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Are you fed up with your work/life balance? Do you feel burnt out
and uninspired? Are you stuck in a job you hate and desperate for
change but don't know where to start? Then you need this
refreshingly honest book that will change your relationship with
work for good. One evening after missing the train home, standing
on the cold platform, exhausted and quietly sobbing, Anniki
Sommerville realized she wouldn't get to see her kids before
bedtime for the fourth time that week, she knew it was time for a
major change. When podcaster, author, and journalist Anniki first
landed her dream job, she was overjoyed. But she very quickly felt
trapped in a toxic work culture that was making her miserable and
anxious. We're constantly told we should be doing work that is 100%
fulfilling and makes us feel authentic and bursting with happiness
at every moment. But the perfect job doesn't exist. What if there
was another way? From running a multi-million-pound company to
becoming a freelancer and everything in between, Anniki has learnt
some valuable life lessons about what work means to her. She's
figured out that 'nailing it' is a one-way ticket to burnout and
disillusionment, and instead found a more joyful path to
contentment. In this essential guide to getting your work life back
on track, The Big Quit will show you how to: 1. Spot the early
signs of burnout 3. Embrace trying new things and overcome fear of
failure 4. Navigate your way through work anxieties 4. Create
boundaries with your work and home life 5. Benefit from slowing
down and looking after yourself 6. Build your confidence up after a
career break 7. Enjoy your job! Packed with real and practice
advice, fans of Arianna Huffington, Everything is Figureoutable,
Roxie Nafousi's Manifest and Caitlin Moran will love The Big Quit.
Read what everyone is saying about Anniki Sommerville: 'I loved
this book. Full of wit and wisdom, Anniki tells it like it is.'
Clover Stroud 'I LOVED this book... I couldn't put down... so
refreshingly honest...The language used made the book feel like I
was talking to a friend...really helpful and full of useful
advice...such a brilliant read!' NetGalley reviewer ??????????
'Laugh-out-loud funny! As a woman in her 40s, I thoroughly enjoyed
this book... Spot-on for many of the thoughts & worries &
oddities running through my head too.' NetGalley reviewer
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"This is my personal guide to help face who you are, accept who you
are and love who you are, so you can watch your dreams and
accomplishments flourish...If I can do it, you can do it too."
Jillian Celentano lived most of her life not accepting who she was.
Since beginning her transition at the age of 55, she has been able
to live authentically as her true self. In this helpful and
practical guide, she offers advice to other people who are
transitioning later in life. Drawing on her personal experiences,
she explores topics such as coming out to children, spouses and
family, coming out at work, finding your authentic voice,
experimenting with style and clothing, and stepping out in public
for the first time. She explains how to deal with clocking and
discrimination, body dysphoria and the importance of maintaining
your physical and mental health. With candour and warmth
throughout, this book will support readers on their path to
self-love, happiness and acceptance.
We all age differently, but we can learn from shared experiences
and insights. The conversations, or paired essays, in Aging
Thoughtfully combine a philosopher's approach with a
lawyer-economist's. Here are ideas about when to retire, how to
refashion social security to help the elderly poor, how to learn
from King Lear - who did not retire successfully - and whether to
enjoy or criticize anti-aging cosmetic procedures. Some of the
concerns are practical: philanthropic decisions, relations with
one's children and grandchildren, the purchase of annuities, and
how to provide for care in old age. Other topics are cultural,
ranging from the treatment of aging women in a Strauss opera and
various popular films, to a consideration of Donald Trump's (and
other men's) marriages to much younger women. These engaging,
thoughtful, and often humorous exchanges show how stimulating
discussions about our inevitable aging can be, and offer valuable
insight into how we all might age more thoughtfully, and with zest
and friendship.
Death may be inevitable, but fearing the end-of-life is avoidable.
Learn how to put your fear of your final days to rest. We all know
we are going to die, but live as though we don't believe it. Rather
than explore our options and consider the possibilities that can
impact our final days, we ignore the idea altogether out of fear.
By avoiding the topic of death, we increase the pain and grief we
experience at the end of life, and the suffering of those left
behind. After three decades of caring for the dying, Dr. Jeff
Spiess argues that if we honestly face our mortality, we will make
wiser decisions, die with less distress, and live the remainder of
our lives, whether days or decades, more fully and with less
anxiety. Using cultural and religious references alongside poignant
narratives, this optimistic work informs, inspires, and challenges
our cognitive and emotional understandings of our own lives and
deaths. Dying with Ease contains the practical nuts and bolts
information about advance care planning, hospice, palliative care,
and ethical and legal issues surrounding dying in America. Dr.
Spiess answers such questions as: -How can I plan for the last part
of my life? -What options do I have if my suffering is unbearable?
-What do religion and spiritual philosophy have to say about dying?
-What does it feel like to die? While dying can be difficult, it
can also be beautiful. By learning to relax in the face of death at
our current stage of life, we can make wiser and more authentic
decisions throughout the rest of our lives-- however long they may
be.
