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Margaret Nelson investigates the lives of single, working-class
mothers in this compelling and timely book. Through personal
interviews, she uncovers the different challenges that mothers and
their children face in small town America--a place greatly changed
over the past fifty years as factory work has dried up and national
chains like Walmart have moved in.
In a world full of many influences, The Parenting Project shows you
how, through the practice of daily conversation, to maintain
influence in your child's life. Are you losing the influence game
with your children? If you want to direct your child's growth, then
they need to get to know you. In The Parenting Project, parenting
experts Dr. Amy Alamar and Dr. Kristine Schlichting show you how to
talk with your children on a regular basis to gain their trust. In
a time when kids have many things vying for their attention, you
want to become the go-to person, the one they turn to the most for
advice and comfort. Sometimes it's difficult to speak with your
children about serious subjects. That's why The Parenting Project
teaches you how to make a habit of it, providing you with prompts
to help start potentially difficult conversations across a broad
range of subjects that apply to everyday life. The authors have
divided these conversations into five categories to inform your
approach-Heart-based, Uncomfortable, Dangerous, Character, and
Brave-because each type requires different strategies and
"conversation starters." The book includes story after story of how
parents have built extraordinary relationships with kids through
the act of talking with one another, day by day. With some help
from Dr. Alamar and Dr. Schlichting, it will be become easier to
open up conversations with (rather than at) your children so that
when the big questions arise, your child will turn to you first.
A sweeping, masterful debut about a daughter's fateful choice, a mother motivated by her own past, and a family legacy that begins in Cuba before either of them were born.
1866, Cuba: María Isabel is the only woman working at a cigar factory, where each day the workers are read Victor Hugo and encouraged to recognize their value and strength. But these are dangerous political times, and as María begins to see marriage and motherhood as her only options for survival, the sounds of war are approaching.
In present-day Miami, Jeanette is battling addiction. Daughter of Carmen, a Cuban immigrant, she is determined to learn more about her family history from her reticent mother and makes the snap decision to take in the daughter of a neighbour detained by immigration officers. Carmen, still wrestling with the trauma of displacement, must process her difficult relationship with her own mother while trying to raise a wayward Jeanette. Steadfast in her quest for understanding, Jeanette travels to Cuba to see her grandmother and reckon with secrets from the past destined to erupt.
From 19th-century cigar factories to present-day detention centers, from Cuba to Mexico, Gabriela Garcia's Of Women and Salt follows Latina women of fierce pride and longing, all irrevocably linked by the inheritance of trauma, and the stories passed between them. It is a haunting meditation on the choices of mothers and the tenacity of women who choose to tell their stories despite those who wish to silence them.
'Both inspiring and disturbing, Sex Cult Nun unravels Jones'
complicated upbringing, the trauma she endured as a result and her
eventual path to liberation.' TIME 'A moving story about family,
courage, religious oppression, and more, and readers will have
their heads spinning.' SHONDALAND 'Her gripping memoir-like
Educated-takes you inside a disturbing childhood and leaves you
marvelling at the resilience of the human spirit' PEOPLE MAGAZINE
Faith Jones was raised to be part of an elite army preparing for
the End Times. Isolated on a farm in Macau, she practised devotions
and read letters of prophecy written by her grandfather, the leader
of the now infamous cult, The Children of God. A direct decedent of
the founding family, Faith featured in international media coverage
- she was celebrated as extraordinary and then published doubly as
a sharp reminder that she was not. With indomitable grit, Faith
created a world of her own, pilfering books and educating herself
in secret. At the age of 23, she escaped, abandoning her history,
her inheritance and her legacy. While her childhood friends
succumbed to addiction, suicide and prostitution, Faith fought her
way into Georgetown University and went on to establish a
successful career in law. Sex Cult Nun is an enthralling
coming-of-age story that gives fascinating insight into the closed
and complex world of extreme belief. Exploring the issues of
psychological and physical control, Faith draws on her hard-won
insight to interrogate the binaries of good and evil, and shed
light on the insidiousness of oppression. At its heart, this
extraordinary story is a stark warning about the consequences of
surrendering our rights and responsibilities.
Grandkids really say the most unique things, and you don't want to
forget those sweet moments. From stray observations to hilarious
quips, sweet sentiments, and more, capture their words in this
beautiful journal. With plenty of space for writing, this
best-selling keepsake journal is just the place to create a record
of your grandchild's most memorable sayings to revisit for years to
come.
