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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Coping with personal problems > Coping with death & bereavement
Christopher Kerr is a hospice doctor. All of his patients die. Yet
he has tended thousands of patients who, in the face of death,
speak of love, meaning and grace. They reveal that there is hope
beyond cure as they transition to focus on personal meaning. In
this extraordinary and beautiful book, Dr. Kerr shares his
patients' stories and his own research pointing to death as not
purely the end of life, but as a final passage of humanity and
transcendence. Drawing on interviews with over 1,200 patients and
more than a decade of quantified data , Dr. Kerr reveals why
pre-death dreams and visions are remarkable events that bring
comfort and exemplify human resilience. These are not regular
dreams. Described as "more real than real," they frequently include
loved ones long gone and mark the transition from distress to
acceptance. These end-of-life experiences help patients restore
meaning, make sense of the dying process and assist in reclaiming
it as an experience in which they have a say. They also benefit the
bereaved who get relief from seeing their loved ones pass with a
sense of calm closure. Beautifully written with astonishing
stories, this book, at its heart, celebrates the power to reclaim
how we die, while soothing the bereaved who witness their loved
ones go with unqualified grace.
"Pharmakeia (far-mak-i-ah) Greek: the power of witchcraft/sorcery
manifested in drug addiction.
Throughout history drugs were used with the specific intent of
accessing the spirit realm. Today, unknown to most, dark spirits
continue to patrol the perimeter seeking an entrance to the souls
of all who partake of Pharmakeia.
College Freshman Joshua Mitchell's discovery of a shocking family
secret creates a tremendous burden. Its weight proves too much for
him to bear and the results are absolutely tragic. Meanwhile, his
childhood friend, Ashley Wells has begun to feel she is losing a
battle of her own, unable to let go of the pain of that fateful
night. Both choose to fight past and present demons of addiction by
dedicating their seemingly broken lives to helping others.
Behind it all, in the realm of the unseen, the Ruler of Darkness
meets with demonic lords to discuss a threat to one of their
greatest weapons. "Even as Pharmakeia reigns on many nations, there
is an attempt to expose our campaign. We must offer our temptations
with the greatest cunning. And remember the best lie is one told
softly."
'A powerful and honest account of love, grief and starting again,
it's moving and sad, but also surprisingly funny. You'll love it.'
Closer 'Devastatingly honest and deeply moving.' Daily Mail 'As
inspiring as it is heartbreaking.' News of the World 'Gritty,
honest and surprising . . . this moving, warts-and-all real-life
story of a young woman's experience of crippling bereavement and
her desperate attempts to move on is heartbreaking - but manages to
be hopeful and optimistic at the same time.' Heat 'Molloy works
through the seven stages of grief - with added Sambuca shots -
before emerging as a more reflective person . . . While she
probably shouldn't consider a career in the self-help industry, you
can't help but feel glad that the end is also a new beginning.'
London Lite My story begins where most women hope theirs will end -
with a big, white wedding. After all, isn't that how every good
fairy tale finishes? I thought so. And at 23, in love and engaged,
it seemed my 'happy ever after' was secure... That is until the man
of my dreams died three weeks into our marriage. Look at me now: a
23 year old widow. You'd never guess. I've learnt to hide it well.
Because the way I saw it, there were only two options... A) Dress
in black, become a recluse and watch my wedding video on a loop? OR
B) Decide falling in love again is out of the question and choose
an easy, uncomplicated alternative - sex... Funny, powerful, and
painfully honest, WIFE, INTERRUPTED examines the complicated
process of grieving - and proves that sometimes the most
unthinkable things can be the most comforting.
The thrilling new book from Sheila Riley in her Liverpool Saga
series 1916 LIVERPOOL Following the death of her father, Ruby
Swift, and husband Archie finally move back into Ashland Hall. As
the Great War rages, fathers and sons take the King's Shilling and
head off to fight the unknown enemy, not knowing what horrors lie
ahead. With Ned Kincaid in the Navy, Archie signs up to the
volunteer constabulary and nurses Anna Cassidy and Ellie Harrington
enlist to do their bit for King and Country. Soon the true
casualties of war are being brought home in droves, Ruby converts
Ashland Hall into an auxiliary hospital for wounded servicemen.
It's not long before the true cost of war is brought closer to home
and Anna and Ellie enlist in the British Military Nursing Corp and
soon find themselves in the battlefields of France in search of the
truth. But they soon discover more than they bargained for...
