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Since the rise in deaths through Covid-19, there has been an
increase in the need for personal, heartfelt ceremonies to
celebrate the end of life. More and more people are questioning
traditional ideas and realising that there are choices out there.
Drawing upon her years of experience in working in the funeral
industry, Sarah Chapman uniquely collates all the key information
needed into a single comprehensive resource. This must-have guide
will holistically support you from the moment someone dies to their
funeral, while also empowering you to plan your own end-of-life
care and ceremony. This step-by-step guide will take away the fear
and uncertainty you may feel when faced with arranging the funeral
of a loved one. It gives you back control in creating a fitting
ceremony to celebrate their life, while also providing you with the
tools to plan your own funeral in a way that is unique to you. It
will help you to decide on the legacy you would like to leave for
future generations, and you may even decide to plan your own living
ceremony before you die.
Based on Alan Wolfelt's six needs of mourning and written to pair
with "Companioning the Grieving Child", this thorough guide
provides hundreds of hands-on activities tailored for grieving
children in three age groups: preschool, elementary, and teens.
Through the use of readings, games, discussion questions, and arts
and crafts, caregivers can help grieving young people acknowledge
the reality of the death, embrace the pain of the loss, remember
the person who died, develop a new self-identity, search for
meaning, and accept support. Sample activities include grief sock
puppets, expression bead bracelets, the nurturing game, and writing
an autobiographical poem. Activities are presented in an
easy-to-follow format, and each has a goal, an objective, a
sequential description of the activity, and a list of needed
materials.
'A beacon of hope in a dark world' Cathy Rentzenbrink, The Pool One
night in November 2015, when Antoine Leiris was at home looking
after his baby son, his wife Helene was killed, along with 88 other
people, at the Bataclan Theatre in Paris. Three days later, Antoine
wrote an open letter to his wife's killers on Facebook. He refused
to be cowed or to let his baby son's life be defined by their acts.
'For as long as he lives, this little boy will insult you with his
happiness and freedom,' he wrote. Instantly, that short post caught
fire and was shared thousands of times around the world. An
extraordinary and heartbreaking memoir, You Will Not Have My Hate
is a universal message of hope and resilience in our troubled
times.
'Compelling reading' - Alison Weir 'A fresh and admirably
unsentimental account' - Peter Marshall The voyage of the Mayflower
in 1620 has come to typify those qualities that many believe
represent the best of America and the values it holds up to the
rest of the world. And yet, if they lived today, the courageous
men, women and children who made that journey would not recognize
themselves in the romantic retelling of their story in popular
books and movies of the last century or so. So what were the
motivating forces behind this momentous voyage? Derek Wilson strips
away the over-painting from the icon to discover the complex range
of religious, political and commercial concerns that led this group
of hopeful but fallible human beings to seek a new life on the
other side of the world.
In Radical Acts of Love, Janie Brown, oncology nurse of thirty
years and counsellor of cancer patients with terminal diagnoses,
recounts twenty conversations she has had with the dying; including
those personally close to her. Each conversation uncovers a
different perspective and experience of death, while at the same
time exploring its universalities. As well as offering an extremely
sensitive and wise insight into our final moments, Brown offers
practical ways to facilitate the shift from feeling helpless about
death to feeling hopeful; from fear to acceptance; from feeling
disconnected and alone, to becoming part of the wider, collective
story of our mortality.
A Columbia University physician comes across a popular medieval
text on dying well written after the horror of the Black Plague and
discovers ancient wisdom for rethinking death and gaining insight
today on how we can learn the lost art of dying well in this wise,
clear-eyed book that is as compelling and soulful as Being Mortal,
When Breath Becomes Air, and Smoke Gets in Your Eyes. As a
specialist in both medical ethics and the treatment of older
patients, Dr. L. S. Dugdale knows a great deal about the end of
life. Far too many of us die poorly, she argues. Our culture has
overly medicalized death: dying is often institutional and sterile,
prolonged by unnecessary resuscitations and other intrusive
interventions. We are not going gently into that good night--our
reliance on modern medicine can actually prolong suffering and
strip us of our dignity. Yet our lives do not have to end this way.
Centuries ago, in the wake of the Black Plague, a text was
published offering advice to help the living prepare for a good
death. Written during the late Middle Ages, ars moriendi--The Art
of Dying--made clear that to die well, one first had to live well
and described what practices best help us prepare. When Dugdale
discovered this Medieval book, it was a revelation. Inspired by its
holistic approach to the final stage we must all one day face, she
draws from this forgotten work, combining its wisdom with the
knowledge she has gleaned from her long medical career. The Lost
Art of Dying is a twenty-first century ars moriendi, filled with
much-needed insight and thoughtful guidance that will change our
perceptions. By recovering our sense of finitude, confronting our
fears, accepting how our bodies age, developing meaningful rituals,
and involving our communities in end-of-life care, we can discover
what it means to both live and die well. And like the original ars
moriendi, The Lost Art of Dying includes nine black-and-white
drawings from artist Michael W. Dugger. Dr. Dugdale offers a
hopeful perspective on death and dying as she shows us how to adapt
the wisdom from the past to our lives today. The Lost Art of Dying
is a vital, affecting book that reconsiders death, death culture,
and how we can transform how we live each day, including our last.
