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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Coping with personal problems > Coping with death & bereavement
Are you grieving? Would you like to have a better understanding of
grief? Are you wanting to support someone who is grieving but don't
know how? This beautifully illustrated book written by two
experienced Bereavement Practitioners is unlike any other book
about grief. Each page takes you on a thought-provoking journey,
each image echoed by the voiced of bereaved people. As thoughts,
feelings and experiences are shared, you may recognise your own
voice creating a new image to add to these powerful images. It can
be read in one go or dipped into chapter by chapter as needed,
either way it offers understanding, wisdom and hope during this
time of mourning.
'A remarkable account of illness, loss and the power of sibling
love' The Times 'Wise's reflections on compassion fatigue are worth
the price of this book alone, but what you take away is something
splendid and unwearying: a sibling's devotion that feels remarkably
like what we mean when we talk of a stage of grace.' Telegraph
'Inspirational... profoundly uplifting' Daily Mail 'Heartbreaking
and inspiring in equal measure' Express 'This is a fantastic book
... Remarkable' Lorraine Kelly _______ A moving, thought-provoking
and surprisingly humorous book which is both a description of a
journey to death and a celebration of the act of living. Based on
Clare Wise's blog, which she started when she was first diagnosed
with cancer in 2013, Not That Kind of Love charts the highs and
lows of the last three years of Clare's life. The end result is not
a book that fills you with despair and anguish. On the contrary,
Not That Kind of Love should be read by everybody for its candour,
and for its warmth and spirit. Clare is an astonishingly dynamic,
witty and fun personality, and her positivity and energy exude from
every page. As she becomes too weak to type, her brother - the
actor Greg Wise - takes over, and the book morphs into a beautiful
meditation on life, and the necessity of talking about death. As
Greg Wise writes in the book: 'Celebrate the small things, the
small moments. If you find yourself with matching socks as you
leave the house in the morning, that is a cause for celebration. If
the rest of the day is spent finding the cure for cancer, or
brokering world peace, then that's a bonus.'
"A startling debut... This book will make you want to hold everyone
you love close, reminding you that life may be fleeting but the
people in it never are." PICKED FOR ESQUIRE MAGAZINE'S BEST BOOKS
OF 2022 Best Books of 2022 - Picked by Readers - FINANCIAL TIMES
When Freddy was 21 years old, his dad, a larger-than-life,
successful TV producer, was diagnosed with glioblastoma, a
particularly aggressive type of brain cancer. In vivid snapshots,
Freddy recalls the ups and downs of an impossible time - from the
entertaining antics of a wine-gum tossing competition in a hospital
ward, to the comi-tragedy of trying to decipher his father's
muddled riddles as his speech disintegrates, to painful moments of
regret and self-loathing as he squanders precious time. Don't Put
Yourself on Toast is a bittersweet coming-of-age memoir which shows
how the power of humour and laughter can provide, even in our
darkest moments, sustenance, comfort and hope.
In 'Goodbye, Friend', Reverend Gary Kowalski takes readers on a
journey of healing, offering warmth, guidance, and sound advice on
how to deal effectively with death of your animal companion's life.
