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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Advice on parenting > Child care & upbringing
To lose a child is tragic; to lose a child who still lives is
beyond comprehension. Yet this is the experience of the mothers and
fathers who tell their very personal stories in this important
book. Their children, born healthy and happy, lost their minds to a
mysterious disorder with no known cause or cure: Childhood
Disintegrative Disorder (CDD). Also called late-onset autism, this
malady differs from typical autism in that it afflicts children
after one or even two years of apparently normal development. In
the long term, deterioration leads to still poorer behavioral and
developmental functioning.
How do families respond to such ever-present loss? In When
Autism Strikes, the parents of eight such children from around the
world present their own stories, in their own words. They describe
their first suspicions, their struggles to find a cause, and the
means by which they cope, day to day. By turns heartbreaking and
inspiring, this courageous document brings to light a scientific
mystery and a human tragedy.
In this reassuring, eye-opening book, noted urologist Samuel J.
Arnold explains how almost all childhood bedwetting can be cured or
controlled. Drawing on over 35 years of experience--and thousands
of actual cases--Dr. Arnold illustrates how, contrary to
conventional thinking, most bedwetting is caused by underlying
physical conditions--conditions that often can be corrected quickly
and effectively. And he dispels the harmful and mistaken notion
that long-term bedwetting is caused by disobedience,
toilet-training conflicts, or parental attitudes.
This essential and supportive guide can help you help your child.
No More Bedwetting reveals:
* The many different factors behind bedwetting
* How to determine the root cause of your child's problem and what
to do about it
* The roles of heavy sleep, diseases, anatomical problems,
allergies, hormones, and other factors
* The damage of harmful treatments such as punishment or
withholding fluids
* A full range of tested strategies and recommendations
Approximately 2/3 of all children referred to mental health
agencies are labelled as having Oppositional Defiant Disorder,
Conduct Disorder, or Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder.
These children are at increased risk for poor outcomes including
academic failure, deviant peer groups, drug use, violence, and
delinquency. Identifying and treating these children as early as
possible offers promise for strengthening child protective factors
such as social, emotional, and academic competence and effective
parenting, thereby preventing and reducing the development of
conduct problems and other secondary risk factors. The book has two
elements -- first it allows parents to tell their stories: sharing
what it is like to have a "problem" child as well as the long and
painful route to finding support and recovery through parent and
child training. The book also elucidates in detail the
"collaborative process" of therapists working together with
families. This process combines the knowledge and expertise of the
clinician with the unique strengths, perspectives, culture and
goals of parents. Essentially the goal is to empower parents by
making them active partners in the therapy process, teaching them
parenting strategies to cope effectively with their child and
strengthen their relationship as well as build support networks.
The book uses case examples to illustrate these points and provides
examples of how to tailor the parent programs for high-risk
populations and multicultural families. Examples of when and how to
add adjunct therapies such as child and teacher training are also
discussed, providing a comprehensive guide for the collaborative
process for therapists using the Incredible Years (R) programs.
The Incredible Teachers book is for day care providers and teachers
of young children ages 3-8 years. The book presents a variety of
creative classroom management strategies for teachers to use to
meet childrens developmental milestones and teach emotional
literacy, friendship skills, self-regulation and problem solving
skills. Teachers are encouraged to set up individualized programs
for children who are at risk due to learning difficulties,
hyperactivity, impulsivity, attention deficit disorder, language
and reading delays, depressive or aggressive behavior. The author
shows how teachers can integrate individualized, culturally
sensitive interventions for such children in the mainstream
classroom. The book also shows how to partner with parents to
promote their childrens social, emotional, language and academic
competence. This book is the text for teachers using the Incredible
Years Teacher Classroom Management Program and the Child Dinosaur
Emotional, Social and Problem Solving Curriculum. It can be useful
as a stand-alone guide for teachers and caregivers.
Pediatrician and twin-mom, Dr. Shelly Vaziri Flais, offers expert
advice for raising healthy, well-adjusted twins and triplets in
this fully revised and updated third edition. Her guidance will
help parents of multiples prepare for their babies' arrival,
weather the first few months of infancy, manage toddlerhood, and
help establish individual identities through the school-age and
teenage years. The combination of sound medical advice and
real-world experience will give twin-parents the direction and
reassurance that they need. Packed with thoughtful advice,
parenting tips, and anecdotes from twin-moms and -dads, this new
edition also includes interviews with twins, including astronaut
Scott Kelly.