Being a caregiver is a difficult role. It requires pateince,
tenderness, selflessness, and hard work. Providing care for another
human being, whether a parent, loved one, or as a professional
requires a level of self love and self care as well that can not be
ignored. While it may be a rewarding experience to care for a loved
one, it can also be a stressful, both emotionally and mentally. It
is easy to get caught up in taking care of someone else that you
forget to take care of yourself and your own physical and emotional
well being as well. How do you navigate your role as caregiver
without losing yourself? Conscious Caregiver can help readers
navigate caring for their loved one, whether that means full-time
in house caregiving or hiring support from outside services. With
information on talking to their loved ones about their situation,
how to handle the emotional stress, practical information on
medical needs and finances, and how to take time away to care for
themselves, Conscious Caregiver can help them care for their loved
one and themselves at the same time.
When eight-year-old Leah's parents get divorced, her mother,
Cessie, flees her conventional life as a suburban housewife in
search of a glamorous big city career in journalism. In the chaotic
years that follow Cessie lurches from one apartment, job and toxic
romance to the next, with her adoring daughter in tow. Cessie
describes her parenting style as 'benign neglect' and their family
motto 'Commitment sucks the life right out of you' is tacked up on
every rental fridge. In the aftermath of a disturbing sexual
experience at a pool party, Leah finds herself crippled with
anxiety. When she confides in her mother, Cessie makes an
astonishing disclosure in turn, one that alters everything: from
the age of twelve to fifteen she was in a clandestine relationship
with her middle-aged, married riding instructor. The damage
inflicted by the 'Horseman', Cessie explains, is the reason for all
her regrettable life choices - marriage, divorce and even
motherhood itself. Both women spend the ensuing decades haunted by
the spectre of the Horseman, until they decide to investigate what
became of him - an ill-conceived quest that will test the bonds of
love and redefine their relationship forever. Written with
unflinching candour and wit, Where You End and I Begin explores the
dark reverberations of victim narratives and the power of filial
love.
"They've always wanted me to be open and honest with them, I've
spent years explaining stuff to them, and sometimes they still
don't understand everything" - Milly, 16 "Your parents aren't
actually hatching a plan to ruin your life..." Jim, 52 From minor
matters (tidiness, homework, sleep) to big and important ones
(relationships, mental ill health, drugs and alcohol), teenagers
and their parents often struggle to talk to each other - and
talking is key if your young person is facing new challenges as
they leave childhood behind. A well-timed conversation, a listening
ear, a non-judgemental and receptive attitude - all these can make
an enormous and lasting impact on how safely and happily a teenager
navigates this crucial stage of their development. Oh, if only it
were that easy. It's not always easy to talk to your teenager, or
for them to talk to you, but it is critical and may even be
life-saving. This book draws extensively on hundreds of
conversations that Fiona Spargo-Mabbs has conducted with young
people and parents in focus groups and school and college
workshops, to give a framework for tackling tough conversations
about difficult things, without judgement or anger. It gives
context and insight, based on the latest neuroscience findings on
the teenage brain and, importantly, it gives hundreds of prompts
and plenty of practical suggestions and strategies to make
communication between parents and young people a two-way street
that builds the foundations for a strong relationship with your
adult child. Covering everything from the small stuff, like curfews
and screen time, to the tough stuff of sex, self-harm and suicide,
this is a warm, compassionate and important book that draws on
lived experience and the lives of young people as they are, not as
we think they might, or should, be.
'Mindful Thoughts for Mothers is the perfect present for mums
everywhere. It explores a mother's world, helping the reader to
hold a sense of the "bigger picture" while being present in the
day-to-day.' - Mental Health Foundation 'The opposite of hardline,
hectoring motherhood manuals, this charmingly illustrated hardback
takes a gentle meander through the motherhood journey.' - Waitrose
Weekend Mindful Thoughts for Mothers brings mindful awareness to
important moments on the mothering journey. Part of the Mindful
Thoughts series, this beautifully illustrated little book meditates
on all aspects of motherhood, including: The first few months Your
identity as a mother Tantrums Teenagers Boundaries and compromise
...and many more Motherhood is one of the most wonderful and
powerful experiences we can have in life. As the early years of our
children's lives unfold, we will undoubtedly experience the joys
they bring, but will also encounter the stresses and demands that
appear daily and nightly on the parenting path. Using mindfulness
practice to manage these demands we can become more present and
meet life with awareness, in the moment. These 25 focused
reflections on motherhood will help you find greater
self-understanding and enable you to navigate a mindful path along
this exciting journey. If you like this, you might also be
interested in Mindful Thoughts for Fathers and Mindful Pregnancy
and Birth.
Eleanor Stewart had always had a difficult relationship with her
mother, but when her mother's persistent ill-health, caused by
Parkinson's Disease, meant she needed a new home, Eleanor offered
her one. 'It will only be for six months' she assured her husband -
but it wasn't. It was for ten years. And, initially, those years
were hard. Her mother, Mary, had very little interest in Eleanor's
life, or even in her two grandchildren. So if a bridge was to be
built between the two women, Eleanor would have to build it - and
find the necessary solid ground to do so. She found it by exploring
her mother's past with her. Mary had had a fascinating life, which
included being shelled during the Second World War, shipwrecked and
a passionate affair while sailing to India. As Mary Stewart reveals
more and more of her past, Eleanor discovers a woman she has never
really known, and the two forge a strong relationship that was not
possible before.
