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College life is particularly stressful for students with Asperger
Syndrome (AS) and the resources that colleges provide for such
students are often inadequate. This much needed guide provides
information to help these students prepare successfully for the
rites and rituals of studying, interact with staff and fellow
students, cope with expectations and pressures, and understand
their academic and domestic responsibilities. How will I cope with
the workload? What do I do if I feel ill? How do I make friends and
initiate relationships with the opposite sex? Drawing on first hand
interviews with AS students and direct clinical experience, the
authors address these and many other questions thoughtfully and
thoroughly, making practical recommendations. Succeeding in College
with Asperger Syndrome demystifies the range of college experiences
for students with AS. It is a must for these students, their
parents and counsellors alike, providing benefits that will
continue throughout the college years and beyond.
People with autism often experience difficulty in understanding and
expressing their emotions and react to losses in different ways or
in ways that carers do not understand. In order to provide
effective support, carers need to have the understanding, the
skills and appropriate resources to work through these emotional
reactions with them. Autism and Loss is a complete resource that
covers a variety of kinds of loss, including bereavement, loss of
friends or staff, loss of home or possessions and loss of health.
Rooted in the latest research on loss and autism, yet written in an
accessible style, the resource includes a wealth of factsheets and
practical tools that provide formal and informal carers with
authoritative, tried and tested guidance. This is an essential
resource for professional and informal carers working with people
with autism who are coping with any kind of loss.
Open, honest and upbeat, this book gives personal insight into both
the ups and downs of an Asperger relationship. Seeking to challenge
the bad press that people with Asperger Syndrome (AS) get as
partners, Sarah and Keith tell their story of how they are making
it work - and also how they got it wrong - with disarming frankness
and humour. When Sarah and Keith met in 2003 neither knew much
about Asperger Syndrome. Sarah thought Keith was `weird' and
couldn't work out why; and Keith thought Sarah was obsessed with
diagnosing him with something-or-other. Difficulties ensued that
brought the relationship to an end. Slowly, however, they each
built up their knowledge of AS and in the meantime developed a
mutual understanding, mutual acceptance and a desire to be together
again. This personal account is supplemented with professional
knowledge and anecdotes gained from Sarah's work with adults with
AS - a career which started as a result of her experiences with
Keith. She swears that she didn't take her work home with her! It
is inspiring reading for couples in Asperger relationships as well
as for counselling professionals.
'A beautiful and important book that is both deeply engaging and
usefully practical. I loved it.' CATHY RENTZENBRINK 'An insightful
and well-timed book ... forces us to confront the stereotypes - and
prejudices - we hold.' SUNDAY TIMES 'profoundly important...full of
wisdom and bright insights on what it really means to love someone,
by a fearless and generous writer. ' CLOVER STROUD 'A beautiful and
timely reminder that each and every one of us has the ability to
care, the capacity for empathy, and the potential to grow.' ANDY
PUDDICOMBE, FOUNDER OF HEADSPACE 'A wonderful book: compassionate,
honest, carefully-reasoned and genuinely helpful... This will
benefit many people.' KATHERINE MAY, author of WINTERING 'An
invaluable tool for any invisible carers or anyone who wants to
learn how to better support their loved ones... we ALL have many,
many things to learn from Penny's beautiful, wise, charming,
thoughtful words' SCARLETT CURTIS, Sunday Times bestselling author
'Moving and beautifully written, nuanced and wise, alert to every
paradox at the heart of love. A hugely important book not only for
current or future carers, but anyone learning to accept that life
tends to resist our control.' OLIVIA SUDJIC, author of EXPOSURE
'Tender captures the powerful capacity of people to care for
others, and all the heartbreaking and heartwarming complexity that
this involves. Penny brings the crucial, yet often overlooked, role
of caring into our collective consciousness and, in doing so,
demonstrates what it means to be human.' -DR EMMA HEPBURN, author
of A TOOLKIT FOR MODERN LIFE 'Penny Wincer's TENDER manages to
combine both unromanticised honesty about the realities of care
with a genuine uplifting hopefulness... is a must-read.' RUTH
WHIPPMAN, author of THE PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS We are all likely - at
some point in our lives - to face the prospect of caring for
another, whether it's a parent, child or partner. It is estimated
that there are 7 million people in the UK caring for loved ones.