Under that hoodie, behind that eye make-up, there frequently lurks
a human being of immense charm, affection and wit.' Ann Benton
admits that, when her children were teenagers, she enjoyed 'the
very best of parenting years'. Yet, from her experience and that of
others, she is all too well aware of the frustrations, pitfalls and
difficulties that parenting teens can bring. The Bible book of
Proverbs points to wisdom as the key to health, happiness and
prosperity. The author points out that the job of parents is not
first and foremost to make their teens successful, but to make them
wise. With honesty and wit, Ann shows how Proverbs can speak
directly into real life, however messy, today.
'A refreshingly healthy take on social media and particularly good
on body image' Lorraine Candy, Sunday Times The teen years are
tough - for teens and for parents. Many parents dread the
moodiness, dishonesty, preference of friends over family, exam
stress, and the push for greater independence. Mothers have a
pivotal role to play; this is a guidebook for parents and mothers
of girls in particular as they navigate the rocky teenage landscape
with their daughters aged 8 to 18. It aims to help them embrace the
potential of their child's teenage years by marking this time of
growing maturity for girls and celebrating it with them. We
celebrate birth, marriage and death, but this important
life-transition from child to young adult is nowadays rarely
acknowledged within an appropriate community. With mental health
issues in young people on the rise, and social media, reality
television and smartphone culture serving to exacerbate these
problems, it is no surprise that parents are looking for help in
raising their daughters through these tricky years. From Daughter
to Woman is the indispensable guide to doing just that.
This practical guide encourages divorcing parents to focus on what
is best for their child and to forge a new alliance -- as parent
partners who are no longer marriage partners.
The identification of poor readers as "learning disabled" can be
the first of many steps toward consigning students to a lifetime of
reading failure. The very label that is meant to help children
often becomes a burden that works against effective learning
throughout their schooling. In this book, the authors identify the
dangers of labeling children as reading or learning disabled,
contending that a "reading disability" is not a unitary phenomenon.
In order to diagnose and help children, educators and parents need
to understand the multiple sources of reading difficulty before
they can choose appropriate means to correct it. Drawing on recent
research in cognitive psychology, the authors present a new
theoretical model of reading disability that integrates a wide
variety of findings across age and grade spans. Laid out in terms
that are readily comprehensible to parents and practitioners, the
model outlines the phases that are characteristic of the path to
proficient reading, then describes four ways in which disabled
readers may stray from this path. The key to the authors' work lies
in the fact that youngsters who stray from the path of typical
reading acquisition often are not distinguishable from other
children who are classified as "poor readers" rather than as
"learning disabled." This model is an especially useful one for
practitioners because it both provides a broader view of reading
disability than have many previous models and shows how reading
disability relates to typical reading acquisition. Using
illustrative case studies, the authors describe the four patterns
of reading disability, explain how to properly assess them, and
suggest ways to conquer them.
Parenthood can be one of the most fulfilling, altering, and
challenging life events. This book is set within the background of
the reality of many parents' return-to-work experience, the task of
re-engaging with work and maintaining a job or a career, and the
difficulties that parenthood poses for balancing the demands of a
new family with the demands of work. It helps us understand this
reality, give voice to new parents, and offer relief in the
knowledge that we know a lot about these challenges and, most
importantly, how we can start to address them. The book brings
together a number of internationally recognized experts from
research, practice, and policy to explore the issues and offer
evidence-based solutions around return-to-work after having
children. It takes a balanced approach to theory and practice to
cover topics such as equality, stereotypes, work-family conflict,
training and development, and workplace culture, among others,
whilst integrating research and policy, and illustrating learnings
with case studies from parents and examples from countries that
lead the way. It will appeal to parents, researchers, and employers
in any sector or economy across the world. Ultimately, it will help
develop ways for new parents to re-engage with work successfully
while maintaining their work-family well-being.
