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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Coping with personal problems > Coping with death & bereavement
Most cries of pain from teenagers are silent, and too often we only
discover the true depth of their pain after suicide or other
self-destructive behavior. In Stepping Up, teens speak openly about
their struggles with suicide, depression, sex, drug addiction,
pregnancy, abuse, bullying, and self-destructive behavior through
their personal letters to author Donalyn Powell, a long-time youth
and suicide-prevention advocate. To each letter, Powell offers
personal and practical hope: even in the darkest situations, the
pain will not last, and we are never alone. God has a purpose for
each of us that we alone can fulfill, and it is God's life in us
that provides our reason for living, healing for our lives, and
hope for the future.
Let's Be Real exposes the depths of honest grief as a 22-year-old
girl says goodbye to her father after holding his hand as her
family sang him happy birthday. At only 22, Emily Katherine Dalton
never imagined her story would take such a turn, losing every sense
of family and home she had ever known. The secure faith she had
formed felt shattered. In Let's Be Real, she shares her honest,
gritty journey of fighting to believe all she had ever known until
her world turned upside down. Fighting to name the depths of new
emotions and questions she had never before held, wrestling to
somehow let the people around her into the chaos, and relentlessly
trying to run toward a God she had to learn to relate to all over
again after facing the greatest trauma she had ever known. Let's Be
Real offers readers insight into processing emotional trauma and
what authentic friendship really looks like as Emily Katherine
relates and reframes stories that taught her the greatest lessons
about the faith that follows trauma, grief, and loss-a faith that
has to be real.
Resetting shares the story of a personal grief journey and helps
transform today's understanding of the human condition. Although
grief and loss are universal human conditions around since the
beginning of time, the idea of loss is still greatly feared,
ignored, distained, undiscussed, and certainly not prepared for. It
is no wonder people feel alone and isolated in their feelings and
thoughts when loss comes to them. Longtime nurse, Susan Beth
Hassmiller, who is no stranger to death, has experienced the
journeys of suffering and death in her patients as well as her
personal life in which she was completely blindsided by the
physical, spiritual, and emotional toll. Resetting is written in a
daily diary format in which Susan opens a very private window to
the actual feelings and thoughts she experienced in the grief
process. Resetting is raw and gripping as it illustrates a new
level of understanding of the human condition. Susan helps those
who have suffered loss gain a new perception and a greater sense of
grief while learning lessons on how to help those suffering from
grief-from words to say to tasks to take on.
`This book makes a significant contribution to the literature. The
author is to be commended for the huge amount of work he has put
into this volume which deserves to be widely used' - Professor
Bernard Moss, Staffordshire University All social workers encounter
complex and diverse forms of loss throughout their practice.
Working with Loss, Death and Bereavement helps trainee and
practitioners navigate these difficult situations by developing the
skills and values necessary for effective and empowering practice.
Each chapter is grounded in social work theory and is illustrated
by practice scenarios, exercises, suggestions for further study,
and contemporary cultural examples from novels and films. The book
explores: * definitions and assessment of loss * psychological
aspects of loss and grief * skills, methods and theories working
with the individual * families, support groups and communities *
avenues of support for social workers * key themes of
anti-discriminatory practice, evidence based practice and ethical
awareness. This invaluable skills-based book meets the training
requirements for social workers and will be essential reading for
students or practitioners wishing to reflect on and develop their
own practice in working with loss, death and bereavement. Jeremy
Weinstein worked as a social worker prior to teaching at London
South Bank University, where he is now a Visiting Fellow. Jeremy is
an accredited trainer and gestalt psychotherapist with a small
private practice offering therapy, supervision and consultation.
On the day her first book came out-a new translation of Dark Night
of the Soul by Saint John of the Cross-Mirabai Starr's daughter,
Jenny, was killed in a car accident. "My spiritual life began the
day my daughter died," writes Mirabai. Even with decades of
spiritual practice and a deep immersion in the greatest mystical
texts, she found herself utterly unprepared for "my most powerful
catalyst for transformation, my fiercest and most compassionate
teacher." With Caravan of No Despair, Mirabai shares an irreverent,
uplifting, and intimate memoir of her extraordinary life journey.
