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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Advice on parenting > Child care & upbringing
Toddlerhood is a time of tremendous growth and development. It is
also a time of tantrums and conflict. Knowing what constitutes
normal toddler behaviour will help you accept and respect this and
go a long way towards effective, guilt-free and realistic
parenting. Your toddler learns though his senses - to guide him,
you need to practise wisdom with sense. Now fully updated and
expanded to include the latest relevant research, this ever popular
follow up to Baby Sense tells you how to: recognise and understand
your toddler's unique sensory profile; manage stimulation to avoid
overload; solve bedtime battles with age-appropriate
sleep-training; discipline with love and a sense of humour; follow
a sensible approach to toilet training; monitor and encourage
development; feed your toddler and manage fussy eating in the
toddler years; recognise learning disorders for early intervention.
Parents and clinicians share a deep interest in promoting
children's personal maturity and character development. Dr.
Elizabeth Berger, mother, child psychiatrist, and educator,
addresses this concern by calling upon her own personal experiences
and professional expertise. The goal of therapists and parents
alike is to understand children's emerging character, recruiting
the wise and mature aspects of the personality in an effort to
surmount difficulties. Dr. Berger identifies general themes in the
intimate relationship between parent and child and shows how to
support and enhance the forward direction of the child's character
growth. Rich vignettes illustrate how ordinary family interactions
involving issues such as authority, sharing, schoolwork, money,
sexuality, and others can promote this growth process.
Concentrating on the long-term unfolding of the child's inner
spirit, the parents' mission is redefined, as struggles over
behavior management give way to learning to trust and enhance the
child's emerging maturity. Addressing both parents and clinicians,
this intelligent, well-written, and thought-provoking book offers
practical advice and deep understanding of the emotional bond
between parent and child. A Jason Aronson Book
Following her previous New York Times bestsellers, Dr.Laura Schlessinger, the conscience of talk radio, now addresses an issue near and dear to her heart: the stupid things parents do to mess up their children. Never one to shy away from tough truths, Dr. Laura marshals compelling evidence for the widespread neglect of America's children and convincingly condemns the numerous rationalizations to excuse it. These are just a few of her hard-hitting points: - Don't Have Them If You Won't Raise Them: "The cavalier manner in which our society treats child care, not as a matter of intimacy and love, but as a matter of convenience and economics, is deeply destructive to our children's sense of attachment, identity, and importance."
- Dads Need Not Apply: "Single motherhood may be more acceptable to society, but it is not acceptable to children; nor is it in their best interest."
- Brave New Baby: "In our society, reproductive freedom means anyone can decide to create a life by any means with no, and I mean no, consideration of what is in the best interest of that new human being."
- Spare the Rod: "Children without discipline often become adults with tempertantrums, defiance, rage, depression, anxiety, poor school and work adjustment, drug and alcohol abuse."
Stupid Things Parents Do to Mess Up Their Kids covers all aspects of parenting and also tackles such cultural and societal concerns as abortion, modern sexuality, drug and alcohol use, violence, discipline, and a child's right to privacy.
Toilet training children with autism and related disorders is
fraught with countless challenges stemming from the very core of
their unique characteristics. The communication and sensory issues
alone can create formidable barriers. As a result, typical
strategies are frequently ineffective when used with children with
special needs. Using a no-nonsense, often humorous approach, Judith
Coucouvanis, MA, APRN, BC, shares strategies that have produced
remarkable results for parents of children with autism and related
disorders nationwide. Promising no "quick fixes," The Potty Journey
systematically guides you through the entire toileting journey,
step-by-step, to the ultimate destination - dry pants. By reading
The Potty Journey, you will learn about... * how to tell if the
child is "ready" * easy and time-saving data collection methods *
the importance of routines and how to develop effective routines *
the impact of a consistent schedule * usi
First published a half-century ago, Rachel Carson's award-winning
The Sense of Wonder remains the classic guide to introducing
children to the marvels of nature In 1955, acclaimed
conservationist Rachel Carson-author of Silent Spring-began work on
an essay that she would come to consider one of her life's most
important projects. Her grandnephew, Roger Christie, had visited
Carson that summer at her cottage in Maine, and together they had
wandered the surrounding woods and tide pools. Teaching Roger about
the natural wonders around them, Carson began to see them anew
herself, and wanted to relate that same magical feeling to others
who might hope to introduce a child to the beauty of nature. "If a
child is to keep alive his inborn sense of wonder," writes Carson,
"he needs the companionship of at least one adult who can share it,
rediscovering with him the joy, excitement and mystery of the world
we live in." Now available in paperback, The Sense of Wonder is a
timeless volume that will be passed on from generation to
generation, as treasured as the memory of an early-morning walk
when the song of a whippoorwill was heard as if for the first time.
