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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Advice on parenting
In this ground-breaking book, Dr. Michaeleen Doucleff looks back to
our ancestors for solutions to our failing modern-day parenting
theories. When Dr Michaeleen Doucleff became a mother, she examined
the studies behind modern parenting guidance and found that the
evidence was frustratingly limited, and the conclusions often
ineffective. She began to wonder if an opposite approach was needed
- one founded on traditional wisdom, like the knowledge and
experience passed down over hundreds, even thousands, of years
within ancient cultures. With her young daughter in tow, she
travelled across the world to observe and practice parenting
strategies alongside families in three of the world's most
venerable communities: Maya families in Mexico, Inuit families
above the Arctic Circle, and Hadza families in Tanzania. Dr
Doucleff soon learned that these cultures don't have the same
problems with children that Western parents do. Most strikingly,
parents build a relationship with young children that is vastly
different from the one many Western parents develop, built on
co-operation instead of control; trust instead of fear; and
personalised needs instead of standardised development milestones.
In Hunt, Gather, Parent, Doucleff introduces us to families where
parents help little ones learn to control their emotions and reduce
tantrums by the parents themselves controlling their own
frustrations; foster self-sufficiency by safely giving kids the
autonomy to manage risks and explore their limits; and motivate
children to help with chores without using bribes or threats.
Doucleff also talks to psychologists, neuroscientists,
anthropologists, and sociologists and explains how the tools and
tips can impact children's mental health and development. . Packed
with practical takeaways, Hunt, Gather, Parent helps us rethink the
ways we relate to our children, and reveals a universal parenting
paradigm adapted for modern families.
A real-world guide to Attachment Parenting from the "Big Bang
Theory" actress, neuroscientist, and mother Mayim Bialik--a book
hailed by Dr. William Sears as "delightful" and by Ricki Lake as "a
fantastic guide to birth and parenting that is packed with
invaluable wisdom."
Mayim Bialik was the child star of the popular 1990s TV sitcom
"Blossom, " but she definitely didn't follow the typical child-star
trajectory. Instead, Mayim got her PhD in neuroscience from UCLA,
married her college sweetheart, and had two kids. Mayim then did
what many new moms do--she read a lot of books, talked with other
parents, and she soon started questioning a lot of the conventional
wisdom she heard about the "right" way to raise a child. That's
when she turned to Attachment Parenting, a philosophy and lifestyle
popularized by well-known physicians like Dr. William Sears and Dr.
Jay Gordon.
To Mayim, Attachment Parenting's natural, child-led approach not
only felt right emotionally, it made sense intellectually and
instinctually. She found that when she followed her intuition and
relaxed into her role as a mother instead of following some rigid
parenting script, both she and her children thrived. Taking into
account her experience as a mother (and her scientific background),
Mayim presents the major tenets of Attachment Parenting, including:
Baby wearing: How to "wear" your baby in a sling or a wrap to
foster a closer bond with your child--it's possible even for mamas
with bad backs (and with big babies)
Breastfeeding: Learn how to listen to your baby's cues rather than
sticking to a rigid schedule--and why people on airplanes love a
nursing mother
Gentle discipline: How to get your child to behave without yelling,
threats, or time-outs--it really is possible.
Co-sleeping: How to avoid "sleep training" and get a great night's
sleep for the whole family.
Without the pretense and luxuries typical of so many Hollywood
actors and parents, Mayim describes the beauty, simplicity, and
purposefulness of Attachment Parenting, and how it's become the
guiding principle for her family. Much more than a simple how-to
parenting guide, "Beyond the Sling" shows us that the core
principles underlying Attachment Parenting are universal and can be
appreciated no matter how you decide to raise your child.
After selling over 125,000 copies and being translated into nearly
twenty languages, this third edition of a classic Herald Press
title has been refreshed for new generations Drescher continues to
emphasize how parents can meet their children's seven most basic
needs. Anybody who cares about children as persons created in God's
image will rediscover the topics of significance, security,
acceptance, love, praise, discipline, and God through this
practical, timely resource written in a personal, down-to-earth
way. 128 pages.
Brain Candy for expectant parents
Pregnancy is an adventure.
Lots of books tell you the basics--"the baby is the size of insert
fruit here]." But pregnant science writer Jena Pincott began to
wonder just how a baby might tinker with her body--and vice
versa--and chased down answers to the questions she wouldn't ask
her doctor, such as:
- Does stress sharpen your baby's mind--or dull it?
- Can you predict your baby's temperament?
- Why are babies born in the darker months of the year more likely
to grow up to be novelty-loving risk takers?
- Are bossy, dominant women more likely to have boys?
- How can the cells left behind by your baby affect you years
later?
This is a different kind of pregnancy book--thoughtful, fun, and
filled with information you won't find anywhere else.
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