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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Coping with personal problems > Coping with death & bereavement
Bristol - 1945 The war has ended; the men are returning home to
their loved ones, but for some things have changed. Charlotte
Hennessey-White's husband, David is no longer the gentle loving man
he once was and Charlotte, so independent during the war, is
devastated. Edna Burbage's strong fiancee, Colin has suffered
appalling physical injuries. He won't hold her to her promise of
marriage, but she insists her feelings are unchanged. But is that
true? Is she marrying him out of love or pity? And Polly Chandler's
sweetheart, Gavin who'd she'd planned her whole future around,
hasn't come home at all. War and suffering have changed their men
leaving the women to cope on their own. But they too are changed.
They harbour secrets best kept that could do untold damage to these
already fragile lives. Praise for Lizzie Lane: 'A gripping saga and
a storyline that will keep you hooked' Rosie Goodwin 'The Tobacco
Girls is another heartwarming tale of love and friendship and a
must-read for all saga fans.' Jean Fullerton 'Lizzie Lane opens the
door to a past of factory girls, redolent with life-affirming
friendship, drama, and choices that are as relevant today as they
were then.' Catrin Collier 'If you want an exciting, authentic
historical saga then look no further than Lizzie Lane.' Fenella J
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Lois Green was a beautiful, vivacious, dark-eyed woman whose life
and words teach how to live with dying. "Death is hidden," she
often said, "and we hurt because of it. My purpose is to bring
death out into the open and share things that have been beneficial
to me." To her death was a normal part of life.Through her work as
a nurse, a licensed social worker, a Crisis counselor, a HIB/AIDS
counselor, and Hospice volunteer, she learned that being aware of
death left a person more open to life. She felt it was her
experiences with the dying, along with the diversity of people she
knew and loved, that taught her to be enthusiastic about life.
There shares Lois's way of living life to the fullest even with an
illness for which there was no cure.
'Fascinating... life affirming' Times Literary Supplement 'Without
exaggeration, an awe-inspiring achievement' Nigella Lawson Chosen
as an Irish Times Book of the Year In this profoundly moving and
remarkable book, journalist Hayley Campbell explores society's
attitudes towards death, and the impact on those who work with it
every day. 'If the reason we're outsourcing this burden is because
it's too much for us,' she asks, 'how do they deal with it?' Would
facing death directly make us fear it less? Inspired by her own
childhood fascination with the subject, she meets embalmers and a
former death row executioner, mass fatality investigators and a
bereavement midwife. She talks to gravediggers who have already dug
their own graves and questions a man whose job it is to make crime
scenes disappear. Through Campbell's incisive and candid interviews
with people who see death every day, she asks: Does seeing death
change you as a person? And are we all missing something vital by
letting death remain hidden? 'Moving, funny, and liable to
unexpectedly cause me to tear up' Neil Gaiman 'Essential,
compassionate, honest' Audrey Niffenegger
A deeply moving reflection on what matters to us most as we approach the end of life.
Internationally renowned psychiatrist and author Irvin Yalom has devoted his career to counselling those suffering from anxiety and grief. But never had he faced the need to counsel himself until his wife, esteemed feminist author Marilyn Yalom, was diagnosed with cancer. In A Matter Of Death And Life, Marilyn and Irvin share how they took on profound new struggles: Marilyn to die a good death, Irvin to live on without her.
In alternating accounts of their last months together and Irvin's first months alone, they offer us a rare window into coping with death and the loss of one's beloved. The Yaloms had rare blessings - a loving family, a beautiful home, a large circle of friends, avid readers around the world, and a long, fulfilling marriage - but they faced death as we all do. With the candour and wisdom of those who have thought deeply and loved well, they investigate universal questions of intimacy, love, and grief.
Informed by two lifetimes of experience, A Matter Of Death And Life offers poignant insights and solace to all those seeking to fight despair in the face of death, so that they can live meaningfully.
"Unmet expectations and conflicts arise, when a person is
hurting and doesn't know what they need, and their loved ones don't
know what to say or how to help."
By the time author Erica McNeal was thirty-two years old, she
was already a three-time cancer survivor, and had experienced the
loss of five children, two of which she held in her arms. Those
close to her were not sure of how to console her, and some
well-intended comments only served to hurt Erica and her family in
their healing process.