Featuring serene color photographs from renowned photographer Nick
Kelsh, "this beautifully illustrated edition makes a fine gift for
new and prospective mothers and fathers" (Gregory McNamee), and
helps us all to tap into the extraordinary power of the natural
world.
Including real life stories, this newly revised third edition of
the award-winning bestseller-voted one of the top twenty parenting
books-provides parents with the most up-to-date research, effective
discipline tips, and practical strategies for raising spirited
children. Do you ever wonder why your child acts the way he or she
does? Are you at a loss regarding your child's emotional
intelligence and how to prevent meltdowns? Do you find yourself
getting frustrated and feeling like you're at the end of your rope?
You are not alone! Many parents are dealing with the same
challenges. In Raising Your Spirited Child, Third Edition,
parenting expert Mary Sheedy Kurcinka, Ed.D, offers ALL parents a
glimpse into what makes their children behave the way they do.
Through vivid examples and a refreshingly positive viewpoint, this
invaluable guide offers parents emotional support and proven
strategies for handling the toughest times. Dr. Kurcinka has
devised a plan for success with a simple, four-step program that
will help you discover the power of positive-rather than
negative-labels, understand your child's and your own temperamental
traits, cope with tantrums and blowups when they do occur, develop
strategies for handling mealtimes, bedtimes, holidays, school, and
many other situations. In this third revised edition, you will
find: * More practical strategies to help you manage your own
intensity (keep your cool) * Effective discipline tips-including
how to win cooperation and establish clear expectations and limits
* New strategies for managing the meltdowns-including how to
prevent them in the future * Revised tips for helping your spirited
child fall asleep and stay asleep * Revised tips for finding the
school that "fits" your child * Ideas for working with your child
when he or she does not want to talk about emotions * Steps to
teaching your child how to be "problem solvers," work well with
others, and be more flexible * ...and more! Including charts and
quick tips for today's time-challenged parents, this newly updated
edition of Raising Your Spirited Child will help you foster a
supportive, encouraging, and loving environment for your children.
Sleep disorders in children are on the rise. Experts have
pronounced sleeplessness a 'hidden health crisis' for young people,
with 10 percent of children presenting with diagnosable sleep
disorders - but well over half are misdiagnosed. Every year, tens
of thousands of children are treated for diseases such as diabetes,
learning disorders, or chronic pain, when the real root cause of
their ailment may actually be a sleep disorder for which they're
not being treated. In this ground-breaking guide, neurologist and
sleep expert Dr Chris Winter identifies the signs and symptoms of
the most common sleep disorders affecting children today, and he
empowers parents and caregivers to understand the steps necessary
to address and treat their children's sleep problems. From common
issues such as too much screen time and night terrors, to
narcolepsy, sleep apnoea, and more, The Rested Child leaves no
stone unturned. This book pulls back the curtain on the
relationship between poor sleep quality and paediatric epidemics
related to psychiatric health, rising obesity, ADD/ADHD, pain
disorders, and other undiagnosed disorders of sleepiness and
fatigue. Finally parents have a resource to help them uncover the
root of their children's problems, and, more important, to provide
the answers on how to help.
Until now, bullying was either dismissed as a phase or viewed as a
rite of passage for youth. In this timely and thought provoking
book, authors SuEllen Fried and Dr. Paula Fried explore the effects
of bullying on children and provide suggestions to end the cycle of
child-to-child violence. Filled with personal stories from children
and packed with practical ideas for parents, teachers and students,
the authors examine every aspect of what we now know is a serious
problem. Here are strategies for ending this hostility and treating
its many victims.
Are you dealing with a picky eater? Then welcome to Broccoli Boot
Camp - the informative and accessible resource for parents
challenged by selective eaters! This comprehensive guide can be
used with children with or without special needs (e.g., autism or
Down syndrome). It presents commonsense behavioral interventions to
expand children's diet variety and preferences for healthy foods.
