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As the "Seeing Eye Girl" for her blind, artistic, and mentally ill
mother, Beverly Armento was intimately connected with and
responsible for her, even though her mother physically and
emotionally abused her. She was Strong Beverly at school-excellent
in academics and mentored by caring teachers-but at home she was
Weak Beverly, cowed by her mother's rage and delusions. Beverly's
mother regained her sight with two corneal transplants in 1950 and
went on to enjoy a moment of fame as an artist, but these positive
turns did nothing to stop her disintegration into her delusional
world of communists, radiation, and lurking Italians. To survive,
Beverly had to be resilient and hopeful that better days could be
ahead. But first, she had to confront essential ethical issues
about her caregiving role in her family. In this emotional memoir,
Beverly shares the coping strategies she invented to get herself
through the trials of her young life, and the ways in which school
and church served as refuges over the course of her journey.
Breaking the psychological chains that bound her to her mother
would prove to be the most difficult challenge of her life-and,
ultimately, the most liberating one.
* Now available in paperback with a new afterword. Learn how to
fight better and end your arguments with your partner feeling
closer, more loved, and better understood. We take our cars in for
oil changes. We mow our lawns and pull weeds. Why don't we do
maintenance on our marriages? This relationship is the most
important one we will ever have, so why not get better at it? For
the last several years, Penn and Kim Holderness of The Holderness
Family have done the hard maintenance and the research to learn how
to fight better. With the help of their marriage coach Dr.
Christopher Edmonston, they break down their biggest (and in some
cases, funniest) fights. How did a question about chicken wings
turn into a bra fight (no, not a bar fight or a bra fight)? How did
a roll of toilet paper lead to tears, resentment, and a stint in
the guest bedroom? With their trademark sense of humor and complete
vulnerability, Penn and Kim share their 10 most common Fight Fails
and how to combat them. Throughout the book, they offer scripts for
how to start, continue, and successfully close hard conversations.
Couples will emerge equipped to engage and understand, not do
battle-and maybe laugh a little more along the way. A USA Today and
Wall Street Journal bestseller, Everybody Fights will help couples
learn how to: Use "magic words" for healthy conflict resolution
Address unspoken and unrealistic expectations Banish the three Ds
of unhealthy communication-distraction, denial, and delay Carry
individual baggage while helping your partner deal with theirs Penn
and Kim want you to know you're not alone. Everybody fights.
Marriage is messy. Marriage is work. But marriage is worth it.
Fight for it!
Through the voices of twenty-one women, Karen Way presents the most
objective, complete, and compassionate picture of what anorexia
nervosa is about and, more importantly, of the complex individual
variables and obstacles in the journey to recovery. From the
premise that anorexia nervosa is an addiction--an obsession
controlling all aspects of an individual s life--and that complete
recovery is possible by finding meaning in life, this enlightening
book contrasts sharply to other books written on the subject by
clinicians and theorists which merely speculate on the nature and
etiology of anorexia nervosa. Anorexia Nervosa and Recovery lets
the reader hear the personal struggles of women who have fought
this powerful disease. They describe how anorexia controlled their
lives and how, once they overcame their obsessions with food,
weight, and thinness, they were able to lead fulfilling lives. This
illuminating book encourages and inspires women who are in the
throes of anorexia nervosa. They will recognize the emptiness in
the voices and the descriptions of daily life. Therapists and
clinicians who treat anorexic women will find intriguing chapters
on events which trigger anorexia and what anorexics will do to
maintain their strategies for coping. Concerned friends and family
and others interested in understanding this controlling disease
will be enlightened from this important and helpful book.