A #1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER. In this searing memoir, Congressman
Jamie Raskin tells the story of the forty-five days at the start of
2021 that permanently changed his life-and his family's-as he
confronted the painful loss of his son to suicide, lived through
the violent insurrection in our nation's Capitol, and led the
impeachment effort to hold President Trump accountable for inciting
the political violence. On December 31, 2020, Tommy Raskin, the
only son of Maryland Congressman Jamie Raskin, tragically took his
own life after a long struggle with depression. Seven days later on
January 6, Congressman Raskin returned to Congress to help certify
the 2020 Presidential election results, when violent
insurrectionists led by right wing extremist groups stormed the
U.S. Capitol hoping to hand four more years of power to President
Donald Trump. As our reeling nation mourned the deaths of numerous
people and lamented the injuries of more than 140 police officers
hurt in the attack, Congressman Raskin, a Constitutional law
professor, was called upon to put aside his overwhelming grief-both
personal and professional-and lead the impeachment effort against
President Trump for inciting the violence. Together this
nine-member team of House impeachment managers riveted a nation
still in anguish, putting on an unprecedented Senate trial that
produced the most bipartisan Presidential impeachment vote in
American history. Now for the first time, Congressman Raskin
discusses this unimaginable convergence of personal and public
trauma, detailing how the painful loss of his son and the power of
Tommy's convictions fueled the Congressman's work in the aftermath
of modern democracy's darkest day. Going inside Congress on January
6, he recounts the horror of that day, a day that he and other
Democrats had spent months preparing for under the correct
assumption that they would encounter an attempted electoral
coup-not against a President but for one. And yet, on January 6, he
faced the one thing he had failed to anticipate: mass political
violence designed to block Biden's election. With an inside account
of leading the team prosecuting President Trump in the Senate,
Congressman Raskin shares never before told stories of just how
close we came to losing our democracy that fateful day and lays out
the methodical prosecution that convinced Democrats and Republicans
alike of Trump's responsibility for inciting insurrectionary
violence against our government. Through it all, he reckons with
the loss of his brilliant, remarkable son, a Harvard Law student
whose values and memory continually inspired the Congressman to
confront the dark impulses unleashed by Donald Trump. At turns, a
moving story of a father coping with his pain and a revealing
examination of holding President Trump accountable for the violence
he fomented, this book is a vital reminder of the ongoing struggle
for the soul of American democracy and the perseverance that our
Constitution demands from us all.
Author's New York Times essay, 'Death, the Prosperity Gospel and
Me' (http://nyti.ms/2k87bUM) was chosen by the newspaper as one of
their top 20 articles of 2016, and was read by millions
"Gripping and true in all ways. This fine, affecting memoir will
stay with me for a very long time."-Meg Wolitzer, author of The
Female Persuasion "In this vividly written memoir novelist O'Hara
shares a painful but ultimately beautiful account of her daughter
Caitlin's life with cystic fibrosis. . . . Her compelling story
will resonate with anyone seeking a light in the darkest depths of
grief."-Library Journal In the vein of The Year of Magical Thinking
and Beautiful Boy, an emotionally raw and inspiring memoir that
illuminates a mother's grief over the loss of her adult child and
considers the hope of soulful connections that transcend the
boundary of life and death. When their only child was diagnosed
with cystic fibrosis (CF) at the age of two, Maryanne O'Hara and
her husband were told that Caitlin could live a long life or be
dead in a matter of months. Thirty-one years later, Caitlin lost
her battle with this devastating disease following an excruciating
two-year wait on the transplant list and a last-minute race to
locate a pair of healthy lungs. The sudden spiral of events left
Maryanne in an existential crisis, searching to find an answer to
the eternal question: Why we are here? During her final years,
Caitlin had become a source of wisdom and comfort for her
mother-the partner with whom she shared a deep spiritual quest to
understand what it meant to have a soul. After Caitlin's passing,
Maryanne began to notice signs-poignant, persistent synchronicities
that seemed to lean toward proof of Caitlin's enduring presence.
Weaving together a series of interconnected meditations with
illuminating glimpses of life rendered via text messages, e-mails,
and journal entries, Little Matches is a profound reflection on
life and death, motherhood, the pain of chronic uncertainty, and
finding inspiration in the unexpected sparks that light our way
through the darkness.
"A bold attempt to portray the greyness of growing up without roots
or identity, cast adrift in an uncomprehending and uncertain
world." Caroline Moorehead, Times Literary Supplement. March, 1945.
The ravaged face of London will soon be painted with victory, but
for Sylvie, the private battle for peace is just beginning. When
one of her twins is stillborn, she is faced with a consuming grief
for the child she never had a chance to hold. A Small Dark Quiet
follows a mother as she struggles to find the courage to rebuild
her life and care for an orphan whom she and her husband, Gerald,
adopt two years later. Born in a concentration camp, the orphan's
early years appear punctuated with frail speculations, opening up a
haunting space that draws Sylvie to bring him into parallel with
the child she lost. When she gives the orphan the stillborn child's
name, this unwittingly entangles him in a grief he will never be
able to console. His own name has been erased, his origins blurred.