For example, imagine being diagnosed with a rare form of cancer,
at twenty-two years old, and having your best friend tell you that
she wished she had cancer too, so that people would like her. Or
imagine being pressured to hold a friend's baby-a child that was
born the same day you buried your daughter, in order to "prove your
love" for the couple.
These statements represent only a fraction, and not even the
worst, of the painful words spoken to her family while they
struggled through cancer treatments and grieved the loss of their
children.
"Good Grief " is a book filled with tangible solutions for
determining what to say, what not to say, and what to do, in order
to love others well, through difficult times
Dry Eyes of Innocence is an extraordinary story of courage and
strength in the fight against Leukemia! A chronicle from the
author's viewpoint, as he witnesses a personal transformation
unfold in the last five or six years of his brothers awe-inspiring
battle. Jeffrey was imprisoned from the age of 15 to 37, and then
released into a world foreign to him. As an adult, in free society,
Jeffrey learned the ropes of true manhood and responsibility and
then fell victim to a terminal illness. Growing spiritually and
emotionally while withering physically. Jeff and his family ponder
-- will a matching donor be found in time? Will the transplant be
successfull, or rejected? Will the effects of this physical assault
on his body cause him to succumb? Or, will victory reign? The
author finds himself in transformation from fear to victory,
learning of Jeffrey's Leukemia at the most inopportune time, then
helping his big brother overcome some of the most surreal moments
of life imaginable. One finger in the air from Jeffrey is the
constant reminder of his source of strength. this thug turned
darling, with no internal organs and no self-sustaining breath,
musters the strength to raise one finger and miraculously sing,
"There's not a friend like the lowly Jesus. No, not one.No, not
one!" All of the ward nurses and doctors come running to witness
this miracle! Dry Eyes of Innocence is a must read for anyone
seeking strength in the midst of a storm, anyone searching for
power to transform lives and for an inspiring message from an
unlikely champion! 6 x 9 trade hard cover - 128 pages
Drawing On Grief is a uniquely creative journal and mindful
keepsake which draws on the soothing therapeutic power of drawing
and creativity to help people navigate the pain of bereavement. In
this moving book of self-help through art therapy, author Kate
Sutton draws on her own experiences of losing a loved one to help
others on this difficult journey, presenting guided creative
prompts as well as memories of her own and quotes from others on
the painful topic of loss. By guiding readers through creative
exercises from drawing fond memories together to creating an ocean
of tears with colouring pencils, this book helps people visualise
the pain they are going through, so as to better understand and
navigate their grief. The book also contains written prompts such
as writing a letter to yourself and to your loved one, designed to
help people express the difficult emotions which bereavement
brings. Part self-help book, part memoir, Drawing On Grief
emphasizes the importance of self-care in the grieving process,
allowing people to explore their own feelings through creative
mediums, which can often be easier than trying to express feelings
directly. A modern and insightful approach to the pain of loss,
Drawing On Grief is a sensitive and compassionate guide to help
people look after themselves as they traverse one of life's most
challenging moments. This book is part of the Drawing On... series,
a collection of creative guided journals which help readers explore
difficult topics including anxiety and grief. Also available is
Drawing On Anxiety, a beautifully illustrated interactive journal
tapping into self-help, self-care, mental health and creative
mindfulness.
The thrilling new book from Sheila Riley in her Liverpool Saga
series 1916 LIVERPOOL Following the death of her father, Ruby
Swift, and husband Archie finally move back into Ashland Hall. As
the Great War rages, fathers and sons take the King's Shilling and
head off to fight the unknown enemy, not knowing what horrors lie
ahead. With Ned Kincaid in the Navy, Archie signs up to the
volunteer constabulary and nurses Anna Cassidy and Ellie Harrington
enlist to do their bit for King and Country. Soon the true
casualties of war are being brought home in droves, Ruby converts
Ashland Hall into an auxiliary hospital for wounded servicemen.
It's not long before the true cost of war is brought closer to home
and Anna and Ellie enlist in the British Military Nursing Corp and
soon find themselves in the battlefields of France in search of the
truth. But they soon discover more than they bargained for...
