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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Coping with personal problems > Coping with death & bereavement
Where is God in the suffering of a mentally ill person? What
happens to the soul when the mind is ill? How are Christians to
respond to mental illness? In this brave and compassionate book,
theologian and priest Kathryn Greene-McCreight confronts these
difficult questions raised by her own mental illness--bipolar
disorder. With brutal honesty, she tackles often avoided topics
such as suicide, mental hospitals, and electroconvulsive therapy.
Greene-McCreight offers the reader everything from poignant and raw
glimpses into the mind of a mentally ill person to practical and
forthright advice for their friends, family, and clergy. The first
edition has been recognized as one of the finest books on the
subject. This thoroughly revised edition incorporates updated
research and adds anecdotal and pastoral commentary. It also
includes a new foreword by the current Archbishop of Canterbury and
a new afterword by the author.
Shortlisted for Travel Memoir Book of the Year, Edward Stanford
Travel Writing Awards 2020 / Winner - GOLD in Personality of the
Year, SILVER in The Extra Mile Award as well as SILVER in Book of
the Year all in The Great Outdoor Awards 2019 'This uplifting
memoir is testament that in life there are times when there is
nothing for it but to scale that mountain' -The Herald Best Summer
Reads 2019 In 1997, at the age of 24, Sarah lost her mother to
breast cancer. Alone and adrift in the world, she very nearly gave
up hope, but she'd made a promise to her mother that she would keep
going no matter what. So she turned to the beautiful, dangerous,
forbidding mountains of her native Scotland.
In response to increased academic interest in the fields of death
studies, memorial studies, and human and animal studies, Skin,
Meaning and Symbolism in Pet Memorials examines the mourning
rituals which exist between people and their domestic pets. Paying
close attention to the changing role and increased prominence of
the companion animal in the domestic setting, each chapter
considers a different form of companion animal memorialization,
linking modern practices such as tattooing to historical examples
of animal focused memento mori, particularly taxidermy. The final
chapter adopts a forward focus in its provision of a framework for
future studies related to how death and memorialization rituals are
increasingly coming to occupy the digital space. While skin and
touch are the focal points of many encounters explored in the text,
what becomes evident is how the virtual realm is increasingly
intruding into the touch experience. As a result, the posthumous,
online afterlives of pets are set to become a social issue of
increasing significance to the death and mourning experience. This
work meets the needs of academics, post-graduate students and
general readers alike, appealing to anyone with an interest in
death studies, popular culture, tattooing and human and animal
studies.
In THE LIGHT OF THE WORLD, Elizabeth Alexander finds herself at an
existential crossroads after the sudden death of her husband.
Reflecting with gratitude on the exquisite beauty of the intimacy
they shared, grappling with the resulting void, and finding solace
in caring for her two teenage sons, Alexander channels her poetic
sensibilities into rich, lucid prose that universalizes a very
personal quest for meaning and acceptance in the wake of loss. THE
LIGHT OF THE WORLD is both an endlessly compelling memoir and a
deeply felt meditation on the blessings of love, family, art, and
community. For those who have loved and lost, or for anyone who
cares about what matters most, this book is required reading.
How did life begin? How does it end? What happens to those
qualities that make each of us alive as individuals after the
bodies they animated die and disappear? Taking inspiration from Sir
David Attenborough's maxim 'Nature wastes nothing' and drawing on
the wisdom of commentators as varied as NASA astronauts, the Dalai
Lama, existential philosophers, a couple of prescient teenagers and
even an engagingly 'human' gorilla - Hope . . . and the Hedgehog
distils the thinking behind the principal interpretations of
creation, before presenting them to the reader in an easily
digestible summary. This is not a religious book and nor does it
extol religion - rather it offers the same kind of assurance Bear
Grylls presents to his readers. In the same way, it helps unpick
the enduring puzzle that prompted Steve Jobs, creator and
co-founder of Apple, to enigmatically describe death as 'Very
likely the single best invention of life.' Which reinforces the
importance of hope addressed here.
An illustrated journal for meeting grief with honesty and kindness―honoring loss, rather than packing it away.
With her breakout book It’s OK That You’re Not OK, Megan Devine struck a chord with thousands of readers through her honest, validating approach to grief. In her same direct, no-platitudes style, she now offers How to Carry What Can’t Be Fixed―a journal filled with unique, creative ways to open a dialogue with grief itself. “Being allowed to tell the truth about your grief is an incredibly powerful act,” she says. “This journal enables you to tell your whole story, without the need to tack on a happy ending where there isn’t one.”
Grief is a natural response to death and loss―it’s not an illness to be cured or a problem to be fixed. This workbook contains no clichés, timetables, or checklists of stages to get through; it won’t help you “move past” or put your loss behind you.
Instead, you’ll find encouragement, self-care exercises, and daily tools, including:
- Writing prompts to help you honor your pain and heartbreak
- On-the-spot practices for tough situations―like grocery store trips, the sleepless nights, and being the “awkward guest”
- The art of healthy distraction and self-care
- What you can do when you worry that “moving on” means “letting go of love”
- Practical advice for fielding the dreaded “How are you doing?” question
- What it means to find meaning in your loss
- How to hold joy and grief at the same time
- Tear-and-share resources to help you educate friends and allies
- The “Griever’s Bill of Rights,” and much more
Your grief, like your love, belongs to you. No one has the right to dictate, judge, or dismiss what is yours to live. How to Carry What Can’t Be Fixed is a journal and everyday companion to help you enter a conversation with your grief, find your own truth, and live into the life you didn’t ask for―but is here nonetheless.