If you have ever attempted to research the AIDS epidemic or the HIV
virus, you have discovered the overwhelming array of information
sources. How do you know which information is the most accurate and
most current? This second edition contains a directory of sources
and resources in the AIDS information arena, designed to make it
easy for anyone to find information on AIDS.Important Topics
Covered: Organizations--includes AIDS service organizations,
community-based organizations, and organizations operating at the
local, regional, state, and national level Health
Departments--identifies state offices, including the District of
Columbia, that provide AIDS-related information or that can refer
individuals to the appropriate organization Research Institutions,
Grant Funding Sources, Education and Training Centers, and Federal
Agencies Hotlines--both local and national Electronic Sources of
Information--includes specific journals, bibliographies, and
monographs Audiovisual Producers--covers producers of audiovisuals
concerning AIDSThe organization of the directory and the indexes,
arranged geographically as well as alphabetically, are compelling
features of this timely book. How to Find Information About AIDS,
Second Edition is a valuable addition to the reference collection
of librarians, counselors, school teachers, AIDS organization
administrators, and medical personnel.
From the moment she uttered the brave and honest words, "I am an
alcoholic," to interview George Stephanopoulos, Elizabeth Vargas
began writing her story, as her experiences were still raw. Now, in
BETWEEN BREATHS, Vargas discusses her accounts of growing up with
anxiety-which began suddenly at the age of six when her father
served in Vietnam-and how she dealt with this anxiety as she came
of age, to her eventually turning to alcohol for relief. She tells
of how she found herself living in denial, about the extent of her
addiction and keeping her dependency a secret for so long. She
addresses her time in rehab, her first year of sobriety, and the
guilt she felt as a working mother who had never found the right
balance. Honest and hopeful, BETWEEN BREATHS is an inspiring read.
Stand up to your OCD! The ACT Workbook for OCD combines
evidence-based acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) with
exposure and response prevention (ERP) for the most up-to-date,
effective treatment for obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). If
you're one of millions of people who suffer from OCD, you may
experience obsessive, intrusive, or even disturbing thoughts. You
may engage in compulsive or ritualistic behaviors, such as checking
to make sure you've locked the front door, or endlessly washing
your hands for fear of germs or contamination. And you may be
tempted to give up if treatment just doesn't work for you. Whether
you've just received a diagnosis, or have suffered for years, this
workbook can help. Using the powerful and proven-effective
treatments in this guide, you'll learn what type of OCD you suffer
from (such as harm OCD), how to identify the underlying mechanisms
of your OCD, move through triggering incidents while staying
present and connected to your values, be more aware and flexible,
tolerate uncertainty, and commit to behaviours that ultimately
allow you to lead a full, rewarding life. Once you realise what
really matters to you, you'll find the motivation needed to start
on the path to psychological well-being. If you're ready to be
courageous, take a risk, and stand up to your OCD symptoms, this
workbook can help guide you, every step of the way.
Embracing Anxiety came to life due to the author’s intense personal
trauma, followed by extreme academic research and rubber stamped by
the workshops and coaching sessions that has since been done using
the “embracing anxiety” model. In “Embracing Anxiety” An Bakkes
shares an ongoing journey that requires commitment to self, the
willingness to become comfortable with life’s discomfort and the
courage to choose from a healthy space with every decision that
needs to be made.
Overcoming app now available via iTunes and the Google Play Store.
Anxiety is one of the most common mental health conditions
worldwide, affecting millions of people each year. But it can be
treated effectively with cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT).
Written by experienced practitioners, this introductory book can
help you if anxiety has become a problem. It explains what anxiety
is and how it makes you feel when it becomes unmanageable or lasts
for long periods of time. It will help you to understand your
symptoms and is ideal as an immediate coping strategy and as a
preliminary to fuller therapy. You will learn: * What anxiety is
and how it develops * Physical symptoms to look out for * How to
spot and challenge thoughts that make you anxious * Ways to change
how you behave in order to reduce your feelings of anxiety
The 'Get to Know Me' resources aim to support children, with those
around them, who may have additional/special educational needs.
They are designed to empower the professionals and adults who
support those with identified needs. Developed by child
psychologist Dr Louise Lightfoot, the series includes activities
specific to anxiety, depression and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
(OCD). In supporting the social and emotional health of students,
it equips them with the ability to thrive, personally and
academically. This book has been created for key adults (teachers,
therapists and parents) as a complement to the picture book and
draw along versions of Sammy Sloth - a traditional narrative story
exploring thoughts, feelings and sensations experienced by many
children with anxiety. The activities in this book offer practical
tools and strategies to support the child and those around them in
addition to the information specific to the condition to improve
understanding of a child's needs to promote empathy and acceptance.
