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This briefs offers a comprehensive view of the journey of
grandparents of children with disabilities by employing a wide
range of theoretical approaches such as intergenerational
relationships, positive psychology, psychoanalytic views and models
of stress. It presents a multidimensional view of grandparents,
which begins with the general role of grandparents in the family
and the transition to grandparenthood, as a major life event. The
briefs moves on to discuss grandparents' roles under unique
circumstances such as illness or disability in the family and then
deals with perspectives of parents of children with disabilities on
the role of grandparents. Finally, it reviews attitudes of
professionals toward grandparents and concludes with suggested
intervention strategies for working with families on
intergenerational relationships.
Millennials have disrupted almost every major industry. Whether
you're a parent trying to raise them, a pastor trying to reach
them, or an employer trying to retain them, they're disruptive. As
the largest living generation, millennials are one of the most
studied but misunderstood groups of our day. And the chasm between
the generations is only getting wider. Speaker and founder of the
Initiative Network Grant Skeldon pulls back the confusing
statistics about millennials to reveal the root issue: it's not a
millennial problem, it's a discipleship problem. Millennials are
known for their struggle to hold jobs, reluctance to live on their
own, and alarming migration away from the church. And now our
culture is feeling the results of a mentor-less, fatherless
generation. But how do you start discipling young people when you
struggle to connect with them? Written by a millennial, The Passion
Generation will guide you beyond the stats of what millennials are
doing to the why they're doing it and how we can all move toward
healthy community. With wit, compassion, and startling insights,
this book shares stories and studies drawn from Skeldon's years of
working to bridge generational gaps. In his signature
conversational style, Skeldon offers researched strategies that
will spark healthy connections, and practical methods that will
help you disciple the millennials you love. This book is your guide
to understanding the millennials in your life who are seemingly
reckless but far from hopeless, for the future of the church that
depends on them.
'Mindful Thoughts for Mothers is the perfect present for mums
everywhere. It explores a mother's world, helping the reader to
hold a sense of the "bigger picture" while being present in the
day-to-day.' - Mental Health Foundation 'The opposite of hardline,
hectoring motherhood manuals, this charmingly illustrated hardback
takes a gentle meander through the motherhood journey.' - Waitrose
Weekend Mindful Thoughts for Mothers brings mindful awareness to
important moments on the mothering journey. Part of the Mindful
Thoughts series, this beautifully illustrated little book meditates
on all aspects of motherhood, including: The first few months Your
identity as a mother Tantrums Teenagers Boundaries and compromise
...and many more Motherhood is one of the most wonderful and
powerful experiences we can have in life. As the early years of our
children's lives unfold, we will undoubtedly experience the joys
they bring, but will also encounter the stresses and demands that
appear daily and nightly on the parenting path. Using mindfulness
practice to manage these demands we can become more present and
meet life with awareness, in the moment. These 25 focused
reflections on motherhood will help you find greater
self-understanding and enable you to navigate a mindful path along
this exciting journey. If you like this, you might also be
interested in Mindful Thoughts for Fathers and Mindful Pregnancy
and Birth.
If your mother had superpowers, what would they be? What's your
favorite childhood memory of the two of you together? What has your
mom accomplished that makes you proud? Thought provoking and
celebratory, this fill-in gift book provides 50 prompts that help
you capture all the things you love and appreciate about your
mother: her talents, her quirks, the memories you share, and more.
With a fresh illustration style and deluxe production details like
a grain-embossed, foil-stamped cover, ribbon markers, and a 4-color
interior, this book is the perfect keepsake your mother will enjoy
for years to come.
Axton Betz-Hamilton grew up in small-town Indiana in the early
'90s. When she was 11 years old, her parents both had their
identities stolen. Their credit ratings were ruined and they were
constantly fighting over money. This was before the age of the
Internet, when identity theft became more commonplace, so
authorities and banks were clueless and reluctant to help Axton's
parents. Axton's family switched PO Boxes, changed all of their
personal information and moved to different addresses but the
identity thief followed them wherever they went. Convinced that the
thief had to be someone they knew, Axton and her parents completely
cut off the outside world, isolating themselves from friends and
family. Axton learned not to let anyone into the house without
explicit permission and once went as far as chasing a plumber off
their property with a knife. She had panic attacks throughout her
formative years and often became physically sick with anxiety and
quarantined behind the closed curtains in her childhood home. She
began starving herself at a young age in an effort to blend in -
her clothes, hair, makeup and weight could be nothing short of
perfect or she would be scolded by her mother, who had become
paranoid and consumed by how others perceived the family. Years
later, her parents marriage still shaken from the theft, Axton
discovered that she, too, had fallen prey to the identity thief but
by the time she realised, she was already thousands of dollars in
debt and her credit was ruined. After her mother's death, Axton's
father found a box filled with pay stubs that listed his wife's
first name but a different last name; copies of Axton's birth
certificate; denial of application letters for various checking
accounts; properties with other men. Axton and her father quickly
came to realise that the identity thief was her mother all along.