And yet these are the unpaid, unsung people whose number is rising
all the time. In Tender: the imperfect art of caring, Penny Wincer
combines her own experiences as a carer with the experiences of
others to offer real and transformative tools and insights for
navigating a situation that many of us are either facing or will
face at some time. Penny Wincer has twice been a carer: first to
her mother, and now as a single parent to her autistic son. Tender
shows how looking after oneself is a fundamental part of caring for
another, and describes the qualities that we can look to cultivate
in ourselves through what may otherwise feel to be an exhausting
task. Weaving her lived experience with research into resilience,
perfectionism and self-compassion, Penny combines the stories of
other carers alongside those who receive support - offering an
often surprising and hopeful perspective. Penny hosts a podcast Not
Too Busy To Write.
Communication is one of the biggest challenges faced by people with
Asperger's Syndrome (AS), yet an Asperger marriage requires
communication more than any other relationship. Thousands of people
live in Asperger marriages without knowing the answers to important
questions such as `What behaviours indicate that my spouse has AS?'
`Is it worthwhile to get a diagnosis?' `Is there hope for
improvement?' Katrin Bentley has been married for 18 years. Since
receiving her husband's diagnosis of AS, their marriage has
improved substantially. They learnt to accept each other's
different approaches to life and found ways to overcome problems
and misunderstandings. Today they are happily married and able to
communicate effectively. Alone Together shares the struggle of one
couple to rescue their marriage. It is uplifting and humorous, and
includes plenty of tips to making an Asperger marriage succeed.
This book offers couples hope, encouragement and strategies for
their own marriages.
Meet Jamie, a young boy with ADHD and a tic disorder called
Tourette Syndrome. He's not being fidgety or naughty - he really
can't help it! Jamie explains how he was diagnosed and what having
tics and ADHD is like for him. He also shares how he has learnt to
relieve his ADHD symptoms, minimise his tics, and how friends and
adults can help at home and school. This illustrated book comes in
two parts - one with interactive activities and heaps of useful
information about having both ADHD and tics. Jamie explains how it
can be really tricky to tell whether your fidgeting comes from
having ADHD, tics, or both! The second part tells the story of how
Jamie's Grandfather encouraged him to learn more about his tics.
Jamie and his friends who attend the after-school tic club learn
about each other by sharing their experiences of ADHD and tics at
home and at school. This book is ideal for children aged 7+ as well
as friends, teachers and professionals working with children with
ADHD and tic disorders, and a great starting point for family and
classroom discussions too!
This collection of narratives from autistic adults is structured
around their decades of experience of life, covering 20s, 30s, 40s,
50s, 60 and 70s+. These are varied and diverse, spanning different
continents, genders, sexualities and ethnicities, yet the author
highlights the common themes that unite them and skilfully draws
out these threads. Each chapter is based on accounts from one age
group and includes accounts from people of that age, giving an
insight into the history of autism and signifying how gaining a
diagnosis (or not) has changed people's lives over time. The book
is about ageing with an autistic mind, and helping the reader find
connections between neurotypical and neurodiverse people by
acknowledging the challenges we all face in our past, present and
futures.
Different Like Me introduces children aged 8-12 years to famous,
inspirational figures from the world of science, art, maths,
literature, philosophy and comedy. Eight-year-old Quinn, a young
boy with Asperger's Syndrome, tells young readers about the
achievements and characteristics of his autism heroes, from Albert
Einstein, Dian Fossey and Wassily Kandinsky to Lewis Carroll,
Benjamin Banneker and Julia Bowman Robinson, among others. All
excel in different fields, but are united by the fact that they
often found it difficult to fit in - just like Quinn. Fully
illustrated in colour and written in child-friendly language, this
book will be a wonderful resource for children, particularly
children with autism, their parents, teachers, carers and siblings.