Discover how the children of prominent families pursue their own
path while contributing to their family's legacy In The Quest for
Legitimacy: How Children of Prominent Families Discover Their
Unique Place in the World, accomplished family and private wealth
consultant Dr. James Weiner delivers a unique and eye-opening
discussion of the Rising Generation's quest for self-determination
in the shadow of a larger-than-life family. The author relies on
qualitative research conducted on wealthy families to explore
topics like: Rites of passage in prominent families and what
liberation for young family members actually looks and feels like
Separating from and returning to your family while finding people
to trust on your journey How to deal with the long shadows cast by
wealthy family members Perfect for members of wealthy and
accomplished families, as well as the people who advise them, The
Quest for Legitimacy is an essential read for anyone navigating the
complex dynamics of accomplished families.
'A practical and timely book I highly recommend' Arianna
Huffington, Founder and CEO, Thrive Global 'Connect offers a
compelling and highly accessible roadmap for building relationships
that lead to professional success and personal fulfilment. I highly
recommend this book' Reid Hoffman, co-founder of LinkedIn and
co-author of Blitzscaling and The Alliance 'I encourage anyone who
cares to develop stronger and more meaningful relationships
anywhere in their life to read this book' David Rogier, Founder and
CEO at MasterClass ________________ David Bradford and Carole Robin
taught interpersonal skills to MBA candidates for a combined
seventy-five years on their legendary Stanford Graduate School of
Business course, "Interpersonal Dynamics". Now, in Connect, they
share their time-tested strategies for developing the interpersonal
skills that have become fundamental to success at work and in our
everyday lives, such as building trust, giving feedback and
navigating conflict. Connect shows why relationship-building is
crucial to becoming a more effective manager and leader and living
a fulfilled life, from highlighting the importance of curiosity and
empathy to demonstrating how to break logjams and negotiate
boundaries. Filled with research-backed insights, useful concepts
and thought-provoking exercises, Connect is an important resource
for anyone hoping to build and sustain relationships, providing
tools to make relationships robust -- and even exceptional.
________________ WHAT FORMER STUDENTS SAID ABOUT INTERPERSONAL
DYNAMICS: 'I can't believe how much I learned about myself and
about how others see the world' 'This course changed my life; it
was transformational' 'I feel so much better equipped to create the
kinds of relationships I want in my life'
Figuring out how to raise happy, healthy and successful kids can be
overwhelming. Parents find themselves wading through tons of
conflicting advice. Books that outline a "right way" of doing
things can leave even the most dedicated caregiver feeling
discouraged and inadequate when real life doesn't measure up. An
experienced psychiatrist and founder of the Center for Reflective
Communities, Regina Pally serves up something totally different in
her book. She argues that the key to successful parenting is
learning to slow down, reflect and recognise that there is no one
key to doing it right. The Reflective Parent synthesises the latest
in neuroscience research to show that our brain's natural
tendencies to empathise, analyse and connect with others are all we
need to be good parents. Full of practical, easy-to-implement
strategies that apply to every stage of a child's development, and
filled with engaging anecdotes, this book will help parents build
loving, lasting relationships with their kids.
Life expectancy is going up. Our parents are increasingly likely to
be living into their eighties and nineties. Many find themselves in
the position of caring for their parents when they are already
retired themselves, or not in good health, or still have children
to support financially. What can we do for the best in these
situations? Do you feel your parents are a burden? Do they feel
that? How do we cope with the huge costs of geriatric care? How do
we manage this conflicting tangle of interests? This is a practical
book that looks at the range of alternatives and provides realistic
solutions. It also recognizes the negative and ambivalent feelings
that plague families on all sides. Extreme old age is not easy. We
need to help our parents through the difficulties they inevitably
face during their final years, and balance those needs with equally
pressing ones elsewhere. Dan and Lavinia Cohn-Sherbok, drawing on
their own experiences, here provide a succinct overview of the
problems and answers for all with elderly parents.
HOORAY FOR GRANDPARENTS celebrates the special role grandparents
play in children's lives and collects 50 ways to build a strong
relationship between grandparent and grandchild. It's packed with
fun activities to do together, ways to create your own special
traditions, advice on how to support your grandchild in difficult
times, and ideas for building a legacy that lives beyond your
years. Packaged in a fun and engaging format, with simple, fun, and
heartwarming ways to deepen connections across generations, this is
full of useful and meaningful ways for grandparents to bond with
grandchildren.
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