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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Advice on parenting > Child care & upbringing
Every parent wants the golden key to raising well-behaved,
academically gifted, successful, happy children. Embedded in the
collective psyche is the notion that discipline is the cornerstone
to achieving these goals. "Out of Control" offers a
never-before-published perspective on why the entire premise of
discipline is flawed. Dr. Shefali Tsabary reveals how discipline is
a major cause of generations of dysfunction. The author goes to the
heart of the problems parents have with children, challenging
society's dependence on discipline, daring readers to let go of
fear-based ideologies and replace them with an approach that draws
parent and child together. The key is ongoing meaningful connection
between parent and child, free from threats, deprivation,
punishment, and timeouts -- all forms of manipulation. Parents
learn how to enter into deep communion with their children,
understanding the reasons for a behavior and how to bring out the
best in the child. Far from a laissez-faire, anything goes,
approach, this is how a child learns responsibility and takes
ownership of their life, equipped with character and resilience
that flow naturally from within.
A healthy diet can help the young sports stars of tomorrow fulfil
their potential. Around 85% of children regularly take part in
sports activities outside lessons. Swimming is the most common
activity for girls, with football for boys. 43% of children spend
between 1-5 hours per week doing sport outside lessons (Sport
England). But as any parent or coach knows, it's hard to get the
right balance, especially if you're running between school and
training sessions. Children don't always eat, or want to eat, the
very foods that will help them compete at the highest level - the
snacks and meals that will give them energy, help them keep going
through a long training session, or recover afterwards. Throw into
the mix the need to keep hydrated and lots of children are training
and competing below par. Carefully researched and satisfying the
real need for a nutrition book specifically for young athletes,
Sports Nutrition for Young Athletes offers clear advice to sports
coaches, teachers and parents of young people wanting to maximise
their sports performance through eating healthily and sensibly.
Find out about specific nutritional requirements for different
sports - from running to swimming, gym to dance, racquet sports to
football and rugby. Learn more about tricky weight issues, myths
about body composition and the warning signs for eating disorders.
This is a above all a practical book - written and road tested by
bestselling nutrition author Anita Bean, and packed with
nutritional tips, eating plans for training and competition, and
easy, delicious and nutritious recipes and snacks to give your
young sportsperson the competitive edge.
In this timely, relevant guide, parents will learn proactive
strategies for unpacking one of God's greatest mysteries: their
teenager.
It's an MTV world, and teenagers are under more pressure than ever
to grow up fast, look sexy, and be independent. Teens are bombarded
with messages from the mainstream media at every turn. "How to
Really Parent Your Teenager" provides an up-to-the-minute analysis
of this tumultuous world of adolescence, outlining strategies for
parents to be relevant and effective. Best-selling author Dr. Ross
Campbell has spent more than 30 years studying the parent-child
relationship and counseling thousands of parents. Into this rapidly
changing culture he offers a guidebook of positive, proven
strategies for real-world problems. Parents will learn how to spot
depression and anticipate rebellion, how to discuss sexuality and
keep anger in check, and most importantly, how to maintain
communication and communicate love. Foreword by Dr. Gary
Chapman.
WINNER Mom's Choice Gold Award for parenting books -- Mom's Choice
Awards: The best in family-friendly media
"My kid is smart, but..."
It takes more than school smarts to create a fulfilling life. In
fact, many bright children face special challenges: Some are driven
by perfectionism;Some are afraid of effort, because they're used to
instant success;Some routinely butt heads with authority
figures;Some struggle to get along with their peers;Some are
outwardly successful but just don't feel good about themselves.
This practical and compassionate book explains the reasons
behind these struggles and offers parents do-able strategies to
help children cope with feelings, embrace learning, and build
satisfying relationships. Drawing from research as well as the
authors' clinical experience, it focuses on the essential skills
children need to make the most of their abilities and become
capable, confident, and caring people.
Under the Sleeve provides the help hurting children need and the
relief parents desperately need. Ten years of experience as a
successful pediatrician did not equip Dr. Stacey Winters for
finding the best help when her daughter began cutting. From that
first day, she researched and sought out any available assistance,
only to hit roadblock after roadblock. Thirteen years later, Dr.
Winters has successfully navigated the difficult path of getting
help for her daughter. In Under the Sleeve, Dr. Winters shares what
she has learned on her journey as both a mom and pediatrician.
Throughout Under the Sleeve, parents are empowered to: Understand
why visits to a primary care provider do not help Develop insight
into the reasons why their child is cutting Discover the role
anxiety and depression can play in cutting and learn methods to
help their child cope Learn why children in pain often can't talk
to their parents Become familiar with the different treatments and
understand why it takes a tribe
Parenting a severely disruptive child can be exhausting and
demoralizing to the point where breaking the cycle of bad behaviour
seems an impossible task. Happy Families offers a realistic,
step-by-step, practical approach to tackling destructive behaviour
that helps parents regain control and establish harmony within the
family. Using hands-on techniques based on the principles of
non-violent resistance, each chapter deals with a different stage
of the process - from communicating to the child an unwavering
determination that the situation will change and enlisting the
support of family and friends, to taking positive action in a way
that avoids escalation. General advice such as how to respond
constructively and consistently to provocation is included
throughout, and morale-boosting tips encourage flagging parents to
persevere with the approach. Happy Families will empower despairing
parents and caregivers who seek to contain, counter and positively
re-direct the aggression they face from children in distress,
resulting in deep-felt and lasting change.
