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Mary Ainsworth's work on the importance of maternal sensitivity for
the development of infant attachment security is widely recognized
as one of the most revolutionary and influential contributions to
developmental psychology in the 20th century. Her longitudinal
studies of naturalistic mother-infant interactions in Uganda and
Baltimore played a pivotal role in the formulation and acceptance
of attachment theory as a new paradigm with implications for
developmental, personality, social, and clinical psychology. The
chapters in this volume collectively reveal not only the origins
and depth of her conceptualizations and the originality of her
assessment methods, but also the many different ways in which her
ideas about maternal sensitivity continue to inspire innovative
research and clinical applications in Western and non-Western
cultures. The contributors are leading attachment researchers,
including some of Mary Ainsworth's most influential students and
colleagues, who have taken time to step back from their day to day
research and reflect on the significance of the work she initiated
and the challenges inherent in assessing parental sensitivity
during naturalistic interactions in infancy and beyond. This volume
makes Ainsworth's pioneering conceptual and methodological
breakthroughs and their continuing research and clinical impact
accessible to theorists, researchers and mental health specialists.
This book was originally published as a special issue of Attachment
& Human Development.
The highly anticipated fourth book from best-selling author Michael
A. Boylan, Reach For Me, The Story of My Son Connor, is the
inspirational true story of how his life changed abruptly upon
receiving the news of his son's diagnosis of William's Syndrome,
leading to the collapse of his marriage and family, the loss of his
home, his business and life as he knew it, and the healing
principles which are woven into a step-by-step process designed to
help caregivers address and more effectively deal with all that
comes at them over a lifetime of caregiving. Reach For Me is a
powerful story of honesty, hope, determination, letting go and
finding a deeper resiliency that all will be well, and that all
caregivers have a unique need to be embraced and respected by the
communities around them. Reach For Me, The Story of My Son Connor
is also being compared to the international bestseller The Purpose
Driven Life by Rick Warren because of its ability to generate
discussion amongst caregivers wishing to address real-world
challenges through the step-by-step process with other caregivers
and their families.
Raising a child to be an authentic and mentally robust adult is one
of life's great challenges. It is also, fortunately, not a matter
of luck. There are many things to understand about how children's
minds operate and what they need from those who look after them so
they can develop into the best version of themselves. The Good
Enough Parent is a compendium of lessons, including ideas on how to
say 'no' to a child one adores, how to look beneath the surface of
'bad' behaviour to work out what might really be going on, how to
encourage a child to be genuinely kind, how to encourage open self
expression, and how to handle the moods and gloom of adolescence.
Importantly, this is a book that knows that perfection is not
required - and could indeed be unhelpful, because a key job of any
parent is to induct a child gently into the imperfect nature of
everything. Written in a tone that is encouraging, wry and soaked
in years of experience, The Good Enough Parent is an intelligent
guide to raising a child who will one day look back on their
childhood with just the right mixture of gratitude, humour and
love.
Book 10 in comprehensive series by this popular media doctor and
celebrity impetus for the Sheldon list. Your child's world broadens
as they become more mobile and vocal, and attend nursery or
playgroup. In this book, designed to follow on from Dr Dawn's Guide
to Your Baby's First Year, Dr Dawn guides you through the changes
you will notice in the next three years, and helps you stay one
step ahead in your child's expanding world. She explains how to
foster your child's growing independence in eating, dressing, and
bathing, while keeping him or her safe and well. It also covers
illness, along with warning signs and symptoms for more serious
conditions such as meningitis, and when to see a doctor. It's also
the era of tantrums and toilet training, so there's advice on that
too. Other topics include: * Development including language *
Nutrition and healthy eating * Sleeping and moving from cot to bed
* Bathing, toileting and hygiene * Teething * Travelling with your
toddler * Developmental checks and milestones * Vaccinations and
why it's vital to have them * A to Z of toddler ailments *
Medicines and first aid * Toddler safety
For more than 40 years, mothers have depended on the wisdom and
warmth of Nursing Your Baby. Now authors Karen Pryor and her
daughter Gale Pryor have revised and updated their classic guide
for today's generation of women. New information includes:
Up-to-date studies on health benefits for breastfed infants and
breastfeeding mothers Tips for getting the best start on
breastfeeding during the first hours, weeks, and months after birth
Breastfeeding advice for working mothers Legal rights as a nursing
mother Choosing and using a breast pump How fathers and families
can support new nursing mothers
With its unique blend of support, science, and research, this
classic guide will continue to encourage mothers to nurse their
babies as long as they both desire.