Through the many twists and turns of her life-including a tangled
relationship with a charlatan-guru, her unexpected connection with
the great Christian mystics, and the loss of her daughter-Mirabai
finds the courage to remain open and defenseless before the mystery
of the divine. "Tragedy and trauma are not guarantees for a
transformational spiritual experience," writes Mirabai Starr, "but
they are opportunities. They are invitations to sit in the fire and
allow it to transfigure us."
Amanda Kloots bravely reflects on love, loss, and life with her
husband, Broadway star, and Tony Award nominee Nick Cordero, whose
public battle with COVID-19 and tragic death made headlines around
the world. In March 2020, Broadway star and Tony Award nominee Nick
Cordero was hospitalized for what he and his wife, Amanda Kloots,
believed to be a severe case of pneumonia. Entering the hospital,
they had every reason to believe that Nick-a young father and
otherwise healthy man-would return home. After an eventual
diagnosis of COVID-19 that led to Nick's being placed on a
ventilator, Amanda took to documenting their journey on social
media, showing the dangers COVID-19 posed to everyone, regardless
of age. Her updates quickly captivated millions, inspiring people
around the globe to dance each day to Nick's song "Live Your Life"
and offer positive thoughts and prayer. When he passed away after
ninety-five grueling days in the ICU, the world grieved for Amanda,
her infant son, Elvis, and the future COVID-19 had snatched away
from them. Live Your Life is the story of Nick and Amanda's life
together-of their beautiful relationship, of Nick's dramatic fight
for survival, of those sudden tragic months that permanently
changed her world and ours-and of their interrupted future as a
family. From the confusing early days of his illness to searching
for signs of hope in every update from the doctors to the healing
sound of Elvis's laughter, Amanda details how she approached even
the most devastating moments with the personal optimism and faith
that have shaped her life. Written with her sister Anna Kloots, who
was with her every step of this journey, Live Your Life explores
how Amanda's willingness to accept help from an entire community of
people-friends, family, and even total strangers-played a vital
role in enduring this hardship. In the process, she offers a
touching meditation on how even the worst times have silver linings
that deepen our connections to the world around us and to the
people who matter most. What emerges is an inspiring and
unexpectedly uplifting message for life in the time of COVID, a
vision of courage for anyone coping with overwhelming loss or the
collective trauma of what the pandemic has taken from us. A
poignant reflection on love, hope, motherhood, and the
transformational power of music, Live Your Life is a love letter to
Nick and a reminder that, sometimes, celebrating life today is the
only path through tomorrow's darkness. Live Your Life includes 16
pages of color photos exclusive to the book.
Theresa Caputo, the star of TLC's Long Island Medium and New York
Times bestselling author, provides a guide to overcoming grief,
filled with inspiring lessons from Spirit and astonishing stories
from the clients who have been empowered and healed by her
spiritual readings. After more than a decade of being a practicing
medium, Theresa Caputo shares the powerful lessons she has learned
about grief, healing, and finding happiness in the wake of tragedy.
In almost every reading she gives, Spirit insists that people begin
to embrace their lives again. But not everyone knows where to
start, and putting back together the pieces of a life marked by
loss is never easy. Sometimes, you need spiritual guidance-and
that's where Theresa comes in. With her energetic, positive, and
encouraging tone, Theresa uses the lessons from Spirit to guide you
through grief toward a place of solace and healing. Each lesson is
grounded in her clients' experiences of losing loved ones, their
encounters with Spirit during readings, and the ways in which
they've been able to heal and grow. Each chapter is filled with
activities to help you find your "new normal"-including journaling,
individual and group exercises, meditations, and moments of
reflection-based on the truths that Theresa has gathered from
Spirit. Good Grief-"an excellent resource for those who wish to be
in communication with deceased loved ones" (Library Journal)-will
help you to feel stronger and more optimistic about what the future
has in store for you.
