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Parents of girls on the autism spectrum often wish their daughters
were celebrated for their talents, rather than discouraged for
their differences. They recognise that their children's unique
natures may make them distinctive in some ways, but resent labels
such as 'disabled' and 'disorder' being applied to their daughters.
This book is a celebration of all the wonderful and unexpected
gifts that having daughters on the autism spectrum can bring to
your life. Each chapter explores a topic of concern, offering
encouragement and guidance on common issues such as school,
friendships, meltdowns, special gifts, family relationships,
therapies and interventions. Having daughters on the spectrum
presents unique and rewarding challenges and this book is packed
with friendly advice and real life examples from a mother who has
experienced it all first hand. The hopeful perspective given in
this book is guaranteed to offer much appreciated comfort to
parents, grandparents and family members. It will provide educators
and anyone who cares for girls on the spectrum with an insight into
what life is like for these extraordinary girls and their parents.
In Inspired Parenting, psychologist and mother-of-five Dorka Herner
shows through practical, everyday examples how we can reflect on
our own parenting and see our interactions with our children
through fresh eyes. What our children do can reveal much about
ourselves as parents: if a five-year-old won't go to sleep alone,
who needs evening cuddles, us or him? If we are bothered when our
child is bored, is it because we view ourselves as useless unless
we are ticking off tasks? If we think our children are careless, is
it because we are too perfectionist? By understanding ourselves
better, we can see the nuances in how we live together as families
and appreciate that our relationships can be complex. By thinking
deeply and honestly, we can see more clearly how to build the type
of life we want for ourselves and our children, and how to
genuinely enjoy the challenges and rewards of raising them. With a
down-to-earth and realistic approach, the book invites us to
examine the details of parenting and learn valuable lessons about
ourselves in the process.
The Problem with Parenting serves as an essential guide to the
recent origins and current excesses of American parenting for
students, parents, and policy makers interested in the changing
role of the family in childrearing. Family scholarship focuses
predominately on the evolution of family structure and function,
with only passing references to parenting. Researchers who study
parenting, however, invariably regard it as a sociological
phenomenon with complex motivations rooted in such factors as
class, economic instability, and new technologies. This book
examines the relationship between changes to the family and the
emergence of parenting, defined here as a specific mode of
childrearing. It shows how, beginning in the 1970s, the family was
transformed from a social unit that functioned as the primary
institution for raising children into a vehicle for the nurturing
and fulfillment of the self. The book pays special attention to
socialization and describes how the change in our understanding of
parenthood-from a state of being into the distinct activity of
"parenting"-is indicative of a disruption of our ability to
transfer key cultural values and norms from one generation to the
next. Suggests that families are no longer able to reliably
socialize children Proposes that the reason the family has ceased
to function as a socializing institution has less to do with
changes in structure than with the replacement of a child-centered
ideal with a therapeutic imperative Suggests that parenting is a
new mode of childrearing that arose in the absence of a reliable
institution for childrearing Argues that parenting culture itself
is a response to the experience of the breakdown in socialization
that occurred that began in the 1970s Makes the case for a renewal
of a societal commitment to children and the rising generation
An outstandingly courageous, honest and original approach to
teenage acting-out. This book might save your family's sanity.
-Louise Bates Ames, Gesell Institute of Human Development
A healthy diet can help the young sports stars of tomorrow fulfil
their potential. Around 85% of children regularly take part in
sports activities outside lessons. Swimming is the most common
activity for girls, with football for boys. 43% of children spend
between 1-5 hours per week doing sport outside lessons (Sport
England). But as any parent or coach knows, it's hard to get the
right balance, especially if you're running between school and
training sessions. Children don't always eat, or want to eat, the
very foods that will help them compete at the highest level - the
snacks and meals that will give them energy, help them keep going
through a long training session, or recover afterwards. Throw into
the mix the need to keep hydrated and lots of children are training
and competing below par. Carefully researched and satisfying the
real need for a nutrition book specifically for young athletes,
Sports Nutrition for Young Athletes offers clear advice to sports
coaches, teachers and parents of young people wanting to maximise
their sports performance through eating healthily and sensibly.
Find out about specific nutritional requirements for different
sports - from running to swimming, gym to dance, racquet sports to
football and rugby. Learn more about tricky weight issues, myths
about body composition and the warning signs for eating disorders.