Arthur's preverbal trauma begins to merge with the loss he carries
for Sylvie, released in nightmares and fragments of emerging
memories to make his life that of a boy he never knew. He learns
all about 'that other little Arthur', yearning both to become him
and to free himself from his ghost. He can neither fit the shape of
the life that has been lost nor grow into the one his adopted
father has carved out for him. As the novel unfolds over the next
twenty years, Arthur becomes curious about his Jewish heritage, but
fears what this might entail - drawn towards it, it seems he might
find a sense of communion and acceptance, but the chorus of
persecutory voices he has internalised becomes too overwhelming to
bear. He is threatened as a child with being sent back where he
belongs but no one can tell him where this is. He wanders as an
adult looking for purpose but is unable to find his place. Feeling
an imposter both at home and in the city, Arthur's yearning for
that sense of belonging echoes in our own time. Meeting Lydia seems
to offer Arthur the opportunity to recast himself, yet all too soon
he is trapped in a repetition of what he was trying to escape. A
past he can neither recall nor forget lives on within him even as
he strives to forge a life for himself. Survival, though, insists
Arthur keeps searching and as he opens himself to the world around
him, there are flashes of just how resilient the human heart can
be. Through Sylvie's unprocessed grief and Arthur's acute sense of
displacement, A Small Dark Quiet explores how the compulsion to
fill the empty space death leaves behind ultimately makes the
devastating void more acute. Yet however frail, the instinct for
empathy and hope persists in this powerful story of loss, migration
and the search for belonging.
'Illuminating and consoling' JULIA SAMUEL, author of GRIEF WORKS
Though approximately one in four pregnancies ends in miscarriage,
it remains a rarely talked about, under-researched, and largely
misunderstood area of women's health. This profoundly necessary
book - the first comprehensive portrait of the psychological,
emotional, medical, and cultural aspects of miscarriage - aims to
help break that silence. In this groundbreaking book,
psychotherapist Julia Bueno draws on historical and psychological
research alongside her personal story and those of people she's
helped. Straightforward and supportive, she shines a light on the
different ways that miscarriages can happen and how we might allow
for our grief, offer comfort and break the silence. ***Winner of
the British Medical Association Popular Medicine Book Award***
'It's the sort of book that women have long been searching for, and
it feels like real progress. I'm so thankful she wrote it' MEAGHAN
O'CONNELL, author of And Now We Have Everything 'Profound insight,
rare courage' ZOE WILLIAMS 'Opening the door to more candid
conversations' OBSERVER 'Intuitive and compassionate' SATHNAM
SANGHERA ***Runner-Up - The British Psychological Society Book
Award 2021***
There is little in life that rocks us like the death of a husband
or wife. Whether you're feeling alone, drowning under an ocean of
emotions, or you've worked your way through to the darkest nights
of the soul and are now wondering how to get on with your life,
you'll find comfort and guidance from the authors of this book. One
a clinical psychologist, the other a pastor and professor, both
suffered the loss of a spouse at a relatively young age. Their
empathy, valuable psychological insights, biblical observations,
and male and female perspectives will help you experience your
grief in the healthiest and most complete way so that you can move
forward to embrace the new life that is waiting for you on the
other side.
From two students of Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School comes a declaration for our times, and an in-depth look at the making of the #NeverAgain movement that arose after the Parkland, Florida, shooting.
On February 14, 2018, seventeen-year-old David Hogg and his fourteen-year-old sister, Lauren, went to school at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School, like any normal Wednesday. That day, of course, the world changed. By the next morning, with seventeen classmates and faculty dead, they had joined the leadership of a movement to save their own lives, and the lives of all other young people in America. It's a leadership position they did not seek, and did not want--but events gave them no choice.
The morning after the massacre, David Hogg told CNN: "We're children. You guys are the adults. You need to take some action and play a role. Work together. Get over your politics and get something done."
This book is a manifesto for the movement begun that day, one that has already changed America--with voices of a new generation that are speaking truth to power, and are determined to succeed where their elders have failed. With moral force and clarity, a new generation has made it clear that problems previously deemed unsolvable due to powerful lobbies and political cowardice will be theirs to solve. Born just after Columbine and raised amid seemingly endless war and routine active shooter drills, this generation now says, "Enough!". This book is their statement of purpose, and the story of their lives. It is the essential guide to the #NeverAgain movement.
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