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Books > Social sciences > Sociology, social studies > Social institutions > Family & relationships > Sexual relations
"Comprehensive, reader-friendly, richly detailed, forthright,
subtle, and very clear, Controlling Desires is the only handbook on
ancient sexuality that works persistently to offset modern readers'
assumptions about sex and sexuality, to challenge the notion that
sexuality is natural and universal, and to bring out the
differences between ancient and modern discourses of sex-or, even,
between ancient and modern experiences of desire. As such, it is a
very helpful resource for students working on the history of
sexuality in classical antiquity, because it shows how such a
history might be possible and what is actually historical about
sexuality." -David M. Halperin, University of Michigan, author of
One Hundred Years of Homosexuality, Saint Foucault, and How to Do
the History of Homosexuality Since its first publication in 2009,
Controlling Desires has been widely lauded as an accessible
introduction to sexual practices, attitudes, and beliefs in the
classical world. Treating Greece and Rome in separate sections,
with ample cross-references and comparisons, Kirk Ormand presents a
wide array of evidence from literary texts and visual arts,
including two new chapters on Greek vase painting and Roman
artifacts and wall paintings.
Groundbreaking historical scholarship on the complex attitudes
toward gender and sexual roles in Native American culture, with a
new preface and supplemental bibliographyPrior to the arrival of
Europeans in the New World, Native Americans across the continent
had developed richly complex attitudes and forms of expression
concerning gender and sexual roles. The role of the "berdache," a
man living as a woman or a woman living as a man in native
societies, has received recent scholarly attention but represents
just one of many such occurrences of alternative gender
identification in these cultures. Editors Sandra Slater and Fay A.
Yarbrough have brought together scholars who explore the historical
implications of these variations in the meanings of gender,
sexuality, and marriage among indigenous communities in North
America. Essays that span from the colonial period through the
nineteenth century illustrate how these aspects of Native American
life were altered through interactions with Europeans. Organized
chronologically, Gender and Sexuality in Indigenous North America,
1400-1850 probes gender identification, labor roles, and political
authority within Native American societies. The essays are linked
by overarching examinations of how Europeans manipulated native
ideas about gender for their own ends and how indigenous people
responded to European attempts to impose gendered cultural
practices at odds with established traditions. Many of the essays
also address how indigenous people made meaning of gender and how
these meanings developed over time within their own communities.
Several contributors also consider sexual practice as a mode of
cultural articulation, as well as a vehicle for the expression of
gender roles. Representing groundbreaking scholarship in the field
of Native American studies, these insightful discussions of gender,
sexuality, and identity advance our understanding of cultural
traditions and clashes that continue to resonate in native
communities today as well as in the larger societies those
communities exist within.
A provocative and probing argument showing how human beings can for
the first time in history take charge of their moral fate. Is
tribalism-the political and cultural divisions between Us and
Them-an inherent part of our basic moral psychology? Many
scientists link tribalism and morality, arguing that the evolved
"moral mind" is tribalistic. Any escape from tribalism, according
to this thinking, would be partial and fragile, because it goes
against the grain of our nature. In this book, Allen Buchanan
offers a counterargument: the moral mind is highly flexible,
capable of both tribalism and deeply inclusive moralities,
depending on the social environment in which the moral mind
operates. We can't be morally tribalistic by nature, Buchanan
explains, because quite recently there has been a remarkable shift
away from tribalism and toward inclusiveness, as growing numbers of
people acknowledge that all human beings have equal moral status,
and that at least some nonhumans also have moral standing. These
are what Buchanan terms the Two Great Expansions of moral regard.
And yet, he argues, moral progress is not inevitable but depends
partly on whether we have the good fortune to develop as moral
agents in a society that provides the right conditions for
realizing our moral potential. But morality need not depend on
luck. We can take charge of our moral fate by deliberately shaping
our social environment-by engaging in scientifically informed
"moral institutional design." For the first time in human history,
human beings can determine what sort of morality is predominant in
their societies and what kinds of moral agents they are.
Sex in the Middle East and North Africa examines the sexual
practices, politics, and complexities of the modern Arab world.
Short chapters feature a variety of experts in anthropology,
sociology, health science, and cultural studies. Many of the
chapters are based on original ethnographic and interview work with
subjects involved in these practices and include their voices. The
book is organized into three sections: Single and Dating, Engaged
and Married, and It's Complicated. The allusion to categories of
relationship status on social media is at once a nod to the
compulsion to categorize, recognition of the many ways that
categorization is rarely straightforward, and acknowledgment that
much of the intimate lives described by the contributors is
mediated by online technologies.
Sexy Like Us: Disability, Humor, and Sexuality takes a humorous,
intimate approach to disability through the stories, jokes,
performances, and other creative expressions of people with
disabilities. Author Teresa Milbrodt explores why individuals can
laugh at their leglessness, find stoma bags sexual, discover
intimacy in scars, and flaunt their fragility in ways both
hilarious and serious. Their creative and comic acts crash,
collide, and collaborate with perceptions of disability in
literature and dominant culture, allowing people with disabilities
to shape political disability identity and disability pride, call
attention to social inequalities, and poke back at ableist cultural
norms. This book also discusses how the ambivalent nature of comedy
has led to debates within disability communities about when it is
acceptable to joke, who has permission to joke, and which jokes
should be used inside and outside a community's inner circle.
Joking may be difficult when considering aspects of disability that
involve physical or emotional pain and struggles to adapt to new
forms of embodiment. At the same time, people with disabilities can
use humor to expand the definitions of disability and sexuality.