Many mothers and those who support them do not know that they can
experience negative emotions associated with breastfeeding. In
modern society breastfeeding is often used - problematically - to
exemplify myths about motherhood and maternal love, and is bound up
with ideas of what makes a 'good mother'. In this context nursing
aversion and agitation - intense, distressing feelings that are
experienced by the mother during breastfeeding - can be both
unexpected and hugely upsetting, particularly when women may have
already overcome significant challenges in order to breastfeed. In
When Breastfeeding Sucks Zainab Yate examines what we know about
this poorly understood aspect of infant feeding, in a carefully
researched discussion that will be valuable for individual mothers
who may be suffering, and the breastfeeding supporters who work to
support them.
Children enter the school doors today with many diverse needs:
mental health problems, ADHD, anxiety, victims of physical or
sexual abuse, homelessness, or facing some other type of trauma.
Teachers in today's classrooms are struggling to understand the
needs of their students and to provide a supportive and nurturing
environment, while maintaining structure and routine. In whatever
setting students are, teachers must understand the challenges that
students come to school facing, know how to assess the needs of the
children, build positive relationships with them, collaborate with
others, and take care of themselves. This first book in a two book
volume explores the needed components in setting the stage for
meeting the needs of the students. The teachers who serve these
children need a comprehensive set of tools to meet their needs.
This volume, along with the second one that provides the specific
interventions that teachers will need to implement, is that
comprehensive resource for educators.
In the United States, nearly 11 million children are in daycare
each day, yet it's surprising how uninformed many parents are about
what really goes on while they are away. How do you find the right
daycare or know that the one you have chosen is indeed the best
choice? Every parent wants peace of mind knowing their children are
in good hands but how can they ever really be sure. Imagine that
you were given a magic crystal ball that allowed you to see what
your kids were actually experiencing at daycare Daycare Diaries
will take you through the doors of in-home daycares and childcare
centers and provide a "behind the scenes" peek into the daycare
world many never get to see. Written by two daycare providers with
over 30 years of combined childcare experience, Daycare Diaries is
a unique collection of true daycare stories, each providing an
important lesson. Whether you are a first time parent or have used
daycare for years, these stories will leave you feeling more
confident knowing what the ideal daycare should look like for your
child Let our experience be your guide on this exciting journey
into the childcare world. . .you just might be surprised.
From internationally bestselling author Liz Climo comes I'm So
Happy You're Here, a book to remind us to love ourselves. We all
need a reminder that we're loved and we matter, and international
bestselling author Liz Climo delivers that dose of warmth and love
in her new book Sometimes we just need a little pep talk to remind
us that we're doing our best. With help from her charming animal
drawings, Liz Climo encourages us to embrace the joyful moments,
get back up after falling down, and always love ourselves. A little
book to let someone know how important they are to you or a
thoughtful gift you can give to yourself, I'm So Happy You're Here
highlights how truly amazing we are. Like a good friend, it will
lift you out of low moments and keep you company until they've
passed, making you laugh and cry while reminding you that you're
loved, you matter, and we're all really happy you're here.
The hilarious and heartwarming companion to international
bestselling author Liz Climo's You're Mum.
DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAD! Oh, hello! Now that I have your
attention... You must be dad! You're probably pretty busy. Being a
dad isn't easy. Maybe you already know this. Maybe you will soon.
Perhaps you've been preparing for this day for a long time. Perhaps
you haven't. And if you have a little one on the way you might feel
a little anxious. Maybe even a bit scared. There's a lot to prepare
and plan. Because, let's face it - being a dad is a huge
responsibility. But, it's worth it. Now the real fun begins. From
new dads to those who've been around the block, dads who go to work
to those who are at home, and all the dads in between, You're Dad
is a touching tribute to fathers everywhere. With humour, heart and
adorable drawings, Liz Climo celebrates fatherhood in all its
shapes and sizes (and species). Featuring different types of dads
and the paths they may travel, Climo's whimsical animal
illustrations take us through the adventures of fatherhood,
commemorating the laughter and the tears as well as the stumbles
and the triumphs. Perfect for dads, the dad-like, any and all
parents and the people who love them, this sweet collection of
fatherly love will move and delight.
Does your preschooler disobey you, embarrass you, fight you? Does
he or she refuse to eat or go to bed, break things, sleepwalk, or
fear the dark excessively? Are you confused and uncertain about
what attitude you should take towards such issues as spanking,
sibling rivalry, favoritism, hospitalization, sex play, and
overprotection? Dr. Elinor Verville, a clinical pediatric
psychologist with many years of counseling experience, provides in
The Parent's Preschooler Dictionary fast, practical, and effective
solutions to the most common problems facing today's new and busy
parents of preschoolers.
