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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Coping with personal problems > Coping with death & bereavement
'A much needed book on this difficult and often unspoken loss, that
of early pregnancy ... both illuminating and consoling.' Julia
Samuel, author of Grief Works It estimated that one in four
pregnancies end in miscarriage and yet it persists as taboo. In The
Brink of Being, a groundbreaking and essential book,
psychotherapist Julia Bueno encourages us to talk about, think
more, and reflect upon this often misunderstood, and little
discussed event. Drawing on her personal experience of miscarriage,
stories from her consulting room, and interviews with medical
professionals and researchers, Bueno provides history, context and
consolation for anyone who has been through pregnancy loss, or
wants to know how to help someone who has. Bueno also investigates
miscarriage in terms of how we respond to women's bodies and
reproductive health, our attitudes to birth and death, and how we
can - and should - encourage more curiosity and candid
conversations, in order to better support the many affected by this
loss. 'Intelligent, sensitive, and utterly candid ... It's the sort
of book that women have long been searching for, and it feels like
real progress. I'm so thankful she wrote it' Meaghan O'Connell,
author of And Now We Have Everything
Sandy Peckinpah's sixteen-year old son woke up with a fever and
was dead the next morning of bacterial meningitis... her life
changed forever.She found herself in the depths of unimaginable
despair. Then, someone gave her a journal, and writing opened her
journey of self-discovery in learning how to live life without her
beautiful child. Words illuminated her path of discovery and she
began to document the things that helped her, and others like her,
to find resilience. This is a practical, inspirational guide to
coping with the many facets of bereavement; learning how to talk
about your loss, the aftermath of sorrow, handling fear and anger,
helping your living children adjust, strengthening your marriage,
experiencing miracles, and the promise that you will regain a
quality of life where you'll feel joy once again.If you've lost a
child or know someone who has, Sandy's story is one you'll relate
to and find comfort in knowing you're not alone.
Darlene Machtan, author of "Conversations With My Mother," shares
heartfelt, intimate, and often humorous one-sided conversations
with her deceased mother. The topics are so universal that grieving
adult children will easily relate and find comfort.
The issues of: carrying on new family responsibility and roles
major conflicts among siblings a parent's remarriage and the
decline and death of other significant individuals
are all "discussed" between mother and daughter with such
honesty and emotion the reader seems to be an integral part of that
conversation.
Stories of love, laughter, disagreements, dancing, friendships,
and futures will leave readers answering Machtan's question .,."or
is it only in our family that such stories abound?" with a
resounding, "No."
Just as On Death and Dying taught us the five stages of death - denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance - Dr Elisabeth Kiibler-Ross and David Kessler's landmark On Grief and Grieving applies these stages to the grieving process and weaves together theory, inspiration and practical advice, including sections on sadness, hauntings, dreams, isolation and healing.
This new edition celebrates the life and work of Dr Elisabeth Kiibler-Ross a decade after her death and features a new foreword by Maria Shriver, who reflects on the legacy of On Grief and Grieving and the important role the book has played in her life.
On Grief and Grieving is a rich trove for anyone experiencing grief - a beacon shedding light, comfort and hope.
"So..What's Next?" is a compilation of interviews of ordinary
people (ordinary meaning no any specific training in death or
dying) and what they think happens after death. Perhaps equally as
important, is "why" we believe and hope as we do. This book is not
a study. It is simply a description of hopes and beliefs that there
will be some sort of a reconnection with those we have loved and
lost. Reflections in this book are from people who range in age
from 16 to 93. Age does not seem to be significant in
life-after-death thoughts. Religion does not necessarily appear to
be the driving factor in thoughts of life- after-death. It's about
loving and missing our friends and relatives that we want
deperately to see again. Our thoughts and faith are our only hope.
For the most part, this book is happy, inspirational and full of
hope that life on this earth is only the beginning.
As read on BBC Radio 4's 'Book of the Week', a timely, moving and
profound exploration of how writers, composers and artists have
searched for solace while facing loss, tragedy and crisis, from the
historian and Booker Prize-shortlisted novelist Michael Ignatieff.
