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'Every time I speak to someone and hear about their experiences, it
leaves me with a sense of running's incredible power to help people
overcome pretty much anything.' Each day, millions of people around
the world put on their trainers and try to deal with their personal
demons and life challenges by going for a run. And, increasingly,
they do it knowing that they are not alone: a growing and often
virtual community is right there running alongside them. We are
all, in some sense, running for our lives. Rachel Ann Cullen's
first book, Running for My Life, described her own marathon journey
through depression, bipolar disorder and body dysmorphia, and her
revelatory discovery that running could transform her physical and
mental wellbeing. After hearing from people who had read about her
experiences, Rachel wanted to tell some stories of other runners
from all around the world - ordinary people living with mental
health struggles, grief, cancer and other unavoidable life events
who have relied on running to get them through their worst days and
to keep going. Running for Our Lives shares moving accounts of hope
and resilience; it demonstrates the power of running to help us all
overcome adversity, and is a lesson for us all in learning not only
how to survive life's challenges, but to thrive.
In times of family crisis, medical emergency, or death of a loved
one, there are many questions that must be answered and obligations
that must be met. These are troubling times. Having pertinent
personal, family, and financial information along with a record of
all obligations readily available will help answer questions and
ease the confusion and chaos. This is the who, what, where, when,
and why of personal organizers, keeping information readily
available at a moment's notice. Do you know who to immediately
contact in case of emergency? Do you know what obligations your
loved one has committed to? Do you know where pertinent records and
items of importance are kept? Do you know when to take care of
particular obligations? Do you know why it is important to keep
these records? If you can't answer yes to all these questions and
many, many more, gathering important personal details in one place
is an essential step to take. My Life Personal Organizer is
specifically designed to put important information and contact
information at your fingertips in times of trouble. It can help to
ease the transition of responsibilities and obligations when you
lose or must care for a loved one.
George Jonas is a larger-than-life businessman with a strong
entrepreneurial spirit. He and his wife, Despina, have been living
an idyllic life on Hilton Head Island for five years. But when his
spirited, middle-aged wife suddenly falls ill the morning after
Mother's Day and lies before him-motionless and radiantly
beautiful-George is overcome with a foreboding feeling. His life is
about to change forever.
Despite the doctor's valiant attempts to save Despina through a
complicated surgery, she lapses into a coma. Still full of hope
despite the insurmountable odds that hover over his wife like a
dark cloud, George's grief is boundless when Despina eventually
dies, even as his children, John and D'Ann, rally around him. After
thirty years with his wife, he finds himself desperately alone,
haunted by his memories, and wracked with guilt. As he blindly
embarks down an emotional path of grief that leads him from denial
to rage to eventual acceptance of the inevitable, George learns
more about himself-and his inner strength-than he ever could have
imagined.
"Good Morning, Morning Glory" shares the tale of one man's
intense and powerful journey of self-discovery as he moves from the
depths of despair within hospital corridors to joyful heights atop
Mexico's pyramids.
To watch a child grieve and not know what to do is a profoundly difficult experience for parents, teachers, and caregivers. Yet, there are guidelines for helping children develop a lifelong, healthy response to loss. In When Children Grieve, the authors offer a cutting-edge volume to free children from the false idea of "not feeling bad" and to empower them with positive, effective methods of dealing with loss. There are many life experiences that can produce feelings of grief in a child, from the death of a relative or a divorce in the family to more everyday experiences such as moving to a new neighborhood or losing a prized possession. No matter the reason or degree of severity, if a child you love is grieving, the guidelines examined in this thoughtful book can make a difference.
The title indicates that the book is primarily about love. It begins with the funeral of the author's husband, who was diagnosed with a rare form of leukaemia and died in his early forties. But this is not a morbid tale tale of suffering, nor a predictable book on illness and death.
On a structural level the author's voice is complemented with excerpts from her husband's diary as well as e-mails to friends and her own dreams. The book also integrates conventional practices and new age ideas in such a way that it appeals to people with various viewpoints.
The second half of the book describes several examples of her communication with the deceased, as well as the significance of the numbers 1 and 9 in their marriage. After his death, Marthie travels to Peru to follow the Inca trail. This literal journey is a metaphor for the spiritual journey that unfolds within her and she finds answers to existential questions.
The final image of the story is in the colour of Red, which is the colour of life, love and passion. In Peru, on tour with South Africans and Americans, Marthie is told, via a channel, that Derik wants her to buy herself a present, from him. It had to be something to wrap around her shoulders, it had to be red, and she had to buy it in Peru. The item turns out to be a Red Pashmina. The significance of this, as the closing image, is that the story is about life, about passion and about energy. The need to experience life in all its facets, and to grow.