Praise for Sheila Riley: 'A powerful and totally absorbing family
saga that is not to be missed. I turned the pages almost faster
than I could read.' Carol Rivers 'A fabulous story of twists and
turns - a totally unputdownable, page turner that had me cheering
on the characters. I loved it!' Rosie Hendry 'A thoroughly
enjoyable, powerful novel' Lyn Andrews 'An enchanting, warm and
deeply touching story' Cathy Sharp 'Vivid, compelling and full of
heart. Sheila is a natural-born storyteller.' Kate Thompson 'This
author knows the Liverpool she writes about; masterly storytelling
from a true Mersey Mistress.' Lizzie Lane
In Losing Alicia, readers not only witness a father's struggle over
the murder of his young, vibrant and beautiful daughter, but they
walk with him through his agonizing grief after one of the most
horrific tragedies in history, September 11, 2001.- Olga Bonfiglio
is a freelance writer and author of Heroes of a Different
StripeUnflinchingly honest, John Titus takes us on a journey from
an unimaginable night of the soul to the realization that as long
as we have faith and love, we are never alone.- David Potorti,
Cofounder, September 11th Families for Peaceful TomorrowsThis book
isn't the government or the media's take on 9/11, it's a father
talking...with all the pain, eloquence and wisdom of a broken
heart. For the real story of 9/11 - the human story - delve into
Losing Alicia. If you read one book about 9/11, make it this one.-
Marianne Williamson, New York Times best-selling author,
international speaker
This is a book that will be a great comfort to those who need it'
Sarah Perry, author of The Essex Serpent and Melmoth
'Unforgettable, necessary. This beautiful book is a map, compass
and ration of courage for anyone arrived in the landscape of sudden
loss. Full of love and learning' Tanya Shadrick In 2017, Sophie
Pierce's life changed forever when her twenty-year-old son Felix
died suddenly and unexpectedly. Thrown into an unimaginable new
reality, she had to find a way to survive. By writing letters to
Felix - composed during walks and swims taken close to his burial
place by the River Dart - Sophie gradually learned how to live in
the landscape of sudden loss, navigating the weather and tides of
grief. The Green Hill collects these letters alongside Sophie's
account of the years following Felix's death, into which she weaves
poignant memories of his life. What results is a deeply moving,
beautifully captured record of how - amid the rivers and rocks of
Dartmoor, and in the sea off the South Devon coast - Sophie was
able to hold on to and nurture her bond with Felix, both in her
mind and through a physical engagement with the landscape: actively
mourning, rather than grieving. This book is a celebration of the
natural world and the role it plays in our lives and relationships,
as well as an examination of how beauty, a sense of place and the
passing seasons can help us contend with our own mortality. Above
all, The Green Hill is one woman's story of navigating through
trauma and loss, and towards a fragile, complicated kind of joy.
Foreword INDIES Book of the Year Award "Eva not breathing. Pray."
That text message was Mel Lawrenz's entry into the harsh reality of
losing his thirty-year-old daughter. Things would never be the
same. How could he and his family cope with this devastating loss?
In this narrative of grief, Pastor Mel Lawrenz chronicles how his
family struggled to survive the sudden death of their beloved
daughter. In raw, vivid episodes, he describes the immediacy of the
pain and the uncertainty of what comes next. In the agony of
traumatic loss, Lawrenz apprehends the realities of love and life
and offers insights on how to navigate our life priorities before
or after tragedy hits. You are not alone. You too can find a way
forward.
'Brown Baby is a beautifully intimate and soul-searching memoir. It
speaks to the heart and the mind and bears witness to our turbulent
times.' - Bernardine Evaristo, author of Girl, Woman, Other How do
you find hope and even joy in a world that is prejudiced, sexist
and facing climate crisis? How do you prepare your children for it,
but also fill them with all the boundlessness and eccentricity that
they deserve and that life has to offer? In Brown Baby, Nikesh
Shukla, author of the bestselling The Good Immigrant, explores
themes of sexism, feminism, parenting and our shifting ideas of
home. This memoir, by turns heartwrenching, hilariously funny and
intensely relatable, is dedicated to the author's two young
daughters, and serves as an act of remembrance to the grandmother
they never had a chance to meet. Through love, grief, food and
fatherhood, Shukla shows how it's possible to believe in hope.