Arranged in alphabetical order for rapid access, each concise
article briefly illuminates the background of your child's
troubling behavior or problem, explains why your preschooler acts
as he or she does and advises you with tried-and-tested do's and
don't's that you will be able to apply immediately. You can find
just what you need to know about nearly any perplexing behavior
your child exhibits and learn from Dr. Verville what must be done.
The Parent's Preschooler Dictionary will help you gain knowledge
and insight into your child and his or her problems, and build your
confidence in dealing with trying moments and acquire the
management skills you need to handle your child's behavioral
problems effectively and well. As you become more confident, your
child's anxiety will lessen and his or her emotional stability will
increase. You will realize that you are becoming a competent
parent, and your children will know that they can count on you to
keep them safe, to teach them right from wrong, and to help them
learn how to get along with others.
A roadmap for parents who want to feel less pressure and more joy
during the intense early years of childrearing. Why is it that
research suggests people who don't have kids are happier than
people who do? Olivia Scobie provides practical solutions for
parents who find themselves pushing beyond their capacity to meet
impossible standards, and challenges parents to shift their
thinking from child centred to family centred. By naming today's
unrealistic parenting expectations as impossible from the get-go,
Impossible Parenting creates the space to acknowledge harmful
expectations for new parents and begins a conversation that focuses
on healing and doing the best one can with the resources available.
They are four words that can terrify any parent to the core: Your
child has cancer. Each year more than 13,000 children and teenagers
are diagnosed with cancer in the United States. The shock and
demands of that diagnosis can be overwhelming for the parents,
children, family, and friends as they face the emotions, along with
the need to understand what the diagnosis means as well as what
treatments are available and which are right for them. Parents,
family members, friends, and professionals in healthcare will find
support in this book. Written by a specialist in Pediatric
Oncology, who is herself a cancer survivor as well as the mother of
three young children, this book is clearly-stated and offers
comprehensive information about the cancers that strike our
youngest. They are four words that can terrify any parent to the
core: Your child has cancer. Each year, more than 13,000 children
and teenagers in the United States are diagnosed with cancer. The
shock and demands of that diagnosis can be overwhelming for the
parents, children, family members, and friends, as they face the
emotions along with the need to understand what the diagnosis
means, what treatments are available and which are right for them.
In this book, there is support for all. Written by a specialist in
Pediatric Oncology who is herself a cancer patient as well as the
mother of three young children, this guide offers clearly stated
and comprehensive information about the cancers that strike our
youngest. Dr. Howell explains the 12 types of childhood cancer,
with leukemias and tumors of the brain and nervous system most
common. She tells us what the overall prognosis is, and how cancers
affect children differently than they do adults, as well as what
little is known about the causes, and she details the controversies
on that subject. Howell explains common procedures and tests
before, during, and after therapy, as well as the potential side
effects. This compassionate physician does not ignore the vitally
important issues of emotion-how to find the calm and strength to
help the child or teen and be his or her best advocate, how to tell
the child the diagnosis, what questions to anticipate, and how to
deal with other family members and friends.
This book brings together key authors from the Nordic countries
(Sweden, Finland, Norway, Denmark and Iceland) to discuss
theoretical and empirical research on families and children.
Sharing the Nordic perspective from each of the five countries, the
book highlights key ideas within and across the countries. The
chapters provide an understanding of the history of the Nordic
perspectives of family and children, present current innovative
research on solutions to complex issues, and explore contemporary
issues. Nordic countries continually attain high scores in
lifestyle measures, quality of life and children's outcomes. Much
of this has to do with the specific culture and policy of the
Nordic countries. Written by academics within the region who are
well regarded for contributing to academic and public debate, this
book will appeal to an international audience interested in the
Nordic perspective and social policy around family and children.
Life After Birth is your essential guide to the wide and diverse
spectrum of motherhood. In this companion, Jessica Prescott and
Vaughne Geary share their evidence-based approach to the lost but
ever important art of caring for yourself as a mother, including
recipes from their postpartum food delivery service Mama Goodness.
They cover everything from herbal wisdom and nutritional support,
to sleep and breastfeeding tips, communication tools, managing
siblings, how to nourish your body, parent on your period, and so
much more. A stunning hardback with full colour photography, Life
After Birth will help you prepare, not just for the first six weeks
following your birth, but for the months and years that follow. By
tuning into your body, nourishing it, celebrating it and honouring
the cyclical nature of womanhood, this book will help you thrive in
your new role as a mother.
