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Everything can change - In Just One DayFlora has always adored her
brother Billy. Born just eighteen months apart, their childhood was
spent like two peas in a pod - no one could separate them. Now, as
adults, they remain the best of friends. And as Flora is immersed
in family life, Billy is always there to lend a hand. But, in just
one day, everything changes. In just one day, Flora's life falls
apart. In just one day, Flora has to learn how to live again. From
the nostalgia of seaside Britain to the breath-taking beauty of
Venice, in tears and laughter, join Helen McGinn for this
emotional, uplifting and joyful story about love in all its guises.
But above all, this is an unforgettable story of one little girl
and the brother she adored. Helen McGinn has written a novel to
recommend to all your friends, perfect for fans of Elizabeth Noble,
Cathy Kelly and JoJo Moyes. Praise for Helen McGinn: 'Escapist,
warm, witty and wise' Daily Mail 'This is a lovely uplifting book
that transported me away, firstly to the beautiful city of Rome and
then to gorgeous Cornwall. It's a moving and emotional story of
families in all their messy wonderfulness, of people losing one
another, and then coming together again - sometimes in unexpected
ways. A hugely enjoyable family tale,it was exactly what I wanted
to read at this time.' Louise Douglas 'This Changes Everything is
the perfect tonic. An uplifting, forget-about-everything-else read
that I couldn't put down. Romantic, emotional and page-turning,
Helen McGinn's debut novel can't fail to cheer you up!' Zoe Folbigg
'I loved reading this book. I needed escapism - don't we all need
escapism right now - and it gave me Rome, Cornwall and a family who
immediately felt like old friends. I took it to the bath, to bed
and had finished it within 24 hours. It was the perfect antidote to
tough times.' Victoria Moore The Daily Telegraph
A Richard and Judy Book club selection. In the summer of 1990,
Cathy's brother Matty was knocked down by a car on the way home
from a night out. It was two weeks before his GCSE results, which
turned out to be the best in his school. Sitting by his unconscious
body in hospital, holding his hand and watching his heartbeat on
the monitors, Cathy and her parents willed him to survive. They did
not know then that there are many and various fates worse than
death. This is the story of what happened to Cathy and her brother,
and the unimaginable decision that she and her parents had to make
eight years after the night that changed everything. It's a story
for anyone who has ever watched someone suffer or lost someone they
loved or lived through a painful time that left them forever
changed. Told with boundless warmth and affection, The Last Act of
Love by Cathy Rentzenbrink is a heartbreaking yet uplifting
testament to a family's survival and the price we pay for love.
'A third presence has arrived in my marriage. Ms Alzheimer's - I
think of her as a hideous, brain-eating monster - has come to live
with us. Permanently.' In April 2017, Susan's husband Nicholas was
diagnosed with Alzheimer's. This was followed by 28 months of
relentless, rapid decline culminating in Nicholas' death in August
2019. The Alzheimer's Diaries (originally published as a blog)
charts the progression of his illness, from diagnosis to the
funeral. Susan dubbed the illness 'Ms Alzheimer's' and describes
the hateful impact on the man she loves. According to Alzheimer's
Research UK one person in 14 over the age of 65 has dementia, and
in this thought-provoking account, Susan unflinchingly shares her
story.
Alexandra Rowan earned a double major degree in creative writing
and communications. Shortly after her graduation in 2013 she died
suddenly and without warning because of her use of hormone-based
birth control. This book is a testament to her life, written by her
father, David. My Beautiful Memory examines her life and death, and
describes the difficult journey that her parents had to undertake
following their loss. It concludes with an examination of the US
drug industry's influence over the regulation of these drugs that
kill over one thousand women each year. Alexandra was a young woman
with a love of many things, but her chief passion was writing.
Latter parts of the book are written in her own words.