If you are a parent of a teenager, you will have experienced the
frustration and bemusement that their strange and emotional logic
creates. But can we really just blame it on their hormones and
wiring? This book is based on the research used in a popular and
effective nine-week course run by the author aimed at equipping
parents with the understanding of why teenagers behave as they do
and explores effective tools take away a lot of stress in dealing
with them. It looks at how parenting styles and different
interactionist models impact on our relationship with these
emotional and argumentative beings. The 'teen in the greenhouse'
looks at the world through the filter of a teenage brain and uses a
range of neurological and socio-psychological models to explore how
adults can moderate their interactions with them to make parenting
teenagers easier. It explores ways in which the teenage brain uses
and misuses emotions to make misguided decisions and how we can
help support better decisions being made and reduce arguments. The
book provides a thorough and at times humorous exploration of what
is happening to the teenage brain and how this impacts on those who
help them.
This book offers a proactive approach to getting at the roots of
violent behavior. Through workshops, teens explore how violence
manifests in families and dating; how race, gender, and age come
into play; and how they can work to stop the violence in their
lives. Includes curricula for support groups, and strategies to
support peer counselors and abused teens.
Provides parents with realistic, healthy and positive ways to understand and diffuse situations that trigger their child's tantrums, flare-ups, sulks and arguments. Shows parents how to recognize and break their own anger patterns which their children may be imitating. Each chapter combines specific information and advice with realistic examples of what to do in a variety of typical situations.
In Selfish Reasons to Have More Kids , contrarian economist Bryan
Caplan argues that we've needlessly turned parenting into an
unpleasant chore, and don't know the real plusses and minuses of
having kids. Parents today spend more time investing in their kids
than ever, but twin and adoption research shows that upbringing is
much less important than we imagine, especially in the long-run.
Kids aren't like clay that parents mould for life they're more like
flexible plastic that pops back to its original shape once you
relax your grip. These revelations are wonderful news for anyone
with kids. Being a great parent is less work and more fun than you
think,so instead of struggling to change your children, you can
safely relax and enjoy your journey together. Raise your children
in the way that feels right for you they'll still probably turn out
just fine. Indeed, as Caplan strikingly argues, modern parents
should have more kids. Parents who endure needless toil and
sacrifice are overcharging themselves for every child. Once you
escape the drudgery and worry that other parents take for granted,
bringing another child into the world becomes a much better deal.
You might want to stock up.
Drawing on Judy Hutchings many years of work with parents and
children, The Positive Parenting Handbook is a concise,
straightforward guide that offers simple solutions to daily
dilemmas. The clear and easy advice provides parents with skills
and tools that support positive parent/child relationships for
happy and confident children. It explains common behaviour problems
in young children and offers expert advice on: -How to build strong
bonds and let children know they are important to you -How to
encourage behaviour we want to see through praise and small rewards
-Giving instructions that children are more likely to follow -How
ignoring some unwanted behaviours can be helpful -Strategies for
managing difficult behaviour -Teaching new behaviour to our
children -Developing children's language. It includes six case
studies of how these strategies have helped real families with
everyday problems at bedtime and mealtimes, during toilet training,
out shopping and when children experience anxiety. Together with
suggestions of other useful books and information sources, The
Positive Parenting Handbook is ideal for all parents, including
those of children with diagnosed developmental difficulties, and
the range of professionals who work with them.
When Julie Tarney's only child Harry was two years old, he told
her, "Inside my head I'm a girl." It was 1992. The Internet was no
help, because there was no Internet. And bookstores had no
literature for a mom scrambling to raise such an unconventional
child. Terms such as transgender, gender nonconforming, and gender
creative were rare or nonexistent. There were, however, mainstream
experts who theorized that a "sissy" boy was the result of a
domineering mother. Julie didn't believe it. She didn't want to
care what her neighbors thought, but she did care. "Domineering
mother" meant bad mother. Lacking a positive role model of her own,
and fearful of the negative stereotype of an overbearing Jewish
mother, Julie embarked on an unexpected parenting path as Harry
grew up to be a confident and happily nonconformist adult. Harry
knew who he was all along. Despite some stumbles, Julie learned
that her job was simply to let her child be his authentic self.
What a Tiger Mother thinks is ferocity is just control-freakiness
turned rancid like frozen breast milk left in the mini Tupperware
too long. Tiger Mom, I'm just not that into you - "From Tiger
Babies Strike Back". After Amy Chua's controversial parenting book
became fodder for every morning talk show, Kim Wong Keltner wasn't
surprised to be asked, Are you a Tiger Mother? Raised by a Tiger
Mom herself, Kim wasn't fazed. Instead, she's striking back. Hard.