This is a above all a practical book - written and road tested by
bestselling nutrition author Anita Bean, and packed with
nutritional tips, eating plans for training and competition, and
easy, delicious and nutritious recipes and snacks to give your
young sportsperson the competitive edge.
The ultimate "parenting bible" (The Boston Globe") with a new
Foreword--and available as an eBook for the first time--a timeless,
beloved book on how to effectively communicate with your child from
the #1 New York Times" bestselling authors.
Internationally acclaimed experts on communication between parents
and children, Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish "are doing for
parenting today what Dr. Spock did for our generation" ("Parent"
"Magazine"). Now, this bestselling classic includes fresh insights
and suggestions as well as the author's time-tested methods to
solve common problems and build foundations for lasting
relationships, including innovative ways to:
- Cope with your child's negative feelings, such as frustration,
anger, and disappointment
- Express your strong feelings without being hurtful
- Engage your child's willing cooperation
- Set firm limits and maintain goodwill
- Use alternatives to punishment that promote self-discipline
- Understand the difference between helpful and unhelpful
praise
- Resolve family conflicts peacefully
Enthusiastically praised by parents and professionals around the
world, the down-to-earth, respectful approach of Faber and Mazlish
makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and
more rewarding.
A dozen experts in child and adolescent psychiatry contributed to
this new and fully updated fourth edition of Helping Parents and
Teachers Understand Medications for Behavioral and Emotional
Problems, ensuring that it remains the most trusted resource for
educating parents and teachers about psychotropics prescribed for
children and adolescents. The book is arranged alphabetically, and
each medication has its own information sheet that can be
photocopied or downloaded and printed by psychiatrists,
pediatricians, and neurologists for distribution to parents and
teachers. A useful resource for school staff and library patrons,
the information sheets will also be helpful to nonprescribing
mental health professionals talking with families about possible
referral for medication. The compendium has been designed for
maximum utility and accessibility. * Each information sheet
includes a section with general information applicable to all
medications and very specific sections that include a description
of the medication and why it is used, monitoring of the medication,
side effects, interactions with other medications and with food,
and additional information that is relevant to how the medication
can best help and be used safely. * The book is written in a
straightforward, understandable style that is accessible and
nonintimidating to the lay public.* The number of medications
covered has been expanded to reflect new drugs and older drugs
recently approved for children and adolescents, such as vilazodone
(Viibryd), asenapine (Saphris), and ramelteon (Rozerem).*
Explanations of new concerns about potential side effects and FDA
black box warnings for antidepressants and stimulants are
included.* The "Information on the Internet" section offers a list
of vetted medical and professional organizations where the reader
can find additional information about child and adolescent mental
health and treatment, and the book also includes robust lists of
both published resources for parents and teachers and selected
additional reading for health and mental health professionals.*
Appendices cover medicines with FDA indication for
attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD); medicines
typically used for anxiety, depression, psychosis, mood
stabilizing, and aggression; and an index of medicines by brand
name. No other volume offers up-to-the-minute information on
psychotropic medications for youth in such an easy-to-use format.
Comprehensive and authoritative, Helping Parents and Teachers
Understand Medications for Behavioral and Emotional Problems will
prove indispensable to clinicians in helping to foster
understanding among parents and educators.
What's the single most important thing you can do during pregnancy?
What does watching TV do to a child's brain? What's the best way to
handle temper tantrums? Scientists know. In his New York Times
bestseller Brain Rules, Dr. John Medina showed us how our brains
really work--and why we ought to redesign our workplaces and
schools. Now, in Brain Rules for Baby, he shares what the latest
science says about how to raise smart and happy children from zero
to five. This book is destined to revolutionize parenting. Just one
of the surprises: The best way to get your children into the
college of their choice? Teach them impulse control. Brain Rules
for Baby bridges the gap between what scientists know and what
parents practice. Through fascinating and funny stories, Medina, a
developmental molecular biologist and dad, unravels how a child's
brain develops -- and what you can do to optimize it. You will view
your children--and how to raise them--in a whole new light. You'll
learn: Where nature ends and nurture begins Why men should do more
household chores What you do when emotions run hot affects how your
baby turns out, because babies need to feel safe above all TV is
harmful for children under 2 Your child's ability to relate to
others predicts her future math performance Smart and happy are
inseparable. Pursuing your child's intellectual success at the
expense of his happiness achieves neither Praising effort is better
than praising intelligence The best predictor of academic
performance is not IQ. It's self-control What you do right
now--before pregnancy, during pregnancy, and through the first five
years--will affect your children for the rest of their lives. Brain
Rules for Baby is an indispensable guide.
