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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Coping with personal problems > Coping with death & bereavement
In 1985, when a small freckle on Fanny Gutierrez's cheek grew to
the size of a quarter and turned dark brown, the young mother
sought medical advice. She soon learned she had malignant melanoma,
an aggressive form of skin cancer.
In "Until the End," her husband, author Jesus L. Gutierrez,
shares her battle with cancer and how the diagnosis and treatment
affected Fanny, Jesus, and their two young sons. It narrates the
family's very real and vivid personal experiences to show how the
psychological dynamics influenced them during the nine long and
uncertain years of their cancer battle. This memoir provides
insight into this particular form of cancer and shows how patients
can serve the scientific community by being pioneers in the search
for a cure.
"Until the End" pays tribute to Fanny and demonstrates the deep
love she held for her husband and her children. It communicates the
life-and-death decisions she made in regard to her health in order
to extend her longevity. Most of all, it describes how she never
lost her willingness to fight against the disease until the end.
"?By writing about this distressing experience, Jesus has
remarkably transformed the death of his wife Fanny from a private,
tragic event to an instrument to end his suffering and sorrow. At
the same time, he has used it as a testimony to help others to
fight this terrible disease called cancer.?" ?Foreword from Dr.
Enrique Zuniga del Campo, Psychoanalyst
When Rosemary Pavey-Snell's husband died of cancer, her world
was shattered. Despite being a counsellor and psychotherapist
herself, she had no way to prepare for something so terrible.
But she remembered what her husband, Allan, always used to say
before going to bed: "It will be all right in the morning." Most of
the time, he was right.
She remembered those words often, but she still experienced the
same thoughts and feelings as anyone else who loses someone
special. At times, she was in denial. She called upon her faith for
strength. She found it difficult to ask others for help.
Regardless of whether you are suffering from a loss, counselling
someone, or just trying to be a good friend, this personal journey
through grief offers hope that mourning may eventually turn to
joy.
"Rosemary Pavey-Snell gives us a poignant and, at times,
heart-rending account of her own grieving after the unexpectedly
early death of her beloved husband. From this experience she then
provides an invaluable resource for counselors and pastoral workers
who find themselves involved in the accompaniment of the bereaved.
This is self-revelatory writing at its best and will be an
invaluable aid to all those who have the privilege of walking
alongside those in grief. It will also be a sure comfort for those
who are themselves struggling with the absence of a much-loved
companion." -Brian Thorne, emeritus professor of counselling,
"University of East Anglia," Lay Canon of Norwich Cathedral
Would you like to make contact with your deceased loved ones? You
can. Through three simple steps the author guides you through the
understanding and recommended method for contacting those who have
died. This book is for anyone of any belief who would like to reach
out to the dead. Apart from guidance to contact the dead, the
author shares some of his own moving story and eye-opening insights
that have lead him to share his knowledge. The author is an
ordained minister with over 14 years of multi-cultural experience
in dealing with bereavement. In recent years he has guided a
growing number of people who wish to contact their deceased loved
ones and is rated as one of the top experts by the hundreds who
have contacted him for guidance. You really can contact your
deceased loved ones and this book tells you how to do it.
It is heartbreaking to learn that your loved one has experienced a
miscarriage or molar or ectopic pregnancy. Be it a friend, child or
your own partner, it can be hard to know what to say, or how best
you can help. Should you mention the baby or avoid all topics that
relate to children? How can you be there for your partner as they
grieve, while dealing with your own emotions? What if you're
pregnant and it's your best friend that has experienced a loss?
What if you say the wrong thing? This accessible guide provides
evidence-based advice on supporting someone after a miscarriage,
ectopic or molar pregnancy. Clare Foster draws upon her personal
experience and that of other women and partners, as well as
extensive research, to provide you with the knowledge and practical
advice you need to help your loved one. The National Director of
the Miscarriage Association, Ruth Bender-Atik, has written a
foreword.
Die geliefde skrywer Dana Snyman deel sy waarnemings en belewenisse van die vreemdste tye wat ons nog beleef het: Die boek begin triomfantelik met die Springbokke wat die Rugbywêreldbeker wen, en toegejuig word tydens optogte deur die hoofstede van ons land. Maar baie vinnig verander alles. Die koronavirus slaan toe, en die hele wêreld word onderstebo gekeer. “Dinge is anders nou, meneer, in die tyd van die gif,” soos ’n ou oom by die plaaslike kafee vir Dana vertel.
Dana beskryf die eerste veertig dae van die eerste inperking; dan ry hy trein om sy sterwende vriend in Gauteng te gaan groet. Hy skryf oor die treinrit, en ook oor die treine wat nie meer ry nie. Laastens praat hy met die mense wat die grootste gevaar loop ter wille van ander – die dokters en verpleegsters wat die siekes versorg. Dan kry hy self ook Covid19.
Dana se kenmerkende fyn waarneming maak In Die Tyd Van Die Gif ’n leesmoet. Daar is pyn en verlies, maar ook geloof en hoop. Dit alles met ’n goeie skeut humor.
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