This hands-on practical guide provides dyslexic young people with
techniques to improve their observational drawing skills, showing
them how they can work around the issues commonly reported by
students with SLDs. Many creative and talented individuals with
neurological differences report difficulties with short-term
memory, co-ordination and planning ahead within a project, and a
lack of specialised teaching may even dissuade them from pursuing
art at school. This book addresses those challenges. The authors,
who have many years' experience of teaching art to dyslexic and
dyspraxic students, also include examples not just of the
techniques described, but also of the creative ideas other
neurodiverse students have come up with. Fully illustrated, with
clear explanations, and space to draw and sketch, this much needed
book will provide dyslexic art students with the tools and
confidence to achieve their goals and become the creative
professionals of the future.
It isn't easy being eight years old and having an older brother
whom other children often misunderstand. They don't realize that
when he doesn't laugh at their jokes it's because he doesn't
understand them. They don't know that when he doesn't speak to them
or look at them it's because he doesn't know what to say or how to
make eye contact. They don't realize that he behaves this way
because he has something called Asperger's Syndrome. Sam knows that
his brother Eric is different from him because his brain works
differently. So, when the other children bully Eric, it makes Sam
feel protective of him. But sometimes, when Eric behaves oddly, Sam
feels embarrassed too. Sometimes, when Eric gets lots of attention,
it makes Sam feel resentful - then, when he considers that Eric
needs a lot of help and attention, it makes Sam feel guilty for
feeling resentful. There are so many different feelings Sam
experiences! Brotherly Feelings explores the emotions that siblings
of children with Asperger's Syndrome (AS) commonly experience. With
illustrations throughout, this book will help siblings to
understand that their emotional responses - whatever they are - are
natural and OK. It is the ideal book for parents and professionals
to use with siblings to discuss their emotional experiences, and
will also help children with AS to form an understanding of the
feelings of other family members.
Haben grew up spending summers with her family in the enchanting
Eritrean city of Asmara. There, she discovered courage as she faced
off against a bull she couldn't see, and found in herself an
abiding strength as she absorbed her parents' harrowing experiences
during Eritrea's thirty-year war with Ethiopia. Their refugee story
inspired her to embark on a quest for knowledge, traveling the
world in search of the secret to belonging. She explored numerous
fascinating places, including Mali, where she helped build a school
under the scorching Saharan sun. Her many adventures over the years
range from the hair-raising to the hilarious. Haben defines
disability as an opportunity for innovation. She learned non-visual
techniques for everything from dancing salsa to handling an
electric saw. She developed a text-to-braille communication system
that created an exciting new way to connect with people. Haben
pioneered her way through obstacles, graduated from Harvard Law,
and now uses her talents to advocate for people with disabilities.
HABEN takes readers through a thrilling game of blind hide-and-seek
in Louisiana, a treacherous climb up an iceberg in Alaska, and a
magical moment with President Obama at The White House. Warm,
funny, thoughtful, and uplifting, this captivating memoir is a
testament to one woman's determination to find the keys to
connection.
'A great and inspiring book from Doncaster's bravest son. Read it
in a day' - Jeremy Clarkson 'Ben is the embodiment of positive
thinking. What he has achieved, in large part through willpower, is
nothing short of miraculous. An inspiration to us all' - Ant
Middleton The story of Ben Parkinson MBE, the most injured soldier
to have survived Afghanistan --- What were you doing when you were
22? Where were you in the world? What did you want to do with your
life? Ben Parkinson was a 6'4" Paratrooper. He was in Afghanistan
fighting for his country. He wanted to always be a soldier, to be a
father and to get home in one piece. But we don't always get what
we want. So the question is: how do we react when that happens?