This second edition reviews the new research findings and
theoretical advances on fathers, families, child development,
programs, and policies that have occurred in the past decade.
Contributors from a range of disciplines and countries showcase
contemporary findings within a new common chapter structure. All of
the chapters are either extensively revised or entirely new.
Biological, evolutionary, demographic, developmental, cultural,
sociological, economic, and legal perspectives of father
involvement are described along with policy and program
implications. Now with a greater international perspective, this
edition considers demographic shifts in families in the United
States and Europe. All chapters now follow a common structure to
enhance readability and interdisciplinary connections. Each chapter
features: Historical Overview and Theoretical Perspectives;
Research Questions; Research Methods and Measurement; Empirical
Findings; Bridges to other Disciplines; Policy Implications; and
Future Directions. In addition, each chapter highlights universal
and cultural processes and mechanisms. This structure illuminates
the ways that theories, methods, and findings are guided by
disciplinary lenses and encourages multidisciplinary perspectives.
This extensively revised edition now features: * Expanded section
on Biological and Evolutionary Perspectives that reviews fathering
in animal populations and the genetic and hormonal underpinnings
that feed into fathering behaviors within and across species. * New
section on Economic and Legal Perspectives that addresses the
economics of fatherhood, marriage, divorce, and child custody
issues, and family dispute resolution. * New section on Child
Development and Family Processes that covers topics on father-child
relationships, the father' role in children's language, cognitive,
and social development, and father risk, family context, and
co-parenting. * Separate chapters on Black, Latino, and Asian
American fathers. * Now includes research on cohabitation and
parenting, gender roles and fathering, intergenerational parenting,
and fatherhood implications for men in the section on Sociological
Perspectives. * The latest demographics, policies, and programs
influencing father involvement in both the US and Europe. *
Coverage of methodological and measurement topics and processes
that are universal across ethnic groups and cultures in each
chapter. Intended for advanced students, practitioners,
policymakers, and researchers interested in fatherhood and family
processes from a variety of disciplines including psychology,
family studies, economics, sociology, and social work, and anyone
interested in child and family policy.
Mary Ainsworth s work on the importance maternal sensitivity for
the development of infant attachment security is widely recognized
as one of the most revolutionary and influential contributions to
developmental psychology in the 20th century. Her longitudinal
studies of naturalistic mother-infant interactions in Uganda and
Baltimore played a pivotal role in the formulation and acceptance
of attachment theory as a new paradigm with implications for
developmental, personality, social, and clinical psychology. The
chapters in this volume collectively reveal not only the origins
and depth of her conceptualizations and the originality of her
assessment methods, but also the many different ways in which her
ideas about maternal sensitivity continue to inspire innovative
research and clinical applications in Western and non-Western
cultures. The contributors are leading attachment researchers,
including some of Mary Ainsworth s most influential students and
colleagues, who have taken time to step back from their day to day
research and reflect on the significance of the work she initiated
and the challenges inherent in assessing parental sensitivity
during naturalistic interactions in infancy and beyond. This volume
makes Ainsworth s pioneering conceptual and methodological
breakthroughs and their continuing research and clinical impact
accessible to theorists, researchers and mental health
specialists.
This book was originally published as a special issue of
"Attachment & Human Development.""
NEW edition! More than any other social gerontology texts available, addresses issues of diversity in aging by race, ethnicity, social class, and gender throughout. - Offers a coherent narrative, organized around broad sociological themes. What integrates this text overall is the discussion of how we socially construct aging, how different societies at different times construct aging, and what those changes say about our society.
- Shows students that they are part of the larger social process of aging, shaped by the context in which they live - by the people, groups, agencies, and governments surrounding them. Students thus become part of the picture, rather than outsiders looking in.
- Woven throughout chapters are profiles on specific theories that have been developed for or applied to the study of aging. The applications are set off and optional for instructors, but are written so that students see the connection to their everyday lives as well as the practical and powerful value theory has to illuminate important social issues.