For the Parents, Siblings, Family members, and close friends who
have come to known the overwhelming sadness after the loss of a
child, the road ahead will prove to be the most difficult travel of
a life time, knowing your lives have changed forever. Within this
book, the authors kind and impathetic ways will hold a promise that
everyone will quickly discover, that first, you're not alone,
secondly, that we will recover with a new perception as all will
ask the number one question "WHY." Grief will begin to evolve to a
healthier self. The daily responsibilities will become less
problematic as each and everyone we be reminded that you life must
continue, all you need do is look within the eyes of a loved one;
there you will recognize that there are so many others who will
need you, depend on you for support, and guidance. The same
guidance the author relates by providing you with the tools to
dissect your human emotions, and then into faith and healing.
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Rusty
(Hardcover)
Judy Duquin
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R616
Discovery Miles 6 160
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Ships in 12 - 19 working days
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It was October when the leaves are in their prettiest colors:
orange, red, yellow and on the ground some brown. Sue sat on the
porch thinking of her childhood and her two children, the games
they played together and the learning they shared. Yes, she had the
good life and was blessed and loved by her children and husband,
Jack. In the background she could hear their son Billy's loud
giggling and their puppy Rusty, barking. The only one she missed
hearing was Anne, their older daughter. Sue knew where Anne was,
especially this time of day on Friday. Anne and Jill, her best
friend, were playing together in her room. She was always playing
with dolls, but then, she was just like Sue when she was little.
Jack was due home from work as she looked at her watch and figured
she'd better go in and start dinner. As she was going in the front
door, the backdoor slammed and a little boy's voice could be heard
yelling. Such joys the children were and after dinner things would
settle down, or she hoped. When dinner was on the table and was
everyone together, meal prayers would be said. How long does it
take to say grace and be thankful? Well, with the knocking on the
door and the doorbell ringing, Sue thought dinner would never begin
especially when each time Jack went to the door and no one was
there. Was it their mind playing tricks on them or was someone
really there? Follow the pranks and comedy in this heartfelt story
of a family with everyday lessons.
Losing a loved one is a scary and confusing event for teenagers,
but one that can be made easier through the use of literature and
informed mentoring from a caring adult. This teacher friendly
reference resource and bibliography provides tools for those who
work with young adults to help them come to terms with the grieving
process. Literacy experts and counseling professionals are uniquely
paired in each chapter to explore specific types of loss and ways
in which professionals can help students to explore their feelings
by reading about those in similar situations. This novel approach
encourages young people to cope with their losses while improving
their literacy skills.
Aware of the many ways in which adolescents can suffer loss,
Allen has chosen a different theme for each chapter. These themes
vary from coping with the death of a parent, to coping with violent
deaths, to coping with an AIDS-related death. Annotated
bibliographies in each chapter provide a wealth of information for
those seeking the materials they need to address these issues, and
original pieces written by young adult authors provide a rich
context from which to work.
As read on BBC Radio 4's 'Book of the Week', a timely, moving and
profound exploration of how writers, composers and artists have
searched for solace while facing loss, tragedy and crisis, from the
historian and Booker Prize-shortlisted novelist Michael Ignatieff.
'This erudite and heartfelt survey reminds us that the need for
consolation is timeless, as are the inspiring words and examples of
those who walked this path before us.' Toronto Star When we lose
someone we love, when we suffer loss or defeat, when catastrophe
strikes - war, famine, pandemic - we go in search of consolation.
Once the province of priests and philosophers, the language of
consolation has largely vanished from our modern vocabulary, and
the places where it was offered, houses of religion, are often
empty. Rejecting the solace of ancient religious texts, humanity
since the sixteenth century has increasingly placed its faith in
science, ideology, and the therapeutic. How do we console each
other and ourselves in an age of unbelief? In a series of portraits
of writers, artists, and musicians searching for consolation - from
the books of Job and Psalms to Albert Camus, Anna Akhmatova, and
Primo Levi - writer and historian Michael Ignatieff shows how men
and women in extremity have looked to each other across time to
recover hope and resilience. Recreating the moments when great
figures found the courage to confront their fate and the
determination to continue unafraid, On Consolation takes those
stories into the present, movingly contending that we can revive
these traditions of consolation to meet the anguish and
uncertainties of the twenty-first century.
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