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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Coping with personal problems > Coping with drug & alcohol abuse
A great story must entertain, inform or inspire, and this book does
all three. Susan Waits has created a dramatic narrative with
authentic characters that draw breath, laugh, cry, teach and learn
in vivid settings drawn from a deep well of personal experience.
The plot reflects the inexplicable and serendipitous twists and
turns of two women's lives as they come face to face with their
addiction to alcohol. Implicitly revealed are the iconic twelve
steps to recovery in the illustration and interplay among personal
intention, forgiveness, surrender and love. Claire Danner's life
was one call for "another round" after another. Finally, at the age
of sixty-eight, after decades of broken hearts and broken promises,
and a body ailing from self-abuse, she reluctantly succumbs to her
family's insistence to enter rehab. There she must face and conquer
the demons long suppressed by her self-administered anesthetic. In
the face of failing health and aged despair, will she emerge from
this crucible with another chance at love and life? From childhood
Grace was close to her "Momma Claire," and as a young adult
studying art at Rhodes College, she had an unconscious propensity
to overindulge. She wondered at times if she was on a collision
course with the same fate as her grandmother, a question that would
unexpectedly and suddenly be put to a life-struggling test. The
parallel journeys of grandmother and granddaughter weave together
and culminate in a joint pilgrimage that reveals a final,
life-altering surprise.
Nick Charles MBE is a pioneer in treating alcohol dependency. As
the founder of both the Chaucer Clinic and the Gainsborough
Foundation, he was the first person to be honoured by the Queen
'for services to people with alcohol problems' and his work - over
four decades - has helped tens of thousands of people. But Nick's
decorated success overlays an extraordinary and unforgettable
personal journey, for Nick was once an alcoholic vagrant sleeping
rough on the streets of London. In 50 Years of Hard Road, Nick
details his time in the abyss of alcohol addiction; a period that
despatched relationships, his health, his career, and so much more.
Forced to live on the streets for four years, Nick recalls the
tough times, the characters he met, and the ever-present call of
alcohol, but also how he slowly built up two carrier bags-worth of
painstaking research into alcohol and its effects on his fellow
man. It was through the documents in these carrier bags that Nick's
life was to change forever when, in the mid-1970s, he was taken
under the wing of a doctor who cared for those on skid row. This
dedicated medic recognised the treasure trove of information Nick
had developed. 50 Years of Hard Road is a remarkable, uplifting,
and often humorous story of one man's journey from the depths of
life-crushing alcohol dependency, to running alcohol clinics and
programmes across the country. It describes an incredible life
filled with high points, low points, and amazing adventures
in-between.
I explore my intertwining of spiritual/soul with my ego/ human make
up. Even with opulence due to the family invention of Vaseline, I
didn't have an easy life.
Scrutinizing my ancestry to uncover our origin of child abuse, I
describe the abuse didn't start with me. I discuss a belief in
reincarnation, which started with a near death life changing
experience at age thirteen. In conclusion, I discuss behaviors used
in the maintenance of my serene, loving attitude. My attitude has
been obtained though my difficult life lessons, which are now a
transformed powerful, positive force.
The book acquaints the reader with new scientific data showed that
alcohol in moderate doses is very effective remedy, which reduces
stress, risk of cardiovascular disease, type II diabetes, mitigates
depressive state and increases lifespan.
This group of essays is written to provide a series of suggestions
to Native people who seek to deal with alcoholism from the
perspective of their unique heritages and with an understanding
that the pressures to which Native traditions and societies have
been subjected may trigger dysfunctional behavior, such as
excessive drinking. In doing so, I link the work, life, and example
of Handsome Lake, an Iroquois leader of the 18th/early 19th century
to strategies of recovery that are geared towards contemporary
Native people. The goal is to provide a useful set of tools and
perspectives regarding Native people and their dysfunctional
behavior, such as alcoholism. This section concludes with
discussions of how the method can be used in both therapy and in
self-help groups. I present this book as one way in which Native
people may be able to embrace their cultural heritage as they seek
to recover from alcoholism. Inspired by the example and teachings
of Handsome Lake, I have updated his perspectives and explained
them in terms of modern sociological and psychological theories. By
doing so, a strategy of recovery for Native people living in the
21th century is offered.
"A raw glimpse" (Entertainment Weekly) into her lifelong battle
with personal demons and near-fatal addictions--and reveals the
shattering truth behind her complex, secretive, and damaging
history with her father, the legendary John Phillips of The Mamas
& the Papas.
Not long before her fiftieth birthday, Mackenzie Phillips made
headlines with her arrest for drug possession at Los Angeles
International Airport; the actor-musician-mother had been on her
way to a reunion of "One Day at a Time, "the hugely popular '70s
sitcom on which she once starred as the lovable rebel Julie Cooper.
Born into rock-and-roll royalty, flying in Learjets to the Virgin
Islands at five, making pot brownies with Donovan at eleven,
Mackenzie grew up in an all-access kingdom of hippie freedom and
heroin cool. As a rising Hollywood star herself, she joined the
nonstop party in the hedonistic pleasure dome of her father's
making, and a rapt TV audience watched as Julie Cooper wasted away
before their eyes. By the time Mackenzie discovered how deep and
dark her father's trip was going, it was too late.
As an adult, she has paid dearly for a lifetime of excess, working
tirelessly to reconcile her wonderful, terrible past and the pull
of her magnetic father. By sharing her journey toward redemption
and peace, the star who turned up "High on Arrival "has finally
come back down to earth--to stay.
We live in a world obsessed with drinking. We drink at work events, lunches, book clubs and weddings. Yet no one ever questions alcohol's ubiquity. In fact, the only thing ever questions is why people don't drink. It is a qualifier for belonging. As a society, we are obsessed with health and wellness, yet we uphold alcohol as some sort of magic elixir. It is anything but.
When Holly Whitaker started to look for a way to recover, the support systems she found for recovery where archaic and patriarchal. Urging drinkers towards a newfound humility is great if you're a man, but if you're a woman and not in a position to renounce privileges you never had, a whole other approach is needed.
She embarked on a journey that led not only to her own sobriety, but revealed the insidious role alcohol plays in our society and in the lives of women in particular. What's more, she could not ignore the ways that alcohol companies were targeting women, just as the tobacco industry had successfully done generations before.
Honest, witty and trenchant, Quit Like a Woman is at once a ground-breaking look at drinking culture, a call to arms, and a celebration of learning how to claim everything life has to offer.
I feel like people leave me abandoned all the time. Sometimes I'm
so afraid for what seems like no reason. I just don't seem to have
any energy. Why do the same thoughts keep racing through my mind? I
usually don't feel happy or sad. If there isn't real excitement, I
feel bored. I want to be close to people, but I just never make it.
Do you see yourself in this list? Children of alcoholic parents
have suffered wounds that affect their lives for years to come.
They learn to protect themselves from the pattern of hurt that they
have come to expect in life. The results of such constant vigilance
against pain can range from ulcers, sleeplessness, addictions,
depression and anger to a string of broken relationships. But adult
children of alcoholics can go through a healing journey that will
help them recover from their painful past and be set free to live
as God intended. Daryl Quick takes readers step by step through new
ways of feeling, thinking and acting that will replace the
ineffective patterns they have been locked into for years. With
moving stories and helpful exercises, Quick shows how adult
children of alcoholics can find hope and healing. A book for those
who want to recover from their past.
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