Easy: You find something new to fight for. Ben Parkinson MBE is an
inspiration to everyone. He suffered 37 injuries when his Land
Rover hit a mine in Helmand in 2006, including brain damage,
breaking his back and losing both his legs. This book follows the
story of what led him to that moment his life changed forever - and
what happened next. Doctors didn't think Ben could survive the
trauma - then they didn't think he would wake up, or talk again, or
walk again. Time after time, Ben pushed the ceiling on what was
possible, going on to carry the Olympic flame in 2012 and receiving
an MBE for the enormous feats he has undertaken for charity. What
he has achieved in the face of adversity - for others as well as
for himself - is nothing short of a miracle. Nerve-wracking,
heart-warming and full of classic soldier's humour, Losing the
Battle, Winning the War is a book you'll be thinking about long
after the last page. 'Ben Parkinson is my hero. His story is one of
immeasurable courage and character, a testament to the
extraordinary resilience of the human spirit' Dan Jarvis MP, author
of Long Way Home
The trauma of brain injury affects many people besides the injured
one, and this book offers hope to all of them. A guide to
psychological recovery after the loss and upheaval that follow such
an event, this book is full of new ideas and experience --
something many survivors and their caregivers have run out of. In
clear language and with easy-to-follow exercises, the authors lead
the reader through the four stages of psychological recovery:
becoming more self-aware, recovering emotionally, thinking in new
ways, and changing behaviour.
This is a simple, research-based guide to overcoming attention
problems through mindfulness and meditation. The heart of the book
is an 8-step programme that teaches simple yet powerful midfulness
practices, adapted for those struggling with ADHD.
'A hymn to life, love, family, and spirit' DAVID MITCHELL, author
of Cloud Atlas The vividly told, gloriously illustrated memoir of
an artist born with disabilities who searches for freedom and
connection in a society afraid of strange bodies. ***WINNER OF THE
BARBELLION PRIZE*** In 1958, amongst the children born with spina
bifida is Riva Lehrer. She endures endless medical procedures and
is told she will never have a job, a romantic relationship or an
independent life. But everything changes when as an adult Riva is
invited to join a group of artists, writers, and performers who are
building Disability Culture. Their work is daring, edgy, funny, and
dark, and it rejects tropes that define disabled people as
pathetic, frightening or worthless, instead insisting that
disability is an opportunity for creativity and resistance. Riva
begins to paint their portraits - and her art begins to transform
the myths she's been told her whole life about her body, her
sexuality, and other measures of normal. 'A brilliant book, full of
strangeness, beauty, and wonder' Audrey Niffenegger 'Wonderful. An
ode to art and the beauty of disability' Cerrie Burnell 'Stunning'
Alison Bechdel ***SHORTLISTED FOR THE NATIONAL BOOK CRITICS CIRCLE
AWARD***
An early gem from the creator of the Kurt Wallander series,
charting the life of a principled man through tragedy, heartbreak,
true love and the battle for a nation's soul. "A very engaging
portrait . . . There is a powerful lack of sentimentality to the
telling of the story [and] a lovely and genuinely moving love story
at the heart of the book." Liam Heylin, Irish Examiner At 3 p.m. on
a Saturday afternoon in 1911, Oskar Johansson is caught in a blast
in an industrial accident. The local newspaper reports him dead,
but they are mistaken. Because Oskar Johansson is a born survivor.
Though crippled, Oskar finds the strength to go on living and
working. The Rock Blaster charts his long professional life - his
hopes and dreams, sorrows and joys. His relationship with the woman
whose love saved him, with the labour movement that gave him a
cause to believe in, and with his children, who do not share his
ideals. Henning Mankell's first published novel is steeped in the
burning desire for social justice that informed his bestselling
crime novels. Remarkably assured for a debut, it is written with
scalpel-like precision, at once poetic and insightful in its
depiction of a true working-class hero. Translated from the Swedish
by George Goulding
Will Attwood was finishing a three-year sentence in prison when he
was formally diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome for the first time.
After his diagnosis he recognised just how much it had been
affecting his life behind bars. This book is a practical advice
guide for people with autism who have been sentenced to time in
prison. Will shares his first-hand knowledge of what to expect and
how to behave within the penal system. He sheds light on topics
that are important for people with autism, answering questions such
as: How should you act with inmates and guards? How do you avoid
trouble? What about a prison's environmental stimuli may cause you
anxiety? His thoughtful, measured writing debunks rumours about
daily life in prison, and the useful tips and observations he
offers will help anyone with autism prepare for the realities of
spending time incarcerated, and be enormously helpful to those
working with offenders on the autism spectrum.
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