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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Coping with personal problems > Coping with death & bereavement
Intended for nurses, doctors, midwives, social workers, chaplains,
and hospital support staff, this guide gives caring and practical
advice for helping families grieve properly after losing a child at
birth. As the special needs of families experiencing perinatal loss
are intense and require more than just the bereavement standards in
most hospitals, this handbook offers tips and suggestions for
opening up communication between caregivers and families, creating
a compassionate bedside environment, and helping with mourning
rituals. Encouraging continual grief support, these specific
companioning strategies can help ease the pain of this most
sensitive situation.
Empathy and hope are offered in this book, built on a foundation of
introspection and inspiration. Readers are brought to new
understanding about suicide. Survivors are encouraged to rebuild
lives and put the past where it rightfully belongs: behind them.
Maybe it was a grandparent, or a teacher, or a colleague. Someone older, patient and wise, who understood you when you were young and searching, helped you see the world as a more profound place, gave you sound advice to help you make your way through it.
For Mitch Albom, that person was Morrie Schwartz, his college professor from nearly twenty years ago.
Maybe, like Mitch, you lost track of this mentor as you made your way, and the insights faded, and the world seemed colder. Wouldn't you like to see that person again, ask the bigger questions that still haunt you, receive wisdom for your busy life today the way you once did when you were younger?
Mitch Albom had that second chance. He rediscovered Morrie in the last months of the older man's life. Knowing he was dying, Morrie visited with Mitch in his study every Tuesday, just as they used to back in college. Their rekindled relationship turned into one final "class": lessons in how to live.
Tuesdays with Morrie is a magical chronicle of their time together, through which Mitch shares Morrie's lasting gift with the world.
From the Hardcover edition.
Agnes Meadows, poet: "Leaving Traces " is Mary Pargeter's second
collection, and one which fully embraces life's tragedies, sorrows
and regrets, as well as some of the things that amuse or remind us
of nature's bounty. It is a collection packed with poignant,
emotional images that haunt, staying with you long after you've
read the poems. Evocative and nostalgic are words that spring to
mind over and over again when reading Mary's exquisitely crafted
collection. The common thread linking each of its four parts is
sadness for what was once replete with life and promise, but which
has now passed. There is a ghost-like quality about this writing,
as if each word and phrase is a thread in the writer's rich
tapestry of years and memories, the past an ever-present but remote
reality, all of it imbued with elemental magic and the mystery of
the natural world. Ultimately, I loved the whole collection
because, despite its often painful and nostalgic themes, it was
beautifully written by a poet who has clearly taken a great deal of
time and thought to fine-tune each memory, real or imagined,
allowing us to springboard our own regrets and disappointments.
Well worth a read - a collection not to be ignored.
'A much needed book on this difficult and often unspoken loss, that
of early pregnancy ... both illuminating and consoling.' Julia
Samuel, author of Grief Works It estimated that one in four
pregnancies end in miscarriage and yet it persists as taboo. In The
Brink of Being, a groundbreaking and essential book,
psychotherapist Julia Bueno encourages us to talk about, think
more, and reflect upon this often misunderstood, and little
discussed event. Drawing on her personal experience of miscarriage,
stories from her consulting room, and interviews with medical
professionals and researchers, Bueno provides history, context and
consolation for anyone who has been through pregnancy loss, or
wants to know how to help someone who has. Bueno also investigates
miscarriage in terms of how we respond to women's bodies and
reproductive health, our attitudes to birth and death, and how we
can - and should - encourage more curiosity and candid
conversations, in order to better support the many affected by this
loss. 'Intelligent, sensitive, and utterly candid ... It's the sort
of book that women have long been searching for, and it feels like
real progress. I'm so thankful she wrote it' Meaghan O'Connell,
author of And Now We Have Everything
Anticipation of death or anniversaries of the death of a loved one
can be worse than the actual event. Having said this, it doesn't
mean actual events such as anniversaries of a loved one's death
should not be acknowledged, they should be. Make your own tradition
of memories and celebrate the lives of your loved one in the way
shape and manor that works for you. As time passes, some memories
are still even clearer. Hold on to those times and clear the closet
in your mind of any negative thoughts. You have permission to be
sad as long as you need to be, yet you also have permission to get
on with your own living. Make a list of the things and ideas you
have for your living your life. As you achieve these goals and
cross of your list, add more, do more, and therefore you are
living. This book is definitely a quick read if you choose for it
to be. My wish for you is that you choose to take some time and
invest in your feelings only to unfold yourself. When you start to
take inventory of your soul and priorities, write it and you will
have a reference forever. Think about rainbows, butterflies, and
snowmen.