They can help others with disabilities assert themselves as sexy
and sexual. And they can question social norms and stigmas around
bodies in ways that open up journeys of being, not just for
individuals who consider themselves disabled, but for all people.
From Title IX cases on campus, to #metoo and #timesup, rape is a
definitive issue at the heart of feminism, and lately, it's barely
out of the news. Cultural critic Mithu Sanyal is picking up where
Susan Brownmiller left off in her influential 1975 book Against Our
Will. In fact, she argues that the way we understand rape hasn't
changed since then, even as the world has changed beyond
recognition. She contends that it is high time for a new and
informed debate about rape, sexual boundaries and consent. Sanyal
argues that the way we as a society understand rape tells us not
just how we understand sexual violence, but how we understand sex,
sexuality, and gender itself. For instance, why is it so hard to
imagine men as victims of rape? Why do we expect victims to be
irreparably damaged? When we think of rapists, why do we still
think of strangers in dark alleys, rather than uncles, husbands,
priests, or boyfriends? The book examines the role of race and the
trope of the black rapist, the omission of male victims, and what
we mean when we talk about rape culture. She provocatively takes
every received opinion we have about rape, and turns it inside out
- arguing with liberals, conservatives, feminists and sexists
alike.
In modern-day media, depictions of ancient Egyptian society are of
a highly sexualised, lustful culture, but how accurate are these
depictions of a people so shrouded in mystery and legend that it is
sometimes hard to tell truth from fiction? In this fascinating and
intimate insight into ancient Egyptian sex and sexuality, Charlotte
Booth demystifies an ancient way of life, drawing on archaeological
evidence and the written record to build a picture of what really
went on in the bedrooms of the pharaohs and their subjects. Sex was
a prominent part of ancient Egyptian society. It featured heavily
in religion, mythology and artwork, and was not considered the
taboo it is sometimes treated as in modern cultures. This book
examines all aspects of ancient Egyptian sex lives, from idealised
beauty and attitudes towards sexuality, to representations of
fertility in art and the relationship between sex and religion.
Many of the trials and tribulations that were faced are as relevant
today as they were in the past: marriage, divorce and adultery are
all discussed, as well as prostitution, homosexuality, sexual
health and fertility. Whilst many of the remedies seem bizarre to
the modern mind, some of the attitudes are surprisingly liberal,
and all make for fascinating reading. From Akhenaten and his
famously beautiful queen, Nefertiti, to the seductive Cleopatra's
affairs with Julius Caesar and Marc Antony, Booth provides a
tantilising glimpse into this extremely personal aspect of ancient
Egyptian life.
In this groundbreaking collection, editors Daina Ramey Berry and
Leslie M. Harris place sexuality at the center of slavery studies
in the Americas (the United States, the Caribbean, and South
America). While scholars have marginalized or simply overlooked the
importance of sexual practices in most mainstream studies of
slavery, Berry and Harris argue here that sexual intimacy
constituted a core terrain of struggle between slaveholders and the
enslaved. These essays explore consensual sexual intimacy and
expression within slave communities, as well as sexual
relationships across lines of race, status, and power. Contributors
explore sexuality as a tool of control, exploitation, and
repression and as an expression of autonomy, resistance, and
defiance.
Women Who Kill explores several lines of inquiry: the female
murderer as a figure that destabilizes order; the tension between
criminal and victim; the relationship between crime and expression
(or the lack thereof); and the paradox whereby a crime can be both
an act of destruction and a creative assertion of agency. In doing
so, the contributors assess the influence of feminist, queer and
gender studies on mainstream television and cinema, notably in the
genres (film noir, horror, melodrama) that have received the most
critical attention from this perspective. They also analyse the
politics of representation by considering these works of fiction in
their contexts and addressing some of the ambiguities raised by
postfeminism. The book is structured in three parts: Neo-femmes
Fatales; Action Babes and Monstrous Women. Films and series
examined include White Men Are Cracking Up (1994); Hit & Miss
(2012); Gone Girl (2014); Terminator (1984); The Walking Dead (2010
); Mad Max: Fury Road (2015); Contagion (2011) and Ex Machina
(2015) among others.
The sexual revolution is justly celebrated for the freedoms it
brought--birth control, the decriminalization of abortion, the
liberalization of divorce, greater equality between the sexes,
women's massive entry into the workforce, and more tolerance of
homosexuality. But as Pascal Bruckner, one of France's leading
writers, argues in this lively and provocative reflection on the
contradictions of modern love, our new freedoms have also brought
new burdens and rules--without, however, wiping out the old rules,
emotions, desires, and arrangements: the couple, marriage,
jealousy, the demand for fidelity, the war between constancy and
inconstancy. It is no wonder that love, sex, and relationships
today are so confusing, so difficult, and so paradoxical.
Drawing on history, politics, psychology, literature, pop
culture, and current events, this book--a best seller in
France--exposes and dissects these paradoxes. With his customary
brilliance and wit, Bruckner traces the roots of sexual liberation
back to the Enlightenment in order to explain love's supreme
paradox, epitomized by the 1960s oxymoron of "free love": the
tension between freedom, which separates, and love, which attaches.
Ashamed that our sex lives fail to live up to such liberated
ideals, we have traded neuroses of repression for neuroses of
inadequacy, and we overcompensate: "Our parents lied about their
morality," Bruckner writes, but "we lie about our immorality."
Mixing irony and optimism, Bruckner argues that, when it comes
to love, we should side neither with the revolutionaries nor the
reactionaries. Rather, taking love and ourselves as we are, we
should realize that love makes no progress and that its messiness,
surprises, and paradoxes are not merely the sources of its
pain--but also of its pleasure and glory.
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