A Columbia University physician comes across a popular medieval
text on dying well written after the horror of the Black Plague and
discovers ancient wisdom for rethinking death and gaining insight
today on how we can learn the lost art of dying well in this wise,
clear-eyed book that is as compelling and soulful as Being Mortal,
When Breath Becomes Air, and Smoke Gets in Your Eyes. As a
specialist in both medical ethics and the treatment of older
patients, Dr. L. S. Dugdale knows a great deal about the end of
life. Far too many of us die poorly, she argues. Our culture has
overly medicalized death: dying is often institutional and sterile,
prolonged by unnecessary resuscitations and other intrusive
interventions. We are not going gently into that good night--our
reliance on modern medicine can actually prolong suffering and
strip us of our dignity. Yet our lives do not have to end this way.
Centuries ago, in the wake of the Black Plague, a text was
published offering advice to help the living prepare for a good
death. Written during the late Middle Ages, ars moriendi--The Art
of Dying--made clear that to die well, one first had to live well
and described what practices best help us prepare. When Dugdale
discovered this Medieval book, it was a revelation. Inspired by its
holistic approach to the final stage we must all one day face, she
draws from this forgotten work, combining its wisdom with the
knowledge she has gleaned from her long medical career. The Lost
Art of Dying is a twenty-first century ars moriendi, filled with
much-needed insight and thoughtful guidance that will change our
perceptions. By recovering our sense of finitude, confronting our
fears, accepting how our bodies age, developing meaningful rituals,
and involving our communities in end-of-life care, we can discover
what it means to both live and die well. And like the original ars
moriendi, The Lost Art of Dying includes nine black-and-white
drawings from artist Michael W. Dugger. Dr. Dugdale offers a
hopeful perspective on death and dying as she shows us how to adapt
the wisdom from the past to our lives today. The Lost Art of Dying
is a vital, affecting book that reconsiders death, death culture,
and how we can transform how we live each day, including our last.
Since the rise in deaths through Covid-19, there has been an
increase in the need for personal, heartfelt ceremonies to
celebrate the end of life. More and more people are questioning
traditional ideas and realising that there are choices out there.
Drawing upon her years of experience in working in the funeral
industry, Sarah Chapman uniquely collates all the key information
needed into a single comprehensive resource. This must-have guide
will holistically support you from the moment someone dies to their
funeral, while also empowering you to plan your own end-of-life
care and ceremony. This step-by-step guide will take away the fear
and uncertainty you may feel when faced with arranging the funeral
of a loved one. It gives you back control in creating a fitting
ceremony to celebrate their life, while also providing you with the
tools to plan your own funeral in a way that is unique to you. It
will help you to decide on the legacy you would like to leave for
future generations, and you may even decide to plan your own living
ceremony before you die.
In Grief Notes Tony Horsfall charts the first year of his grief
journey since the death of his wife from cancer. Month by month he
tells the unfolding story of walking with and through loss, weaving
this together with biblical teaching on grief and insights gained
from grief counselling. With a poignant mix of honesty and humour,
Tony shares the challenges of rebuilding his life and reflects on
how he has seen God meet his needs as he wrestled with grieving in
a time of lockdown and pandemic. Praise for Resilience in Life and
Faith: 'This book will have a ministry-wide impact.' Dr Laura Mae
Gardner, former International Vice President for Personnel for
Wycliffe Bible Translators and SIL International
When her brother dies of AIDS and her husband dies of cancer in the
same year, Rosemary is left on her own with two young daughters and
antsy addiction demons dancing in her head. This is the nucleus of
The Art of Losing It a young mother jerking from emergency to
emergency as the men in her life drop dead around her; a
high-functioning radio show host waging war with her addictions
while trying to raise her two little girls who just lost their
daddy; and finally, a stint in rehab and sobriety that ushers in a
fresh brand of chaos instead of the tranquility her family so
desperately needs. Heartrending but ultimately hopeful, The Art of
Losing It is the story of a struggling mother who finds her
way-slowly, painfully-from one side of grief and addiction to the
other.
Children with SEND (special educational needs and disabilities),
especially those in special schools, often experience grief at a
much younger age than others, as some of their peers are more
likely to have life-limiting medical conditions. Yet many adults do
not know the best way to support a grieving child with SEND. This
book provides all the resources that educational professionals need
to ensure their community is fully prepared to acknowledge and
support pupil bereavement and loss. Issues covered include
bereavement and loss policies and procedures, an appropriate
curriculum (including the issues of life, death and loss), how to
inform the school community of the death, how to support pupils and
staff with the loss, common signs of grieving and how grief affects
children at different ages and developmental stages, plus
activities and resources to support pupils with their grief. There
is also an extensive appendix with template documents for schools
to use such as draft letters, policies, procedures, curriculum and
lesson ideas.
"Our Lord Jesus Christ is the Conqueror of death, and,
consequently, of the death of our departed ones. Let us say to them
in Him, not 'Farewell,' but 'Until we meet again, beloved spouse,
good parents, dear brother or sister. Until we meet again!'" While
many are now abandoning traditional religious practice, none the
less, the reality of death and questions regarding the afterlife
remain at the forefront of spiritual consciousness. How Our
Departed Ones Live is the answer to those who seek the truth as
expressed through the experience of the Orthodox Church. This
comprehensive book discusses the source of death and mortality, the
inner connection and mutual relationship between the living and the
departed, intercession by the living for the departed, and life
beyond the grave. It will comfort the grieving and inspire all
Christians to strengthen their resolve as they seek first the
Kingdom of God, and His righteousness.
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