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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Coping with personal problems > Coping with death & bereavement
"Two Hearts Beat as One: When a Twin Dies" is the true story of
a pair of identical twins and their experience with coming to terms
with dying and separation as a result of terminal illness. The book
intertwines feelings, emotions, personal thoughts, memories, and
reactions to assist the reader in understanding many of the
emotions related to losing a loved one. Anyone who has ever lost
someone they love can relate to this book. It truly touches the
heart, reminds us of the important things in life, and helps us
come to terms with death and dying.
Tim shares his heartfelt story of the hardest days of his life
along with some memories of the happiest days of being a twin. You
don't need to be a twin to read this book; it touches the heart of
anyone who has ever been loved, lost, and survived.
"Tim Mannion holds up a mirror and guides the onlooker through a
personal story using his wisdom and insight as a reader's
guide."
-Barbara Rubel, MA, BCETS, CBS, CPBC; keynote speaker and author
of "But I Didn't Say Goodbye" and "Death, Dying, and
Bereavement"
'There is no doubt a greater awareness now of the significance of
twin loss than there was ten years ago. I think that this is
largely due to a big increase in articles, radio and television
programmes as well as the spread of the Network. The well-known
researcher Nancy Segal in the USA has, through her many books,
added knowledge to our understanding of twin relationships as well
as twin loss. She believes the loss to be highly significant and
queries whether for some lone twins it is greater even than that of
the loss of a spouse (Segal 2000). Others have written
autobiographical material about their loss (Jones 1987; Farmer
1988). In spite of this, there is still ignorance. At a recent book
launch for the publication of a book about the loss of a twin
through drug taking (Burton-Phillips 2007) someone in the field of
education said to a few of us from the Network, that she did not
see how a twin who lost their twin at birth could possibly be
affected. She asked, 'How would the surviving twin know?' I asked
her to imagine how she might feel if told during her childhood that
she had been born a twin, but due to her taking all the food'
during the pregnancy, her twin had not survived. I suggested that
perhaps worse, she might have had her parents make it clear that
they wished her twin had been the one to live. Less dramatically,
she was asked how she might feel missing someone all her life who
'should have been there' to share it. This question was put by a
lone twin who added that she had also had surviving twins born to
the family to watch growing up as a pair, while she was without her
twin sister. The educationist was honest and said she had never
thought of those things before and then freely admitted our
comments made her think again' - Joan Woodward, Author.
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