'Full of practical parenting advice that will give you the tools to
guide your child through this time' Daily Express Raising a tween
can often leave you feeling like a parenting beginner all over
again. Children in the 'between' stage seem to change almost daily,
leaving many parents struggling to understand the child they once
thought they knew so well. In Between, parenting expert and mother
of four Sarah Ockwell-Smith uses a unique blend of the biology,
psychology and sociology of adolescence as the basis for practical
parenting advice that you can use to help your child through the
transition from childhood to adulthood. It explores key issues,
including: *Why tweens can often be moody, rude, lazy and impulsive
- and how to cope with their behaviour *What exactly happens during
puberty - and when and how to talk to your tween about it * How to
navigate friendships and romantic relationships in the tween years
*How to encourage good mental health and body image *Managing
screen time and avoiding common pitfalls *Supporting the transition
to secondary school Between also offers advice on coping with your
own feelings as your child moves through this busy developmental
period, and how to let go and give them wings to fly. The tween
years can be a difficult period for parent and child alike, but
your openness and support is key to building the relationship that
you will have with your child for the rest of their life. Between
is the handbook that will guide you across the bridge from
childhood into adolescence, together with your child.
Depressive disorders can produce dramatic and frightening changes
in young peoples' behaviour, but while parents may suspect
something is wrong, they are often at a loss to know what. This
book shows parents how to tell the difference between the ordinary
ups and downs and true depression, helping them better understand
clinical warning signs and the various approaches to treatment.
Dealing sensitively with how depression sometimes manifests
itself--self-harm, alcohol and drug abuse, and suicide
attempts--the book offers parents practical guidance on how they
can reach out to their children and find professional assistance.
Every parent has pondered "nature vs. nurture" questions. How much
of my child's personality and behavior is inborn? How much is
learned? This important new book written by behavioral scientists
who are also mothers has answers. This book offers the best
parenting practices to foster resilience by encouraging children's
social-emotional development and adaptive stress-regulation
strategies. The authors translate scientific research into
concrete, actionable tips and recommendations to help promote the
emotional wellbeing of both child and parent. Authors Stacey N.
Doan and Jessica Borelli offer a science-based framework to help
show parents and guardians how biology and parenting work together.
Although genetics are significant, DNA is not destiny--the die is
not cast at birth. Parenting still matters, deeply. Cutting-edge
epigenetics research and other recent scientific insights are
explained to show that biology and parenting behavior are
integrally intertwined. Increasingly competitive schools, looming
threats of climate change, and the Covid-19 pandemic have sent many
parents' anxiety spiraling out of control. This affects their kids,
creating a recurring cycle of stress and worry. This book is here
to help.
In the world of pediatric care, sleep safety guidelines are
controversial and often misguided. Health professionals broadly
discourage all forms of cosleeping, which, along with the
potentially devastating consequences, makes deciding how and where
your baby should sleep both confusing and frightening. Parents who
cherish the closeness, security, and warmth of cosleeping are
finding themselves conflicted, concerned, and exhausted.
Cosleeping, a term which encompasses sleeping in the same room or
on the same bed as your infant, is a common parental instinct
driven by physiology and seen throughout human history. Despite
mainstream opposition, thousands of parents continue the practice,
whether intentionally, accidentally, or out of necessity. So, why
do current medical guidelines insist that cosleeping is unsafe?
What is the difference between SIDS and SUID, and are they related
to cosleeping? What should parents do to make a safe sleep space
for their infant? If a family chooses to cosleep, how should they
respond to reproach from friends, family, or medical professionals?
In Safe Infant Sleep, the world's authority on cosleeping breaks
down the complicated political and social aspects of sleep safety,
exposes common misconceptions, and compares current recommendations
to hard science. With the latest information on the abundant
scientific benefits of cosleeping, Dr. James J. Mckenna informs
readers about the dangers of following over-simplified
recommendations against the age-old practice, and encourages
parents to trust their knowledge and instincts about what is and is
not safe for their baby. This book offers a range of options and
safety tips for your family's ideal cosleeping arrangement. These
include variations of roomsharing and bedsharing, and introduce the
concept of "breastsleeping." This term, coined by Dr. McKenna
himself, is based on the inherent biological connection between
breastfeeding and infant sleep, and provides readers with
everything they need to know about safely sharing a bed with their
baby. Complete with resource listings for both parents and
professionals, this book teaches you how to confidently choose a
safe sleeping arrangement as unique as your family.
William Wobbly is having a very bad day. He didn't want to go to
school and when he got there things just got worse. The wobbly
feeling got bigger and bigger and BIGGER until... Something
happened to William Wobbly when he was very little which makes it
hard for him to understand or control his feelings. Luckily, his
new mum is here to help with his wibbly wobbly feelings. Written by
a mum who understands, and her daughter (who used to have a lot of
wobbly feelings), this is a story for children functioning at age
3-10 who struggle with sensory overload.
How do men think about fathering? How does this differ across
different regions of the world? And what effect does this have on
child development? Fathering in Cultural Contexts: Developmental
and Clinical Issues answers these questions by considering a broad
range of theoretical and conceptual models on fathering and
childhood development, including attachment theory, developmental
psychopathology, masculinity and parenting typologies. Roopnarine
and Yildirim provide a comprehensive view of fatherhood and
fathering in diverse cultural communities at various stages of
economic development, including fathers' involvement in different
family structures, from two-parent heterosexual families to
community fathering. This book's interdisciplinary approach
highlights the changing nature of fathering, drawing connections
with child development and well-being, and evaluates the
effectiveness of a range of father interventions. Fathering in
Cultural Contexts will appeal to upper level undergraduate and
graduate students in human development, psychology, sociology,
anthropology, social work, and allied health disciplines, and
professionals working with families and children in non-profit and
social service agencies across the world.
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