Where is God in the suffering of a mentally ill person? What
happens to the soul when the mind is ill? How are Christians to
respond to mental illness? In this brave and compassionate book,
theologian and priest Kathryn Greene-McCreight confronts these
difficult questions raised by her own mental illness--bipolar
disorder. With brutal honesty, she tackles often avoided topics
such as suicide, mental hospitals, and electroconvulsive therapy.
Greene-McCreight offers the reader everything from poignant and raw
glimpses into the mind of a mentally ill person to practical and
forthright advice for their friends, family, and clergy. The first
edition has been recognized as one of the finest books on the
subject. This thoroughly revised edition incorporates updated
research and adds anecdotal and pastoral commentary. It also
includes a new foreword by the current Archbishop of Canterbury and
a new afterword by the author.
Grief is a normal, instinctive response to loss or impending loss.
Grief changes whoever it touches without discrimination. Embracing
the change is key for healing and positive transformation.
Introspection or reflection can be a useful, perhaps therapeutic,
process when you are grieving. Indeed, silence, reflection, love
and humility are the most precious offerings on the sacred altar of
the soul. Soul Comfort is the first book to examine grief
holistically through concise insights into the related concepts of
consciousness, death and love for healing and positive
transformation. Death does not extinguish consciousness. Death
transforms and distils consciousness. And the grief you feel for
someone is proportionate to the love you feel for them - the deeper
your love, the deeper your grief. Uplifting, unique and
thought-provoking insights from the author of The Audible Life
Stream: Ancient Secret of Dying While Living will offer comfort to
your soul and may profoundly change your perceptions of grief,
death, consciousness, love and transformation. If your perceptions
are changed, you will know that your own transformative journey has
begun.
Funerary Practices in Serbia is the first book to offer a concise
yet highly informative study of the historical development and
current state of funerary practices in Serbia. Situated in a
constant dynamic struggle between traditional cultural customs and
modern legislation, funerary practices in Serbia represent a
particularly interesting field of research. In this study,
Pavicevic combines an investigation of long-term developments and
recent changes to place contemporary practices in their wider
historical context, emphasizing the complicated geo-political,
demographic and cultural factors that have shaped funeral
traditions in Serbia over time. In particular, she demonstrates how
the country's frequent changing of borders and life under the rule
of two great empires - the Austro-Hungarian and Ottoman - fostered
the emergence of colorful funerary traditions, such as open-casket
burial and vigils around the body, that persist to this day in
spite of government attempts to modernize funerary practice since
the end of the 19th century. The book also provides illuminating
insights into the legal framework surrounding current funerary
practices in Serbia, the relationship between the state and private
sectors, the ownership of cemeteries and gravesites, the role of
churches and religious communities, religious and ethnic variations
in funerary culture and traditions, and the development of modern
cremation practices in Serbia. This book provides a useful and
original resource for policymakers and practitioners interested in
the historic, legal, technical and professional aspects of the
Serbian funerary industry, and to researchers in cultural
anthropology, history, sociology and cultural management.
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"What would you do if you were told you had only 72 hours to live?"
Let's face it. It's not an easy question to answer. Or is it? What
really matters in your life? Who do you need to forgive? Who should
you apologise to? What wrongs do you have to put right? Is there a
long lost friend you need to find? Will your family be taken care
of? And are you at peace with how you lead your life? This book is
the compilation of the best submissions to the essay contest, Last
72, jointly organised by Everest Productions and "The Fountain"
magazine in 2010. As you read along, you will witness an inmate
regretting his past life and taking shelter into hopes for God's
mercy, a mother ready to move the entire planet to mobilise for her
autistic child when she would not be around for him anymore, an
immigrant's thankfulness for a naval officer who saved his mother
from the sea, and many other touchy stories and answers for a shaky
question.
After a sudden and terrible loss, how does a loving family find
their way back to the goodness and peace they once shared?
