversational style, Skeldon offers researched strategies that
will spark healthy connections, and practical methods that will
help you disciple the millennials you love. This book is your guide
to understanding the millennials in your life who are seemingly
reckless but far from hopeless, for the future of the church that
depends on them.
If your mother had superpowers, what would they be? What's your
favorite childhood memory of the two of you together? What has your
mom accomplished that makes you proud? Thought provoking and
celebratory, this fill-in gift book provides 50 prompts that help
you capture all the things you love and appreciate about your
mother: her talents, her quirks, the memories you share, and more.
With a fresh illustration style and deluxe production details like
a grain-embossed, foil-stamped cover, ribbon markers, and a 4-color
interior, this book is the perfect keepsake your mother will enjoy
for years to come.
This is the book that every grandparent (or parent) has always
meant to write for their children....but has never found the time
to do so. In short, John D. Spooner has been carefully crafted a
series of essential life lessons that every young person just out
of college or high school needs to read before they embark upon
their own life's adventures. Told in friendly and reassuring tones,
Spooner relates wonderful stories to illustrate and gently guide
the next generation of what they can expect when searching for a
job, how to know if you've found the right spouse, insights on how
to plan for one's financial future, how the internet has changed
our lives, dealing with adversity in life, and much, more more. NO
ONE EVER TOLD US THAT condenses all of this key information into
one volume - and it's presented in a clear-eyed way that only a
loving grandparent can. For decades, John D. Spooner has been one
of America's leading financial advisors. Now, as his own
grandchildren are on the frightening cusp of adulthood, Spooner has
chosen to impart his wisdom to them - and to readers everywhere -
in the form of old-fashioned letters.
Eleanor Stewart had always had a difficult relationship with her
mother, but when her mother's persistent ill-health, caused by
Parkinson's Disease, meant she needed a new home, Eleanor offered
her one. 'It will only be for six months' she assured her husband -
but it wasn't. It was for ten years. And, initially, those years
were hard. Her mother, Mary, had very little interest in Eleanor's
life, or even in her two grandchildren. So if a bridge was to be
built between the two women, Eleanor would have to build it - and
find the necessary solid ground to do so. She found it by exploring
her mother's past with her. Mary had had a fascinating life, which
included being shelled during the Second World War, shipwrecked and
a passionate affair while sailing to India. As Mary Stewart reveals
more and more of her past, Eleanor discovers a woman she has never
really known, and the two forge a strong relationship that was not
possible before.
Narcissistic mother's syndrome is a form of narcissistic
personality disorder (NPD) which is present in an estimated
0.6-1.0% of the population. The condition, and abusive impact it
has on hundreds of thousands of daughters around the world,
receives little public attention. Writer Danu Morrigan has helped
thousands of women to find a path to freedom, through her support
website daughtersofnarcissisticmothers.com and her bestselling book
You're Not Crazy - It's Your Mother. Now, Dear Daughter of a
Narcissistic Mother ..., her much anticipated second book, presents
100 letters written by Danu to fellow victims, containing
recognition, advice, techniques and encouragement to break free and
remain free from the toxicity of a relationship with an NPD mother.
It's 1983 and best friends Vicky and Lucy swear that they will
always be there for each other, that they'll never let anyone come
between them. But fast forward 4 years and life on the Canterbury
Estate has gotten very messy. Lucy has fallen for local policeman's
son, Jimmy. And Vicky is madly in love with Paddy, the charming but
ruthless local bad boy. The boys are bitter enemies and determined
to keep the two girls apart. But then Vicky is accused of murder,
and even her drug-dealer boyfriend wants her mouth shut,
permanently. Maybe Lucy is the only one who can save her... Love,
murder, revenge. Who can you really trust when there's blood on
your hands?
In a remote Nigerian village, thirteen-year-old Simi is desperate
to uncover a family secret ... WINNER OF THE TIMES/CHICKEN HOUSE
CHILDREN'S FICTION COMPETITION 2019 SHORTLISTED FOR THE WATERSTONES
CHILDREN'S BOOK PRIZE 2022 'A joy of a book: rich, warm, powerful
storytelling' KATHERINE RUNDELL 'A thrilling adventure bright with
the gorgeous colours of Nigeria - glorious!' JASBINDER BILAN 'An
excellent book ... rich in tradition and realism.' HANNAH GOLD,
AUTHOR OF THE LAST BEAR '[A] beautifully evoked story' THE
TELEGRAPH City girl Simi is sent to stay with her long-lost
grandmother in a remote Nigerian village. There's no TV, internet
or phone. Not a single human-made sound can be heard at night, just
the noise of birds and animals rustling in the dark forest outside.
Her witchlike grandmother dispenses advice and herbal medicine to
the village, but she's tight lipped about their family history.
Something must have happened, but what? Determined to find out,
Simi disobeys her grandmother and goes exploring. Caught in the
sinking red quicksand of a forbidden lake, her fantastical journey
begins ... A richly imagined magical fantasy adventure set in West
Africa by a prize-winning new voice in children's writing.
Introduces readers to Yoruba myths and legends whilst showcasing
the wealth of culture, traditions, adventure, fun, joy,
celebrations, music, pride and love found in Nigeria. Beautifully
explores themes of grief and belonging. Efua is the winner of the
Commonwealth Short Story Prize 2018. More praise for Children of
the Quicksands: 'Gorgeous ... an enthralling story' ABI ELPHINSTONE
'[A] terrific debut novel' YABA BADOE 'Traore's storytelling feels
almost otherworldly ... exhilarating' THE TIMES 'A stunning debut'
THE SCOTSMAN 'Full of secrets and myths' THE OBSERVER
'Kit Fielding's debut is a triumph. A story told with brutal
honesty, underpinned by humour, love, hope and the inestimable
power of friendship.' RUTH HOGAN, author of The Keeper of Lost
Things In every pub in every town unspoken stories lie beneath the
surface. Each week, six women meet at The Bluebell Inn. They form
an unlikely and occasionally triumphant ladies darts team. They
banter and jibe, they laugh. But their hidden stories of love and
loss are what, in the end, will bind them. There is Mary, full of
it but cradling her dark secret; Lena - young and bold, she has
made her choice; the cat woman who must return to the place of her
birth before it's too late. There's Maggie, still laying out the
place for her husband; and Pegs, the dark-eyed girl from the
travellers' site bringing her strangeness and first love. And Katy:
unappreciated. Open to an offer. They know little of each other's
lives. But here they gather and weave a delicate and sustaining
connection that maybe they can rely on as the crossroads on their
individual paths threaten to overwhelm. With humanity and insight,
Kit Fielding reveals the great love that lies at the heart of
female friendship. Raw, funny and devastating, all of life can be
found at the Bluebell.
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