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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Coping with personal problems > Coping with death & bereavement
We live in a society where people struggle to look death in the
eye. Death has become the territory of professionals and we rarely
see a dead body, unless it is someone very close to us. Death has
become hidden, and so more traumatic. This book shows that, if we
start talking openly about death, it can change the way we live. It
is a collection of stories and images about death, dying and
bereavement. People from all walks of life share their experiences
and what they have learned from accompanying others. Heartbreaking,
angry, questioning and contradictory - laugh-aloud funny, even -
the stories illuminate, inspire, reassure and inform. They are
accompanied by commentaries from professionals working in
end-of-life planning, health, bereavement and funeral care.
Many people experience levels of grief and loss at different times
in life. For some, the depth of loss causes difficulty in carrying
out what we may consider to be normal activities. You are not
alone. When grief and loss threaten to overwhelm you, pick up this
book. 'Prayers & Promises for Grief and Loss' incorporates more
than 70 themes to help you receive the assurance, peace, strength,
and comfort found in the promises of God's Word. Uplifting prayers
and journaling space offer an opportunity for deeper reflection.
God is the best source of comfort you will find. He knows your
heart and he is full of compassion for you. By staying connected to
him, and believing the promises of his Word, you can experience
hope and peace in difficult times.
Silver Butterfly Wings is my story. It's a story of transformation,
of the many paths and decisions I faced while going through the
process of grief. My husband had died and I was utterly shattered;
could not imagine a life without him. Then signs from the other
side appeared, filling me with hope: flickering lights, hawks
flying overhead, our song on the radio, a butterfly's silvery
wings, a hot spot on his side of the bed. At first I was sceptical.
How could my dearly departed be sending signs and messages from
across the veil? Over time I learned to trust these signs, these
gifts from Spirit. There was a reason I was still here. I was meant
to go on, to live my life with passion. I was to figure out who I
was becoming in this totally different world and trust that life
was taking me where I was meant to be. In short, I was to transform
- like a butterfly.
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Lora's Poems
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Lora Ellen Baldwin, Oakley Dean Baldwin
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What happens to the spirit after the body dies?
In" Life After Death," Deepak Chopra draws on cutting-edge
scientific discoveries and the great wisdom traditions to provide a
map of the afterlife. He tells us there is abundant evidence that
"the world beyond" is not separated from this world by an
impassable wall; in fact, a single reality embraces all worlds, all
times and places.
"A must-read for everyone who will die."
--Candace B. Pert, Ph.D., author of "Molecules of Emotion"
"A penetrating and insightful investigation into the greatest
mystery of existence. This is an important book because only by
facing death will we come to a deeper realization of who we are."
--Eckhart Tolle, author of "A New Earth" and "The Power of Now"
"If I had any doubts about the afterlife, I don't have them
anymore. Deepak Chopra has cast his inimitable light on the
darkened corners of death. I think this is his greatest
contribution yet."
--Marianne Williamson, author of "The Age of Miracles" and "The
Gift of Change"
In Critical Suicidology, a team of international scholars,
practitioners, and people directly affected by suicide argue that
the field of suicidology has become too focused on the biomedical
paradigm: a model that pathologizes distress and obscures the
social, political, and historical contexts that contribute to human
suffering. The authors take a critical look at existing research,
introduce the perspectives of those who have direct personal
knowledge of suicide and suicidal behaviour, and propose
alternative approaches that are creative and culturally sensitive.
In the right hands, this book could save lives.
Even from upside-down in his recently flipped truck, Frank Soos
reveals himself to be ruminative, grappling with the limitations of
language to express the human condition. Moving quickly-skiing in
the dark or taking long summer bike rides on Alaska highways-Soos
combines an active physical life with a dark and difficult interior
existence, wrestling the full span of "thinking and doing" onto the
page with surprising lightness. His meditations move from
fly-fishing in dangerously swift Alaska rivers to memories of the
liars and dirty-joke tellers of his small-town Virginia childhood,
revealing insights in new encounters and old preoccupations. Soos
writes about pain and despair, aging, his divorce, his father's
passing, regret, the loss of home, and the fear of death. But in
the process of confronting these dark topics, he is full of wonder.
As he writes at the end of an account of almost drowning, "Bruised
but whole, I was alive, alive, alive."
