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In this groundbreaking and “poignant” (Los Angeles Times) book, David Kessler—praised for his work by Maria Shriver, Marianne Williamson, and Mother Teresa—journeys beyond the classic five stages to discover a sixth stage: meaning.
In 1969, Elisabeth Kübler-Ross first identified the stages of dying in her transformative book On Death and Dying. Decades later, she and David Kessler wrote the classic On Grief and Grieving, introducing the stages of grief with the same transformative pragmatism and compassion. Now, based on hard-earned personal experiences, as well as knowledge and wisdom gained through decades of work with the grieving, Kessler introduces a critical sixth stage: meaning.
Kessler’s insight is both professional and intensely personal. His journey with grief began when, as a child, he witnessed a mass shooting at the same time his mother was dying. For most of his life, Kessler taught physicians, nurses, counselors, police, and first responders about end of life, trauma, and grief, as well as leading talks and retreats for those experiencing grief. Despite his knowledge, his life was upended by the sudden death of his twenty-one-year-old son. How does the grief expert handle such a tragic loss? He knew he had to find a way through this unexpected, devastating loss, a way that would honor his son. That, ultimately, was the sixth stage of grief—meaning.
In Finding Meaning, Kessler shares the insights, collective wisdom, and powerful tools that will help those experiencing loss.
In Losing Alicia, readers not only witness a father's struggle over
the murder of his young, vibrant and beautiful daughter, but they
walk with him through his agonizing grief after one of the most
horrific tragedies in history, September 11, 2001.- Olga Bonfiglio
is a freelance writer and author of Heroes of a Different
StripeUnflinchingly honest, John Titus takes us on a journey from
an unimaginable night of the soul to the realization that as long
as we have faith and love, we are never alone.- David Potorti,
Cofounder, September 11th Families for Peaceful TomorrowsThis book
isn't the government or the media's take on 9/11, it's a father
talking...with all the pain, eloquence and wisdom of a broken
heart. For the real story of 9/11 - the human story - delve into
Losing Alicia. If you read one book about 9/11, make it this one.-
Marianne Williamson, New York Times best-selling author,
international speaker
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Lois Green was a beautiful, vivacious, dark-eyed woman whose life
and words teach how to live with dying. "Death is hidden," she
often said, "and we hurt because of it. My purpose is to bring
death out into the open and share things that have been beneficial
to me." To her death was a normal part of life.Through her work as
a nurse, a licensed social worker, a Crisis counselor, a HIB/AIDS
counselor, and Hospice volunteer, she learned that being aware of
death left a person more open to life. She felt it was her
experiences with the dying, along with the diversity of people she
knew and loved, that taught her to be enthusiastic about life.
There shares Lois's way of living life to the fullest even with an
illness for which there was no cure.
Author's New York Times essay, 'Death, the Prosperity Gospel and
Me' (http://nyti.ms/2k87bUM) was chosen by the newspaper as one of
their top 20 articles of 2016, and was read by millions
'If anyone knows how to be happy and old, it's Hunter. Read a page
before breakfast and two at night, preferably with food'- Michael
Palin. 'As long as I'm alive, I'll be with her, and she'll be with
me.' Hunter Davies on Margaret Forster. Happy Old Me is a moving
yet uplifting account of one year in Hunter Davies' life,
navigating bereavement and finding hope in the future. On 8th
February 2016, Margaret Forster lost her life to cancer of the
spine. The days that followed for her husband, Hunter Davies, were
carried out on autopilot: arrangements to be made, family and
friends to be contacted. But how do you cope after you have lost
your loved one? How do you carry on? As Hunter navigates what it
means to be alone again after 55 years of marriage, coping with
bereavement and being elderly (he still doesn't believe he is), he
shares his wisdom and lessons he has learnt living alone again.
Revealing his emotional journey over the course of one year, as
well as the often ignored practical implications of becoming
widowed, he learns that, ultimately, bricks and mortar may change
but the memories will remain. Part memoir, part self-help, Happy
Old Me is a fitting, heart-felt tribute to the love of his life and
a surprisingly amusing and informative book about an age, and stage
in life, which we might all reach someday. The third book in Hunter
Davies' much-loved memoir series, which includes The Co-Op's Got
Bananas and A Life in the Day.
"Unmet expectations and conflicts arise, when a person is
hurting and doesn't know what they need, and their loved ones don't
know what to say or how to help."
By the time author Erica McNeal was thirty-two years old, she
was already a three-time cancer survivor, and had experienced the
loss of five children, two of which she held in her arms. Those
close to her were not sure of how to console her, and some
well-intended comments only served to hurt Erica and her family in
their healing process.
