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Explaining how multitudes of North Americans are carrying the pain
of all types of loss -- not just the deaths of loved ones but also
the loss of a spouse through divorce, children who leave home, and
the decline of health as they age or get sick -- this balanced
resource empowers mourners and grief counsellors to turn grief into
an experience to be learned from. Defining the varieties of
heartache and its consequences, this effective guide explores how
to inventory, understand, embrace, and reconcile one's accumulated
sorrow through a five-phase "catch-up" mourning process. Readers
will learn to use a spiritual and holistic approach to examine and
integrate the ignored loss from their pasts, so that they can go on
to live fuller, more balanced lives.
The Love of a Father is a personal story of the life author Faith
Parker shared with her father, who gave her some of the most
important treasures in her life. After his death, Faith noticed a
parallel between her father and the Heavenly Father as she allowed
Him to fill the void and begin a transformation process in her
life. We sometimes underestimate the value of our father's love and
the priceless gifts they offer. With this book, she encourages
readers to look for the treasures in the Heavenly Father, cherish
them, and share them with the rest of the world.
A renowned grief expert and neuroscientist shares groundbreaking
discoveries about what happens in our brain when we grieve,
providing a new paradigm for understanding love, loss, and
learning. For as long as humans have existed, we have struggled
when a loved one dies. Poets and playwrights have written about the
dark cloak of grief, the deep yearning, how devastating heartache
feels. But until now, we have had little scientific perspective on
this universal experience. In The Grieving Brain, neuroscientist
and psychologist Mary-Frances O'Connor, PhD, gives us a fascinating
new window into one of the hallmark experiences of being human.
O'Connor has devoted decades to researching the effects of grief on
the brain, and in this book, she makes cutting-edge neuroscience
accessible through her contagious enthusiasm, and guides us through
how we encode love and grief. With love, our neurons help us form
attachments to others; but, with loss, our brain must come to terms
with where our loved ones went, or how to imagine a future that
encompasses their absence. Based on O'Connor's own trailblazing
neuroimaging work, research in the field, and her real-life
stories, The Grieving Brain does what the best popular science
books do, combining storytelling, accessible science, and practical
knowledge that will help us better understand what happens when we
grieve and how to navigate loss with more ease and grace.
Empathy and hope are offered in this book, built on a foundation of
introspection and inspiration. Readers are brought to new
understanding about suicide. Survivors are encouraged to rebuild
lives and put the past where it rightfully belongs: behind them.
Bestselling author Cathy Rentzenbrink shares the advice that has seen her through life's ups and downs.
From her etiquette for bad news to the words of wisdom she would like to pass onto her son, How to Feel Better is full of warm, gentle guidance and comfort for when you need it most.
Previously published as A Manual for Heartache, this revised edition contains a new introduction from Cathy and an inspiring addendum of advice from other authors on what they do to feel better, whatever the world throws their way.
Having set aside age-old ways of mourning, how do people in the
modern world cope with tragic loss? Using traditional mourning
rituals as an instructive touchstone, Gail Holst-Warhaft explores
the ways sorrow is managed in our own times and how mourning can be
manipulated for social and political ends.
Since ancient times political and religious authorities have
been alert to the dangerously powerful effects of communal
expressions of grief--while valuing mourning rites as a controlled
outlet for emotion. But today grief is often seen as a
psychological problem: the bereaved are encouraged to seek
counseling or take antidepressants. At the same time, we have
witnessed some striking examples of manipulation of shared grief
for political effect. One instance is the unprecedented
concentration on recovery of the remains of Americans killed in the
Vietnam War. In Buenos Aires the Mothers of the Disappeared forged
the passion of their grief into a political weapon. Similarly the
gay community in the United States, transformed by grief and rage,
not only lobbied effectively for AIDS victims but channeled their
emotions into fresh artistic expression.
It might be argued that, in contrast to earlier cultures,
modern society has largely abdicated its role in managing sorrow.
But in "The Cue for Passion" we see that some communities, moved by
the intensity of their grief, have utilized it to gain ground for
their own agendas.
When doctors at the cancer institute told Jean that Albert had only
minutes to live, she was devastated. Then something miraculous
happened. Jean shares the details of their experience in this book.