Instructions Not Supplied is the account of one family's experience
in adopting three children, each of whom turned out to have special
needs, and the challenges they have faced along the way. Some of
the difficult situations they have faced are simply part of a
family life; others are as a direct result of the children's
disabilities and difficulties, including autism, attention deficit
hyper-activity disorder, foetal alcohol syndrome, attachment
disorder and sensory issues. A story of adoption, autism and coming
together as a family, this book describes with honesty and humour
how the behaviour of the children has often challenged the adults
around them. It also explores the process of diagnosis and the
difficulty of getting the right support both for the children and
their parents, with insights for all parents and teachers of
children with complex needs. The book is a unique insight into the
twin challenges of adoption and disability, an invaluable read for
prospective adopters and adoptive parents as well as natural
parents of children with additional support needs. It is equally
valuable for practitioners, as it gives an insight into the family
life of those parenting such children and how best to support them.
In the spirit of Wendy Mogel's The Blessing of a Skinned Knee and
Po Bronson and Ashley Merryman's Nurture Shock, New York Times
"Your Money" columnist Ron Lieber delivers a taboo-shattering
manifesto that explains how talking openly to children about money
can help parents raise modest, patient, grounded young adults who
are financially wise beyond their years. For Ron Lieber, a personal
finance columnist and father, good parenting means talking about
money with our kids. Children are hyper-aware of money, and they
have scores of questions about its nuances. But when parents shy
away from the topic, they lose a tremendous opportunity-not just to
model the basic financial behaviors that are increasingly important
for young adults but also to imprint lessons about what the family
truly values. Written in a warm, accessible voice, grounded in
real-world experience and stories from families with a range of
incomes, The Opposite of Spoiled is both a practical guidebook and
a values-based philosophy. The foundation of the book is a detailed
blueprint for the best ways to handle the basics: the tooth fairy,
allowance, chores, charity, saving, birthdays, holidays, cell
phones, checking accounts, clothing, cars, part-time jobs, and
college tuition. It identifies a set of traits and virtues that
embody the opposite of spoiled, and shares how to embrace the topic
of money to help parents raise kids who are more generous and less
materialistic. But The Opposite of Spoiled is also a promise to our
kids that we will make them better with money than we are. It is
for all of the parents who know that honest conversations about
money with their curious children can help them become more patient
and prudent, but who don't know how and when to start.
While advice abounds from a variety of sources before parents
embark on their parenting journeys, the only parent preparation we
actually receive comes from our family and peer stories. Yet most
adults do not realize that in day-to-day challenges of guiding our
children, something interesting happens. As we steer our children
through life, we reopen our own childhood roads. Just when our
child most needs us, we become needy ourselves: as adults and
parents, we find that we have unresolved raising issues, basic
needs that were not met in our childhoods. Our needs and memories
echo and influence many of the parenting decisions we make, even
though we're unaware of those influences at times. Fortunately,
children help parents reach their needs as much as their parents
help them fulfill their own. Our child ends up guiding us, by
connecting us to some earlier time in our life when we encountered
distress. We dredge up a lesson, and we adapt by adhering to or
changing the story that we tell ourselves about who we are. We
re-negotiate the five basic needs that surface from our childhood
memories as our youngsters pass through each of the developmental
phases. The self-aware parent focuses on creative problem solving
by focusing on one interaction at a time. It Takes a Child to Raise
a Parent offers an exploration of how our own childhood memories
and needs influence and shape our parenting decisions in our adult
lives. Offering tips, stories from a variety of families, and step
by step exercises, Janis Johnston helps parents better understand
and grasp the tools necessary to face parenting challenges head on,
and to explore new ways of understanding ourselves, our children,
and our family interactions. Expectant parents and current parents
interested in understanding their own personality development as
well as the many moods of childhood and their own children, will
find clear guidelines for understanding their roles in their
children's lives as well as concrete suggestions for how to
navigate the choppy waters of raising children.
Teach your child the real secrets to success in life. There is so
much your child will learn at school. But there are other, vital
things that are all too frequently absent from a busy school's
syllabus, yet which are increasingly recognised as just asessential
to your child's future. These secrets of success include qualities
such as curiosity, independent thinking, perseverance,
determination, individuality and a willingness to weigh up risks
and solve problems. In The Bright Stuff, leading child education
expert C J Simister takes one secret of success at a time and
offers a treasure trove of imaginative, playful and above all fun
activities, games and exercises that you can use to preserve,
nurture and enhance your child's extraordinary potential, making
sure it does not remain untapped. All are designed to fit in with
everyday family life, involving little or no preparation. Appealing
to a wide range of ages, they are ideal for keeping children amused
in spare moments - over a meal, in the car, even when stuck in the
queue at the supermarket. And while they are enjoying themselves,
your children will be developing crucial qualities such as
initiative, alertness and an investigative spirit. They will also
be learning to form innovative ideas, to discern sense from
nonsense and to use failure as a useful springboard for progress.
With this ground-breaking book, you can make sure your children
have the skills they need to thrive in the real world, while
helping them to become happy, successful and well-rounded
individuals.
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