THE LESS PEOPLE KNOW ABOUT US is Axton's attempt to untangle the
intricate web of her mother's lies and to understand why and how
her mother could have inflicted such pain upon the two people
closest to her. Axton will present a candid, shocking and
redemptive story that will provide clarity and comfort for others
in similarly unfortunate circumstances, and reveal her courageous
effort to grapple with a parent who broke the unwritten rules of
love, protection, and family.
This interactive follow-up to the beloved and bestselling Just
Between Us: Mother & Daughter journal is packed with new ways
to share and get creative together. With sensitivity and
thoughtfulness, this hands-on keepsake journal provides the space
and encouragement for mother-daughter conversations. Co-written by
a real-life mother-daughter team, Meredith and Sofie Jacobs, and
featuring inspirational mantras, notecards, stickers, stencils, and
certificates of appreciation alongside conversation-sparking
prompts, this shared journal has all the essentials to cultivate
shared respect and deep understanding in one of life's most
important relationships. As mothers and daughters, how much do we
share with each other, and how might our lives be enriched if we
dared to be more open? This eye-catching journal and keepsake is an
ideal tool for initiating difficult and important conversations
between mothers and their daughters. Perfect for moms and daughters
who are already close, it is also a shared resource for any
mother-daughter pair looking to deepen their relationship. *
BESTSELLING JOURNAL SERIES: First published over 10 years ago, Just
Between Us: Mother & Daughter continues to be a bestseller! Now
remade with new prompts, new art, and new interactive content, this
journal is perfect for long-time fans and new journalers alike. *
MOTHER-DAUGHTER AUTHOR DUO: Meredith and Sofie Jacobs, the
mother-daughter co-authors, started journaling together when Sofie
was just nine years old. Today, they're still close, completing one
another's sentences as they collaborate on special projects like
this one! But they've also been in your shoes: they know both the
joys and challenges of this most important relationship because
they've lived it. * INTERACTIVE CONTENT: Playful interactive
content like sticker sheets, cardstock notecards, stencils,
mantras, and certificates of appreciation add a whole new level of
self-expression and communication. The journal includes writing
prompts to get the conversation started and keep it going, as well
as drawing activities to draw you out and keep it fun. * FOR THE
RELUCTANT JOURNALER: Perfect for a reluctant reader, writer, and
journaler, it's full of drawing prompts and other interactive
activities that don't require pages of writing which can sometimes
feel like homework. Instead, engage with highly visual and
interactive content, and play! * SOCIO-EMOTIONAL LEARNING: This
journal is filled with opportunities for socio-emotional learning,
from prompts asking users to reflect on what matters to them and
how they feel to stickers that reflect their daily emotions. In
addition, it's filled with opportunities for gifting-from notecards
to certificates to mantras-inviting users to listen to one another,
and encourage one another. * TIMELY: In a new age of feminism and
#MeToo, mothers and daughters are eager to share more and uplift
one another. This journal will facilitate those necessary
conversations in fun, funny, and heartwarming ways by offering a
safe space to be honest. Writing removes a layer of awkwardness by
providing some distance, and will encourage vulnerability and
truthfulness in those more reluctant to share. * PERFECT GIFT:
Perfect for Mother's Day gifting, as well as everyday gestures of
appreciation and togetherness. PERFECT FOR: * Mothers and daughters
* Daughters looking for the perfect Mother's Day gift or everyday
gift * Mothers looking to build or maintain the bond they have with
their daughter * Fans of the original journal who are eager for new
content * Gift givers looking for a high-value interactive journal
* Anyone looking to promote socio-emotional learning
This is the book that every grandparent (or parent) has always
meant to write for their children....but has never found the time
to do so. In short, John D. Spooner has been carefully crafted a
series of essential life lessons that every young person just out
of college or high school needs to read before they embark upon
their own life's adventures. Told in friendly and reassuring tones,
Spooner relates wonderful stories to illustrate and gently guide
the next generation of what they can expect when searching for a
job, how to know if you've found the right spouse, insights on how
to plan for one's financial future, how the internet has changed
our lives, dealing with adversity in life, and much, more more. NO
ONE EVER TOLD US THAT condenses all of this key information into
one volume - and it's presented in a clear-eyed way that only a
loving grandparent can. For decades, John D. Spooner has been one
of America's leading financial advisors. Now, as his own
grandchildren are on the frightening cusp of adulthood, Spooner has
chosen to impart his wisdom to them - and to readers everywhere -
in the form of old-fashioned letters.