'This erudite and heartfelt survey reminds us that the need for
consolation is timeless, as are the inspiring words and examples of
those who walked this path before us.' Toronto Star When we lose
someone we love, when we suffer loss or defeat, when catastrophe
strikes - war, famine, pandemic - we go in search of consolation.
Once the province of priests and philosophers, the language of
consolation has largely vanished from our modern vocabulary, and
the places where it was offered, houses of religion, are often
empty. Rejecting the solace of ancient religious texts, humanity
since the sixteenth century has increasingly placed its faith in
science, ideology, and the therapeutic. How do we console each
other and ourselves in an age of unbelief? In a series of portraits
of writers, artists, and musicians searching for consolation - from
the books of Job and Psalms to Albert Camus, Anna Akhmatova, and
Primo Levi - writer and historian Michael Ignatieff shows how men
and women in extremity have looked to each other across time to
recover hope and resilience. Recreating the moments when great
figures found the courage to confront their fate and the
determination to continue unafraid, On Consolation takes those
stories into the present, movingly contending that we can revive
these traditions of consolation to meet the anguish and
uncertainties of the twenty-first century.
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Unthinkable Dreams
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Yeshaya Douglas Ballon; Foreword by Malka Drucker, Nadya Gross
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'Vincent van Gogh's last words: La tristesse durea--the sadness
will never go away. It will not go away. But it will change.'
Sometimes grief can be overwhelming --especially over the holidays.
The world is moving forward and celebrating life, but for grievers
darkness pervades the holiday.This special gift book edition of
bestseller A Decembered Grief is designed to guide you on a journey
beyond that darkness and get out on the other side. You will learn
that the holidays aren t about presents or cookies or church
services-- they are about relationships. Harold Ivan Smith will
teach you how to alter traditions instead of abandoning them,
appreciate the grief styles of others, and befriend your grief
instead of dread it. The holidays can be tough. This book can help.
A guide to surviving the loss of a mate with practical exercises to
gain greater insight into this agonizing, yet necessary personal
journey.
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Dying Well
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Richard Reoch
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Surrounded by Angels shares the deeply compelling story of a
mother, father, and their tiny baby daughter, and their journey
through grief and eventual acceptance of comfort in the face of
death. In December 2004, Angela Amoroso and her husband Drew
suffered an unimaginable loss. Their prematurely-born infant
daughter, Isabella, dressed in a tiny snowflake outfit, died from
Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) while in Angela's arms. As the
horrible news spread, Angela and Drew could barely function as they
tried to come to grips with the tragedy. Eventually, they worked
their way far enough down the path of grief to realize that
Isabella's passing could fulfill a deep calling for them to help
others. Becoming stronger each day, they continued to make
Isabella's premature birth and transition into eternal life an
opportunity bring deeper meaning into both their lives as well as
the lives of others. Their inspiring story will teach anyone
suffering a loss to accept that love knows no bounds. Baby
Isabella's life ended much too quickly, but her short life left an
enduring message. Every time a lonely soul realizes that all things
are possible, even in the face of heartbreak and unthinkable loss,
her spirit lives on.
A stunning literary memoir from an exceptional Irish writer and
comedian Marise was nine when she first realized there was trouble,
14 when her Dad tried to end it all, and 23 when he finally
succeeded. In a turmoil of conflicting emotions Marise runs - from
Dublin to Amsterdam to Los Angeles, leaving a trail of sex and
self-destruction in her wake. Until finally, she finds herself
facing what she's become in a California psych ward, a girl
imploding through trying to make sense of her father's suicide. As
she retells her unravelling, from child to adult, Marise strips
back her identity and her relationship with her father, layer by
layer, until she starts to understand how to live with him, years
after he has gone. Written beautifully, with wit and unflinching
honesty, Marise has produced one of the most profound coming-of-age
memoirs of recent years, a stunning new voice in Irish writing.
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