Picture book and draw along versions of Sammy Sloth are available
separately, and as part of the Get to Know Me: Anxiety set.
The 'Get to Know Me' series is aimed at children with additional
needs and those who support them in the classroom. Developed by
child psychologist Dr Louise Lightfoot and illustrated by Catherine
Hicks, the resources in this series include activities specific to
anxiety, depression and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). This
book, Sammy Sloth, has been designed to support the individual
child but also to be used in whole class teaching, to encourage an
empathetic and inclusive environment. In this book, we meet Sammy,
a sloth who lives in a beautiful tree by the sea. The story follows
Sammy as he wakes up one day to find he feels funny and strange. He
can't sit still and does not feel like his usual happy and relaxed
self. After pacing up and down he meets Anna the Armadillo who
tells Sammy that he is silly and has no right to be sad when his
life is good. Sammy hears this and feels embarrassed and ashamed of
how he has been feeling. Sammy hides away until he meets a kind
lizard who shows him kindness and empathy. This book was written
with children with anxiety in mind, providing an opportunity to
relate to Sammy's thoughts, feelings, behaviours and experiences.
However, children with a range of needs may benefit from the story.
The book is written in a narrative style, so it does not use
diagnostic labels and is not intended for this purpose. Instead the
focus is on creating a common language which children can
understand and use to make sense of how they are feeling. A
practitioner guidebook (ISBN 9780815349419) and draw along version
(ISBN 9780815349426) are also available.
A whip-smart black comedy for fans of The New Me and My Year of
Rest and Relaxation Named one of the Best Books of the Summer by
LitHub, The Millions, Refinery29, and Hey Alma. 'Surprising and
irreverent...Be prepared for edginess, dark humor and profanity.
The only sweet thing about "Sad Janet" is its cover, which might be
the most adorable one I've seen all year' New York Times
'Hilarious, wicked, wise and tender' - Cynthia D'Aprix Sweeney,
bestselling author of The Nest *** Meet Janet. Janet is sad. Not
about her life, about the world. Have you seen it these days? The
thing is, she's not out to make anyone else sad. She's not turning
up to weddings shouting that most marriages end in divorce. She
just wants to wear her giant coat, get rid of her
passive-aggressive boyfriend, and avoid human interaction at the
rundown dog shelter where she works. That is, until word spreads
about a new pill that promises cynics like her one day off from
being sad. When her family stages an intervention, and the prospect
of making it through Christmas alone seems like too much, Janet
finally decides to give them what they want. What follows is
life-changing for all concerned - in ways no one quite expects.
Hilarious, provocative and profound, Sad Janet is the antidote to
our happiness-obsessed world. *** PRAISE FOR SAD JANET: 'If you're
a Halle Butler fan or like despair cut with humour, you'll love
this' Leigh Stein, author of SELF CARE 'As I was reading this, my
partner kept asking why I was laughing. This book is dark and
hilarious and will speak to everyone who's ever wondered why they
spend time with humans and not just dogs' Rowan Hisayo Buchanan,
author of Starling Days and Harmless Like You 'A tragicomic riot of
a book - charging, foul-mouthed and tender, across the modern
condition' Claudia Dey, author of Heartbreaker 'Try reading Sad
Janet ... It might just make you happy' Marcy Demansky, author of
Very Nice 'A biting, pitch-perfect novel about one woman's desire
to stay true to herself in a world that rewards facile happiness
... a dazzling debut' Cynthia D'Aprix Sweeney 'The narrative voice
of Janet in Britsch's debut novel is a skin-tingling combination of
new and necessary' Booklist starred review 'Loved this book... it
made me lol via the dark humour and dry observations. An artful
take on the "happiness economy"' Emma Gannon, author of Olive 'I
loved SAD JANET'S cynical humour. Superbly original, with spot-on
one-liners. Brilliantly bleak, but with a spark of hope' Caroline
Hulse, author of The Adults
Discusses the causes of suicide and how it may be prevented. Also examines suicidal behavior and how a person's will may be used to save his or her life.