Broccoli Boot Camp will help you with the strategies to shape
eating behavior. Parents can choose the intervention which works
best for their family's circumstances. The book not only could
change the child's life, but it can also help parents eliminate
their stress with the greatest panacea of all knowledgeable
understanding.
Some things about babies, happily, will never change. They still
arrive warm, cuddly, soft, and smelling impossibly sweet. But how
moms and dads care for their brand-new bundles of baby joy has
changed and now, so has the new-baby bible. Announcing the
completely revised third edition of What to Expect the First Year.
With over 10.5 million copies in print, First Year is the world s
best-selling, best-loved guide to the instructions that babies don
t come with, but should. And now, it s better than ever. Every
parent s must-have/go-to is completely updated. Keeping the
trademark month-by-month format that allows parents to take the
potentially overwhelming first year one step at a time, First Year
is easier-to-read, faster-to-flip-through, and
new-family-friendlier than ever packed with even more practical
tips, realistic advice, and relatable, accessible information than
before. Illustrations are new, too. Among the changes: Baby care
fundamentals crib and sleep safety, feeding, vitamin supplements
are revised to reflect the most recent guidelines. Breastfeeding
gets more coverage, too, from getting started to keeping it going.
Hot-button topics and trends are tackled: attachment parenting,
sleep training, early potty learning (elimination communication),
baby-led weaning, and green parenting (from cloth diapers to
non-toxic furniture). An all-new chapter on buying for baby helps
parents navigate through today s dizzying gamut of baby products,
nursery items, and gear. Also new: tips on preparing homemade baby
food, the latest recommendations on starting solids, research on
the impact of screen time (TVs, tablets, apps, computers), and For
Parents boxes that focus on mom s and dad s needs. Throughout,
topics are organized more intuitively than ever, for the best user
experience possible."
For children to develop to their fullest potential, their sensory
system - which, in addition to the big five of sight, hearing,
taste, touch, and smell, includes movement and balance
(vestibular), body awareness (proprioception), and internal
perception (interoception) - needs to be stimulated from the time
they are born. Their senses flourish when they explore their
environment by touching new textures, including their food,
running, jumping, climbing, and splashing outside - never through
screens. As an occupational therapist with a specialty in sensory
integration and early childhood development, Dr Allie Ticktin has
seen an alarming increase in cases of children who can't sit in
circle time or at their desk upright and who are delayed in
learning to walk, talk, or socialise, many of whom have been
diagnosed with ADHD or sensory processing disorders, in part
because these critical systems have been neglected. In the recent
past, the sensory system and many developmental skills evolved
naturally outside in the garden or on the playground. But with
increasing time pressures for both kids and parents, as well as
safety concerns, children are often sat in front of screens,
without sufficient opportunity to explore and interact with their
environment. The good news is that boosting your child's sensory
development doesn't take enormous amounts of time or supplies, or
any special skills. In Play to Progress, Ticktin discusses the
eight sensory systems and how a child uses them, and offers easy,
fun activities that will encourage their development so that your
little one will be better able to respond to their emotions, build
friendships, communicate their needs, and thrive in school. That's
the power of sensory play.
With sensitivity and insight, this series offers suggestions for
healing activities that can help survivors learn to express their
grief and mourn naturally. Acknowledging that death is a painful,
ongoing part of life, they explain how people need to slow down,
turn inward, embrace their feelings of loss, and seek and accept
support when a loved one dies. Each book, geared for mourning
adults, teens, or children, provides ideas and action-oriented tips
that teach the basic principles of grief and healing. These ideas
and activities are aimed at reducing the confusion, anxiety, and
huge personal void so that the living can begin their lives again.
Included in the books for teens and kids are age-appropriate
activities that teach younger people that their thoughts are not
only normal but necessary.
Individuals with ASD and related disorders are supported by a
variety of people throughout their day, whether in educational and
work settings, transition programs or at home. Structured work
systems are one method that can be used to ensure that they develop
and maintain their ability to work on their own, without assistance
and prompting from others. Briefly, structured work systems are
designed to give visual information about what work needs to be
done, how much works needs to be done, when the work is completed
and what will happen next. Due to the predictability and sense of
accomplishment that are built into the system, many individuals
with ASD find the structured work time their favourite time of the
day. Full of colour photos and case examples spanning age and
levels of functioning, the book provides an A-Z guide to work
systems, including assessment, how to build them into the
curriculum, IEPs, lesson planning and more.