Traversing the choppy seas of American and Chinese traditions,
Keltner dives into the difficulties facing women today -
Chinese-American and otherwise. At once deeply relevant and
playfully honest, Keltner attempts to dispel Chua's myth that all
Chinese women are Tiger Mothers and that all parents should rule
with an iron fist. Topics include: White Thing, I Think I Love You:
East Meets West in the Board Room and the Bedroom; I Was Raised by
a Tiger Mom and All I Got Was this Lousy T-Shirt: A Rebuttal to
Chua, with More Anecdotes from the Wong Family Tree; My Car and Kid
Are Both Hybrids; Imperial Ferocity vs. Feminine Vulnerability:
Dragon Lady or Chinese Mary Magdalene? The first and only book of
its kind to take Tiger Mothers on by their teeth, "Tiger Babies
Strike Back" combines personal anecdotes and tough love advice for
a humorous, provocative look at how our families shape-and
sometimes shake-our personal foundations.
Exceptional Children: Integrating Research and Teaching provides a
com prehensive introduction to the constantly changing area of
special educa tion. The book is research-based, and its title
reflects our opinion regarding the important link between research
and classroom practice. There is one feature of Exceptional
Children: Integrating Research and Teaching that warrants attention
and perhaps justification; it was written specifically to address
the graduate student or sophisticated undergraduate student mar
ket. As such, the book is written at a higher level and with a
greater concept density than typical introductory special education
texts. We feel that this type of book is very much needed and will
be received favorably by the special education community. There are
also several unique features of Exceptional Children: Integrat ing
Research and Teaching that we feel will be quite valuable. First,
we have emphasized the area of teaching practices and not simply
included basic facts about definitions, characteristics, and
causes. Although some intro ductory texts include information about
teaching considerations, that area is not discussed as in depth as
it is in our text. We feel that it is important that readers not
only understand the educational needs of exceptional chil dren, but
also can identify the best educational practices to meet those
needs."
When Rosalind Wiseman published her bestseller Queen Bees and
Wannabes in 2001, it fundamentally changed the way that parents,
educators and the media looked at the impact of girls' social
dynamics and created a road map for girls to develop better
relationships and higher self-esteem. Now Rosalind turns her
attention to the tricky terrain of Boy World. Drawing on 20 years
of work with boys and her own experience as a mother of two sons,
Rosalind will help parents understand their tween and teenage sons
better. The book will cover such timely issues as video games,
online identities and social networking sites. This is an essential
manual that will help any parent build a stronger, more meaningful
relationship with their son.
A provocative guide to the hidden dangers of parentspeak - those
seemingly innocent phrases parents use when speaking to their young
children. Imagine if every time you praise your child with "Good
job!" you're actually doing harm? Or that urging a child to say Can
you say thank you? is exactly the wrong way to go about teaching
manners? Jennifer Lehr is a smart, funny, and fearless writer who
takes everything you thought you knew about parenting and turns it
on its ear (Jennifer Jason Leigh). Backing up her lively writing
and arguments with research from psychologists, educators, and
organisations like Alfie Kohn, Thomas Gordon, and R.I.E. (Resources
for Infant Educarers), Ms. Lehr offers a conscious approach to
parenting based on respect and love for the child as an individual.
Finally a comprehensive guide has arrived for frustrated parents
who have trouble feeding their children. Dr. Macht, a respected
educational psychologist, has originated strategies that have
achieved remarkable results in getting children to eat right.Dr.
Macht cuts to the root of the dilemma and emphasizes the
relationship between a child's total family environment and his
eating disorder. The individuality of each child is an important
factor in assessing the most suitable approach for dealing with
food refusal.This valuable book constitutes a major breakthrough
for parents, physicians, and educators alike. It offers parents a
hoped-for reprieve from the battle that often takes place at the
kitchen table, But most of all, it will change the lives of
countless children who will finally learn to appreciate and enjoy
the benefits of healthy eating.
Telling stories awakens wonder and creates special occasions with
children, whether it is bedtime, around the fire or on rainy days.
Encouraging you to spin golden tales, Nancy Mellon shows how you
can become a confident storyteller and enrich your family with the
power of story.
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