Praise for Sheila Riley: 'A powerful and totally absorbing family
saga that is not to be missed. I turned the pages almost faster
than I could read.' Carol Rivers 'A fabulous story of twists and
turns - a totally unputdownable, page turner that had me cheering
on the characters. I loved it!' Rosie Hendry 'A thoroughly
enjoyable, powerful novel' Lyn Andrews 'An enchanting, warm and
deeply touching story' Cathy Sharp 'Vivid, compelling and full of
heart. Sheila is a natural-born storyteller.' Kate Thompson 'This
author knows the Liverpool she writes about; masterly storytelling
from a true Mersey Mistress.' Lizzie Lane
The Mega Fear affects us all. We fear the unknown, but more so to
the unique and indubitable great certainty: Death, which
necessarily has to happen someday. When? How? How to face it? Why
if it is a Natural question? It seems not to be at all Does the
unconscious fear to Death affects- human behavior? In which ways?
Do the "Organic origins " as a cause of the Current World Chaos?
These questions form at the heart of the refl ections that the
author is inviting us to share. In plain and direct language IO
tackles the current problems that threaten our species permanence
on this errant ship in the universe's immeasurable vastness and
which we call Earth. The concentration of people in absurd and
chaotic megalopolis, the massive pollution in various forms,
climate change, the increasing violence in the world, the
omnipresent nuclear threat, the unemployment increase and poverty,
the lack of respect for Mother Nature, the growing economic and
social inequality that covers the planet. In short, the human
species lives an unprecedented historic moment that urgently needs
and in which we all should participate. IO, concerned about the
current world situation gives the alarm voice, calls us to be
conscious, to refl ect together and to act as a consequence,
unitarily. Let's get involved and commit to action NOW Because we
can't waste time anymore. Each and every one of us travel in the
same boat in which Humanity is on the verge of collapse. Anton-io
In a powerful and intimate memoir, Jackie Hance shares her story of
unbearable loss, darkest despair, and--slowly, painfully, and
miraculously--her cautious return to hope and love. Until the
horrific car accident on New York's Taconic State Parkway that took
the lives of her three beloved young daughters, Jackie Hance was an
ordinary Long Island mom, fulfilled by the joyful chaos of a
household bustling with life and chatter and love. After the
tragedy, she was The Taconic Mom, whose unimaginable loss embodied
every parent's worst nightmare. Suddenly, her lifelong Catholic
faith no longer explained the world. Her marriage to her husband,
Warren, was ravaged by wrenching grief and recrimination. Unable to
cope with the unfathomable, she reinvented reality each night so
that she awoke each morning having forgotten the heartbreaking
facts: that Emma, age 8; Alyson, age 7; and Katie, age 5, were gone
forever. They were killed in a minivan driven by their aunt,
Jackie's sister-in-law, Diane Schuler, while returning from a
camping weekend on a sunny July morning. I'll See You Again
chronicles the day Jackie received the traumatizing phone call that
defied all understanding, and the numbed and torturous events that
followed--including the devastating medical findings that shattered
Jackie to the core and shocked America. But this profoundly honest
account is also the story of how a tight-knit community rallied
around the Hances, providing the courage and strength for them to
move forward. It's a story of forgiveness, hope, and rebirth, as
Jackie and Warren struggle to rediscover the possibility of joy by
welcoming their fourth daughter, Kasey Rose Hance. The story that
Jackie Hance shares for the first time will touch your heart and
warm you to the power of love and hope.
The first of its kind: a compassionate exploration of how men deal
with the deaths of their fathers. With Hope Edelman's Motherless
Daughters, millions of women found comfort in the experiences of
other women who had lost their mothers. But until now, no book has
been available to guide men through what can be an equally
wrenching and life-changing event. Based on a landmark national
survey of 300 men, and in-depth interviews with 70 others,
FatherLoss is the first book that focuses specifically on how sons
cope with the deaths of their dads. Chethik offers rich portraits
of a variety of father-son relationships, and focuses on how the
death of a father affects sons differently, depending on when in
their lives it occurs. He also explores how such cultural figures
as Ernest Hemingway, Dwight Eisenhower, and Michael Jordan were
affected by the loss of their fathers. By weaving together the
poignant experiences of diverse men and the results of his
groundbreaking survey, Chethik offers fresh insight into the unique
male grieving process, encouraging men to share an experience too
many have been conditioned to endure in silence.
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