When doctors at the cancer institute told Jean that Albert had only
minutes to live, she was devastated. Then something miraculous
happened. Jean shares the details of their experience in this book.
Her message takes your faith to another level.
A growing number of people have become aware of the importance of saying, "I love you" and "good-bye" to those on the threshold of death. As human beings, we are all fragile, and the fear of dying is something everyone shares. When we face death, we face an uphill climb to conquer this fear, but it is a journey that can be made successfully, especially with the support of those we love. As a hospice chaplain and spiritual mentor, Garnette Arledge has helped hundreds of people through this time of approaching death, which she refers to as "Angel's Eve." It is a time in which the fear of dying is replaced with the calming presence of "Angels"--the children, parents, partners, and dear friends who fill these last moments with memories and forgiveness. On Angle's Eve is a guidebook for these comforters of the dying. Arledge shares the tools and skills that help make this a time of happiness and fulfillment rather than one of fear and anxiety. Believing that one's final moments are in the hands of the Angels opens up new vistas. When someone you love begins that last journey, you'll want to be one of those Angels. On Angel's Eve, with its message of hope, shows you how.
Some battles will be fought on the Homefront...The war has had a
devastating effect on the Sweet Family with young Charlie Sweet,
lost at sea, presumed dead and bombs falling on nearby Bristol.
Still there is a glimmer of hope on the horizon in the form of Mary
Sweet's upcoming wedding to her Canadian beau. But even that has
failed to rouse their father from his grief. But in London a baby
has been found in a bombed out house, sheltered in the arms of his
dead mother. A child to make life worth living again... Discover
the gripping, heartfelt second instalment in Lizzie Lane's
bestselling Sweet Sisters trilogy. Praise for Lizzie Lane: 'A
gripping saga and a storyline that will keep you hooked' Rosie
Goodwin 'The Tobacco Girls is another heartwarming tale of love and
friendship and a must-read for all saga fans.' Jean Fullerton
'Lizzie Lane opens the door to a past of factory girls, redolent
with life-affirming friendship, drama, and choices that are as
relevant today as they were then.' Catrin Collier 'If you want an
exciting, authentic historical saga then look no further than
Lizzie Lane.' Fenella J Miller
'Every time I speak to someone and hear about their experiences, it
leaves me with a sense of running's incredible power to help people
overcome pretty much anything.' Each day, millions of people around
the world put on their trainers and try to deal with their personal
demons and life challenges by going for a run. And, increasingly,
they do it knowing that they are not alone: a growing and often
virtual community is right there running alongside them. We are
all, in some sense, running for our lives. Rachel Ann Cullen's
first book, Running for My Life, described her own marathon journey
through depression, bipolar disorder and body dysmorphia, and her
revelatory discovery that running could transform her physical and
mental wellbeing. After hearing from people who had read about her
experiences, Rachel wanted to tell some stories of other runners
from all around the world - ordinary people living with mental
health struggles, grief, cancer and other unavoidable life events
who have relied on running to get them through their worst days and
to keep going. Running for Our Lives shares moving accounts of hope
and resilience; it demonstrates the power of running to help us all
overcome adversity, and is a lesson for us all in learning not only
how to survive life's challenges, but to thrive.
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