Losing a loved one is painful and overwhelming. As a mother who has
suffered with loss on many levels, Kathe Wunnenberg knows from
firsthand experience that there are no easy answers for those who
mourn. Her tender and comforting devotions will help you deal with
your grief and find hope and strength in God. Grieving the Loss of
a Loved One is a devotional for those who know the acute heartache
that accompanies loss. Using Scripture verses from multiple
translations, these thoughtful devotions will help you walk through
the stages of grief, as well as offer specific encouragement for
holidays, birthdays, and special occasions, when grief can be
particularly painful. You will walk away from the short thematic
devotions and feel validated and understood, and renewed hope in
the God who promises to never leave you.
*** Sunday Times Bestseller *** 'Fascinating. A wise and
compassionate book full of insight and understanding that would
help anyone experiencing grief, or those surrounding them' Cathy
Rentzenbrink 'A wonderfully important and transforming book -
lucid, consoling and wise' William Boyd
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Grief Works is a compassionate guide that will inform and engage
anyone who is grieving, from the 'expected' death of a parent to
the sudden unexpected death of a small child, and provide clear
advice for those seeking to comfort the bereaved. Julia Samuel
guides you gently through her eight practical pillars of strength -
that include the power of saying 'no' to the structure and building
of good new habits - to support you and help you to gradually
rebuild your life in the face of grief: With personal real-life
stories of loss, and brilliantly accessible and practical advice,
Grief Works will be passed down through generations as the
definitive guide for anyone who has lost a loved one, and will
revolutionise the way we talk about life, loss and death.
In You're Going to Make It: 50 Morning and Evening Devotions to
Unrush Your Mind, Uncomplicate Your Heart, and Experience Healing
Today, New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst helps you
incorporate a new rhythm for those days when life feels too hard.
The daily practice of receiving and releasing-receiving God's
encouragement, instruction, and truth to start your day and
releasing to God all that's weighing you down at the end of each
day-sets you on a path toward healing. With 50 days of morning and
evening devotions and beautiful color photography of significant
locations where Lysa has worked through her own healing, You're
Going to Make It will help you stay connected to God and continue
loving others even in the middle of discouraging, disappointing, or
even devastating circumstances. Each devotion contains: a Bible
verse to start your day a statement of truth to remember throughout
your day space to write and release something back to God at the
end of your day a prayer to receive before you go to sleep to
better prepare for tomorrow Without these crucial components woven
into the routine of our harder seasons, connecting with the Lord
can very quickly begin to feel overwhelming and like just another
item on our to-do lists. Lysa understands this struggle and wants
to create a sacred space where women can bookend their days with
God by simply showing up, soaking in truth, and being reminded
they're not alone on their healing journey. In her gentle,
unassuming way, Lysa walks you through the pages of You're Going to
Make It, where you will: receive the biblical truth and
encouragement you need when hurtful situations leave you worn out
and unmotivated to spend time with God. escape the loneliness of
trying to heal on your own with trusted wisdom from a Bible teacher
and friend who understands your pain and wants to help you move
forward. be reassured that though this difficult season is part of
your story, it will not be your whole story. This difficult season
doesn't have to be a time of numbing the pain or going through the
motions. Let this devotional help you get intentional and know
that, though this may be a hard time, it can also be a holy time.
How can children begin to understand death and cope with
bereavement? And how can we, as adults, support and engage with
children as they encounter this complex subject? Exploring how
children and adolescents can engage with all aspects of death,
dying and bereavement, this comprehensive guide looks at how
children comprehend the death of a pet or someone close to them,
their own dying, bereavement and grieving. It covers how you should
discuss death with children, with a particular emphasis on the
importance of listening to the child and adapting your approach
based on their responses. The book offers guidance on how your own
experiences of loss can provide you with models for your
interactions with children on the subject of death.
When Edith was stillborn without warning, the authors were both
stunned and confused. Where should they turn for help? Who would
answer their burning questions? One in in four pregnancies ends in
miscarriage; one in 200 in stillbirth. And yet, while the church
offers resources to cope with suffering more generally, there is
often an echoing silence when it comes to the trauma of baby loss.
