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This book is not just for parents! While it was initially written
for them, increasingly adults working with adolescents also sought
help. I tried putting something together specifically for these
adults but found that the content is also in this book.These are
some common woes of adolescents and adults about each other - 'My
parents don't understand me.', 'Why is my child emotionally
explosive all the time?', 'My parents are always nagging.', 'Teens
cannot seem to be able to think about the consequence first before
acting!'The understanding-divide between adolescents and adults
seems to be getting wider. Concretely on a day-to-day basis,
adolescents and parents are clashing with each other over mind and
heart issues; and no one seemed to be able to 'get' the other. Even
if one 'got it', it would not take long before one would challenge
the other about it.Neuroscience has informed us that the divide has
always been there and will continue to be there because it is
developmental. The prefrontal cortex will only be fully developed
about ten years after the limbic system becomes fully functional.
These two areas are primarily responsible for setting and achieving
goals, and behavioural-emotional responses, respectively. The
implication of this reality is huge, and it explains the 'clash of
the mind and heart' issues at so many levels; specifically,
rational-emotional conflict during adult-adolescent engagement.One
of the ways to reduce that conflict is to heighten the
understanding of adult-child developmental realities and learn the
strategies that would help the other succeed. Such endeavours
seemed to benefit only the adult more because they seemed to be
more matured developmentally, but if we know how to help
adolescents appreciate the realities, they are able to also benefit
from it and manage the constant 'clashing' with the adults.Thus,
this book proposes the framework and strategies to help youths
succeed and includes some stories of professional youth work, where
effective youth engagement strategies are highlighted by youths
themselves in retrospect.
This book is not just for parents! While it was initially written
for them, increasingly adults working with adolescents also sought
help. I tried putting something together specifically for these
adults but found that the content is also in this book.These are
some common woes of adolescents and adults about each other - 'My
parents don't understand me.', 'Why is my child emotionally
explosive all the time?', 'My parents are always nagging.', 'Teens
cannot seem to be able to think about the consequence first before
acting!'The understanding-divide between adolescents and adults
seems to be getting wider. Concretely on a day-to-day basis,
adolescents and parents are clashing with each other over mind and
heart issues; and no one seemed to be able to 'get' the other. Even
if one 'got it', it would not take long before one would challenge
the other about it.Neuroscience has informed us that the divide has
always been there and will continue to be there because it is
developmental. The prefrontal cortex will only be fully developed
about ten years after the limbic system becomes fully functional.
These two areas are primarily responsible for setting and achieving
goals, and behavioural-emotional responses, respectively. The
implication of this reality is huge, and it explains the 'clash of
the mind and heart' issues at so many levels; specifically,
rational-emotional conflict during adult-adolescent engagement.One
of the ways to reduce that conflict is to heighten the
understanding of adult-child developmental realities and learn the
strategies that would help the other succeed. Such endeavours
seemed to benefit only the adult more because they seemed to be
more matured developmentally, but if we know how to help
adolescents appreciate the realities, they are able to also benefit
from it and manage the constant 'clashing' with the adults.Thus,
this book proposes the framework and strategies to help youths
succeed and includes some stories of professional youth work, where
effective youth engagement strategies are highlighted by youths
themselves in retrospect.
A beautiful coloured fabric and gold foil blocked gift journal for
your father to capture and share his wonderful memories and
stories. Designed to make it easy for every father to capture his
life story and aspirations, each journal includes 60 thoughtful
questions to inspire your dad to enjoy telling his story by
describing the past, the present and thinking about the future.
With space for accompanying photos and memorabilia alongside his
handwritten memories these classic, yet contemporary books, are
covered in soft fabric making these tactile editions truly timeless
keepsakes. Finished with gold foil and gold ribbons they make
fabulous gifts for any father on his birthday, at Christmas, on
Father's Day or simply to show him you care. The Timeless
Collection is available in 9 titles: Mum, Dad, Grandma, Grandad,
Daughter, Son, Sister, Brother & Friend.
Come along with Von Hahnke as he journeys to uncover the facts and
truth surrounding his family history and the monument from the
kaiser. He also answers in part the reasons Germany wasn't involved
in a war for almost forty years prior to World War I. "One of the
best-known and most popular soldiers in Germany." -Newport RI Sun
Newspaper "One of the most decorated generals in Europe." -Trenton
Evening News
'Extraordinary . . . stunning' - Elizabeth Macneal, author of The
Doll Factory 'Vivid details, visceral prose and strong willful
women' - Angie Cruz, author of Dominicana Five generations of
women, linked by blood and circumstance, by the secrets they share,
and by a single book passed down through a family, with an
affirmation scrawled in its margins: We are force. We are more than
we think we are. 1866, Cuba: Maria Isabel is the only woman
employed at a cigar factory, where each day the workers find
strength in daily readings of Victor Hugo. But these are dangerous
political times, and as Maria begins to see marriage and motherhood
as her only options, the sounds of war are approaching. 1959, Cuba:
Dolores watches her husband make for the mountains in answer to
Fidel Castro's call to arms. What Dolores knows, though, is that to
survive, she must win her own war, and commit an act of violence
that threatens to destroy her daughter Carmen's world. 2016, Miami:
Carmen, still wrestling with the trauma of displacement, is shocked
when her daughter Jeanette announces her plans to travel to Cuba to
see her grandmother Dolores. In the walls of her crumbling home
lies a secret, one that will link Jeanette to her past, and to this
fearless line of women. From nineteenth-century cigar factories to
present-day detention centres, from Cuba to the United States to
Mexico, Gabriela Garcia's Of Women and Salt follows Latina women of
fierce pride, bound by the stories passed between them. It is a
haunting meditation on the choices of mothers and the tenacity of
women who choose to tell their truth despite those who wish to
silence them.
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