Attempting to demythologize the process of dying, Nuland explores how we shall die, each of us in a way that will be unique. Through particular stories of dying--of patients, and of his own family--he examines the seven most common roads to death: old age, cancer, AIDS, Alzheimer's, accidents, heart disease, and strokes, revealing the facets of death's multiplicity.
"It's impossible to read How We Die without realizing how earnestly we have avoided this most unavoidable of subjects, how we have protected ourselves by building a cultural wall of myths and lies. I don't know of any writer or scientist who has shown us the face of death as clearly, honestly and compassionately as Sherwin Nuland does here."--James Gleick
When her brother dies of AIDS and her husband dies of cancer in the
same year, Rosemary is left on her own with two young daughters and
antsy addiction demons dancing in her head. This is the nucleus of
The Art of Losing It a young mother jerking from emergency to
emergency as the men in her life drop dead around her; a
high-functioning radio show host waging war with her addictions
while trying to raise her two little girls who just lost their
daddy; and finally, a stint in rehab and sobriety that ushers in a
fresh brand of chaos instead of the tranquility her family so
desperately needs. Heartrending but ultimately hopeful, The Art of
Losing It is the story of a struggling mother who finds her
way-slowly, painfully-from one side of grief and addiction to the
other.
'Essential reading for anyone who has been through the sadness of a
lost pregnancy' The Times 'Sensitive and insightful' Sunday Times
Style 'This book will be a godsend to any woman going through the
murky devastation that is called miscarriage but feels like
something else entirely: the loss of a baby' Ariel Levy 'A
compassionate, nuanced book that does this very complicated grief
justice' Pandora Sykes 'This book will be the friend to hold your
hand while you navigate your own pathway of grief. I'm so glad it's
here' Elle Wright Beyond Grief also contains interviews with
experts and other women who have experienced losses of their own,
including Elizabeth Day, Leandra Medine Cohen, Melissa Odabash,
Jools Oliver, Alexandra Stedman and Latham Thomas. Pippa Vosper
tragically lost her son Axel in 2017, when she was five months
pregnant, and has since written about miscarriage and baby loss
online and in a series of pieces for Vogue. Beyond Grief:
Navigating the Journey of Pregnancy and Baby Loss is the book she
wishes had been available when her son died. It covers every aspect
of pregnancy and baby loss at any stage, from the practical to the
emotional, with advice from experts and stories from women who have
been through it themselves. Beyond Grief offers both an inclusive
perspective and a guiding hand to anyone who has experienced any
kind of pregnancy loss, as well as those who are trying to support
them through it.
This innovative guide to the chakras explains how grief and trauma
impacts on every level of our being, and provides the tools to help
clients experiencing trauma and grief by influencing, balancing and
nurturing the chakra system. The book provides thorough and clear
explorations of each chakra, their connections to each other, and
tantric ways of working with energy. It features over 100
expressive and experiential exercises to remedy the ill-effects of
grief and trauma, including yoga poses, mudras, pranayama (breath
exercises), journaling, creation of ritual, use of essential oils
and crystals and stones. Drawing on expertise as a licensed
counselor, psychotherapist and yoga therapist, and personal
experience as a bereaved mother, the author shares the teachings,
practices and philosophies of yoga's ancient wisdom in a new way,
and shows how to sustain personal chakra balancing that will
resonate through all areas of life.
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Those Who Remained
(Paperback)
Zsuzsa F Varkonyi; Translated by Peter Czipott; Edited by Patty Howell
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The Funerary International series comprises essential reference
texts for policy-makers, practitioners and academics with an
interest in funerary practices globally. Each book has a country or
region specific focus, addressing a standard framework of questions
to aid comparison. This book sets English and Welsh funerary
practice in its wider legal, national and local governance
framework, including the continuing role of the Church of England.
It provides the historical context for current practice, provides
data on new trends in burial and cremation and examines recent
developments including direct cremation and alkaline hydrolysis. It
provides detail of current practice and includes a detailed
description of a typical funeral, including commemorative practice,
and discussion of funeral costs. Chapters address the legalities
and technicalities of burial and cremation, explaining the concept
of burial rights and the technicalities of grave construction, and
outlining cremation certification requirements and the process of
cremation. This book is a valuable desk-top resource to give a
broader frame of reference for policy makers, and to provide
explanation of key concepts for practitioners who may be new to
this area of work. The text will be of particular value to
academics that may be unfamiliar with the legal, technical and
professional aspects of the funerary industry. The text is fully
referenced, with an additional bibliography of further reading, and
includes illustrations, charts, tables, diagrams and boxed text
including key information.
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