Eleanor Stewart had always had a difficult relationship with her
mother, but when her mother's persistent ill-health, caused by
Parkinson's Disease, meant she needed a new home, Eleanor offered
her one. 'It will only be for six months' she assured her husband -
but it wasn't. It was for ten years. And, initially, those years
were hard. Her mother, Mary, had very little interest in Eleanor's
life, or even in her two grandchildren. So if a bridge was to be
built between the two women, Eleanor would have to build it - and
find the necessary solid ground to do so. She found it by exploring
her mother's past with her. Mary had had a fascinating life, which
included being shelled during the Second World War, shipwrecked and
a passionate affair while sailing to India. As Mary Stewart reveals
more and more of her past, Eleanor discovers a woman she has never
really known, and the two forge a strong relationship that was not
possible before.
It's 1983 and best friends Vicky and Lucy swear that they will
always be there for each other, that they'll never let anyone come
between them. But fast forward 4 years and life on the Canterbury
Estate has gotten very messy. Lucy has fallen for local policeman's
son, Jimmy. And Vicky is madly in love with Paddy, the charming but
ruthless local bad boy. The boys are bitter enemies and determined
to keep the two girls apart. But then Vicky is accused of murder,
and even her drug-dealer boyfriend wants her mouth shut,
permanently. Maybe Lucy is the only one who can save her... Love,
murder, revenge. Who can you really trust when there's blood on
your hands?
Jeremy Ivester is a transgender man. Thirty years ago, his parents
welcomed him into the world as what they thought was their
daughter. As a child, he preferred the toys and games our society
views as masculine. He kept his hair short and wore boys' clothing.
They called him a tomboy. That's what he called himself. By high
school, when he showed no interest in flirting, his parents thought
he might be lesbian. At twenty, he wondered if he was asexual. At
twenty-three, he surgically removed his breasts. A year later, he
began taking the hormones that would lower his voice and give him a
beard-and he announced his new name and pronouns. Never a Girl,
Always a Boy is Jeremy's journey from childhood through coming out
as transgender and eventually emerging as an advocate for the
transgender community. This is not only Jeremy's story but also
that of his family, told from multiple perspectives-those of the
siblings who struggled to understand the brother they once saw as a
sister, and of the parents who ultimately joined him in the battle
against discrimination. This is a story of acceptance in a world
not quite ready to accept.
Miscommunication, Employee conflict, Work ethic debates, Loyalty
issues, Varying wants and needs - if you are a manager, human
resources professional or business owner, you are faced with these
types of issues every day. But why? Because currently, there are
five generations in the workplace: Radio Babies (born during
1930-1945); Baby Boomers (1946-1964); Generation X (1965-1976);
Generation Y (1977-1991); even some Millennials (1991 and later).
Each of them has a different perspective, based on their upbringing
and daily lives. The key to making encounters between the
generations successful is learning to understand the point of view
of each generation and respect their differences. The individuals
and organisations that do this will be the ones to succeed.
Broken relationships between adult children and their parents is a
widespread phenomenon. While the parent-child attachment
relationship is of critical importance for the child in the early
years of life, the parent-child relationship continues to be a
source of great importance over the course of the individual's life
span for both the child and the parent. For adults and adult
children who are estranged/alienated from each other, the pain and
dissatisfaction never fully go away. Despite the prevalence of the
problem of ruptured relationships, there are few resources
available for mental health professionals working with this
population. This book provides a tool for clinicians to turn to
when they are working with adult children and their parents seeking
to resolve conflict, improve communication, and enhance their
relationships.
An inspirational fill-in gift book to complete and give to your
mum. Often we find it difficult to express our true feelings to the
ones we love. This beautiful journal is a very special way to say
'I love you' to your mum. Fill in the prompted pages and gift to
your mum as a sign of your deep connection to one another.
'Kit Fielding's debut is a triumph. A story told with brutal
honesty, underpinned by humour, love, hope and the inestimable
power of friendship.' RUTH HOGAN, author of The Keeper of Lost
Things In every pub in every town unspoken stories lie beneath the
surface. Each week, six women meet at The Bluebell Inn. They form
an unlikely and occasionally triumphant ladies darts team. They
banter and jibe, they laugh. But their hidden stories of love and
loss are what, in the end, will bind them. There is Mary, full of
it but cradling her dark secret; Lena - young and bold, she has
made her choice; the cat woman who must return to the place of her
birth before it's too late. There's Maggie, still laying out the
place for her husband; and Pegs, the dark-eyed girl from the
travellers' site bringing her strangeness and first love. And Katy:
unappreciated. Open to an offer. They know little of each other's
lives. But here they gather and weave a delicate and sustaining
connection that maybe they can rely on as the crossroads on their
individual paths threaten to overwhelm. With humanity and insight,
Kit Fielding reveals the great love that lies at the heart of
female friendship. Raw, funny and devastating, all of life can be
found at the Bluebell.
