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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Coping with personal problems > Coping with death & bereavement
The perennial classic: this intimate journal chronicling the Narnia
author's experience of grief after his wife's death has consoled
readers for half a century; this edition features responses from
authors like Hilary Mantel, Francis Spufford, Rowan Williams, Jenna
Bailey ... 'An intimate, anguished account of a man grappling with
the mysteries of faith and love ... Elegant and raw ... A powerful
record of thought and emotion experienced in real time.' Guardian
'Raw and modern ... This unsentimental, even bracing, account of
one man's dialogue with despair becomes both compelling and
consoling ... A contemporary classic.' Observer 'A source of great
consolation ... Lewis deploys his genius for vivid imagery ... It
is a relief for the reader to find that he or she is not alone in
the intense loneliness or feelings of anguish that bereavement
brings.' Henry Marsh, The Times 'Testimony from a sensitive and
eloquent witness [on] 'The Human Condition'. It offers an
interrogation of experience and a glimmer of hardwon hope. It
allows one bewildered mind to reach out to another. Death is no
barrier to that.' Hilary Mantel 'Here, sorrow and despair, the
tiredness and numbness and petulance and nightmarishness of grief,
all have their full, uncontrolled, experienced force ... [Such]
radical openness ... Brilliant.' Francis Spufford *** No one ever
told me that grief felt so like fear. Narnia author C.S. Lewis had
been married to his wife for four blissful years. When she died of
cancer, he found himself alone, inconsolable in his grief. In this
intimate journal, he chronicles the aftermath of the bereavement
and mourning with blazing honesty. He grapples with a crisis of
religious faith, navigating hope, rage, despair, and love - but
eventually regains his bearings, finding his way back to life. A
luminous modern classic, A Grief Observed has offered solace to
countless readers for decades. This companion edition combines the
original text with personal responses from Hilary Mantel, Rowan
Williams, Francis Spufford, Maureen Freely, Kate Saunders, Jessica
Martin and Jenna Bailey. *** What readers are saying: 'A truly
great book - inspirational and untold help.' 'Every human being,
living or dead, understands what Lewis means ... One of the most
valuable books ever written.' 'Lewis, as always, sits down next to
you and validates your grief like a true friend. He lets you rage,
and cry, and even be furious with God, just as he did.' 'If you are
grieving an enormous loss, you may find comfort here ... A great
mind and wonderful writer who understands your grief well enough to
put words to it.' 'His journal was also my journal as I worked
through my own grief. Reading this book was actually comforting in
that I knew that someone else understood my situation and offered
insight and hope ... I highly recommend this book for anyone who
has gone through the death of a loved one or who wants to comfort."
'This little book has had me in floods of tears [and] shows a real
understanding of grief ... To read the words of this great man who
shared and understood my pain and is a life affirming and faith
affirming experience.'
The mourning of a parent's death can take many years--for some it
may take a lifetime. The first year of separation, however, is
often the most difficult and heart wrenching. The first birthday,
holiday, spring, summer, autumn, and winter spent without the loved
one often revives or increases the pain. This unique guide is
organized according to a timeline of a child's first year of
mourning the loss of a parent. It is a warm, insightful, yet
practical guide to help the families and community members
surrounding a child who has suffered such a loss to anticipate and
cope with the many difficulties that arise. Practical suggestions
for providing comfort, information, and advice are provided for
adults struggling to help children endure the trauma. A range of
difficult situations that bereaved children encounter are
identified, helping to prepare adults for a child's potential
reactions and providing them with realistic coping strategies.
Lewis and Lippman, child psychologists who have provided therapy to
children who have lost a parent, suggest answers to questions that
these children frequently ask. They offer methods for dealing with
particularly difficult times such as birthdays, and share practical
advice for everyday situations and events. They begin with helping
the child through anticipation of death, if it is expected, or
through the initial shock of unexpected death. Poignant vignettes
from the therapists' experience dealing with young and older
children are included.
'Absorbing, funny and oh-so-romantic. I loved every page!'When
Lily's husband dies, she moves to the edge of a tiny village,
settling into a solitary life, her only real company her brother
and his family. A quiet life becomes her safe space, with no risk
of getting hurt. When her brother offers her spare room to his
oldest friend, Jack, Lily's reluctant - but knowing how much she
owes her family, can't say no. A lodger takes some getting used to
but to her surprise, Lily begins to enjoy Jack's company. Slowly
but surely, Jack encourages Lily to step outside her comfort zone.
But taking risks means facing the consequences, and telling people
how she really feels, means Lily might have to face losing them.