For example, imagine being diagnosed with a rare form of cancer,
at twenty-two years old, and having your best friend tell you that
she wished she had cancer too, so that people would like her. Or
imagine being pressured to hold a friend's baby-a child that was
born the same day you buried your daughter, in order to "prove your
love" for the couple.
These statements represent only a fraction, and not even the
worst, of the painful words spoken to her family while they
struggled through cancer treatments and grieved the loss of their
children.
"Good Grief " is a book filled with tangible solutions for
determining what to say, what not to say, and what to do, in order
to love others well, through difficult times
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An Unforgettable Story of Life After Death "The cold voice of the
anesthesiologist recited the typical 'count backward from 10'
cadence. Darkness closed around me before he got to 7. That's when
I found out what it's like to die--and to come back from the dead."
It was a beautiful winter's day, showing no signs of what was to
come. Steve Sjogren, pastor of one of America's fastest growing
churches, went into the hospital for routine gall bladder surgery
and died--twice. What began as a tragic medical accident led to
Steve's encounter with death, an experience of unimaginable peace
and some surprises, with comforting words from God, a meeting with
an angel, and seeing those who had died before him. If you, or
someone you know, are fearful of dying, curious about heaven, or
simply desiring to live life to its fullest, this encouraging book
could change how you view life and death.
'A lovely tribute' Joan Baez 'Fascinating' The Dylan Review Izzy
Young was a distinctive figure in the folk music and beatnik world.
He set up the Folklore Center in New York's Greenwich Village,
where Patti Smith, Emmylou Harris and Allen Ginsburg performed, and
he produced Bob Dylan's first show in New York in the 1960s. In
1973, Izzy moved to Sweden, where he opened up a similar cultural
centre. In Stockholm, the young Philomene and her father resided in
the basement of the folklore centre, living a bohemian life, rich
in culture and love. Thirty years later Izzy is fighting dementia.
In a raw and unembellished manner, Philomene depicts the emotional
rollercoaster of losing a beloved parent and a larger-than-life
personality to an invisible, invincible foe. Interspersed are small
moments of joy as the fog briefly parts to allow for a
reconnection. Philomene masterfully intertwines the two timelines
with a beautifully sparse language that vibrates with emotion.
Don't Forget Me is a deeply personal book, yet the story itself is
highly universal.
The Mega Fear affects us all. We fear the unknown, but more so to
the unique and indubitable great certainty: Death, which
necessarily has to happen someday. When? How? How to face it? Why
if it is a Natural question? It seems not to be at all Does the
unconscious fear to Death affects- human behavior? In which ways?
Do the "Organic origins " as a cause of the Current World Chaos?
These questions form at the heart of the refl ections that the
author is inviting us to share. In plain and direct language IO
tackles the current problems that threaten our species permanence
on this errant ship in the universe's immeasurable vastness and
which we call Earth. The concentration of people in absurd and
chaotic megalopolis, the massive pollution in various forms,
climate change, the increasing violence in the world, the
omnipresent nuclear threat, the unemployment increase and poverty,
the lack of respect for Mother Nature, the growing economic and
social inequality that covers the planet. In short, the human
species lives an unprecedented historic moment that urgently needs
and in which we all should participate. IO, concerned about the
current world situation gives the alarm voice, calls us to be
conscious, to refl ect together and to act as a consequence,
unitarily. Let's get involved and commit to action NOW Because we
can't waste time anymore. Each and every one of us travel in the
same boat in which Humanity is on the verge of collapse. Anton-io
Dry Eyes of Innocence is an extraordinary story of courage and
strength in the fight against Leukemia! A chronicle from the
author's viewpoint, as he witnesses a personal transformation
unfold in the last five or six years of his brothers awe-inspiring
battle. Jeffrey was imprisoned from the age of 15 to 37, and then
released into a world foreign to him. As an adult, in free society,
Jeffrey learned the ropes of true manhood and responsibility and
then fell victim to a terminal illness. Growing spiritually and
emotionally while withering physically. Jeff and his family ponder
-- will a matching donor be found in time? Will the transplant be
successfull, or rejected? Will the effects of this physical assault
on his body cause him to succumb? Or, will victory reign? The
author finds himself in transformation from fear to victory,
learning of Jeffrey's Leukemia at the most inopportune time, then
helping his big brother overcome some of the most surreal moments
of life imaginable. One finger in the air from Jeffrey is the
constant reminder of his source of strength. this thug turned
darling, with no internal organs and no self-sustaining breath,
musters the strength to raise one finger and miraculously sing,
"There's not a friend like the lowly Jesus. No, not one.No, not
one!" All of the ward nurses and doctors come running to witness
this miracle! Dry Eyes of Innocence is a must read for anyone
seeking strength in the midst of a storm, anyone searching for
power to transform lives and for an inspiring message from an
unlikely champion! 6 x 9 trade hard cover - 128 pages
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