'When we lost our daughter Edith, say the authors, 'it was painful
indeed to find the lack of biblically rooted and pastorally
sensitive resources.' Nothing really hit the mark, so, though
tears, they wrote their own book. This little volume comes to you,
or to someone close to you, with a massive hug. It is Jonny and
Joanna's passion and prayer that you will be amazed by our great
God as you connect with deep biblical truths, bringing healing to
your heart, mind and soul.
From the New York Times bestselling author of Yoga Girl and
"international force in the world of yoga" (Allure), a moving and
inspirational memoir on how to cope with tragedy, adversity, and
change through yoga. To love and let go, love and let go, love and
let go...it's the single most important thing we can learn in this
lifetime. "Rachel beautifully illustrates that loving fiercely and
grieving deeply are often two halves of the same whole. Her story
will break you down and lift you up." -Glennon Doyle, author of the
#1 New York Times bestseller Love Warrior and founder of Together
Rising "Take the time to clear your mind and mellow out with Rachel
Brathen's endearing and inspiring memoir of a misspent youth,
rebirth on the mat, and epic adventures in the Costa Rican jungle.
Along the way you'll find . . . yoga routines and healthy recipes."
-Bustle "An international force in the world of yoga." -Allure
While on her way to a yoga retreat in the Caribbean, Rachel Brathen
collapsed in the airport and was rushed to the hospital for an
emergency appendectomy. When she opened her eyes following the
surgery, her boyfriend was at her bedside weeping and she
immediately knew something terrible had happened. She soon
discovered that at the same time as her collapse, her best friend
was killed in a car crash. Over the next two years, which should
have been the happiest time of her life with her engagement and
growing career, Rachel experienced trial after trial. From the
overwhelming loss of her best friend, to the illness and death of
her grandmother, and a shocking suicide attempt by her mother,
Rachel found herself in a deep depression. When she discovered she
was pregnant, Rachel decided to use her pregnancy as a time to heal
and an opportunity to be reborn herself. Now, in this evocative and
remarkable memoir, Rachel shares the tools she used to cope with
and overcome her depression. She invites you to share in her
eye-opening epiphanies and realizations about life and death, love
and fear, what it means to be a mother and a daughter, and the
restorative power of yoga. Perfect for fans of Gabrielle Bernstein
and Glennon Doyle, this unforgettable memoir will move and
enlighten you. Praise for To Love and Let Go "Breathtakingly
honest, Rachel beautifully illustrates that loving fiercely and
grieving deeply are often two halves of the same whole. Her story
will break you down and lift you up." -Glennon Doyle, author of the
#1 New York Times Bestseller Love Warrior and founder of Together
Rising Praise for Yoga Girl "Take the time to clear your mind and
mellow out with Rachel Brathen's endearing and inspiring memoir of
a misspent youth, rebirth on the mat, and epic adventures in the
Costa Rican jungle. Along the way you'll find . . . yoga routines
and healthy recipes." -Bustle "The book was like a perfect yoga
class-it left me inspired, relaxed and at the same time gave me
tons of ideas." -Elephant Journal "An international force in the
world of yoga." -Allure
Now with 250K copies in print! Revised and Updated Edition. Anne
affirms that Heaven truly is the home of your dreams: a home of
lasting value that's fully paid for and filled with family, where
you will be wanted and welcomed. Best of all, Heaven is a home you
are invited to claim as your own. With over 40 percent new and
revised content, Anne Graham Lotz has updated her classic book on
Heaven for a whole new generation of readers, and also for herself.
With her father, mother, and husband now gone, Lotz beautifully
adds her own vulnerability and stories to the journey contained in
Heaven: My Father's House. Jesus promised us, "In My Father's house
are many rooms...I am going there to prepare a place for you." Amid
the turbulence of today's world, we cling to the hope of a heavenly
home where we will be welcomed into eternal peace and safety. Anne
affirms that Heaven truly is the home of your dreams: a home of
lasting value that's fully paid for and filled with family, where
you will be wanted and welcomed. Best of all, Heaven is a home you
are invited to claim as your own.