Her message takes your faith to another level.
Anticipation of death or anniversaries of the death of a loved one
can be worse than the actual event. Having said this, it doesn't
mean actual events such as anniversaries of a loved one's death
should not be acknowledged, they should be. Make your own tradition
of memories and celebrate the lives of your loved one in the way
shape and manor that works for you. As time passes, some memories
are still even clearer. Hold on to those times and clear the closet
in your mind of any negative thoughts. You have permission to be
sad as long as you need to be, yet you also have permission to get
on with your own living. Make a list of the things and ideas you
have for your living your life. As you achieve these goals and
cross of your list, add more, do more, and therefore you are
living. This book is definitely a quick read if you choose for it
to be. My wish for you is that you choose to take some time and
invest in your feelings only to unfold yourself. When you start to
take inventory of your soul and priorities, write it and you will
have a reference forever. Think about rainbows, butterflies, and
snowmen.
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Dying Well
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Richard Reoch
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A lawyer and venture capitalist provides a complete, practical
guide for dealing with the concrete details surrounding the death
of a loved one, from funeral and estate planning to navigating the
complexities of online identities.Scott Taylor Smith, a venture
capitalist and lawyer, had plentiful resources, and yet after his
mother died, he made a series of agonizing and costly mistakes in
squaring away her affairs. He could find countless books that dealt
with caring for the dying and the emotional fallout of death, but
very few that dealt with the logistics. In the aftermath of his
mother's death, Smith decided to write the book he wished he'd had.
When Someone Dies provides readers with a crucial framework for
making good, informed, money-saving decisions in the chaotic thirty
days after a loved one dies and beyond. It provides essential,
concrete guidance on: - Making funeral and memorial service
arrangements - Writing an obituary - Estate planning - Contacting
family and friends - Handling your loved one's online footprint -
Navigating probate - Dealing with finances, including trusts and
taxation - And much, much more Featuring concise checklists in each
chapter, this guide offers answers to practical questions, enabling
loved ones to save time and money and focus on healing.
Are you grieving? Would you like to have a better understanding of
grief? Are you wanting to support someone who is grieving but don't
know how? This beautifully illustrated book written by two
experienced Bereavement Practitioners is unlike any other book
about grief. Each page takes you on a thought-provoking journey,
each image echoed by the voiced of bereaved people. As thoughts,
feelings and experiences are shared, you may recognise your own
voice creating a new image to add to these powerful images. It can
be read in one go or dipped into chapter by chapter as needed,
either way it offers understanding, wisdom and hope during this
time of mourning.
In a powerful and intimate memoir, Jackie Hance shares her story of
unbearable loss, darkest despair, and--slowly, painfully, and
miraculously--her cautious return to hope and love. Until the
horrific car accident on New York's Taconic State Parkway that took
the lives of her three beloved young daughters, Jackie Hance was an
ordinary Long Island mom, fulfilled by the joyful chaos of a
household bustling with life and chatter and love. After the
tragedy, she was The Taconic Mom, whose unimaginable loss embodied
every parent's worst nightmare. Suddenly, her lifelong Catholic
faith no longer explained the world. Her marriage to her husband,
Warren, was ravaged by wrenching grief and recrimination. Unable to
cope with the unfathomable, she reinvented reality each night so
that she awoke each morning having forgotten the heartbreaking
facts: that Emma, age 8; Alyson, age 7; and Katie, age 5, were gone
forever. They were killed in a minivan driven by their aunt,
Jackie's sister-in-law, Diane Schuler, while returning from a
camping weekend on a sunny July morning. I'll See You Again
chronicles the day Jackie received the traumatizing phone call that
defied all understanding, and the numbed and torturous events that
followed--including the devastating medical findings that shattered
Jackie to the core and shocked America. But this profoundly honest
account is also the story of how a tight-knit community rallied
around the Hances, providing the courage and strength for them to
move forward. It's a story of forgiveness, hope, and rebirth, as
Jackie and Warren struggle to rediscover the possibility of joy by
welcoming their fourth daughter, Kasey Rose Hance. The story that
Jackie Hance shares for the first time will touch your heart and
warm you to the power of love and hope.
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