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Books > Health, Home & Family > Self-help & practical interests
Many of us were told to stuff our feelings down when we were younger. We were taught that that our emotional reactions and responses should be controlled so we didn't embarrass or upset our parents and those around us. However, if that control oozes over into our relationships it's considered a bad thing. Controlling our friends or romantic partners is seen as toxic. Control is a precarious thing. So, what are we supposed to do?
In Why Do I Keep Doing This? licensed family and marriage therapist, Kati Morton, explores this common struggle with control. Kati shows how our upbringing and anxiety are often connected to our struggle to take up space. We can feel like we are too much by just existing in the same place as someone else, or that we are less deserving of their time and care. This struggle with asserting ourselves or taking what we require can harm our development. We sometimes think the only way to feel okay and get what we need is to please everyone else first. Why Do I Keep Doing This? is a vital tool in helping us understand why control can be so attractive, but if left unmonitored can become detrimental to our lives.
Kati will shed light on shared struggles as readers follow her through some key points of growth in her own life while incorporating what she has learned as a therapist and content creator who knows how to create lasting healthy change. This book gives readers the ability to not only ask themselves why do I keep doing this? but also have the insight to find a real answer.
In this powerful new collection of wisdom and poetry, Donna Ashworth
helps us to find strength and courage on the days we feel lost, to pick
ourselves up when times are hard, to soothe fear and self-doubt when we
are in their grip, and to let in more life and love as we brave our
challenges.
Every day we are bombarded by thoughts, feelings and information that
make us feel anxious and afraid. We worry we don't measure up, we are
scared of failure and we find it hard to be ourselves. We also feel
powerless watching the world getting messier, angrier and more
unstable. Fear is a limiting factor for many of us and if we don't
challenge it we can find ourselves falling foul of it, and keeping out
more of the good stuff in life than the bad.
With poems such as 'One Day You'll See', 'Growing in Moonlight', 'The
Comparing' and 'Always There', bestselling author Donna Ashworth helps
us to see that no matter how small or afraid we feel, we make the
biggest difference in this world and to our own happiness when we are
brave enough to show up as ourselves.
'Could there be a more relevant book for our times? While there are
plenty of books on persuasion, none tells us how to influence
others through the quiet art of understanding. Vengoechea implores
us to truly hear other people (maybe for the first time) and is the
perfect author of a book on why we should listen like we mean it'
Nir Eyal, bestselling author of Hooked and Indistractable Hear me
out. Does this sound like you? You end a team meeting and can't
recall a single thing that was said. You leave a conversation with
a friend feeling disconnected and unfulfilled. You think you and
your boss are on the same page, only to find out you haven't been
meeting expectations. Fortunately, listening, like any
communication skill, can be improved, and Ximena Vengoechea can
show you how. As a user researcher, she has spent nearly a decade
facilitating hundreds of conversations at LinkedIn, Twitter and
Pinterest. It's her job to uncover the truth behind how people use,
and really think about, her company's products. In Listen Like You
Mean It, she reveals the tips and tricks of the trade, including: -
How to quickly build rapport with strangers - Which questions help
people unlock what they need to say - When it's time to throw out
the script entirely - How to recover from listener's drain
Clocking Out gives readers a new way to think about their careers
and delivers practical advice to first assess and consolidate
individual power then make thoughtful, meaningful changes and
choices for a successful transition. Ten fascinating stories bring
to life the key components of effective career transition - choice,
mindset, agility, and trust - and highlight how each interplay
during a career change.
Learn how to take risks, thrive and build your dream career. Each
one of us dreams of possibility - in our careers and in our
personal lives. But our pursuit of possibility is hamstrung by a
single myth that looms large over us time and time again. The Myth
of the Single Choice has led us to believe that one large choice
stands between us and success, and that a single failure may topple
us should we choose 'wrongly'. Influenced by this myth, we let fear
trump possibility: we become paralyzed. But Sukhinder's journey
tells a different story. When people thrive, it's because their
fear of missing out on an opportunity (FOMO) overtakes their fear
of failure (FOF) and compels them to take action. Better yet, they
keep acting, building a fundamental risk-taking muscle that under
weighs the importance of any single choice in favour of continually
'choosing'. These 'Choosers' accumulate outsized impact and success
over time, while also being more likely to make a number of
'failing' choices along the way. In this book, she will show you
how to be a Chooser, presenting strategies that increase your
risk-taking abilities, lower your fear of failure and expand your
own possibilities.
Most of us face the same questions every day: What do I want? How
can I get it? How can I live more happily and work more
efficiently? This updated edition of the international bestseller
distils into a single volume the fifty best decision-making models
used on MBA courses, and elsewhere, that will help you tackle these
important questions - from the well known (the Eisenhower matrix
for time management) to the less familiar but equally useful (the
Swiss Cheese model). It will even show you how to remember
everything you'll have learned by the end of it. Stylish and
compact, this little book is a powerful asset. Whether you need to
plot a presentation, assess someone's business idea or get to know
yourself better, this unique guide will help you simplify any
problem and take steps towards the right decision.
Your brain is always listening and responding to these hidden
influences and unless you recognize and deal with them, they can steal
your happiness, spoil your relationships, and sabotage your health.
This book will teach you to tame the:
- Dragons from the Past that ignite your most painful
emotions;
- Negative Thought Dragons that attack you, fueling anxiety
and depression;
- They and Them Dragons, people in your life whose own
dragons do battle with yours;
- Bad Habit Dragons that increase the chances you’ll be
overweight, overwhelmed, and an underachiever;
- Addicted Dragons that make you lose control of your health,
wealth, and relationships;
- Scheming Dragons, advertisers and social media sites that
steal your attention.
In Your Brain Is Always Listening, Dr. Daniel Amen shows you how to
recognize harmful dragons and gives you the weapons to vanquish them.
With these practical tools, you can stop feeling sad, mad, nervous, or
out of control and start being happier, calmer, and more in control of
your own destiny.
Busy business owner and coach, Jackie Jarvis, shares her personal
journey with honesty and humour. Reaching a point in her life when
she felt an urge to slow down and be truer to her heart's desire,
she found that the struggle with herself was the biggest challenge
of all. She writes about what many of us, living busy, fast paced
lives feel. She touches on what deep down we all have the greatest
longing for but at the same time are afraid to reach out for, and
afraid to give ourselves permission to have. If, like Jackie, you
listen to 'The Voice of Slow' and what it has to say to you, you
will become inspired to follow her path to slowing down, stressing
less and enjoying life more. Read slowly to appreciate the
important messages here for you. *This book is based on an earlier
version titled 'In Pursuit of Slow'.'In Pursuit of Slow' was an
Amazon Bestseller in the Top 50 Self Help category.
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