Does My Child Have Autism? is a question so many parents are asking
themselves today. Is he avoiding eye contact? Why can't she talk?
Is my child's development normal or does he have an Autism Spectrum
Disorder? Parents know that if their child is somewhere on that
spectrum, they need to intervene as early as possible to maximize
the benefits of early treatment. This groundbreaking book, by one
of the foremost experts, teachers, and clinicians in the field,
provides a guide for parents about what to look for at home at
twenty-four months or even earlier, what to do, and how to get the
right kind of help from doctors, counselors, therapists, and other
professionals.
Step-by-step, Stone walks you through the diagnostic process for
young children with autism and offers vital information about what
will be expected of you and your child during the clinical
assessment. The book reveals the critical importance of early
intervention and outlines the various types of interventions that
are currently available. In addition, Does My Child Have Autism?
gives you practical tips, activities, and teaching tools that can
be used at home to improve your child's social, communication, and
play skills.
"Clear and compassionate ... takes families through early
warning signs, understanding the diagnostic process, and what types
of early treatment might be helpful. A must-read for families with
children who may have or do have an Autism Spectrum Disorder as
well as clinicians and caregivers of children and families with
ASD."
--Susan E. Levy, M.D., Children's Hospital of Philadelphia
From the author of BEING 14 and FATHERS AND DAUGHTERS comes a book
that shares what your daughter needs you to know about her shift
from child to teenager - how she feels, what she thinks, what
worries her and what you can do to help. Science tells us that the
shift from childhood to teenager is happening earlier than ever
before. Girls are starting puberty well before the age of thirteen.
With heightened pressure from what they see in the media, in movies
and on TV, girls are leaving childhood behind well before they hit
their teens. This shift is an abrupt one and can come as a shock to
parents. Not surprisingly, emotions can be heightened and
relationships can be fraught. So many parents struggle to
understand the pressures their daughters are under and how to deal
with their emotional volatility. Journalist and social commentator
Madonna King has an extraordinary ability to connect with experts,
schools and the girls themselves to deliver the answers parents
need and the communication their children want. This is an
important book that shows that 10 is the new start of a girl's
teenage years. It raises the issues our girls might not be talking
about publicly, and guides their parents on how experts believe we
should deal with it.
A research-based guide to debunking commonly misunderstood myths
about adolescence Great Myths of Adolescence contains the
evidence-based science that debunks the myths and commonly held
misconceptions concerning adolescence. The book explores myths
related to sex, drugs and self-control, as well as many others. The
authors define each myth, identify each myth's prevalence and
present the latest and most significant research debunking the
myth. The text is grounded in the authors' own research on the
prevalence of belief in each myth, from the perspective of college
students. Additionally, various pop culture icons that have helped
propagate the myths are discussed. Written by noted experts, the
book explores a wealth of topics including: The teen brain is fully
developed by 18; Greek life has a negative effect on college
students academically; significant mood disruptions in adolescence
are inevitable; the millennial generation is lazy; and much more.
This important resource: Shatters commonly held and topical myths
relating to gender, education, technology, sex, crime and more
Based in empirical and up-to-date research including the authors'
own Links each myth to icons of pop culture who/which have helped
propagate them Discusses why myths are harmful and best practices
related to the various topics A volume in the popular Great Myths
of Psychology series Written for undergraduate students studying
psychology modules in Adolescence and developmental psychology,
students studying childhood studies and education studies, Great
Myths of Adolescence offers an important guide that debunks
misconceptions about adolescence behavior. This book also pairs
well with another book by two of the authors, Great Myths of Child
Development.
Depressive disorders can produce dramatic and frightening changes
in young peoples' behaviour, but while parents may suspect
something is wrong, they are often at a loss to know what. This
book shows parents how to tell the difference between the ordinary
ups and downs and true depression, helping them better understand
clinical warning signs and the various approaches to treatment.
Dealing sensitively with how depression sometimes manifests
itself--self-harm, alcohol and drug abuse, and suicide
attempts--the book offers parents practical guidance on how they
can reach out to their children and find professional assistance.
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