But as the saying goes - you only live once - and being brave could
mean Lily gets a second chance at love... 'Read yourself happy'
with Maxine Morrey's latest feel-good, unforgettable and utterly
uplifting love story, guaranteed to make you smile. Perfect for
fans of Mhairi McFarlane and Sophie Kinsella. Praise for Maxine
Morrey: 'An uplifting read that stops you in your tracks and makes
you wonder "....but what if?" Absorbing, funny and oh-so-romantic,
I loved every page!' Rachel Burton 'A super sweet read, guaranteed
to warm any winter evening' Samantha Tonge 'A lovely story that
kept me turning the pages' Jules Wake 'A stunning, perfect novel -
it literally took my breath away.' The Writing Garnet, 5 stars 'A
warm hug of a book.' Rachel's Random Reads, 5 stars
A unique approach to understanding and overcoming grief. Bestselling author Raymond Moody and his colleague Dianne Arcangel show how the grieving process can transform our fear and grief into spiritual and emotional growth.
My Number Was Up, Dad," written by Gary and Gabriel Vaught, is the
real life account of a phenomenal sequence of events (that still
occur today) following the death of the family's eighteen-year old
son, Gabriel. Gabriel died suddenly and tragically while attending
college in Chicago, Il, from symptoms associated with Type-One,
(Insulin Dependent) Diabetes. The entire event was a mystery for
two short days until their son contacted them from the afterlife to
explain his death, his departure from the earth, his amazing
revelations and observations of and from heaven. This Fisher's,
Indiana, family could have never imagined a more tragic or
startling turn of events in their life. From experiencing the grief
of the horror of hearing of their son's mysterious death, to the
channeled communications that occurred in a leisurely dialogue that
reinforces his existence in the afterlife, (proving the "Afterlife
Consciousness" theory) through Spirit communications. Numerous
conversations subsequently have occurred bringing Light to the
Vaught's of what each individual can expect to learn here and
hereafter. The journey is laid out in an easy to understand process
that bears witness to why each human being lives here and
hereafter. The story is a tragedy turned into a triumphant joy for
Gary, producing an inner peace that brings him now to the threshold
of an entirely new and different life. He spends each moment now
walking with Christ. Serving God in instructional and guided ways
that help humans better understand their true Spiritual awakening,
he discusses anyone's abilities to communicate with Spirit for
guidance or joyous purposes, through conscious awareness and
practice. The significance ofthe messages, serve to inspire faith
and awareness, and are insightful, as they raise one's
consciousness beyond customary routine thinking. This book offers
hope to anyone and everyone that has ever lost a loved one,
especially a child, that our loved ones are indeed here with us,
always
If someone you love dies or you suffer a profound loss of a deep
relationship, a career, or a physical ability, this is a book you
must have. Grief is not a disease. It is an opportunity to look
deeply at your life and create a new life for yourself. The example
of the author's own journey will encourage you to take sufficient
time to move through the grief slowly and patiently in the face of
our "quick fix" society. The author invites you to find your own
answers to these important questions: What is my role in the world
now? How do I bring healing to my life? Will I experience peace and
joy once again? www.AuthorHouse.Com BM25509
In October 2010 the authors became exclusive providers of grief-
and grief-recovery-related content on a memorial website called
Tributes.com, a site that receives approximately three million
unique hits per month, and to which readers submit very personal
and unique grief-related questions. Collected in this book are not
only a bounty of personal and often moving questions but also the
authors' equally compelling responses and tips for using the Grief
Recovery Method to deal with broken hearts. The book not only deals
with grief from loss of a loved one, but also the grieving that
occurs following a divorce, a sudden downturn in health, the loss
of a job, and even the loss of faith.
In what was the most devastating event of their lives, Tom and
Pat Monahan lost their nine-year-old grandson, Tommy, in a house
fire in December of 2007. This unimaginable tragedy rocked their
lives with pain and sorrow beyond description, of a kind and
strength they had never dreamed of.
As a way of dealing with this unspeakable grief, Pat Monahan
practiced what she preached as a professional bereavement
counselor: she began journaling her feelings to work through the
pain. Following the depression that comes with grief, she realized
that this process was a major key to lifting her depression. In
hopes of helping others whose faith has been shattered following
the loss of a loved one, Pat presents her recorded thoughts and
struggles in "To Thee We Do Cry."
She describes the impact her grandson Tommy's life and death had
on the entire community of Staten Island; she also emphasizes the
importance of coping with the struggle with spirituality while
faced with such trauma. In the end, it is faith that will guide
someone suffering from a loss back to living a full life once
more.
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