Reviewers and readers have called this literary historical novel
"hauntingly beautiful," "a masterpiece of compassion," "a
page-turner and an artistic triumph." Written by a masterful
storyteller, this is a book that illuminates the journey we make
through grief to healing. In the midst of a nearly perfect life,
Doris Senter is thankful but wary. "We can't ever know what will
come," she says. When an unimaginable tragedy turns the family of
five into a family of four, everything the Senters held faith in is
shattered. The family is consumed by sorrow and guilt. Slowly, the
surviving family members find their way to forgiveness-of
themselves and of each other. Few writers know the human heart and
the burden of grief as New York Times bestselling author Meredith
Hall (Without a Map). This is a radiant novel of goodness and
love-both its gifts and its obligations-that will stay with readers
long after the last page. With a rare tenderness and compassion,
Beneficence shows broken hearts becoming whole as this family
reclaims their love and peace. "People stay together, fall apart,
come back together, altered. It is a book about work, about grief,
about thick ongoing love. Hall's prose is hewn, sinewy, with
moments of electrifying beauty and grace."-Boston Globe "One of the
best books I've ever read."-Simon Van Booy "As organically as it
traveled to heartbreak, Beneficence progresses to the place of
wisdom that lies beyond it, where we learn that a home is part of
the 'vast world of innocence and harm,' not an island beyond
it."-Wall Street Journal "A modern American masterpiece."-Dani
Shapiro "If the word 'luminous' didn't already exist, you'd have to
invent it to describe Meredith Hall's radiant new novel
Beneficence."-Richard Russo "These voices from the past speak so
clearly to our time, at a moment when many of us wonder whether
we'll lose the things that we consider blessings....Beneficence is
a quiet but steady book, one that echoes ancient and important
rhythms."-Washington Post "A quiet gem...hard to put down."-Library
Journal "Hauntingly beautiful, emotionally devastating, and infused
with great compassion."-Kim Barnes "With wisdom and compassion,
Meredith Hall writes about the capacity for atonement. Goodness.
Generosity to see deeply, to live through fear and pain on your
journey toward the awareness of splendor."-Ursula Hegi
*WINNER OF THE PEN ACKERLEY PRIZE 2018* My younger brother's name
is Nicholas Beard. He was nine years old, and I was with him in the
water when he drowned. Life changes in an instant. On a family
holiday in Cornwall in 1978, Richard and Nicholas are in the sea,
jumping the waves. Suddenly and inexplicably Nicholas is out of his
depth and then, shockingly, so is Richard. Only one of the brothers
returns to the shore. Richard does not attend Nicholas's funeral
and afterwards the family return to Cornwall to continue the
holiday. Soon they stop speaking of that day at the beach
altogether. Years later, haunted by grief, Richard sets out to
piece together the story. Who was Nicholas? What really happened
that day? And why did the family never speak of it again?
SHORTLISTED FOR THE RATHBONES FOLIO PRIZE 2018 SHORTLISTED FOR THE
JAMES TAIT BLACK PRIZE 2018 'This captivating book, both
heart-rending and jaw-dropping, unfolds like a detective story'
Daily Mail 'A memoir of real truth and heartbreaking emotional
heft' Sunday Times
'Insightful and refreshing.' - Professor Dennis Klass, Webster
University Religion Department, St. Louis, USA
'A tour de force.' - Dr Colin Murray Parkes, OBE, MD, FRCPsych,
President of CRUSE
Some societies and some individuals find a place for their dead,
others leave them behind. In recent years, researchers,
professionals and bereaved people themselves have struggled with
this. Should the bond with the dead be continued or broken? What is
clear is that the grieving individual is not left in a social
vacuum but has to struggle with expectations from self, family,
friends, professionals and academic theorists.
This ground-breaking book looks at the social position of the
bereaved. They find themselves caught between the living and the
dead, sometimes searching for guidelines in a de-ritualized society
that has few to offer, sometimes finding their grief
inappropriately pathologised and policed. At its best, bereavement
care offers reassurance, validation, and freedom to talk where the
client has previously encountered judgmentalism.