A MacArthur Genius Grant recipient pioneers a radical change in how
we interact with older loved ones, especially those experiencing
dementia, as she introduces a proven method that uses the creative
arts to bring light and joy to the lives of elders. In Creative
Care, Anne Basting lays the groundwork for a widespread
transformation in our approach to elder care and uses compelling,
touching stories to inspire and guide us all-family, friends, and
health professionals-in how to connect and interact with those
living with dementia. A MacArthur Genius Grant recipient, Basting
tells the story of how she pioneered a radical change in how we
interact with our older loved ones. Now used around the world, this
proven method has brought light and joy to the lives of elders-and
those who care for them. Here, for the first time, everyone can
learn these methods. Early in her career, Basting noticed a
problem: today's elderly-especially those experiencing dementia and
Alzheimer's- are often isolated in nursing homes or segregated in
elder-care settings, making the final years of life feel lonely and
devoid of meaning. To alleviate their sense of aloneness, Basting
developed a radical approach that combines methods from the world
of theater and improvisation with evidence-based therapies that
connect people using their own creativity and imagination. Rooted
in twenty-five years of research, these new techniques draw on core
creative exercises-such as "Yes, and . . ." and "Beautiful
Questions." This approach fosters storytelling and active
listening, allowing elders to freely share ideas and stories
without worrying about getting the details "correct." Basting's
research has shown that these practices stimulate the brain and
awaken the imagination to add wonder and awe to patients' daily
lives-and provide them a means of connection, both with the world
and with those caring for them. Creative Care promises to bring
light and hope to a community that needs it most.
Dieses essential handelt vom spektakularen Aufstieg des Gefuhls
Einsamkeit von einer unerwunschten persoenlichen Erfahrung zu einem
weithin anerkannten sozialen Problem. Der Autor beschreibt und
analysiert diesen Prozess, der mit der wissenschaftlichen
Entdeckung der Einsamkeit als Risikofaktor fur Krankheit und Tod
begann und sich mit der Popularisierung der Befunde in den
fuhrenden Massenmedien oeffentlich verfestigte. Einen vorlaufigen
Hoehepunkt hat die Neubewertung der Einsamkeit als schadlich und
zudem weitverbreitet in der politischen Institutionalisierung als
Interventionsgegenstand erreicht. Das Einsamkeitsproblem wird uns
sicherlich dauerhaft erhalten bleiben. Es bezeichnet eine Kehrseite
spatmoderner Freiheits-, Mobilitats- und Wohlbefindensgewinne und
ist in der sozialen Ausgrenzung grosser Bevoelkerungsgruppen fest
verankert.
In this intimate and funny collection of essays on the sometimes
confusing, sometimes poignant, sometimes hilarious condition of
being a woman over sixty, Susan Moon keeps her sense of humor and
she keeps her reader fully engaged. Among the pieces she has
included here are an essay on the gratitude she feels for her
weakening bones; observations on finding herself both an orphan and
a matriarch following the death of her mother; musings on her
tendency to regret the past; thoughts on how not to be afraid of
loneliness; appreciation for the inner tomboy; and celebratory
advice on how to regard "senior moments" as opportunities to be in
the here and now.
We are all aging, yet most adults say they don't feel all that old.
Our age is an important number, but it can also be deceiving. After
the age of 40, most people say they feel younger than their age,
some lie about their age, and many attempt to hide the signs of
aging. The psychology of aging tries to make sense of not only how
people age, but how our beliefs, behaviors, and expectations
influence how well we age. Better with Age addresses the many myths
and paradoxes about aging. Often, peoples' expectations of old age
do not match what is actually experienced in old age. For example,
most people think of old age in terms of decline, grumpiness, aches
and pains, but healthy older people report high levels of
happiness, focus on positive emotions and enjoy humor. Older people
may be forgetful, but selectively remember what is important. By
having more experiences to draw on, wisdom and creativity can
blossom. Walking and physical exercise, not just brain training
exercises, keeps our mind sharp. Old and new habits, hobbies, and
friends keep us connected. Retirement is initially confusing, and
sometimes avoided, but is often busy and rewarding. Balance, both
physical and mental, becomes more important in older age.
Successful aging involves leading a productive, healthy, happy
life, and can start well before you reach old age. We have older
role models who provide inspiring examples of what we can do in
older age. This book presents the paradoxes and pleasures of old
age, new research and role models of successful aging, and what we
can do now to enjoy old age.
Alter(n) ist eine gesellschaftliche Konstruktion, die sich abhangig
von soziokulturellen und sozialstrukturellen Rahmenbedingungen auf
der einen Seite und lebensweltlichen Bezugen, Interaktions- und
Beziehungssystemen auf der anderen Seite realisiert. Im Sammelband
soll ein Blick in die verschiedenen Lebenswelten der
AElterwerdenden und Alten im Sinne von gesellschaftlich gerahmten,
sozial gestalteten und subjektiv wahrgenommenen Wirklichkeiten des
Alter(n)s in unserer Gesellschaft geworfen werden. Als relevante
lebensweltliche Bereiche werden hier Gesundheit, Arbeit (und
Freizeit), Wohnen, Familie/soziale Beziehungen, Sozialraum,
soziales Engagement bis hin zu Pflege und Lebensende betrachtet. In
den Beitragen sollen Gegenwartsanalysen und moegliche
Zukunftsszenarien zum AElterwerden und Altsein in unserer
Gesellschaft skizziert werden.
Das Buch untersucht die inhaltlichen und strukturellen
Herausforderungen, vor der unsere Gesellschaft angesichts einer
stetig steigenden Lebenserwartung und einer zunehmenden Vielfalt
unterschiedlicher Lebensentwurfe steht. Sind wir vorbereitet auf
die Bedurfnisse einer alternden Bevoelkerung? Wie sollen wir auf
den demografischen Wandel reagieren, um ein wurdevolles Altern
sicherzustellen? Wie mussen wir die unterschiedlichen
Lebensbereiche wie Arbeitswelt, Gesundheitsversorgung, Wohnen und
Kultur gestalten und anpassen, um den veranderten Lebenslaufen
gerecht zu werden? Entlang der Dimensionen Alterung, Diversitat und
Technisierung widmen sich in diesem Band Experten aus Medizin,
Ethik, Recht, Sozialwissenschaften, Padagogik, Kunstgeschichte und
Gerontologie Moeglichkeiten und Bedingungen des 'guten Alterns' in
einer Gesellschaft des langen Lebens.
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