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This wide-ranging selection combines popular choices of traditional
poems read at funerals with powerful poems by contemporary writers
more tuned to our present age of doubt and disbelief. There are
poems here for churchgoers and believers, including classic verses
of grief and consolation by John Donne, Christina Rossetti, Emily
Bronte and Emily Dickinson, the anonymous Do not stand at my grave
and weep, and the poems read at Princess Diana's funeral. But there
are also poems for people of all faiths and religions, for
agnostics and atheists, and most importantly for those who aren't
sure what they believe, whose grief over loss is the more intense
for not knowing what happens to the soul after death. Grief isn't
denied but experienced and made more bearable by being put into
memorable words. Searing poems of lament are followed by moving
elegies celebrating the lives of those we will always love. Whether
and how the spirit survives is then explored in an extraordinary
gathering of poems by writers as different and diverse as the
Persian mystic Rumi, Zen Buddhist composers of Japanese haiku, and
American poets Mary Oliver and Jane Kenyon. Buttressed against
their assertions of faith in an afterlife are modern sceptics, from
Auden and Larkin to William Carlos Williams and C.K. Williams,
whose wrestling with the meaning of death helps us make sense of no
sense, mirroring our own anxieties and difficulties. But however
various and contradictory these poems, their message chimes with
Larkin's famous words, proving 'Our almost-instinct almost true:/
What will survive of us is love.' Unlike other poetry anthologies
of loss, mourning and remembrance, Do Not Go Gentle offers a
selection of poems specifically for reading at funerals and
memorial services. It can also be used for reading aloud to friends
and family, or for reading while numbed and bewildered - all times
when the right poem can help us share and bear the burden of
immediate grief.
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Live!
(Paperback)
Arletha Orr
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Proof of a ground-breaking psychological theory: that the fear of
death is the hidden motive behind almost everything we do. 'A joy
... The Worm at the Core asks how humans can learn to live happily
while being intelligently aware of our impending doom, how
knowledge of death affects the decisions we make every day, and how
we can stop fear and anxiety overwhelming us' Charlotte Runcie,
Daily Telegraph 'Provocative, lucid and fascinating' Financial
Times 'An important, superbly readable and potentially
life-changing book . . . suggests one should confront mortality in
order to live an authentic life' Tim Lott, Guardian 'Deep,
important, and beautifully written ... utterly original' Daniel
Gilbert
Written by a mother who lost her 21 year old son to suicide, this
book deals with the themes of suicide loss through the lens of the
author's personal grief. Addressing the process of post-traumatic
growth, this memoir provides the bereaved with therapy exercises
and creative activities to help them come to terms with their loss.
Although it deals directly with losing a child, much of the book
pertains to grief generally, especially complicated grief after a
sudden death, and thus provides comfort to any reader who has lost
a close one to suicide or anyone interested in young people
struggling with mental health. Organised thematically, it addresses
the many issues and stages involved in the grieving process and
ends each chapter with a variety of beneficial yoga, breathing and
therapy activities. This allows readers to dip in and out of the
book, and go at their own pace - replicating the fact that grief is
not a linear journey but an iterative one that goes back and forth.
This book is a lifeline for anyone struggling to process loss.
'A beacon of hope in a dark world' Cathy Rentzenbrink, The Pool One
night in November 2015, when Antoine Leiris was at home looking
after his baby son, his wife Helene was killed, along with 88 other
people, at the Bataclan Theatre in Paris. Three days later, Antoine
wrote an open letter to his wife's killers on Facebook. He refused
to be cowed or to let his baby son's life be defined by their acts.
'For as long as he lives, this little boy will insult you with his
happiness and freedom,' he wrote. Instantly, that short post caught
fire and was shared thousands of times around the world. An
extraordinary and heartbreaking memoir, You Will Not Have My Hate
is a universal message of hope and resilience in our troubled
times.
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Lora's Poems
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Lora Ellen Baldwin, Oakley Dean Baldwin
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One woman's heartbreaking story of a marriage destroyed by her
husband's addiction to alcohol.
The dynamics of codependency are illuminated in this gripping
tale. Author Fran Simone describes her husband's attempts at
treatment and subsequent relapse, his suicide, and her own recovery
through a twelve-step program for families.
Fran Simone, PhD, is a recently retired professor emeritus from
the graduate college of Marshall University in South Charleston,
West Virginia. Her essays have appeared in "The Voice" and "The
Quarterly" of the National Writing Project, the "Charleston
Gazette," "Writers Digest," and "The Forum."
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