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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Coping with personal problems > Coping with death & bereavement
The title indicates that the book is primarily about love. It begins with the funeral of the author's husband, who was diagnosed with a rare form of leukaemia and died in his early forties. But this is not a morbid tale tale of suffering, nor a predictable book on illness and death.
On a structural level the author's voice is complemented with excerpts from her husband's diary as well as e-mails to friends and her own dreams. The book also integrates conventional practices and new age ideas in such a way that it appeals to people with various viewpoints.
The second half of the book describes several examples of her communication with the deceased, as well as the significance of the numbers 1 and 9 in their marriage. After his death, Marthie travels to Peru to follow the Inca trail. This literal journey is a metaphor for the spiritual journey that unfolds within her and she finds answers to existential questions.
The final image of the story is in the colour of Red, which is the colour of life, love and passion. In Peru, on tour with South Africans and Americans, Marthie is told, via a channel, that Derik wants her to buy herself a present, from him. It had to be something to wrap around her shoulders, it had to be red, and she had to buy it in Peru. The item turns out to be a Red Pashmina. The significance of this, as the closing image, is that the story is about life, about passion and about energy. The need to experience life in all its facets, and to grow.
In times of family crisis, medical emergency, or death of a loved
one, there are many questions that must be answered and obligations
that must be met. These are troubling times. Having pertinent
personal, family, and financial information along with a record of
all obligations readily available will help answer questions and
ease the confusion and chaos. This is the who, what, where, when,
and why of personal organizers, keeping information readily
available at a moment's notice. Do you know who to immediately
contact in case of emergency? Do you know what obligations your
loved one has committed to? Do you know where pertinent records and
items of importance are kept? Do you know when to take care of
particular obligations? Do you know why it is important to keep
these records? If you can't answer yes to all these questions and
many, many more, gathering important personal details in one place
is an essential step to take. My Life Personal Organizer is
specifically designed to put important information and contact
information at your fingertips in times of trouble. It can help to
ease the transition of responsibilities and obligations when you
lose or must care for a loved one.
For the Parents, Siblings, Family members, and close friends who
have come to known the overwhelming sadness after the loss of a
child, the road ahead will prove to be the most difficult travel of
a life time, knowing your lives have changed forever. Within this
book, the authors kind and impathetic ways will hold a promise that
everyone will quickly discover, that first, you're not alone,
secondly, that we will recover with a new perception as all will
ask the number one question "WHY." Grief will begin to evolve to a
healthier self. The daily responsibilities will become less
problematic as each and everyone we be reminded that you life must
continue, all you need do is look within the eyes of a loved one;
there you will recognize that there are so many others who will
need you, depend on you for support, and guidance. The same
guidance the author relates by providing you with the tools to
dissect your human emotions, and then into faith and healing.
Losing a loved one is a scary and confusing event for teenagers,
but one that can be made easier through the use of literature and
informed mentoring from a caring adult. This teacher friendly
reference resource and bibliography provides tools for those who
work with young adults to help them come to terms with the grieving
process. Literacy experts and counseling professionals are uniquely
paired in each chapter to explore specific types of loss and ways
in which professionals can help students to explore their feelings
by reading about those in similar situations. This novel approach
encourages young people to cope with their losses while improving
their literacy skills.
Aware of the many ways in which adolescents can suffer loss,
Allen has chosen a different theme for each chapter. These themes
vary from coping with the death of a parent, to coping with violent
deaths, to coping with an AIDS-related death. Annotated
bibliographies in each chapter provide a wealth of information for
those seeking the materials they need to address these issues, and
original pieces written by young adult authors provide a rich
context from which to work.
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Judy Duquin
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It was October when the leaves are in their prettiest colors:
orange, red, yellow and on the ground some brown. Sue sat on the
porch thinking of her childhood and her two children, the games
they played together and the learning they shared. Yes, she had the
good life and was blessed and loved by her children and husband,
Jack. In the background she could hear their son Billy's loud
giggling and their puppy Rusty, barking. The only one she missed
hearing was Anne, their older daughter. Sue knew where Anne was,
especially this time of day on Friday. Anne and Jill, her best
friend, were playing together in her room. She was always playing
with dolls, but then, she was just like Sue when she was little.
Jack was due home from work as she looked at her watch and figured
she'd better go in and start dinner. As she was going in the front
door, the backdoor slammed and a little boy's voice could be heard
yelling. Such joys the children were and after dinner things would
settle down, or she hoped. When dinner was on the table and was
everyone together, meal prayers would be said. How long does it
take to say grace and be thankful? Well, with the knocking on the
door and the doorbell ringing, Sue thought dinner would never begin
especially when each time Jack went to the door and no one was
there. Was it their mind playing tricks on them or was someone
really there? Follow the pranks and comedy in this heartfelt story
of a family with everyday lessons.
"This wonderful book shows you how to develop the internal
strength you need to move forward with your life."
-Brian Tracy, author of "Live a Wonderful Life"
"How do I move past the death of my loved one?"
Whether the loss of a loved one is sudden or the result of a
long illness, it is difficult to be prepared for the flood of
emotions that will surely come to those left behind. Throughout her
life, author Cindy Cipriani has had to cope with losing many
special loved ones. Each time, her grief was different. In "Moving
Past: The Death of a Loved One," she offers a simple yet effective
guide through the grieving process to finding peace and happiness
again.
"Moving Past: The Death of a Loved One" offers insight and many
useful tips on self-care and healing for those who are making their
way through a personal loss.
Cipriani describes ten steps that each person experiences as
they journey through grief. Each person takes these ten steps at
his or her own pace. This helpful guidebook is organized to reflect
the various emotional stages chapter by chapter and in several
special passages in the book. Each passage seeks to ease you
through the moment by providing a wise quote, a few thoughts to
ponder, an action step, and a place to journal. Reading a page each
day can assist in formulating a new life strategy by keeping our
loved ones close and keeping them with us always.
Communication experts offer examples and expertise about end-of-life
conversations to inspire, teach, and encourage the reader to have their
own and to grow from them.
Death is one thing we cannot control. We will all face the death of a
loved one. And many, if not most, people in our culture will be
hesitant and unprepared to say goodbye.
The Good Goodbye is meant to help those who must say goodbye to a loved
one who is dying. In it, readers will discover how culture affects
final conversations, and that often the last interactions may not
consist of words but gestures and expressions. They will find examples
from real people interviewed over many years, with themes that include
love, everyday talk, taking care of business, identity messages,
spiritual messages, and healing difficult relationships.
Readers will learn about the positive outcomes of final conversations,
both from the advice of children and the detailed stories of adults who
were changed profoundly in their attitudes and life paths. They will
also see that many people have experienced communication with their
loved one after that loved one has passed. Finally, readers will
discover how others have overcome negativity to engage in the good
goodbye, and how they can improve their own preparedness to have final
conversations.
Anyone who faces the death of a loved one―and that will be all of
us―can gain from reading this book. We have found that hospice workers,
nurses, caregivers, assisted-living personnel, spiritual advisors, and
grief groups are especially interested. But anyone who is walking the
path with someone close who is dying will seek this information and
enjoy the inspiration.
The main message: Be there. Listen. Love. Be grateful for the
opportunity to grow.
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