In this unique book, Tony Walter applies sociological insights to
one of the most personal of human situations. On Bereavement is
aimed at students on medical, nursing, counselling and social work
courses that include bereavement as a topic. It will also appeal to
sociology students with an interest in death, dying and mortality.
The outlines for this book have been chosen from some of the most
respected preachers in history. Each book in the Bryant Sermon
Outlines Series contains thirty or more outlines focusing on one
theme. These outlines for funerals and other special services are
designed to spark an idea, provide an initial structure, and/or
furnish a fitting illustration.
You've lost someone you loved, and now the pain seems unendurable.
June Cerza Kolf understands. She, too, has suffered the wound of
grief, and as a veteran of hospice work, has counseled many
mourning people. In this gentle, empathic book, Kolf leads you
through the stages of grief, helping you understand what to expect
as time goes on and making you mindful of potential pitfalls such
as feeling anger or guilt, dealing with holidays, and experiencing
physical distress. No matter what the loss has been, it takes time
and heart-wrenching work for the wound to heal. Kolf takes you by
the hand and helps you do this painful--yet vital--work. She offers
practical and therapeutic ways of dealing with depression and
easing pain and gives creative ideas for expressing your love and
remembrance. The grief exercises provided in this book are an
outlet for working through your pain on your own or in a
small-group setting. Most of all, as When Will I Stop Hurting?
guides you through the rough terrain of grieving, it will also
point you to God, the one true source of healing.
Soul Midwives, a movement begun by Felicity Warner, has changed the
face of modern holistic and spiritual palliative care in the UK and
abroad. Soul Midwives are holistic and spiritual companions to the
dying. They draw on traditional skills, now largely forgotten,
applying them to our modern world to ease the passage of those who
are dying. Their services are used within people's own homes, in
hospices and in care homes. Anyone with an open and compassionate
heart and a desire to help others can train to become a Soul
Midwife. This book will guide you through the core principles and
techniques of this practice.
A Times Best Fiction Book of the Year A Guardian Best Fiction Book
of the Year A BBC Culture Book of the Year 'IT'LL EASILY BE ONE OF
MY BOOKS OF THE YEAR' Hannah Beckerman 'It's a warm book and a
touching one. And did I mention it's funny? Just read it. You'll
see' The Times 'Funny, tender and sad' Sunday Express 'If you liked
Meg Mason's Sorrow and Bliss, you'll love this novel' Good
Housekeeping 'One of the richest explorations of family dysfunction
I've read' the i newspaper 'Shades of Fleabag in this smart, funny
drama' Mail on Sunday 'An enjoyably bittersweet novel about a
dysfunctional modern family' Independent 'Razor-sharp ' Observer
'One of the funniest novels you'll read this year' Guardian THE
BOOK THAT YOU WON'T BE ABLE TO PUT DOWN For Alice and Hanna, saint
and sinner, growing up is a trial. There is their mother, who takes
a divide-and-conquer approach to child-rearing, and their father,
who takes an absent one. There is also their older brother Michael,
whose disapproval is a force to be reckoned with. There is the
catastrophe that is never spoken of, but which has shaped
everything . . . As adults, Alice and Hanna must deal with
disappointments in work and in love as well as increasingly
complicated family tensions, and lives that look dismayingly
dissimilar to what they'd intended. They must look for a way to
repair their own fractured relationship, and they must finally
choose their own approach to their dominant mother: submit or burn
the house down. And they must decide at last whether life is really
anything more than (as Hanna would have it) a tragedy with a few
hilarious moments. From the author of the Waterstones Book of the
Month Our Fathers comes a compelling domestic comedy about complex
family dynamics, mental health and the intricacies of sibling
relationships. WHAT READERS ARE SAYING 5* 'I adored this book' 5*
'A brilliant novel about a dysfunctional family' 5* 'This book blew
me away' 5* 'Loved, loved, loved this! Laugh-out-loud funny and
beautifully poignant' 5* 'The best book i've read this year'
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