- Contains lively, speculative essays on topics not traditionally covered in gerontology texts (see Table of Contents), causing students to use their imaginations in applying aging to new and unusual problems. What is new to this Second Edition?
- Updated information on topics such as Social Security and global aging has been added.
- The biology and psychology chapters have been edited to flow more coherently with the rest of the text. Significant new material on memory / memory loss has been added to the psychology of aging chapter, and the chapter on biology of aging has been updated.
- Some areas of the text have been reorganized to avoid duplication and overlaps. In addition, there is a new section on death and dying
- Close to one half of the topical essays are new. New use of photos and cartoons are contained throughout the text, as well as added and new web sites for students, and updated graphics.
- Questions for thought and discussion have been added at the end of each chapter.
What a Tiger Mother thinks is ferocity is just control-freakiness
turned rancid like frozen breast milk left in the mini Tupperware
too long. Tiger Mom, I'm just not that into you - "From Tiger
Babies Strike Back". After Amy Chua's controversial parenting book
became fodder for every morning talk show, Kim Wong Keltner wasn't
surprised to be asked, Are you a Tiger Mother? Raised by a Tiger
Mom herself, Kim wasn't fazed. Instead, she's striking back. Hard.
Traversing the choppy seas of American and Chinese traditions,
Keltner dives into the difficulties facing women today -
Chinese-American and otherwise. At once deeply relevant and
playfully honest, Keltner attempts to dispel Chua's myth that all
Chinese women are Tiger Mothers and that all parents should rule
with an iron fist. Topics include: White Thing, I Think I Love You:
East Meets West in the Board Room and the Bedroom; I Was Raised by
a Tiger Mom and All I Got Was this Lousy T-Shirt: A Rebuttal to
Chua, with More Anecdotes from the Wong Family Tree; My Car and Kid
Are Both Hybrids; Imperial Ferocity vs. Feminine Vulnerability:
Dragon Lady or Chinese Mary Magdalene? The first and only book of
its kind to take Tiger Mothers on by their teeth, "Tiger Babies
Strike Back" combines personal anecdotes and tough love advice for
a humorous, provocative look at how our families shape-and
sometimes shake-our personal foundations.
A majority of British children mainly eat processed and junk food.
Award-winning food writer Joanna Blythman takes a controversial
look at this curious phenomenon and offers parents practical tips
on how to improve their children's diet. Written in a highly
accessible way, The Food Our Children Eat offers practical tips for
parents who are concerned about what their children eat and looks
at the long term consequences for human health and society of the
increase in consumption of junk food. Joanna Blythman suggests
strategies for ensuring our children eat more healthily, both at
home and at school, with invaluable advice about how to interest
children in nutritious food. This well-researched and fascinating
book also discusses the impact of our eating habits on the younger
generation and attacks the complacency that surrounds the emergence
of separate kids' food and mealtimes. The Food Our Children Eat
explores the decline in the standard of food children eat and is an
intriguing polemic on what we can do to improve it.
How are children raised in different cultures? What is the role of
children in society? How are families and communities structured
around them? Now in its third edition, this deeply engaging book
delves into these questions by reviewing and cataloging the
findings of over 100 years of anthropological scholarship dealing
with childhood and adolescence. It is organized developmentally,
moving from infancy through to adolescence and early adulthood, and
enriched with anecdotes from ethnography and the daily media, to
paint a nuanced and credible picture of childhood in different
cultures, past and present. This new edition has been expanded and
updated with over 350 new sources, and introduces a number of new
topics, including how children learn from the environment, middle
childhood, and how culture is 'transmitted' between generations. It
remains the essential book to read to understand what it means to
be a child in our complex, ever-changing world.
This perennial bestseller (with more than 100,000 copies sold) has
been completely revised and updated for a new generation of
teenagers and their parents.
Since its initial publication in 1995, "Uncommon Sense for Parents
with Teenagers" has ushered countless families through the trying
years of adolescence. In this fully revised and updated edition,
Riera tackles some of the newest issues facing parents and teens,
and gives a second look to the old standbys--alcohol and drugs,
academics, sex and dating, sports and extracurriculars, eating
disorders, making friends, single parenting, divorce, and more.
Riera channels his unpatronizing approach and two decades of
experience working with teens into this optimistic and
indispensable book.
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