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The #1 New York Times Bestseller From the bestselling author and
columnist behind The Atlantic's popular "How to Build a Life"
series, a guide to transforming the life changes we fear into a
source of strength. In the first half of life, ambitious strivers
embrace a simple formula for success in work and life: focus
single-mindedly, work tirelessly, sacrifice personally, and climb
the ladder relentlessly. It works. Until it doesn't. It turns out
the second half of life is governed by different rules. In middle
age, many strivers begin to find success coming harder and harder,
rewards less satisfying, and family relationships withering. In
response, they do what strivers always do: they double down on work
in an attempt to outrun decline and weakness, and deny the changes
that are becoming more and more obvious. The result is often anger,
fear, and disappointment at a time in life that they imagined would
be full of joy, fulfillment, and pride. It doesn't have to be that
way. In From Strength to Strength, happiness expert and bestselling
author Arthur C. Brooks reveals a path to beating the "striver's
curse." Drawing on science, classical philosophy, theology, and
history, he shares counterintuitive strategies for releasing old
habits and forming new life practices, showing you how to: - Kick
the habits of workaholism, success addiction, and
self-objectification - Meditate on death-in order to beat fear and
live well - Start a spiritual adventure - Embrace weakness in a way
that turns it into strength. Change in your life is inevitable, but
suffering is not. From Strength to Strength shows you how to accept
the gifts of the second half of life with grace, joy, and ever
deepening purpose.
'Powerful, humane and wise' JULIA SAMUEL 'Everyone should read it'
NIGELLA LAWSON 'Beautiful ... This is a book for everyone. You feel
held by it' PHILIPPA PERRY Most of us have a conversation we're
avoiding. From the bestselling author of With the End in Mind, this
is a book about the conversations that matter and how to have them
better - more honestly, more confidently and without regret. A
child coming out to their parent. A family losing someone to
terminal illness. A friend noticing the first signs of someone's
dementia. A careers advisor and a teenager with radically different
perspectives. There are moments when we must talk, listen and be
there for one another. Why do we so often come away from those
times feeling like we could have done more, or should have been
braver in the face of discomfort? Why do we skirt the conversations
that might matter most? By bringing together stories with a
lifetime's experience working in medicine and the newest
psychology, Mannix offers lessons for how we can better speak our
mind and help when others need to. Kathryn Mannix's 'With the End
in Mind' was a Sunday Times bestseller the weeks ending 6 January
2018, 13 January 2018 and 3 February 2018.
Jane had a pretty good life. She was a single mother, and she
worked hard for her three kids, who meant the world to her. One
autumn evening she met someone she believed to be the man of her
dreams-the only thing missing in her nearly perfect life. He was
handsome, gentle, quiet, and kind.
Eleven months later, they bought a home and were married. Jane
was so happy. Soon, however, her daughter, Michelle, began to
change; she became distant and withdrawn. Something was wrong, but
Jane couldn't figure out what it was. She never thought to look at
her husband as being the cause her daughter's moodiness or imagine
that it might be somehow related to sexual abuse. Her husband-a
young, handsome man with a nine-to-five job, an ex-wife and kids of
his own-was nothing like her image of a pedophile.
In her memoir, "I Am Gonna Tell," Jane recounts the nightmare
that she, her daughter and sons lived through due to the man Jane
brought into their lives. This is a mother's brutally honest
account of the horrifying discovery of her daughter's sexual abuse
at the hands of her husband-her daughter's stepfather.
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