Proof of a ground-breaking psychological theory: that the fear of
death is the hidden motive behind almost everything we do. 'A joy
... The Worm at the Core asks how humans can learn to live happily
while being intelligently aware of our impending doom, how
knowledge of death affects the decisions we make every day, and how
we can stop fear and anxiety overwhelming us' Charlotte Runcie,
Daily Telegraph 'Provocative, lucid and fascinating' Financial
Times 'An important, superbly readable and potentially
life-changing book . . . suggests one should confront mortality in
order to live an authentic life' Tim Lott, Guardian 'Deep,
important, and beautifully written ... utterly original' Daniel
Gilbert
Vanessa May gives a moving account of what she went through after
the unexpected death of her son, demonstrating that it's possible
to survive such a shattering and traumatic loss, even when that
might feel impossible. By sharing her personal experience, the
author enables others who have gone through a similar loss to feel
less isolated in their grief. She also provides advice on
supporting physical, emotional, mental and spiritual wellbeing
using her experience - not just as a bereaved mother, but as a
nutritional therapist, wellbeing coach and now holistic grief
coach. She offers the reader various tools for withstanding a
devastating loss and for navigating a particularly challenging
path. Love Untethered is about holding on to hope when it feels
like there isn't any, and about finding purpose as a means of
surviving a devastating and life-changing bereavement.
"Still is one of those rare books that catches you up and does not
let you go. With grace, courage, and honesty, Emma Hansen adds an
important voice to this tragic and too-often silenced subject. I
loved this book." -Beth Powning, author of Shadow Child: An
Apprenticeship in Love and Loss A moving, candid account of one
woman's experience with stillbirth. Emma Hansen is 39 weeks and 6
days pregnant when she feels her baby go quiet inside of her. At
the hospital, her worst fears are confirmed: doctors explain that
her baby has died, and she will need to deliver him, still. Hansen
gives birth to her son, Reid, amidst an avalanche of grief. Nine
days later, she publishes a candid essay on her website sharing
photos from the delivery room. Much to her surprise, her essay goes
viral, sparking positive reactions around the world. Still shares
what comes next: a struggle with grief and confusion alongside a
desire to better understand stillbirth, which is experienced by
more than two million women annually, but rarely talked about in
public. At once honest, brave, and uplifting, Still is about one
woman's search for her own definition of motherhood, even as she
faces one of life's greatest challenges: learning to live after
loss.
"A bold attempt to portray the greyness of growing up without roots
or identity, cast adrift in an uncomprehending and uncertain
world." Caroline Moorehead, Times Literary Supplement. March, 1945.
The ravaged face of London will soon be painted with victory, but
for Sylvie, the private battle for peace is just beginning. When
one of her twins is stillborn, she is faced with a consuming grief
for the child she never had a chance to hold. A Small Dark Quiet
follows a mother as she struggles to find the courage to rebuild
her life and care for an orphan whom she and her husband, Gerald,
adopt two years later. Born in a concentration camp, the orphan's
early years appear punctuated with frail speculations, opening up a
haunting space that draws Sylvie to bring him into parallel with
the child she lost. When she gives the orphan the stillborn child's
name, this unwittingly entangles him in a grief he will never be
able to console. His own name has been erased, his origins blurred.
Arthur's preverbal trauma begins to merge with the loss he carries
for Sylvie, released in nightmares and fragments of emerging
memories to make his life that of a boy he never knew. He learns
all about 'that other little Arthur', yearning both to become him
and to free himself from his ghost. He can neither fit the shape of
the life that has been lost nor grow into the one his adopted
father has carved out for him. As the novel unfolds over the next
twenty years, Arthur becomes curious about his Jewish heritage, but
fears what this might entail - drawn towards it, it seems he might
find a sense of communion and acceptance, but the chorus of
persecutory voices he has internalised becomes too overwhelming to
bear. He is threatened as a child with being sent back where he
belongs but no one can tell him where this is. He wanders as an
adult looking for purpose but is unable to find his place. Feeling
an imposter both at home and in the city, Arthur's yearning for
that sense of belonging echoes in our own time. Meeting Lydia seems
to offer Arthur the opportunity to recast himself, yet all too soon
he is trapped in a repetition of what he was trying to escape. A
past he can neither recall nor forget lives on within him even as
he strives to forge a life for himself. Survival, though, insists
Arthur keeps searching and as he opens himself to the world around
him, there are flashes of just how resilient the human heart can
be. Through Sylvie's unprocessed grief and Arthur's acute sense of
displacement, A Small Dark Quiet explores how the compulsion to
fill the empty space death leaves behind ultimately makes the
devastating void more acute. Yet however frail, the instinct for
empathy and hope persists in this powerful story of loss, migration
and the search for belonging.
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