This practical resource provides everything you need to enable your
school to provide the best possible support for pupils and staff
who have suffered a loss or bereavement. The book includes a school
'audit' to allow full assessment and evaluation of your school's
current bereavement provision, and a full set of photocopiable
training exercises for in-school staff bereavement training. It
considers the important and unique role the school can play in
supporting bereaved pupils and staff, and provides valuable
guidance on how to create a school bereavement policy. A unique and
accessible resource that is applicable to all levels of schooling,
the book will be a valuable addition to the shelves of pastoral
care teams, school counsellors, head teachers and school
management, other school staff, bereavement counsellors and
trainers, as well as psychologists.
On September 18 2012, PC Nicola Hughes and her colleague PC Fiona
Bone were shot dead by a psychopathic criminal called Dale Cregan
who had lured the young officers to his doorstep by making a false
999 call. The crime shocked the whole of Britain. While Cregan
serves life sentences for the murders with a recommendation that he
should never be freed, Nicola's father Bryn, a former prison
officer, constantly relives his memories of the day he lost his
daughter. To try to deal with his grief and to create a force for
good from an act of evil, he has set up a charity in her name which
has raised hundreds of thousands of pounds to help young people who
have lost someone close through crime. The police and the people of
Britain have united to help him. Now Bryn has told Nicola's story,
from the joy of her birth through to the terrible circumstances of
her death at the age of just 23, as well as the challenging
aftermath.
'To support the bereaved, we need to get to grips with death.'
Talking about death and grief has become something of a modern
taboo. Most of us would rather avoid the subject altogether because
it makes us feel anxious or awkward. When Annie Broadbent's mum
died, one of the hardest parts of her experience was seeing her
friends and extended family paralysed by their fear of saying or
doing the wrong thing. Frustrated and saddened by her own
experience, in this thoughtful book Annie presents sixteen stories
which build a much needed bridge between the bereaved and the rest
of us. Combined with expert advice, Speaking of Death is a
collection of real life experiences of grief. The stories help you
build your own relationship with death and provide support for
supporters of the bereaved. If you've never known what to say to a
grieving person, you will after this book. 'Annie offers a
compassionate and caring approach to supporting someone through
grief, developed through her own experience and the use of expert
advice . . . this book will be a helpful tool for everyone' Shelley
Gilbert, CEO of Grief Encounter 'Wonderfully moving, relevant and
important' Kate Timperley, Maggie's This book was first published
as We Need to Talk About Grief.
Just as grief is an experience that affects us physically,
mentally, emotionally, cognitively, and spiritually, yoga sustains
and strengthens us in all of those same areas. This book
demonstrates how the principles and practices of yoga can help
relieve symptoms of grief allowing those who have experienced loss
to move toward wholeness, peace, and feelings of connection with
loved ones who have died. Exploring the six branches of yoga, the
book shows how each branch can support us through grief in
different ways whether it be the self-reflection of Jnana Yoga, the
spiritual devotion of Bhakti Yoga, the meditation of Raja Yoga, or
the physical postures of Hatha Yoga. We are shown how to begin and
sustain a personal practice, both on and off the yoga mat, which
helps us to cope with and move through grief on multiple levels.
Expressive and experiential exercises are included to help explore
each of the branches of yoga and find ways to put the tenets of
each branch into real life practice.
Where is God in the suffering of a mentally ill person? What
happens to the soul when the mind is ill? How are Christians to
respond to mental illness? In this brave and compassionate book,
theologian and priest Kathryn Greene-McCreight confronts these
difficult questions raised by her own mental illness--bipolar
disorder. With brutal honesty, she tackles often avoided topics
such as suicide, mental hospitals, and electroconvulsive therapy.
Greene-McCreight offers the reader everything from poignant and raw
glimpses into the mind of a mentally ill person to practical and
forthright advice for their friends, family, and clergy. The first
edition has been recognized as one of the finest books on the
subject. This thoroughly revised edition incorporates updated
research and adds anecdotal and pastoral commentary. It also
includes a new foreword by the current Archbishop of Canterbury and
a new afterword by the author.
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