This book investigates the changing culture of grandparenting.
Depending on the group, the period, and the family, grandparents
have been powerful patriarchs and matriarchs, reliable second
parents, dependents, burdens, or community figures. The book
examines the history of grandparenting and the changing depiction
of grandparent culture from "old" to "hip," including the
development of the celebrity grandparent, the emergence of media
technologies that allow for new communication and relationships
between grandparents and their grandchildren, new rituals
associated with grandparenting, the growth of the marketing of
grandparenting as a new stage of life, and the impact on our
culture of the commodification of grandparenting. Prior to the
twentieth century, within the United States the idea of the modern
grandparent likely did not even exist. Many people did not live
long enough to reach the grandparent stage of life. Today, people
are living longer, and grandparenting is occupying a longer phase
in one's life. Grandparenting is becoming its own life stage, where
new rituals exclusive to grandparents are emerging. Newer
technologies, such as Skype, Google Hangout and FaceTime, allow
grandparents who are far away to establish relationships with their
children. Many grandparents also use social media and blogs to
chronicle their experiences. Some grandparents have turned their
grandparent lifestyle into a business. The representation of
grandparenting in popular culture is shifting as well. Grandparents
are becoming their own figures on television and film programs,
including reality shows. Others have been thrust into the public
eye across social media. Marketers have realized the power of this
new consumer subgroup and have begun to direct marketing campaigns
to grandparents. Yet, despite the pervasive images of grandparents,
some of which present empowered figures, grandparent representation
in popular media continues to mimic many of the stereotypes
commonly associated with aging, encouraging people to laugh at
versus laugh with these figures. The Third Act: Grandparenting in a
Digital Age examines grandparenting through history, interviews,
and popular culture to study the changing image of grandparents in
society.
Harry Abley was a nightmare of a father: depressive, self-absorbed,
unpredictable, emotionally unstable. He was also a dream of a
father: gentle, courageous, artistically gifted. Mark Abley, his
only child, grew up in the shadow of music and mental illness. How
he came to terms with this divided legacy, and how he learned to be
a man in the absence of a traditional masculine role model, are
central to this beautifully written memoir. This extraordinary
story will speak to all those who love music, who struggle with
depression, or who wrestle with the difficult bonds of love between
a parent and a child. Praise for The Organist: "A wise and haunting
book." -Martha Baillie, author of The Search for Heinrich Schloegel
"The Organist is a rich and wonderful book, a deeply insightful and
moving story of a family's journey through the 20th
century....Abley's tale is fearless in its revelations, yet also
loving, funny, and beautifully told." -Ronald Wright, author of A
Scientific Romance and A Short History of Progress "'What does a
life add up to?' This question is central to Mark Abley's haunting
family memoir, The Organist. Both expansive in the themes it raises
and intimate in details required to bring those themes to life,
it's a question that draws on Abley's talents as a remarkably clear
and thoughtful writer. In The Organist, he ventures bravely into
territory that is, for almost everyone, mysterious: what our
parents were like before we, their children, became (so we like to
imagine) central to their lives. What this compelling book makes
clear is that what we don't know about them is often what we don't
know about ourselves." -David Macfarlane, author of The Danger Tree
"Beautiful, tender, and raging, The Organist comes from where the
best writing usually does-deep emotion affirmed by hard-won
experience of how humans are in their relationships, and in their
own hearts. It has taken Mark Abley nearly a lifetime to produce
the book of his life. Not a moment too late, or too soon" -Charles
Foran, author of Mordecai: The Life & Times
Este libro es escrito sin falasias, es como hablar en mis propias
palabras para que todo el mundo lo entienda tanto los intelectuales
como mi gente pobre y entiendan el mensaje que les quiero llevar de
mil cien que lo entienda y mas bien se lo aplique algo es algo,
pues no importa tu condicion social, raza o color esto es mas bien
un regalo de Dios, ....Jesus Crist Super Star, Peace and Love.
Broken relationships between adult children and their parents is a
widespread phenomenon. While the parent-child attachment
relationship is of critical importance for the child in the early
years of life, the parent-child relationship continues to be a
source of great importance over the course of the individual's life
span for both the child and the parent. For adults and adult
children who are estranged/alienated from each other, the pain and
dissatisfaction never fully go away. Despite the prevalence of the
problem of ruptured relationships, there are few resources
available for mental health professionals working with this
population. This book provides a tool for clinicians to turn to
when they are working with adult children and their parents seeking
to resolve conflict, improve communication, and enhance their
relationships.
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