Grief touches everyone of us during our lives and we all struggle
to find ways to deal with it. "Grappling with Grief" looks at
different ways of going through a loss of any kind -- the death of
a partner, parent, friend, the loss of a job, the loss of an unborn
baby. The author draws examples from her experience as a
psychotherapist and counsellor and offers the readers the chance to
learn about different ways of grieving, as well as make them see
that they are not alone in their grief. The language is free of
jargon and the book manages to tackle this difficult subject with
the dignity it deserves. The author also offers practical
information on the "symptoms" of people faced with loss, her view
on the different cycles of grief as well as advice to people close
to a grieving person."The areas I intend to cover are not an
exhaustive look at grieving and mourning but more a number of
reflections drawn from some thirty years of working as a therapist
in a number of different settings. I intend to share with you some
of the lessons that I have learned from being alongside others in
their grief and indeed being with myself in my own. In so doing I
hope that it may shed a little understanding on what may be
happening to you as you grapple with grief. I do not claim that my
observations have the rigor of academic research, they are but
musings informed by years of practice, much training and
reflection." -- From the Introduction
An inspiring, accessible, and empowering grief book for widows on
how to navigate the unique challenges of widow grief and create a
hopeful future. When Kristin Meekhof lost her husband to cancer,
she discovered what all widows learn: the moment you experience the
death of a spouse, you must make crucial decisions that will impact
the rest of your life. But where do you begin when your world is
suddenly turned upside down? This inspiring book on widowhood shows
grieving widows what to expect in those difficult first five years,
and how to deal with the challenges of expectantly losing a life
partner, including: Finances, estates, and medical billsSingle
parenthoodBeing a widow in the workplaceNavigating social
situations by yourselfWith Meekhof's firsthand experience and
gentle understanding, this healing after loss book goes beyond
shining a comforting candle in the darkness of loss. It encourages
those left behind to tackle the tumultuous and painful first five
years and move to a more hopeful future. Praise for A Widow's Guide
to Healing: "A very valuable and practical guide for any woman who
has lost her husband due to an untimely death. Kristin Meekhof's
journey is both inspiring and courageous and something we can all
learn from." -Dr. Deepak Chopra "I'm proud of Kristin Meekhof, who
has written this inspiring and insightful book to help guide widows
through their grief. This book is by an Architect of Change, for
all of us who must deal with grief." - Maria Shriver
From one of our most powerful writers, a work of stunning frankness
about losing a daughter. Richly textured with bits of her own
childhood and married life with her husband, John Gregory Dunne,
and daughter, Quintana Roo, this new book by Joan Didion examines
her thoughts, fears, and doubts regarding having children, illness,
and growing old. Blue Nights opens on July 26, 2010, as Didion
thinks back to Quintana's wedding in New York seven years before.
Today would be her wedding anniversary. This fact triggers vivid
snapshots of Quintana's childhood - in Malibu, in Brentwood, at
school in Holmby Hills. Reflecting on her daughter but also on her
role as a parent, Didion asks the candid questions any parent might
about how she feels she failed either because cues were not taken
or perhaps displaced. 'How could I have missed what was clearly
there to be seen?' Finally, perhaps we all remain unknown to each
other. Blue Nights - the long, light evening hours that signal the
summer solstice, 'the opposite of the dying of the brightness, but
also its warning' - like The Year of Magical Thinking before it, is
an iconic book of incisive and electric honesty.
The Girlfriends Guide to Grief Overview"My loved one just died.
What do I do now?" "My friend just lost her husband. What should I
say to her?" "My husband just left me. How should I feel?"The
Girlfriends Guide to Grief answers these questions and more. This
book helps guide you through this time in your life. It also shows
such things as: Feelings even your best friend can't understandWhat
not to say to a grieving womanFeelings you don't even know you
haveHow to help your loved ones help you
Few experiences can compare to the trauma and pain of losing a
baby; and the wall of silence that often surrounds that loss can
make grieving even harder. Loving You From Here explores the
traumatic impact of losing a baby through stillbirth and neonatal
death. It features the moving stories of multiple families; some
affected recently, some decades ago, but still living with the
loss. This book is a practical guide for grieving parents in the
grips of tragedy, and those around them who want to be able to
offer support. From managing those initial feelings of shock,
grief, guilt and anger, this book will also show families how it is
possible to grow around that grief and eventually form an enduring
bond with their baby. This profound and insightful book will help
everyone impacted by the loss of a baby - before, during or after
birth - including those who have suffered an early or a late
miscarriage and those who have had an ectopic pregnancy, and
provides sensitive and reassuring advice on all aspects of loss and
bereavement, as well as practical advice on how to find a new
normal. This groundbreaking book breaks through the suffocating
silence that surrounds the death of a baby and gives a voice to all
those affected by baby loss.
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