As Roseann Sdoia waited to watch her friend cross the finish line
of the Boston Marathon in 2013, she had no idea her life was about
to change-that in a matter of minutes she would look up from the
sidewalk, burned and deaf, staring at her detached foot, screaming
for help amid the smoke and blood. In the chaos of the minutes that
followed, three people would enter Roseann's life and change it
forever. The first was Shores Salter, a college student who, when
the bomb went off, instinctively ran into the smoke while his
friends ran away. He found Roseann lying on the sidewalk and, using
a belt as a tourniquet, literally saved her life that day. Then,
Boston police officer Shana Cottone arrived on the scene and began
screaming desperately at passing ambulances, all full, before
finally commandeering an empty paddy wagon. Just then a giant
appeared, in the form of Boston firefighter Mike Materia, who
carefully lifted her into the fetid paddy wagon. He climbed in and
held her burned hand all the way to the hospital. Since that day,
he hasn't left her side, and today they are planning their life
together. Perfect Strangers is about recovery, about choosing joy
and human connection over anger and resentment, and most of all,
it's about an unlikely but enduring friendship that grew out of the
tragedy of Boston's worst day.
How to take back your life when your things are taking over. Why
does Cliff, a successful lawyer who regularly wins landmark cases,
step over two-foot piles of paper whenever he opens his front door?
Why do Joan and Paul ask Children's Services to take their three
children instead of decluttering their home? Why does Lucinda feel
intense pressure to hold onto her family's heirlooms even though
she has no room for them? They have hoarding disorder, which an
estimated 2% to 6% of the adult population worldwide experience.
Conquer the Clutter offers hope to anyone affected by hoarding.
Real-life vignettes, combined with easy-to-use assessment and
intervention tools, support those who hoard-and those who care
about them. Written by Elaine Birchall, a social worker dedicated
to helping people declutter and achieve long-term control over
their belongings, the book * provides an overview of hoarding,
defining what it is-and is not * explains the difference between
clutter and hoarding * describes different types of hoarding in
detail, including impulse shopping, "closet" hoarding, and animal
hoarding * debunks myths about hoarding and hoarders * explores the
effects that hoarding has on relationships, on work, and on
physical and financial health * presents a practical, step-by-step
plan of action for decluttering * contains dedicated advice from
individuals who have successfully overcome their hoarding disorder
The most comprehensive work about hoarding on the market, Conquer
the Clutter discusses special populations who are not often singled
out, such as the disabled and the elderly, and includes numerous
worksheets to assist individuals in determining the scope of their
hoarding disorder and tackling the problem. Over 40 pages of
additional resources are available online at
jhupbooks.press.jhu.edu/title/conquer-clutter.
'No one really talks about it. No one really talks about what it is to be a disabled woman, especially a young one. To go a bit mad. To experience pain or exhaustion or feel 92. To navigate all the standard parts of life - exams, careers, dating - but with a body that is different than everyone else’s.' Part memoir, part manifesto, and full of Frances Ryan’s trademark warmth, humour and honesty (as well as hard-hitting statistics), Who Wants Normal? explores six facets of life: education, careers, body image, health, relationships and representation, as well as how to survive life's bumps in the road. It draws on Frances’s own experience, as well as from highly personal interviews with over 50 of Britain's best known women and non-binary people with mental and physical health conditions, including Jameela Jamil, Ruth Madeley, Sophie Morgan, Rosie Jones, Fearne Cotton, Emma Barnett, Tanni Grey-Thompson, Marsha de Cordova MP, Ellie Goldstein and Katie Piper. Who Wants Normal? lifts the lid off a subject that is too often shrouded in stereotypes and silence. It offers support, inspiration and a sense of solidarity to the 1 in 4 women with long-term health conditions – and will open the eyes of anyone wanting to better understand what life is really like with a disability.
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